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MY THOUGHT 14021
QUESTION 5316: ARE YOU A TRUTH SEEKER OR A STATUS QUO SUPPORTER? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14022
QUESTION 5317: WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR GREATEST TRANSFORMATION SO FAR ON THIS LIFE PATH? DO YOU ANTICIPATE GREATER TRANSFORMATIONS? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14023
QUESTION 5318: DO YOU NEED TO CONTROL ALL THINGS AROUND YOU? IF SO, WHY? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14024
POST-FATHERS DAY 212: REFLECTIONS 045: THAT FACT THAT ALL OF MY CHILDREN ARE SELF-SUFFICIENT MEANS THAT I MUST DONE SOMETHING RIGHT AS A FATHER. ALL THEY REALLY NEED FROM ME ARE THE LESSONS OF MY EXPERIENCES AND MY PERSONAL GROWTH AS I BECOME A ROLE MODEL AS HOW TO LIVE THE LIFE OF A SENIOR FOLLOWING MY PERSONAL PURSUITS AND HOW TO GROW SPIRITUALLY. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14025
PARENTING: IT IS GOOD TO TEACH ALL OF YOUR CHILDREN THE BASICS NEEDS FOR SURVIVAL, SELF-SUFFICIENCY, AND HOW TO BE A CONTRIBUTING PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14016
QUESTION 5313: POST-FATHERS DAY 207: WERE YOU, AS A FATHER, OR YOUR FATHER SELF-FULLED THIS FATHER’S DAY? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14017
QUESTION 5314: POST-FATHERS DAY 208: IF YOUR FATHER HAS PASSED, WHAT DO YOU REGRET NOT DOING WITH HIM? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14018
QUESTION 5215: POST-FATHERS DAY 209: ADULT CHILDREN, HAVE YOU FOUND TIME TO INCLUDE YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER, PERIODICALLY, WITHIN YOU IN YOUR WORLD? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14019
POST-FATHERS DAY 210: REMEMBER THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE JUST LIKE YOU WHEN THEY WERE YOUR AGE. HELP THEM FOLLOW THE PATHS THAT THEY HAVE CHOSEN IN THEIR LATER YEARS. ALSO ALLOW YOUR PATHS TO CROSS FREQUENTLY. BOTH WILL BE VERY REWARDING TO YOU AND TO YOUR PARENTS. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14020
POST-FATHERS DAY 211: REFLECTION 043: I HAVE BEEN GREATLY HONORED TO HAVE PRIVATE MOMENTS WITH TWO MY SONS. THEY WERE SEPARATE MEETINGS AND WERE VERY REWARDING AND SELF-FILLING. ANOTHER SON IS IN SPECIAL MILITARY TRAINING FOR A FUTURE ASSIGNMENT. THE OTHER SON IS ON AN ENGAGEMENT TOUR OF EUROPE. I ALSO HAD A SELF-FILLING CONVERSATION WITH MY DAUGHTER WHO LIVES 500 MILES AWAY. IT WAS A VERY SATISFYING FATHER’S DAY FOR ME. I AM ALSO PROUD TO SAY THAT I AM PROUD OF MY CHILDREN ARE SELF-SUFFICIENT. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14011
QUESTION 5311: FATHERS DAY: IF YOU ARE STILL ANGRY AT YOUR FATHER OR MOTHER, HAS YOUR ANGER HELPED YOU OR HINDERED YOU? IF SO, CAN YOU GET PAST YOUR ANGRY SO THAT THOSE IN THE PRESENT CAN HAVE YOUR FULL ATTENTION? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14012
QUESTION 5312: FATHERS DAY: WAS YOUR FATHER TRULY PLEASED TODAY, DID HE SAY HE WAS PLEASED TO MAKE YOU HAPPY? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14013
FATHERS DAY: EVERY FATHER SHOULD TEACH AND MENTOR HIS CHILD/CHILDREN TO BE SUFFICIENTLY INDEPENDENT SO THAT THEY CAN STAND ON THEIR OWN SO THAT THE FATHER CAN BE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO LEAVE HIS BODY PEACEFULLY WHEN THE TIME COMES TO RETURN HOME. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14014
FATHERS DAY: FATHERS, AS WELL AS MOTHERS, SHOULD ALLOW THEIR ADULT CHILDREN TO LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES. IF YOU AS A FATHER HAS TAUGHT THEM WELL, THIS SHOULD BE EASY TO DO. THEY WILL LIVE THEIR LIVES ACCORDING TO THEIR NEEDS WITH THE LESSONS YOU, AS A FATHER, HAVE TAUGHT THEM. WHEN YOU DO THIS AND LIVE YOUR LIVES AS HAPPY LIBERATED PARENTS, YOU WILL BECOME THE ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR CHILDREN ON HOW TO LIVE IN THEIR LATER YEARS. YOU WILL ALSO BECOME THEIR SPIRITUAL OASIS TO TURN TO WHEN THEIR SPIRITUAL THIRST NEEDS TO BE QUENCHED OR WHEN THEY BEGIN TO LOSE THEIR WAY IN THE JUNGLE OF MODERN LIFE. YOU CAN BE THEIR TOUCHSTONE OF SPIRITUAL AND MORAL SECURITY. YOU AND THEY WILL GROW TOGETHER IN A SPECIAL WAY THAT CAN NEVER BE EXPRESSED IN WORDS. THIS IS MUCH MORE REWARDING THAN TRYING TO CONTROL EVERY ASPECT OF THEIR LIVES. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14015
FATHERS DAY CONTEMPLATION: ALTHOUGH FATHERS NEVER FORGET THEIR CHILDREN, SOME CHILDREN TEND TO FORGET THEIR FATHERS. IT SEEMS THAT BIRTHDAYS AND FATHER’S DAYS HAVE BECOME DAYS OF JUST A ‘FREE MEAL’ FOR SOME FATHERS AND ‘THE PRESENCE’ OF THEIR CHILDREN FOR TWO OR THREE HOURS. THEY START OUT WITH THE TRADITIONAL ‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY’ OR ‘HAPPY FATHERS DAY’ WHICH IS FOLLOWED BY ‘HOW ARE YOU DOING?’. THEN THE KIDS FOCUS ON EACH OTHER AND TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES TO EACH OTHER AS THOSE FATHERS QUIETLY MUNCH ON THEIR ‘FREE MEALS’. NOBODY SEEMS TO BE INTERESTED IN WHAT THOSE FATHERS ARE FEELING, HOW THOSE FATHERS ARE FEELING, AND WHY THOSE FATHERS FEEL THE WAY THEY DO! SO AS ONE OF THOSE FATHERS, IN THE FUTURE, I WILL CANCEL ALL BIRTHDAYS AND FATHER’S DAYS CONCERNING MYSELF. A LOT OF THIS IS A RESULT OF WORKING FIFTEEN-HOUR-DAYS FOR THIRTY-SEVEN YEARS IN ORDER TO SUPPORT MY BIOLOGICAL FAMILY AND MY STEP-FAMILY. IT IS INTERESTING THAT WHEN I TRIED TO EXPLAIN MY SITUATION, EVERYONE WANTS TO AVOID MY HEART FELT FEELINGS. AFTER A TWO-HOUR LUNCH OR A THREE-HOUR DINNER, THEY ALWAYS SEEM TO HAVE SOMEPLACE ELSE TO GO. ADULT CHILDREN HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR OWN LIVES AND THEIR OWN DECISIONS. THERE COMES A TIME WHEN PARENTS HAVE TO LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES AND BE FAR ENOUGH AWAY TO LET THEIR CHILDREN LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES, WHILE BEING CLOSE ENOUGH TO BE OF HELP “IF THOSE PARENTS’ WISDOM IS NEEDED”. EmilKoval©2018