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THOUGHTS 3149 TO 3152

MY THOUGHTS 3149
IT IS GOOD TO SEEK ADVICE AND HELP FROM OTHERS. HOWEVER, IF WE USE THAT ADVICE AND HELP TO THINK FOR OURSELVES, WE CAN TRULY ACHIEVE SOME FORM OF SUCCESS AND PUT OURSELVES ON THE PATH TO OUR PERSONAL ENLIGHTENMENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3150
WE CAN LEARN MUCH FROM MANY GOOD TEACHERS. HOWEVER, WE MUST HAVE A CLEAR UNDERSTANDING WITHIN ‘OUR’ MINDS AS TO WHO WE REALLY ARE. THE TEACHER IS OUR GUIDE WHO SHOWS US HOW HE/SHE FOUND HIS WAY. WE ARE TO LEARN AND GROW BEYOND OUR TEACHERS. WE SHOULD BECOME ENLIGHTENED DEVOTEES, NOT BLIND FOLLOWERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3151
QUESTION 313: WHY DO PARENTS PUNISH THEIR CHILDREN BY INVOLVING THEM IN THEIR PERSONAL PROBLEMS? WHY DO SOME PARENTS FORCE THEIR CHILDREN TO TAKE SIDES IN SPOUSAL DISPUTES? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3152
THE UNDERSTANDING OR TRANSLATION OF YOUR TEACHERS WORDS OR THE DOGMA OF YOUR PHILOSOPHY OR FAITH IS BASED ON ‘YOUR’ LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING. WITH EACH HIGHER LEVEL OF’ YOUR’ UNDERSTANDING AND EXPERIENCE IN LIFE, YOU WILL HAVE NEW TRANSLATIONS OF THOSE SAME WORDS. BE OPEN TO POSITIVE GROWTH. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3145 TP 3148

MY THOUGHTS 3145
YOU ARE BORN INTO IMPERFECT SOCIETIES AS IMPERFECT BEINGS. SEEK YOUR PERFECTION THROUGH THE LESSONS YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN. LEARN YOUR TRUTH WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF YOUR WORLD. DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS. JUDGE YOUR REACTIONS TO OTHERS. GROW BEYOND YOUR IMPERFECTIONS BY WORKING THROUGH THE IMPERFECT WORLD AROUND. LEARN THE LESSONS YOU NEED TO LEARN FOR YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3146
QUESTION 310: EXISTENCE IS THE STRUGGLE FOR MATERIAL GAIN OR SPIRITUAL ADVANCEMENT OR A COMBINATION OF BOTH. BOTH HAVE MANY PITFALLS THAT CAN BE VERY DEVASTATING TO ONE’S BEING. IS IT AT ALL POSSIBLE TO SEEK NON-EXISTENCE SO THAT ALL STRUGGLES AND CYCLES NO LONGER EXIST? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3147
QUESTION 311: WHEN YOU ARE IN A COMPETITION, DO YOU PRAY TO GOD TO WIN, OR DO YOU PRAY TO GOD TO DO YOUR BEST? WHICH DO YOU THINK IS THE BETTER KARMIC CHOICE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3148
QUESTION 312: HOW DO YOU VIEW MISTAKES? DO YOU VIEW MISTAKES AS A FAILURE, OR DO YOU VIEW MISTAKES AS OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN? WHICH DO YOU THINK IS THE BETTER KARMIC CHOICE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3141 T0 3144

MY THOUGHTS 3141
MEMORIAL DAY IN ALL SOCIETIES SHOULD BE A TOOL TO TEACH THE FUTILITY OF SEEKING REVENGE FOR PAST HURTS AND TRANSGRESSIONS, AS WELL AS, A REMINDER OF THE SACRIFICES MADE BY ALL SOCIETIES’ MEMBERS TO PROTECT THEIR INDIVIDUAL ‘GROUP’. ALL SOCIETIES SHOULD REFLECT ON THE COST OF ANY WAR PHYSICALLY, ECONOMICALLY, PSYCHOLOGICALLY, AND SOCIALLY ON THEIR OWN PEOPLES AND ON OTHER PEOPLES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3142
MEMORIAL DAY IS A REMINDER THAT ‘TRIBAL’/CULTURAL CONFLICTS WITH EACH OTHER IS BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID TO SHARE THEIR UNIQUELY LEARNED SKILLS AND BELIEVE THAT THEIR DOMINANCE IS ESSENTIAL TO THEIR SURVIVAL. EACH CULTURAL GROUP SHOULD EXCHANGE THAT GROUP’S UNIQUE SKILLS WITH OTHERS WHILE BEING WILLING TO LEARN FROM OTHER GROUPS. THE KEY WORD IS ‘SHARING’, NOT DOMINATING, WHILE MAINTAIN THE GROUPS IDENTITY. ANOTHER KEY WORD IS ‘RESPECTING’, NOT MOCKING, THE DIFFERENCES IN THEIR CULTURES AND THE COMMONALITIES OF EACH CULTURE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3143
WHEN SOMEONE ASKS YOU FOR ADVICE, YOU SHOULD TELL THEM THAT THIS IS WHAT ‘YOU’ KNOW BASED ON ‘YOUR’ PATH AND ‘YOUR’ LESSONS AND THAT HE/SHE MAY TRY IT TO SEE IF IT WORKS FOR HIM/HER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3144
LIVE LIFE AS IT COMES TO YOU. ACCEPT AND UNDERSTAND ITS MANY LESSONS THROUGH ITS VARIOUS ASPECTS. WHENEVER POSSIBLE SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH THOSE WHO ASK ABOUT THEM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3137 TO 3140

MY THOUGHTS 3137
MEMORIAL DAY: ON MEMORIAL DAY, CHECK IN ON THE FAMILIES OF THOSE WHO HAVE LOST MEMBERS OF THEIR FAMILY IN THE SERVICE OF HIS/HER COUNTRY AND INVITE THE MEMBERS OF THAT FAMILY TO YOUR MEMORIAL DAY FEAST AND SHARE YOUR COMPASSION WITH THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3138
MEMORIAL DAY: THERE ARE MANY HOMELESS VETERANS WHO ARE DEAD TO SOCIETY AS A WHOLE. BUY OR BRING THEM A MEAL AND SHARE IT WITH THEM. IF YOU HAVE TIME TO LISTEN TO THEIR STORIES, IT WOULD BE A WONDERFUL AND COMPASSIONATE GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3139
MEMORIAL DAY: ON MEMORIAL DAY, GATHER OR BUY SOME FLOWERS AND THEN GO TO A MILITARY MEMORIAL PARK AND PLACE SOME FLOWERS ON THE GRAVES THAT HAVE BEEN NEGLECTED FOR A WHILE. YOU CAN ALSO SHARE YOUR COMPASSION WITH THOSE WHO ARE HAVING DIFFICULTIES AT THE GRAVE SITES OF LOVED ONES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3140
MEMORIAL DAY: WE SEEM TO GREAT AND PRAISE MILITARY PERSONNEL WHO COME HOME PHYSICALLY WHOLE. HOWEVER, WE SEEM TO IGNORE THOSE WHO HAVE RETURNED TO ISOLATION IN HOSPITALS, INSTITUTIONS, AND HOMELESS IN THE STREETS. MAKE AN EFFORT TO SHARE YOUR COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING WITH THEM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3133 TO 3136

MY THOUGHTS 3133
PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS, YOU MUST ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN AND GRAND CHILDREN TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS SO THAT THEY CAN FOLLOW THEIR CHOSEN PATHS IN LIFE. WHEN YOU ALLOW THEM TO GROW ON THEIR OWN AND ALLOW THEM TO MAKE MISTAKES AND TO CORRECT THEIR OWN MISTAKES, YOU HAVE COMPLETED YOUR ROLE AS A PARENT OR GRANDPARENT. YOU TAKE ON THE NEXT ROLE AS AN OBSERVER AND ADVISOR GIVING UP THE ROLE OF CONTROLLER. BE CLOSE ENOUGH TO HELP THEM WHEN NEEDED AND DISTANT ENOUGH TO LET THEM GROW ON THEIR OWN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3134
PARENTS ARE THE VEHICLE FOR THEIR CHILDREN TO COME INTO THIS WORLD. THE PRIMARY DUTY OF PARENTS IS TO PREPARE THEIR CHILDREN TO SURVIVE IN SOCIETY WITHOUT THE PARENTS, AS WELL AS, TO TEACH THEIR CHILDREN HOW TO THINK FOR THEMSELVES AND HOW TO MAKE IMPORTANT DECISIONS BASED ON GOOD JUDGEMENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3135
MEMORIAL DAY: MEMORIAL DAY IS AN AMERICAN HOLIDAY TO GIVE THANKS TO THOSE WHOM HAVE GIVEN THEIR LIVES TO DEFEND THEIR COUNTRY. EVERY PERSON SHOULD HONOR THOSE WHO HAVE GIVEN THEIR LIVES FOR THE DEFENSE OF THEIR COUNTRIES. ALSO REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE PHYSICALLY LIVING BUT ARE EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY DEAD IN DEFENSE OF THEIR COUNTRY. IF WE TRULY CONTEMPLATE THE EFFECTS OF WAR, MAYBE WE CAN LIMIT OR END ALL FUTURE WARS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3136
MEMORIAL DAY: SPEND AT LEAST A FEW MOMENTS OF YOUR MEMORIAL DAY REFLECTING ON THOSE WHO HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES SO THAT YOU CAN MAINTAIN YOUR WAY OF LIFE. ALSO, REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE THOSE IN HOSPITALS AND INSTITUTIONS WHO HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR MENTAL HEALTH AND THEIR PHYSICAL MOBILITY TO PROTECT YOUR WAY OF LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3129 TO 3132

MY THOUGHTS 3129
CRISIS: WHEN YOU HAVE A TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCE, IT IS IMPORTANT TO DEAL WITH THE CAUSES TO THAT TRAUMA. IF YOU TRY TO SUPPRESS IT, IT WILL RAISE ITS HEAD AT SOME INOPPORTUNE MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. YOU MUST DEAL WITH THE TRAUMATIC EVENT AND ALL OF ITS COMPLEXITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3130
SENIORS WERE HONORED IN THE PAST BECAUSE THEY WERE FEW IN NUMBER AND WERE A LIBRARY OF ESSENTIAL SURVIVAL INFORMATION. SENIORS MUST BE AWARE THAT THEIR FUTURE IMPORTANCE WILL DIMINISH AS THEIR NUMBERS AND THEIR COST TO SOCIETY INCREASES GREATLY. SENIORS WILL BE JUDGE BY THE SKILLS THAT THEY HAVE RETAINED AND HOW RELEVANT THEY ARE TO SOCIETY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3131
WHAT IS LIFE? LIFE IS WHAT THE CULTURE, THE FAITH, AND THE PHILOSOPHY YOU WERE BORN INTO DEFINES IT TO BE. WHEN THIS QUESTION COMES TO YOUR MIND LATER IN YOUR ‘LIFE’, IT IS TIME TO RE-EXAMINE WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TAUGHT. YOU WILL EITHER AFFIRM THOSE AND POSSIBLY GROW BEYOND THOSE DEFINITIONS TO A MORE UNIVERSAL DEFINITION OF LIFE. YOUR LIFE IS DEFINED BY YOUR DHARMIC PATH AND THE KARMIC LESSONS THAT YOU NEED TO LEARN. LIFE IS WHAT YOU DECIDE TO MAKE OF IT BY THE CHOICES YOU MAKE ON YOUR PATH. THIS IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE. THE COMMON OUTCOME IS SUPPOSED TO BE SPIRITUAL GROWTH EVEN THOUGH THE PATHS ARE DIFFERENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3132
REMEMBER THAT WHEN SOME DOORS ARE CLOSED OR SLAMMED SHUT IN YOUR LIFE, THEY WERE DOORS THAT HAD TO BE CLOSED SO THAT OTHER DOORS TO SPIRITUAL GROWTH CAN OPEN. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3125 TO 3128

MY THOUGHTS 3125
THE TWO MOST IMPORTANT WORDS IN YOUR VOCABULARY ARE ‘YES’ AND ‘NO’. THE TWO MOST IMPORTANT ACTIONS YOU CAN TAKE IS TO KNOW WHEN AND HOW TO SAY ‘YES’ OR ‘NO’ EFFECTIVELY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3126
LIFE IS NOT TEACHING YOU THAT LIFE IS SUPPOSED TO BE FAIR. LIFE IS TEACHING YOU THAT YOU ARE UNIQUE AND THAT YOU HAVE YOUR OWN PATH TO FOLLOW AND YOUR OWN LESSONS TO LEARN WITH THAT UNIQUENESS. YOU MAY COOPERATE WITH OTHERS, BUT YOU ARE NOT TO CONFORM TO OTHERS OR COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS. THE KEY TO YOUR LESSONS IS THE UNDERSTANDING THAT YOU AND OTHERS HAVE DIFFERENT PATHS TO FOLLOW AND DIFFERENT LESSONS TO LEARN. THEREFORE, FAIRNESS DOES NOT APPLY IN THE SPIRITUAL SENSE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3127
WHEN WE ARE YOUNG, WE TEND TO DO THINGS THAT MAY REQUIRE FORGIVENESS BECAUSE WE ARE MORE PHYSICALLY AND SOCIALLY COMPETITIVE. AS WE SPIRITUALLY MATURE WE ARE EXPECTED TO DO THINGS THAT DO NOT REQUIRE FORGIVENESS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3128
ALWAYS ACKNOWLEDGE YOU ANGER AND NEVER DENY ITS EXISTENCE. YOU MUST DEAL WITH IT THE BEST THAT YOU CAN. ANGER MAY BE JUSTIFIED AT TIMES: HOWEVER, RESENTMENT IS NEVER JUSTIFIED. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3121 TO 3124

MY THOUGHTS 3121
YOUR PERSONAL EXPECTATIONS THAT BECOME EXPECTANT DEMANDS BECOME THE MAIN CAUSE OF YOUR EMOTIONAL PAIN. WHEN YOU CHANGE THOSE EXPECTATIONS TO PREFERENCES, YOU WILL FIND THE SPRING OF INNER PEACE IN YOUR MIND. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3122
WHEN ‘FRIENDS’ CONTACT YOU AND ALL THEY TALK ABOUT IS WHAT THEY HAVE OR WHAT THEY HAVE JUST BOUGHT, YOU HAVE BECOME JUST A ‘BRAGGING POST’ FOR YOUR FRIENDS. IT IS BEST TO FIND NEW FRIENDS WITH WHOM YOU CAN SHARE FEELINGS AND IDEAS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3123
WHEN YOU OFFER YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND IT IS REJECTED, JUST WISH THAT PERSON WELL AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. REMEMBER THAT THEY MAY NOT BE READY FOR YOUR FRIENDSHIP YET, OR YOU MAY NOT BE READY FOR THEIRS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3124
QUESTION 309: HOW MUCH OF YOUR EMOTIONAL PAIN IS SUPPORTED BY YOUR REACTIONS TO OTHER PEOPLE’S NEGATIVE OPINIONS OF YOU? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3117 TO 3120

MY THOUGHTS 3117
WHEN YOU SHARE YOUR GUILT CONCERNING YOUR INFIDELITY, ARE YOU REALLY TRYING SHARE YOUR PAIN WITH YOUR PARTNER? INSTEAD OF INFLICTING ‘YOUR’ PAIN ON YOUR ‘INNOCENT’ PARTNER, BECOME A MORE LOVING AND COMPASSIONATE PARTNER. THE GUILT IS YOURS ALONE. IT DOES NOT BELONG TO YOUR PARTNER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3118
MANY PEOPLE ARE AFRAID TO WRITE THEIR FEELINGS OR THOUGHTS DOWN BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID OF THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS. WRITE DOWN YOUR FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS TO EXPRESS HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE WORLD AROUND YOU. YOU PURPOSE IN WRITING IS TO EXPRESS YOUR ‘SOUL’. DO NOT WRITE TO BE ACCEPTED BY OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3119
QUESTION 307: ARE YOU WILLING TO DISHONOR YOURSELF FOR MATERIAL GAINS, TO BE WITH SPECIAL PERSONS, OR FOR SOCIAL POSITIONS? HOW IMPORTANT IS YOUR PERSONAL INTEGRITY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3120
QUESTION 308: THERE ARE MANY WHO ASK ‘GOD’ FOR FORGIVENESS, FOR LOVE, AND FOR HELP. YET THEY ARE UNWILLING TO GIVE THOSE THINGS TO OTHERS. HOW CAN ONE ASK FOR FORGIVENESS IF ONE CANNOT FORGIVE? HOW CAN ONE ASK FOR LOVE IF ONE IS UNWILLING TO GIVE LOVE. HOW CAN ONE ASK FOR HELP IF ONE IS UNWILLING TO HELP OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3113 TO 3116

MY THOUGHTS 3113
QUESTION 306: CAN YOU TRULY ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS IF YOU CANNOT FORGIVE THOSE WHO HAVE TRANSGRESSED AGAINST YOU WHILE YOU ARE SEEKING RETRIBUTION AGAINST THEM? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3114
WHEN WE COME INTO THIS LEVEL, OUR PRIORITY IS PHYSICAL SURVIVAL. THEN WE MOVE INTO THE AREA OF CULTURAL AND ECONOMIC SURVIVAL. THESE FIRST TWO STEPS THEN CREATE SITUATIONS WHERE YOU HAVE TO FOCUS ON SPIRITUAL SURVIVAL ON THIS LEVEL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3115
RELATIONSHIPS. ONE PROBLEM IN MANY LOVING RELATIONSHIPS IS THAT THE PARTNERS GET STUCK IN ROUTINES. THOSE ROUTINES GET THE PARTNERS TO RELY ON EXPECTATIONS INSTEAD OF PREFERENCES. SOMETIMES THOSE EXPECTATIONS BECOME DEMANDS AND EVENTUALLY THEY PUT STRESS ON THE RELATIONSHIP. ALWAYS BE CREATIVE AND INNOVATIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. SHARE ROLES OR EXCHANGE ROLES FROM TIME TO TIME. RANDOMLY, CREATE SPONTANEOUS ACTS OF EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3116
CRISES: AN ATTEMPTED OR SUCCESSFUL SUICIDE IN SOMEONE’S LIFE IS A LESSON FOR ALL THOSE INVOLVED IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. EACH INDIVIDUAL MUST REFLECT ON THE MEANING OF THAT CRISIS. THE INDIVIDUAL WHO INITIATED THAT CRISIS MAY FEEL LIKE A TOTAL FAILURE IN HIS/HER LIFE AND HAS LOST HER/HIS REASON TO LIVE AND TRIES TO REMOVE HIS/HER EXISTENCE IN THIS LIFE AS AN APOLOGY TO EVERYONE FOR HER/HIS FAILURE TO MEET THE EXPECTANT DEMANDS OF THE GROUP OR FAMILY. TH GROUP MUST ALSO UNDERSTAND THEIR ROLES IN THE CAUSES OF THAT EVENT. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3109 TO 3112

MY THOUGHTS 3109
WHEN YOU ARE FACED WITH THE QUESTION OF “WHAT IS LIFE?”, YOU MUST REALIZE THAT THE ANSWER DEPENDS ON THE CULTURE, THE FAITH, AND THE PHILOSOPHY THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO. AS YOU MATURE, YOU WILL HAVE OPPORTUNITIES TO EXPERIENCE OTHER CULTURES, OTHER FAITHS, AND OTHER PHILOSOPHIES. THEREFORE, THE MEANING OF LIFE WILL CHANGE ACCORDING TO YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH THEM. THEN THE QUESTION WILL CHANGE TO ‘WHAT IS LIFE TO ME?” THAT REQUIRES AN INWARD JOURNEY TO UNDERSTAND WHO YOU ARE IN THE SCHEME OF THINGS. THE ANSWER LIE WITHIN YOU AFTER YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3110
SMILES: WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, YOU LOOK AT THE SEXY CURVES OF THE PERSON YOU LOVE. THE MOST ENDURING CURVE OF ANY INDIVIDUAL IS THAT PERSON’S SMILE. ALL OTHER CURVE WILL CHANGE DUE TO AGE, DIET, AND HORMONAL CHANGES. THE ONLY WAY TO CHANGE THE CURVE OF A PERSON’S SMILE IS TO MISTREAT OR ABUSE THAT PERSON. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3111
CRISES: A CRISIS IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO DISCOVER WHAT IS DEEP IN YOUR MIND AND DEEP IN THE MINDS OF YOUR LOVED ONES. IN NON-CRISES TIMES, YOU MAY NEVER KNOW THE THOUGHTS THAT ARE HIDDEN DEEP IN YOUR MND AND DEEP IN THE MINDS OF YOUR LOVED ONES. THEREFORE, MAINTAIN A MINDFUL, LOVING, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSIONATE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR LOVED ONES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3112
CRISES: THERE ARE THINGS IN PEOPLE’S HEADS THAT NO ONE ELSE KNOWS ABOUT EXCEPT THAT PERSON. THOSE THINGS THAT GO ON INSIDE THE HEADS OF INDIVIDUALS ARE BASED ON THEIR PERSONAL REACTION TO LIFE EXPERIENCES. ONLY THOSE INDIVIDUALS KNOW THOSE DEEP THOUGHTS UNTIL A CRISIS THAT AFFECTS OTHERS STARTS THE REVELATION OF THOSE THOUGHTS IN THEIR MINDS AND THE THOUGHT OF THOSE AFFECTED. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3105 TO 3108

MY THOUGHTS 3105
QUESTION 305: CAN YOU ENTER A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE GOAL WHERE YOU AND PARTNER HAVE A COMMON GOAL OF LOOKING OUTWARD TO THE FUTURE TOGETHER AND LOOKING INWARD TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3106
SUGGESTION 045: WHEN THERE ARE ISSUES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND YOU WISH TO SOLVE THEM, DISCUSS THEM WITH YOUR PARTNER FIRST. THE NEGATIVES IN ONE’S RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BETWEEN THE PARTNERS PRIVATELY. THEY SHOULD NOT BE OPEN TO PUBLIC DISCUSSION OR DEBATE. HOWEVER, PUBLICLY YOU CAN DISCUSS THE POSITIVES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU EMPHASIZE THE POSITIVES TO YOURSELF AND THE PUBLIC, THE NEGATIVES CAN BE HANDLED MUCH EASIER PRIVATELY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3107
SUGGESTION O46: BEING HONEST WITH YOURSELF IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. FIRST DECIDE WHETHER YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS A TRUE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP OR WHETHER IT IS AN ARRANGED RELATIONSHIP FOR PERSONAL OR FAMILY CONVENIENCE. ONCE THIS IS UNDERSTOOD, YOU CAN MOVE ON IN AN HONEST RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3108
WHEN YOU ARE FACED WITH UNEXPECTED CRISES IN YOU LIFE, YOUR SPIRITUALITY WILL BE SEVERELY TESTED. DO WHAT YOU CAN DO TO MEET EACH CRISIS. DO YOUR BEST. IF ALL GOES WELL, YOU HAVE POSITIVE GROWTH. IF IT DOES NOT GO WELL, YOU HAVE LEARNED WHAT YOU CANNOT HANDLE. IT IS ANOTHER POSITIVE. IF YOU CANNOT HANDLE IT, DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. IT IS WHERE YOU ARE AT THE MOMENT. ACCEPT IT AND GROW FROM IT. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3101 TO 3104

MY THOUGHTS 3101
QUESTION 304: ARE YOU LOSING YOURSELF IN SOMEONE’S LOVE, OR ARE YOU FINDING SELF-FULFILLMENT IN SOMEONE’S LOVE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3102
THE INTERDEPENDENCE OF INDIVIDUALS IN A RELATIONSHIP WHILE MAINTAINING RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER’S INDIVIDUALITY IS A SIGN OF MATURITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3103
WHEN YOU ARE SEEKING A RELATIONSHIP, THE FIRST QUESTION TO ASK YOURSELF IS: “WHAT AM I WILLING TO GIVE UP OF ME TO MAKE THAT PERSON HAPPY?” THAT ANSWER MUST BE CONTEMPLATED CAREFULLY BEFORE STARTING A RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3104
WHEN YOU STOP EMPHASIZING THE NEGATIVES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND START EMPHASIZING THE POSITIVES, YOU WILL BECOME A MUCH HAPPIER PERSON. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3097 TO 3100

MY THOUGHTS 3097
ANGER: MANY INDIVIDUALS HAVE LEARNED THAT THEY CAN CONTROL PEOPLE IN THEIR LIVES THROUGH STRONG EXPRESSIONS OF ANGER. THEY SHOULD ASK THEMSELVES HOW MUCH LOVE HAVE THEY ATTRACTED WITH THAT BEHAVIOR AND HOW MANY LOVED ONES HAVE DISTANCED THEMSELVES FROM THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3098
RELATIONSHIP: YOU ENTER A RELATIONSHIP AS AN INDEPENDENT SPIRITUAL BEING. AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP GROWS, YOU BECOME INTERDEPENDENT ON EACH OTHER. HOWEVER, YOU MUST MAINTAIN YOUR INDEPENDENT ABILITY TO FREELY SAY ‘YES’ OR ‘NO’ WHEN THE SITUATION CALLS FOR IT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3099
MARRIAGE: A GOOD MARRIAGE IS WHEN YOU SACRIFICE FOR EACH OTHER AND FOR THE RELATIONSHIP WHILE MAINTAINING YOUR INDIVIDUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3100
QUESTION 303: CAN YOU BALANCE YOUR INDEPENDENCE AND YOUR INTERDEPENDENCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3093 TO 3096

MY THOUGHTS 3093
YOU ARE BORN INTO IMPERFECT HUMAN SOCIETIES TO TEST YOUR SPIRITUALITY. IT IS YOUR JOB TO WORK THROUGH THE MAZE OF IMPERFECTIONS IN YOUR SOCIETY TO IMPROVE YOUR SPIRITUALITY. YOU MAY ADVISE OTHERS ABOUT THEIR SPIRITUAL DECISIONS, BUT YOU CANNOT IMPROVE THEIR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3094
QUESTION 302: HOW CAN YOU JUDGE THE IMPERFECTION IN OTHERS, IF YOU HAVEN’T PERFECTED YOURSELF? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3095
ANGER: EVERY TIME YOU HAVE AN OUTBURST OF ANGER AT LOVED ONES, REMEMBER THAT EACH BURST OF ANGER IS PUSHING THEM FURTHER AWAY FROM YOU. YOUR OUTBURST IN ANGER CAN ONLY ATTRACT MORE ANGRY PEOPLE TO YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3096
ANGER: ANGER MAY JUSTIFY YOUR FRUSTRATIONS IN LIFE; HOWEVER, IT WILL ONLY MAKE PEOPLE WANT TO GET FURTHER AWAY FROM YOU, NOT CLOSER TO YOU. GO INWARD AND DISCOVER THE SOURCE OF YOUR ANGER, MAKE IT A FRIEND, AND THEN TURN IT INTO A POSITIVE TOOL IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3089 TO 3092

MY THOUGHTS 3089
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOUR PARTNER IS CONDESCENDING, THEN IT IS TIME TO RE-EVALUATE THE RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN HAVE A MUTUAL AGREEMENT FOR MAINTAINING THE RELATIONSHIP OR YOU CAN END THE RELATIONSHIP. EVERYTHING DEPENDS ON THE CULTURAL NORMS WITHIN ONE’S SOCIETY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3090
AS SOCIETIES BECOME MORE MATERIALISTIC, THE OLD NORMS WILL BE FORCED TO CHANGE. THE CHILDREN WILL MOVE AWAY OR CREATE ECONOMIC PROBLEMS FOR THEIR PARENTS. AS THE NUMBERS OF SENIORS INCREASE, THEY WILL BE LESS VALUED. THE SENIOR PARENT WILL BECOME AN ECONOMIC BURDEN TO THEIR CHILDREN THE LONGER THEY LIVE, AND THEIR CHILDREN WILL ABANDON THEM. MATERIALISM WILL CREATE PHYSICAL COMFORTS FOR THE INDIVIDUAL, BUT IT CAN BECOME A NIGHTMARE FOR FAMILY UNITY. THE SOLUTION TO THIS PROBLEM LIES WITHIN THE INDIVIDUALS NEED TO BALANCE HER/HIS PERSONAL NEEDS AND HIS/HER GROUP NEEDS. THOSE ARE INTERESTING KARMIC LESSONS FOR ALL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3091
QUESTION 300: CAN YOU GIVE OF YOURSELF IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT GIVING UP YOU INDIVIDUALITY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3092
QUESTION 301: IS YOUR LOVE BASED ON YOUR CARING FOR YOUR PARTNER, OR IS YOU LOVE BASED ON YOUR NEED TO CLING TO YOUR PARTNER TO FILL THE PERSONAL INADEQUACIES WITHIN YOU? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3085 TO 3088

MY THOUGHTS 3085
LESSONS FROM NATURE 31: NEVER BE AFRAID OF THUNDER AND LIGHTNING. IF YOU CAN SEE IT OR HEAR IT, YOU ARE SAFE. LIGHTNING WILL HIT YOU BEFORE YOU CAN SEE IT. IF YOU CAN HEAR IT, IT MEANS YOU HAVEN’T BEEN HIT. REMEMBER THAT LIGHT TRAVELS MUCH FASTER THAN SOUND. JUST REMEMBER TO TAKE NORMAL SAFETY PRECAUTIONS DURING A LIGHTNING AND THUNDER STORMS. ALSO OBSERVE AND APPRECIATE THIS WONDER OF NATURE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3086
PEOPLE WHO USE THE EARTH RESOURCES UNWISELY AND DESTROY IT BY NOT REPLACING WHAT THEY HAVE DESTROYED WILL SOON BE THE CREATORS OF MASSIVE REDUCTION OF THE HUMAN POPULATION THROUGH THEIR OWN GREED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3087
IT IS TIME TO APPRECIATE THE WONDERS OF THE COSMOS AND THE BEAUTY OF NATURE INSTEAD FEEDING OUR PERSONAL GREED AND YOUR NEED TO COLLECT MATERIAL THINGS TO CLAIM PERSONAL IMPORTANCE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3088
WHEN YOU SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER TO DISCUSS ISSUES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, PROGRESS CAN BE MADE IF BOTH PARTNERS HAVE THE FREE-WILL TO SAY ‘YES’ OR ‘NO’ IN THE RELATIONSHIP. HOWEVER, IN SOME CULTURES AND IN SOME FAITHS, ONE PARTNER MUST SUBMIT TO THE OTHER PARTNER. IN THIS CASE, THERE IS NO TRUE FREE-WILL, SO THE DISCUSSION IS NOT NECESSARY OR REAL. THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT WHEN BOTH PARTNERS CAN SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS THEIR SITUATION AS HUMAN BEINGS WITHOUT BRINGING IN THE RULES OF SOCIETY AND THE MANDATES OF FAITH TO SUBDUE ONE ANOTHER, THEY WILL CREATE A BETTER PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

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