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Archive for June 19th, 2012

THOUGHTS 3233 TO 3236

MY THOUGHTS 3233
SUGGESTION 052: SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE IN POSITIVE MOODS FOR A RELATIONSHIP RE-EVALUATION MOMENT. EACH OF YOU, ON SEPARATE SHEETS OF PAPER WRITE DOWN ONLY THREE THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO UNLEARN TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER. THEN WRITE DOWN THREE THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO LEARN TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER. TAKE WHAT YOU BOTH FEEL IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO UNLEARN AND THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO LEARN TO BEGIN YOUR MUTUAL DISCUSSION. IF THE DISCUSSION GETS HEATED, IT IS TIME TO DELAY THE DISCUSSION UNTIL YOU BOTH RETURN TO POSITIVE FRAMES OF MIND. MEANWHILE, GO INWARD AND REFLECT ON EACH OTHER’S REACTION TO THE DISCUSSION. A HEATED DISCUSSION ONLY MEANS THAT AN AREA IS VERY SENSITIVE AND NEEDS PERSONAL REFLECTION, THAT ALL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3234
INSTEAD DEVELOPING A WORKING PARTNERSHIP AT THE BEGINNING OF A RELATIONSHIP, MANY TRY TO MOLD THEIR PARTNERS TO FIT THEIR NEEDS. WHY DO BOTH MEN AND WOMEN FEEL THAT THEY HAVE TO MOLD SOMEONE TO BE HAPPY WITH THEM. IF YOU HAVE TO MOLD A RELATIONSHIP YO FEEL SECURE, THEN MOLD A RELATIONSHIP WITH TWO STRONG DISTINCTLY DIFFERENT PILLARS THAT SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND THE RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3235
YOU CAN ARGUE ABOUT ALL THE DIFFERENT DOGMAS AND COMPARE EACH OTHER’S MONUMENTS TO THOSE DOGMAS. HOWEVER, THE ONLY THING THAT REALLY MATTERS IS WHETHER YOU TREAT THE PERSON NEXT TO YOU WITH RESPECT OR DISRESPECT FOR WHOM HE/SHE MAY BE. YOUR CHARACTER AND YOUR SPIRITUALITY ARE YOUR SOURCES OF RESPECT FOR OTHERS. DOGMA MAY SPEAK OF RESPECT, BUT IT CANNOT GIVE RESPECT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3236
SO MANY OF US ARE SO BUSY FOCUSING ON OUR DIFFERENCES INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON OUR COMMONALITIES. WHEN WE FULLY UNDERSTAND OUR COMMONALITIES, WE CAN RESPECT OUR DIFFERENCES. FOCUSING ON OUR DIFFERENCES ONLY CREATES CONFLICT. EmilKoval©2012

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