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THOUGHTS 3521 TO 2524

MY THOUGHTS 3521
QUESTION 353: WOULD YOU RATHER USE ‘GOD’ OR YOUR FAITH AS A ROLE MODEL ON HOW TO LIVE A GOOD POSITIVE, COOPERATIVE, COMPASSIONATE LIFE, OR WOULD YOU RATHER USE GOD OR YOUR FAITH AS A TOOL TO CONTROL OTHERS AND/OR TO TERRORIZE OTHERS? IS GOD, IN YOUR MIND, A GOD OF LOVE AND COMPASSION, OR A GOD OF RETRIBUTION? IF BOTH, WHY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3522
FAITH: AS A PERSON OF FAITH, YOU HAVE THE KARMIC CHOICE OF BEING A FUNDAMENTALIST WITH HARD CORE BELIEFS, OR TO USE YOUR FAITH TO EXPRESS LOVING CARE, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSION TO BELIEVERS AND NON-BELIEVERS THROUGHOUT YOUR DAY AND YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3523
GROWTH: AS YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR ALL LIFEFORMS, THE CHAIN REACTIONS YOU HAVE TO THE NEGATIVE EVENTS IN YOUR LIFE WILL DIMINISH. YOU WILL ACCEPT THOSE NEGATIVE EVENTS IN YOUR LIFE AS MOMENTARY INCIDENTS TO TEST YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3524
LESSONS: ONE IMPORTANT LESSON TO LEARN IN YOUR LIFE IS NOT TO BE DISTRACTED FROM YOUR SPIRITUALITY BY NEGATIVE EVENTS, EVEN THOUGH MANY OTHERS WILL BE DISTRACTED BY THEM. MANY WILL HAVE A CHAIN REACTION OF ANGER TOWARD NEGATIVE EVENTS. HOWEVER, YOUR TASK IS TO TURN THOSE NEGATIVE EVENTS INTO POSITIVE TOOLS TO HELP SPREAD LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WHEREVER YOU GO. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3517 TO 3520

MY THOUGHTS 3517
TEACHERS: A GOOD TEACHER WILL ALWAYS ASK HIMSELF WHILE HE IS TEACHING SOMETHING TO THE STUDENTS: WHAT CAN I LEARN FROM WHAT I AM TEACHING AND WHAT CAN I LEARN FROM THE STUDENTS THAT I AM TEACHING? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3518
LANGUAGE: EVERYONE IS BILINGUAL WITHIN HIS/HER NATIVE LANGUAGE. THERE IS THE PUBLIC SPEECH, WHICH IS FORMAL AND GENERIC, AND THERE IS THE FAMILIAR INFORMAL SPEECH THAT ONE USES WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS. SO, BEING BILINGUAL IS REALLY NOT A DIFFICULTY. THE NEXT STEP IS TO LEARN ANOTHER FORMAL LANGUAGE THAT IS EITHER SIMILAR TO YOUR LANGUAGE OR VERY DIFFERENT FROM YOUR LANGUAGE, DEPENDING ON YOUR MODE OF LEARNING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3519
SUGGESTION: TAKE A PRIVATE NOTEBOOK FOR A WHOLE DAY AND WRITE DOWN THE FEELINGS THAT YOU HAVE WHEN YOU ARE DRESSED UP OR DRESSED DOWN, HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOUR HAIR IS WELL GROOMED AND HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOUR HAIR IS LETDOWN, HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU ARE IN PUBLIC AND HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU ARE ALONE, HOW YOU REACT TO STRESS AND HOW YOU REACT TO DISTRESS, IS IT NOT TIME TO TRULY UNDERSTAND YOU? DO NOT JUDGE YOUR REACTIONS AS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. YOUR REACTIONS HELP YOU TO UNDERSTAND YOU SO THAT YOU CAN ADJUST ANY ATTITUDE YOU FEEL THAT NEEDS RE-ADJUSTING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3520
POWER: IT IS SAID THAT ABSOLUTE POWER CORRUPTS ABSOLUTELY. SO IT IS WITH ‘INSTITUTIONALIZED’ POLITICAL PARTIES, ‘INSTITUTIONALIZED’ BANKING SYSTEMS, AND ‘INSTITUTIONALIZED’ RELIGIONS. ANY INSTITUTIONALIZED ORGANIZATION WHETHER THEY BE BANKS, POLITICAL PARTIES, RELIGIONS, OR PHILOSOPHIES WILL IT EVENTUALLY CREATE IMMORALITY AND CORRUPTION WITHIN THEIR SOCIETIES THROUGH RIGID DOGMA, RIGID RULES, AND REGULATIONS TO MAINTAIN THEIR POWER BASES. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3513 TO 3516

MY THOUGHTS 3513
MISTAKES: WHEN YOU LEARN SOMETHING FROM OTHERS OR FROM THE MISTAKES THAT YOU HAVE MADE, THEY SHOULD BE JOYOUS MOMENTS OR OCCASIONS. GOOD TEACHERS WILL CELEBRATE YOUR MISTAKES BECAUSE YOUR MISTAKES GIVE THE TEACHER THE OPPORTUNITY TO TRULY TEACH YOU SOMETHING VALUABLE BASED ON YOUR MISTAKES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3514
STUDENTS: GOOD STUDENTS ARE OPEN-MINDED, HAVE GOOD LISTENING SKILLS, AND HAVE GOOD FOCUSING SKILLS. THEY ARE WILLING TO BE FLEXIBLE IN THEIR THINKING, AND ARE READY TO LEARN NEW THINGS OR TO CHANGED THEIR WAY OF THINKING. THEY ARE ALSO UNDERSTANDING, COMPASSIONATE, AND NON-JUDGMENTAL OF OTHERS. GOOD STUDENTS ARE WILLING TO LET GO OF PRECEPTS THAT ARE NO LONGER VALID FOR THEIR LIVES AT THEIR “NOW” TIME. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3515
STUDENTS: GOOD STUDENTS ARE WILLING TO UNDERSTAND THAT THINGS THAT WERE VALID UP TO A CERTAIN POINT IN THEIR LIVES MAY HAVE TO BE RE-EVALUATED AND CHANGED AT DIFFERENT STAGES IN THEIR LIVES. THEY ARE WILLING TO LISTEN TO, EVALUATE, AND ADAPT/ADOPT NEW IDEAS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3516
RE-EVALUATE: AT EVERY STAGE IN YOUR LIFE YOU WILL HAVE TO RE-EVALUATE WHAT YOU HAVE/HAD LEARNED AND DECIDE WHICH THINGS ARE STILL VALID FOR YOU AND WHICH THINGS ARE NO LONGER VALID FOR YOU. EACH INDIVIDUAL MUST LEARN TO MAKE THIS JUDGMENT WELL AND ACCORDING TO HIS OWN SITUATIONS IN HIS LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHT 3512 (CORRECTED)

MY THOUGHTS 3512
QUESTION 352: DO YOU REALLY HAVE TO UNLEARN THINGS, OR DO YOU JUST HAVE TO GROW BEYOND WHAT YOU HAD LEARNED WITH MORE OPENNESS AND AN UNLIMITED THINKING PATTERN? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3509 TO 3512

MY THOUGHTS 3509
RELATIONSHIP: IS IT NOT BETTER TO HAVE A PARTNER COME TO YOU OUT OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND ADMIRATION FOR YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL, RATHER THAN TO HAVE SOMEONE COME TO YOU OUT FEAR OF YOU OR AN OBLIGATION TO YOU.. THE PERSON WHO COMES TO OUT OF FEAR OF YOU OBLIGATION TO YOU MAY ONE DAY WANT TO POISON OR DESTROY YOU IN ORDER TO FREE THEMSELVES FROM YOUR CONTROL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3510
TEACHERS: A GOOD TEACHER DOES NOT ONLY PROFESS IDEAS. A GOOD TEACHER BRINGS OUT THE IDEAS THAT ARE WITHIN HIS/HER STUDENTS, BRINGS OUT THE LIGHT WITHIN THEM, BRING OUT THE DREAMS AND HOPES OF THEIR STUDENTS THROUGH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT THE TEACHER SHARES AND THE QUESTIONS THAT THE TEACHER USES TO STIMULATE HER/HIS STUDENTS. TEACHERS ARE SUPPOSED TO NOURISH THE ROOTS OF THEIR STUDENTS SO THAT THEIR STUDENTS CAN BLOSSOM BEYOND ALL EXPECTATIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3511
LOVE: YOUR SENSE OF LOVE CAN ONLY GROW WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO LOVE PEOPLE WHO ARE DIFFERENT THAN YOU IN FAITH, RACE, CULTURE, AND ETHNICITY. IT IS EASY TO LOVE YOUR OWN; HOWEVER, WHEN YOU ACCEPT AND APPRECIATE OTHERS THAN YOUR OWN, YOU EXPRESS A UNIQUELY HIGHER FORM OF LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3512
QUESTION 352: DO YOU REALLY HAVE TO UNLEARN THINGS, OR DO YOU JUST HAVE TO GROW BEYOND WHAT YOU HAD LEARNED WITH A MORE OPEN LESS AND A LIMITED THINKING PATTERN? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3505 TO 3508

MY THOUGHTS 3505
MONEY: WHEN YOU PUT YOUR FOCUS ON CONSUMERISM, IT TAKES YOUR FOCUS FROM YOUR FAITH AND PUTS IT ON THE CONSUMPTION OF THINGS. THE POWER OF MONEY BECOMES YOUR NEW GOD, OR AT LTEAST A DISTRACTION FROM YOUR FAITH. HOW MUCH CAN I BUY?, HOW MUCH CAN I SELL?, AND HOW MUCH CREDIT CAN I GET?; ALL OF WHICH BECOME MIND CONTROLLING DEVICES WHICH DISTRACT YOU FROM YOUR FAITH. IT FOSTERS GREED AND GIVES VALUE TO THINGS RATHER THAN TO INTERPERSONAL HUMAN REACTIONS WITH OTHERS OF YOUR SOCIETY. THE FIRST REACTION WHEN YOU GET MONEY USUALLY IS ‘WHAT CAN I BUY, INSTEAD OF, WHAT CAN I DO WITH THIS MONEY TO HELP OTHERS. THE INDIVIDUAL’S FINANCIAL WEALTH BECOMES MORE IMPORTANT THAN HIS SOCIAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL WEALTH TO ANYONE. THE INDIVIDUAL IS NOT VALUED BY HIS TALENTS AND SKILLS ANYMORE: HE IS ONLY BEING VALUED BY HOW MUCH MONEY HE HAS AVAILABLE TO INVEST IN THINGS OR ENTREPRENEURSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3506
QUESTION 350: DO YOU TEND TO BE ANGRY ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE’S WRONGS, OR DO YOU HAVE A COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING FOR THE HARD LESSONS THAT THEY HAVE COME TO WORK THROUGH IN THIS LIFETIME? WOULD IT NOT BE BETTER TO ASSOCIATE WITH THEM WITH YOUR FEELINGS OF COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING WHILE SUPPORTING THEIR POSITIVE POINTS AND NOT SUPPORTING THEIR NEGATIVITIES? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3507
QUESTION 351: IF YOU HAD TO CHOOSE OF BEING HAPPY OR BEING ACCOMMODATING, WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE? CAN YOU BALANCE BEING TRULY HAPPY AND BEING ACCOMMODATING? DO YOU KNOW HOW TO BE ON ACCOMMODATING? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3508
DEATH: WHEN YOU LEARN TO UNDERSTAND AND TO FACE YOUR POTENTIAL DEATH WITHOUT FEAR, YOU WILL HAVE A LIGHTNESS OF BEING WHICH IS A PROFOUND FEELING OF PEACE, CONTENTMENT, AND UNDERSTANDING. IT IS HE ESSENTIAL TO FACE THE PROSPECT OF YOUR DEATH WITH CALM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3501 TO 3504

MY THOUGHTS 3501
FAMILY: WE ALWAYS SEEM TO PRAISE A PARTNER WHO WORKS OVERTIME TO HELP TO SUPPORT HIS/HER FAMILY AND THE PARTNER WHO IS INVOLVED IN SO MANY ACTIVITIES WITH THEIR CHILDREN. THESE MAY BE HONORABLE SOCIAL PURSUITS; HOWEVER, BEING AN OVERACTIVE PARENT OR A CONSTANT OVERTIME WORKING PARENT CAN BE SIGNS OF A BREAKDOWN IN FAMILY COMMUNICATIONS AND THE RELATIONSHIP ITSELF. EVERYONE SEEMS TO BE TOO BUSY OR TOO TIRED TO COMMUNICATE. IF SO, IT IS TIME TO RE-EVALUATE THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP AND THE MATERIAL AND SOCIAL NEED OF THE FAMILY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3502
NEGATIVES: KEEP IN MIND THAT THE NEGATIVES IN YOUR LIFE ARE LESSONS FOR YOU AND FOR OTHERS IN YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE. YOUR LESSONS ARE TO LEARN HOW NOT TO BE DISTRACTED FROM YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3503
QUESTION 349: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, AND COMMITMENT? DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT LOVE MEANS TO YOU, WHAT FRIENDSHIP MEANS TO YOU, AND WHAT COMMITMENT MEANS TO YOU? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3504
QUESTION 350: IF YOU HAD A CHOICE OF BEING MENTALLY FREE, BUT ECONOMICALLY POOR; OR BEING MENTALLY CONTROLLED, BUT ECONOMICALLY STABLE; WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3497 TO 3500

MY THOUGHTS 3497
THOUGHTS: IF YOU HAVE A DISAGREEMENT WITH SOMEONE’S THOUGHT, ALWAYS SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS IT OPENLY WITH THAT PERSON. THAT DISAGREEMENT MAY BE A LEARNING TOOL FOR YOU AND FOR THAT PERSON. YOU WILL UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER MORE AND BUILD A STRONGER RELATIONSHIP BASED ON A TRUER UNDERSTANDING OF EACH OTHER. THE GREATEST GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE TO ANYONE IS THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO LISTEN TO THEIR CONCERNS WHATEVER THEY ARE. THIS CREATES THE GREATEST TRUST IN ANY RELATIONSHIP: PARENT/CHILD, EMPLOYER/EMPLOYEE, HUSBAND/WIFE. ETC. IF THE PERSON REFUSES TO DISCUSS ON A DEEPER LEVEL, THEN YOU HAVE DISCOVERED THAT THAT PERSON AND YOU HAVE ‘A CONNECTION’ BUT NOT ‘THE CONNECTION’. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3498
THOUGHTS: IT IS ALWAYS BEST TO HAVE AN OPEN HONEST DISCUSSION WITH THE PERSON THAT YOU BELIEVE HAS A “WRONG” THOUGHT, AND VISA VERSA. HOWEVER, IN MOST CASES TODAY, THE ACCUSER DICTATES THOUGHTS INSTEAD OF DISCUSSING THOUGHTS. THE PERSON WITH THE ‘SO-CALLED WRONG THOUGHT” USUALLY APOLOGIZES AND ESCAPES INWARD WITH HIS/HER THOUGHTS WHILE SECRETLY SEEKING LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE. THIS HAPPENS IN MANY FAMILIES TODAY. THEY WOULD RATHER WATCH TV ‘TOGETHER’ THAN TALK TO EACH OTHER. PARENTS, INSTEAD OF HAVING HONEST DISCUSSIONS ABOUT THEIR CHILDREN’S CONCERNS, PUSH THEM TO, OR THEY THEMSELVES, ESCAPE INTO MEDIA DEVICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3499
THOUGHTS: THOUGHTS ARE TO BE PONDERED, DISCUSSED, RE-EVALUATED, AND CHANGED OR RE-ADJUSTED TO HELP WITH ONE’S SPIRITUAL GROWTH. A THOUGHT THAT IS PUNISHED WILL ONLY GO INWARD AND BECOME A SECRET THOUGHT AND WILL START THE BEGINNING OF A TRUE SEPARATION OF THAT PERSON HOLDING THAT THOUGHT FROM THE WORLD HE LIVES IN. REMEMBER IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO BE OPEN TO A NEW THOUGHT, TO DISCUSS A NEW THOUGHT, TO PUNISH A NEW THOUGHT, OR TO DENY A NEW THOUGHT. HERE IS ANOTHER INTERESTING SERIES OF KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3500
ONE OF THE BIGGEST PROBLEMS TODAY IS THAT WHEN PEOPLE START TO CHANGE THEIR VALUES, THEY TURN AGAINST THE VALUES THEY WERE BORN INTO AND ACCUSE THEM OF BEING FALSE VALUES. THIS WILL CAUSE GREAT INTERNAL CONFLICT WITHIN THAT PERSON AT SOME TIME IN THEIR LIFETIME. INSTEAD OF APPRECIATING WHERE THEY CAME FROM AND TRANSITIONING WITH RESPECT AND COMPASSION TOWARDS THEM, THEY BECOME ANGRY ANTAGONISTS OF THEIR FORMER VALUE SYSTEM. THAT SYSTEM WILL ALWAYS BE WITH THEM BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE THEY ‘EVOLVED’ FROM. IT WILL ALWAYS BE A PART OF THEIR EXISTENCE NO MATTER WHAT CHANGES THEY HAVE MADE IN THEIR THINKING. IT WILL ALWAYS BE A PART OF THEIR MEMORY. TO HATE THEIR PAST IS TO HATE A PART OF THEMSELVES WHICH BECOMES A REAL BARRIER TO THEIR SPIRITUAL ENLIGHTENMENT. EVEN THOUGH THEIR NEW BELIEFS MAY BE IN TOTAL CONTRAST OF THEIR OLD BELIEFS, THEY HAVE TO RESPECT THEIR OLD BELIEFS FOR BRINGING THEM TO THE POINT OF UNDERSTANDING THEIR NEW BELIEFS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3493 TO 3496

MY THOUGHTS 3493
THOUGHTS: HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH SO-CALLED WRONG THOUGHTS? FEEL THEM, UNDERSTAND THEM, AND ASK THEM WHAT QUESTIONS THEY WANT YOU TO LEARN. THEY ARE MIND STIMULI TO HELP YOU STRENGTHEN YOUR FAITH OR TO GROW BEYOND YOUR FAITH. IF YOU GROW BEYOND YOUR FAITH, ALWAYS CHERISH YOUR FAITH BECAUSE IT IS THE STARTING POINT THAT BROUGHT YOU TO THE POINT OF TRANSITION. REMEMBER THAT YOUR THOUGHTS ARE GIVING YOU MORAL CHOICES TO MAKE, SOCIAL CHOICES TO MAKE, AND GOAL CHOICES TO MAKE. EXAMINE THEM IN RELATIONSHIP TO YOUR INNER VALUE. THEN YOU CAN CHOOSE TO REJECT THEM, ACCEPT THEM, OR MODIFY THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3494
THOUGHTS: THOUGHTS THAT ARE CONSIDERED WRONG THOUGHTS MAY ONLY BE DEEMED WRONG BY THE SOCIETY THAT YOU LIVE IN PRESENTLY. IN OTHER SOCIETIES THOSE THOUGHTS MAY BE CORRECT. ANY THOUGHTS THAT YOU HAVE ARE COSMIC STIMULI TO YOUR THINKING TO HELP YOU GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AT THE MOMENT. THEY ARE OPPORTUNITIES TO EVALUATE WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOUR SOCIETY REALLY WANTS, AND TO HELP YOU ENHANCE YOUR SPIRITUALITY. YOUR CHOICE IS TO EVALUATE THEM AND THEN ACCEPT THEM, REJECT THEM, OR ADJUST THEM. THEY ARE NEITHER RIGHT NOR WRONG NOR GOOD NOR BAD. THEY ARE MINE STIMULI TO TEST YOUR MORALITY, YOUR SPIRITUALITY, AND YOUR HUMANITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3495
CHANGES: WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE REFUSE TO ADJUST TO NEW SITUATIONS, NEW LANGUAGES, AND NEW CULTURES THAT ‘’THEY HAD VENTURED INTO’. MANY ARE AFRAID OF ACCEPTING ASPECTS OF THE NEW CULTURE FOR FEAR OF BETRAYING THEIR OWN CULTURE. INSTEAD OF MAKING A POSITIVE BLEND OF BOTH, MANY DECIDE THAT THEY HAVE TO REJECT ONE OR THE OTHER. MANY ARE AFRAID OF THE NATURAL CHANGES IN THEMSELVES AS THEY TRANSITION INTO BECOMING A BI-CULTURAL BEING. CHANGES CAN BRING FEAR OF LOSING ONE’S OLD SELF OR CANGES CAN CREATE A GREAT ADVENTURE OF GROWTH THROUGH NEW EXPERIENCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3496
QUESTION 348: HAVE YOU REPLACED THE OLD WAYS OF GUIDING NURTURING AND MENTORING CHILDREN WITH THE USE OF CREDIT CARDS TO BUY THINGS TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. HAVE YOU WALKED AWAY FROM FAMILY DINNERS FOR THE SAKE OF WATCHING TV PROGRAMS OR PLAYING GAMES.? WHEN YOU WATCH A TV SHOW OR A MOVIE OR ANY PROGRAM YOU DISCUSS THE PROGRAM WITH YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AFTERWARDS, OR DO YOU GO ON TO THE NEXT PROGRAM.? DO YOU HAVE DISCUSSIONS ABOUT THE PROGRAM YOU WATCH, OR DO YOU SAY AFTER THE PROGRAM THAT WAS GOOD AND WHAT IS ON NEXT. WHATEVER HAPPENED TO FAMILY DISCUSSIONS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3489 TO 3492

MY THOUGHTS 3489
MARRIAGE: THE FOUNDATION OF ANY MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON MUTUAL GOALS, MUTUAL VALUES, AND MUTUAL COMMITMENTS. THESE CAN BE MAINTAINED CONSTANTLY THROUGH MUTUAL RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER’S ROLE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. MARRIAGE IS A SPIRITUAL, SOCIAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL JOURNEY. IT MAY BE A SEXUAL JOURNEY FOR A WHILE, BUT THAT JOURNEY IS USUALLY STUNTED BY MANY FACTORS IN LIFE. CHOOSE YOU PARTNERS WISELY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3490
MATERIALISM: ONE OF THE GREATEST SPIRITUAL LEADERS WHO WAS HERE PHYSICALLY DURING THE ROMAN ERA WAS PRESENTED A COIN WITH THE FACE OF CAESAR ON IT. HE LOOKED AT THE COIN AND RESPONDED: “GIVE UNTO CAESAR WHAT IS CAESAR’S; GIVE UNTO GOD WHAT IS GOD’S. IN OTHER WORDS, LET THOSE IN AUTHORITY HAVE THE MATERIAL THINGS THEY DESIRE ON THIS LEVEL. YOU SHOULD GIVE YOUR HEART, YOUR MIND, YOUR THOUGHTS, AND YOUR LOVE TO THE COSMOS. THOSE IN ‘EARTHLY POWER’ WILL AND DO CONTROL YOUR PHYSICAL BEING. HOWEVER, YOUR INNER BEING IS YOURS TO CHOOSE TO GIVE WHERE YOU WISH TO. THESE TIMES ARE PRODUCING THE GREATEST TEST TO YOUR SPIRITUALITY. WILL YOU FOLLOW THE MATERIALISTIC ‘MAMMON’, OR DO YOU WISH TO SPIRITUALLY RE-CONNECT WITH THE COSMOS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3491
SUGGESTION: TRY THIS EXPERIMENT FOR 30 DAYS. BEFORE YOU GO TO SLEEP OR WHEN YOU GET UP IN THE MORNING THINK OF TWO TO THREE THINGS THAT YOU ARE GRATEFUL FOR AND THEN PONDER THEM. DO THIS EVERY DAY AND YOU WILL SEE A CHANGE IN YOUR ATTITUDE ABOUT LIFE. IF YOU FEEL MUCH BETTER ABOUT YOU AFTER THE 30 DAYS TRIAL, THEN CONTINUE DOING THIS EVERY DAY AND SEE THE GREAT CHANGES THAT HAPPEN WITH IN AND HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3492
HAPPINESS: REMEMBER THAT HAPPINESS IS REALLY A PERSONAL CHOICE. SO IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO CREATE HABITS THAT WILL FOCUS ON CREATING HAPPINESS WITHIN YOU. IT IS YOUR CHOICE THAT COMES FROM WITHIN. YOUR HAPPINESS DOES NOT TRULY COME FROM YOUR OUTSIDE WORLD. YOUR OUTSIDE WORLD MAY TRIGGER THE HAPPINESS WITHIN YOU, BUT IT HAPPENED WITHIN YOU, NOT FROM YOUR OUTER WORLD. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3485 TO 3488

MY THOUGHTS 3485
THOUGHTS: IN HUMAN SOCIETIES, THOUGHTS WILL BE DEEMED RIGHT OR WRONG BY THE AUTHORITIES IN ORDER TO KEEP CONTROL OF THOSE UNDER THEIR POWER ON THIS LEVEL. THOSE CENSORSHIPS ARE LIMITING TOOLS, NOT TOOLS OF EXPANSION ON THIS LEVEL. WHEN A THOUGHT IS CONTRARY TO THE ACCEPTED BELIEFS OF FAMILY, CULTURE, AND FAITH, IT IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO TEACH, IT IS NOT AN OPPORTUNITY TO PUNISH. IT IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO DISCUSS THOSE CONTRARY THOUGHTS, TO EVALUATE THOSE CONTRARY THOUGHTS AND TO RE-EVALUATE THE EXCEPTED THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3486
THOUGHTS: IF YOU PUNISH SOMEONE FOR HAVING A WRONG THOUGHT, YOU HAVE NOT ACCOMPLISHED ANYTHING. ALL YOU HAVE ACCOMPLISHED IS TO HAVE THOSE THOUGHTS KEPT OUT OF THE PUBLIC AND KEPT SECRETLY INSIDE THOSE BELIEVERS AS A TOOL TO BUILD UP RESENTMENT IN THE NEAR FUTURE, AND ALLOW DISTRUST TO SIMMER FOR THE CURRENT BELIEF SYSTEM. IT WILL BECOME A STRONG REASON TO BUILD RESENTMENT IN THE FUTURE. THOSE THOUGHTS WILL STILL LIVE WITHIN THOSE BELIEVERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3487
MARRIAGE: MARRIAGE IS A SOCIAL CONTRACT BETWEEN PARTNERS TO ASSIST ONE ANOTHER THROUGH ALL OF THE PHASES OF THEIR LIVES. THE BASIC TENETS OF THIS CONTRACT ARE ECONOMIC, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL COOPERATIONS OF THE PARTNERS FOR THE PURPOSE CREATING A HARMONIOUS FAMILY WITH CHILDREN THROUGH A COOPERATIVE TOGETHERNESS. THE FACTORS THAT ARE ESSENTIAL IN ANY PARTNERSHIP ARE THE ECONOMIC FACTOR, THE SOCIAL FACTOR, THE GOAL FACTOR, AND THE PHYSICAL FACTOR. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3488
MARRIAGE: ANY MARRIAGE THAT IS SOLELY BASED ON THE PHYSICAL FACTORS IS DOOMED TO FAILURE. IN TIME, OUR BODIES WILL CHANGE DUE TO AGE, HORMONAL CHANGES, GENETICS, HEALTH RISKS, AND UNFORESEEN MISHAPS. THESE BECOME REAL TESTS OF YOUR COMMITMENT, YOUR LOVE, AND YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3481 TO 3484

MY THOUGHTS 3481
THOUGHTS: THERE ARE NO RIGHT OR WRONG THOUGHTS. THOUGHTS ARE THOUGHTS. YOU HAVE TO DECIDE WHETHER THOSE THOUGHTS THAT YOU HAVE ARE VALID FOR THE PATH THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN FOR THIS LIFETIME, WHETHER YOU CAN LEARN AND PROGRESS FROM THOSE THOUGHTS, AND WHETHER THEY ARE STILL VALID FOR THE PRESENT ‘YOU’. IF THOSE THOUGHTS ARE NO LONGER VALID FOR THE PRESENT YOU, OR IF THOSE THOUGHTS DO NOT HELP YOU ON YOUR PATH ANYMORE, THEN YOU MUST RE-EVALUATE THEM OR CHANGE THEM IF NECESSARY IN ORDER TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3482
THOUGHTS: REMEMBER THAT THOUGHTS ARE NEITHER RIGHT NOR WRONG; THEY ARE JUST THOUGHTS. THE THOUGHTS THAT HAVE SERVED YOU IN THE PAST MAY NO LONGER BE VALID BECAUSE YOU HAVE CHANGED AND THEY HAVE NOT CHANGED WITH YOU. THEN YOU MUST RE-EVALUATE THEM OR CHANGE THEM TO FIT YOUR PRESENT STATE OF DEVELOPMENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3483
THOUGHTS: ON A SPIRITUAL LEVEL, YOUR THOUGHTS ARE EVER CHANGING TOOLS TO BE USED TOWARDS YOUR OWN SPIRITUAL ENLIGHTENMENT. YOUR THOUGHTS ARE NEVER DEEMED RIGHT OR WRONG. YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS IS A PROCESS THAT IS VALID FOR EACH STEP OF YOUR PROGRESS TOWARDS SPIRITUAL MATURITY. THAT THOUGHT PROCESS MAY HAVE TO BE CHANGED MANY TIMES AS YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY. YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS IS VALID FOR EACH STAGE YOU ENTER IN YOUR SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT. WHEN YOU GROW BEYOND EACH STAGE, IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT THOSE THEN THOUGHT PROCESSES WERE WRONG; THEY WERE RIGHT FOR EACH STAGE THAT THEY WERE VALID IN. THEY JUST HAVE TO BE RE-JUSTED FOR THE NEXT STAGE IN YOUR SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3484
THOUGHTS: POLITICAL THOUGHTS AND ECONOMIC THOUGHTS WILL BE THE GREATEST OBSTACLES ON YOUR SPIRITUAL JOURNEY. MANY HAVE ABANDONED THEIR SPIRITUAL JOURNEYS FOR POLITICAL POWER AND ECONOMIC POWER, ESPECIALLY IN THE DEMOCRATIC SOCIETIES. IN ANY FORM OF TOTALITARIANISM, YOU CANNOT MAKE MANY POLITICAL CHANGES AND YOU ARE CONTROLLED ECONOMICALLY BY THE SYSTEM. HOWEVER, YOUR FREEDOM OF PUBLIC THOUGHT MAY BE CONTROLLED, BUT YOUR FREEDOM OF INNER THOUGH IS TOTALLY YOURS, THAT INNER THOUGH CANNOT BE DISTRACTED BY POLITICS OR ECONOMICS. IT IS A SPIRITUAL JOURNEY THAT YOU CAN WALK FREELY IN YOUR INNER SOLITUDE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHT3 3473 TO 3476

MY THOUGHTS 3473
CHALLENGES: REMEMBER TO FACE ALL SITUATIONS, ABSORB ALL SITUATIONS, DIGEST ALL SITUATIONS, AND LEARN FROM ALL SITUATIONS, TURN THE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS, AND THEN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE PREPARED TO MEET NEW CHALLENGES WITH YOUR NEW TOOLS. REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU SOLVE ONE PROBLEM, ANOTHER PROBLEM WILL ALWAYS SOON APPEAR. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3474
SELF-LOVE: WHEN YOU LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND THEN BECOME SELF-FULLED, NOT SELFISH NOR SELFLESS, YOU WILL ATTRACT OTHERS WHO WILL LOVE YOU FOR THE TRUE YOU. WHEN YOU ARE SELFLESS, YOU DENY YOU. WHEN YOUARE SELFISH, YOU OVER EMPHASIZE YOU. FIND THE BALANCE IN THE YIN AND YANG OF YOU AND BECOME SELF-FULL. IT IS A MOST INTERESTING CHALLENGE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3475
QUESTION 347: WHEN YOU COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILDREN, ARE YOU COMMUNICATING WITH THEM THE SAME WAY THAT YOUR PARENTS HAD COMMUNICATED WITH YOU, OR ARE YOU COMMUNICATING THE WAY YOU WISH TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILDREN? ARE THEY DIFFERENT METHODS, ARE THEY THE SAME METHODS, OR ARE THEY A BLEND OF THEIR METHOD AND YOURS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3476
MARRIAGE: IT IS BEST TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU LIKE AND LOVE THAN IT IS TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU LOVE BUT DO NOT LIKE. IT IS BETTER TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU LIKE BUT DO NOT LOVE THAN IT IS TO MARRY SOMEONE YOU LOVE BUT DO NOT LIKE. WHEN SOMEONE REMINDS YOU OF THE NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE FALLING IN LOVE WITH AND YOU SAY “BUT I LOVE HIM/HER”,YOU ARE LETTING YOUR EMOTIONS BLIND YOUR THINKING AND ENTERING INTO A POTENTIALLY FLAWED RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3469 TO 3472

MY THOUGHTS 3469
RESCUE: WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE INSIST ON TRYING TO SAVE OTHERS FROM THEMSELVES, WHEN THEY CAN ONLY REALLY SAVE THEMSELVES? THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN SAVE YOU IS YOU; THE ONLY PERSON WHO COULD TRULY SAVE ANOTHER INDIVIDUAL IS THAT INDIVIDUAL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3470
INTROSPECTION: REMEMBER THAT INTROSPECTION IS BEST DONE WITHOUT EMOTIONS, WITH PURE HONESTY, AND A DESIRE TO UNDERSTAND THE TRUTH. REMEMBER THAT INTROSPECTION CAN LEAD TO MORAL DEVELOPMENT, IMMORAL DEVELOPMENT, OR AMORAL DEVELOPMENT. INTROSPECTION REQUIRES THE PROPER FRAME OF MIND TO GO INWARD AND TO DISCOVER WHO YOU REALLY ARE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3471
VICTIM: WHEN YOU CONTINUE TO CONSIDER YOURSELF A VICTIM IN ANY SITUATION, YOU ARE REALLY NOT WILLING TO LEARN YOUR LESSONS FROM THAT SITUATION AND MOVE ON. IT IS YOUR CHOICE ALONE TO REMAIN IN A QUAGMIRE OF SELF PITY. THAT IS YOUR PERSON KARMIC CHOICE THAT ONLY “YOU” CAN CHANGE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3472
REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU FACE ANY SITUATION YOU MUST ABSORB IT, DIGEST IT, AND LEARN FROM IT BY TURNING THAT NEGATIVE SITUATION INTO A POSITIVE TOOL FOR YOU. THEN, MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND BE READY TO FACE THE NEXT CHALLENGE ON YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3465 TO 3468

MY THOUGHTS 3465
FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN REINCARNATION, IT IS IMPORTANT TO WORK TOWARDS HARMONY AND PEACE THROUGHOUT THE WORLD. REMEMBER THAT YOU MAY BE REBORN INTO ANY OF THOSE CULTURES TO LEARN THE LESSONS THAT YOU DID NOT LEARN THIS TIME. IF YOU TREAT ANY PEOPLES WITH HATE AND CONTEMPT BECAUSE THEY ARE DIFFERENT FROM YOUR “NOW” CULTURE, YOU MAY FEEL THAT HATE WHEN YOU ARE RE-BORN INTO THAT CULTURE. IF YOU CANNOT BE KIND AND COMPASSIONATE TOWARDS THOSE THAT ARE DIFFERENT THAN YOU, DO NOTHING RATHER THAN SEND YOUR SCORN. MAKE YOUR MANTRA “PEACE, LOVE, AND COMPASSION” TO ALL SPIRITUAL BEINGS THAT ARE ON DIFFERENT JOURNEYS THAN YOURS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3466
YOU HAVE INCARNATED INTO YOUR VARIOUS CULTURES, FAITHS, AND SOCIETIES TO LEARN LESSONS FROM THEM. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO SHARED THE POSITIVES OF YOUR CULTURES AND FAITHS AND LEARN FROM OTHER CULTURES AND FAITHS THAT YOU COME INTO CONTACT WITH. YOU SHOULD ALSO BE WORKING TOWARDS COOPERATIVE EFFORTS OF ALL CULTURES TO CREATE MORE HARMONIOUS HUMAN SOCIETIES AND A MORE COOPERATIVE UNION WITH NATURE. IF YOU REFUSE TO LEARN FROM OTHERS TO ENHANCE YOURSELF AND YOUR CULTURE, YOU WILL MOST LIKELY BE REINCARNATED INTO THAT SOCIETY THAT YOU REFUSE TO UNDERSTAND. CHOICES. CHOICES. CHOICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3467
IS IT NOT BETTER TO APPRECIATE YOUR UNIQUENESS AS A PERSON OF CULTURE AND FAITH WHILE APPRECIATING THE UNIQUENESS OF OTHERS OF DIFFERENT FAITHS AND CULTURES. YOUR FAMILY, YOUR SOCIETY, YOUR CULTURE, AND YOUR FAITH GIVE YOU A SPECIAL UNIQUENESS FOR ALL THE LESSONS THAT YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN THIS TIME AROUND. REMEMBER THAT THOSE OF OTHER FAITHS AND CULTURES HAVE THE SAME SITUATIONS AS YOU DO. THEREFORE, RESPECT THE UNIQUENESS OF ALL FAMILIES, ALL SOCIETIES, ALL CULTURES, AND ALL FAITHS, AS WELL AS, EACH INDIVIDUAL WHO IS UNIQUE IN HIS/HER OWN WAY.
EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3468
QUESTION 346: ARE YOU WILLING TO LEARN YOUR LESSONS AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE, OR ARE YOU JUST TRYING TO HANG ON TO THE PAST BY FINDING ANY NEGATIVE EXCUSE TO WALLOW IN SELF-PITY BECAUSE OF YOUR PAST? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3461 TO 3464

MY THOUGHTS 3461
ASSIMILATION: PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN TOTAL ISOLATION ARE EVENTUALLY DUE TO SOCIALLY PERISH. PEOPLE ARE SOCIAL BEINGS WHO MUST INTERACT WITH OTHERS AROUND THEM, AND THAT INTERCHANGE WILL HELP EVERYONE FLOURISH AND BE BETTER SOCIAL AND SPIRITUAL BEINGS. TOTAL ISOLATION LEADS TO EVENTUAL SELF DESTRUCTION WHILE SOME ASSIMILATION LEADS TO CULTURAL AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH. WHEN YOU SEEK A MULTI-CULTURAL FUTURE, YOU WILL CREATE A DYNAMIC AND EXCITING CULTURAL AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH. IT IS IMPORTANT FOR ALL PEOPLE AND PEOPLES TO COME TOGETHER AND INTERACT IN A SHARING OF IDEAS. IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT THAT THEY MAINTAIN THEIR INTEGRITY AS INDIVIDUALS AND UNIQUE PEOPLES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3462
QUESTION 345: DO YOU WISH TO LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE, OR ARE YOU SEEKING TO LIVE SOMEONE ELSE’S LIFE? ARE YOU LIVING YOUR OWN LIFE NOW, OR ARE YOU LIVING SOMEONE ELSE’S LIFE? CAN YOU BALANCE LIVING YOUR OUR LIFE, YOUR PARTNER LIVING HIS/HER LIFE, AND LIVING A COOPERATIVE LOVING LIFE TOGETHER WITH YOUR PARTNER? HAVE YOU SURRENDERED YOUR LIFE TO YOUR PARTNER, AND, IF SO, WHY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3463
IN ORDER TO ATTRACT A TRULY COMPATIBLE PARTNER, YOU MUST BE ‘YOU’, NOT SOMEONE ELSE. IF YOU LIVE ‘YOUR LIFE’, YOU WILL ATTRACT THOSE WHO TRULY APPRECIATE ‘YOU’ FOR WHO YOU ARE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3464
IF YOU ARE LIVING SOMEONE ELSE’S LIFE, AND SOMEONE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU; HE/SHE IS NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE REALLY IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE EMULATING. IT IS ALWAYS BEST TO BE ‘YOU’ AT ALL TIMES SO THAT THOSE WHO ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO THE REAL YOU; NOT AN IMAGE THAT YOU HAVE TRIED TO PROJECT. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3453 TO 3456

MY THOUGHTS 3453
TEACHING: EVERY TEACHER MUST REALIZE THAT ANY FEEDBACK, POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE, IS A SIGN THAT THE STUDENT WAS LISTENING. SOME STUDENT DO LISTEN IN SILENCE WHILE TAKING NOTES. THOSE WHO GIVE YOU POSITIVE FEEDBACK REAFFIRM YOUR TEACHINGS. THOSE WHO GIVE YOU NEGATIVE FEEDBACK GIVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY RE-ASSESS HOW YOU ARE PRESENTING YOUR TEACHINGS OR AN OPPORTUNITY TO RETHINK YOUR TEACHINGS. ALWAYS GIVE RECOGNITION TO THE STUDENTS FROM WHOM YOU GET FEEDBACK. THEY NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE OPEN TO THEIR INQUIRIES WHETHER THEY ARE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE. THOSE WHO ARE JUST LISTENING AND TAKING NOTES ARE SILENTLY CONTEMPLATING YOUR TEACHINGS. THEY ARE GIVING YOU A NON-VERBAL FEEDBACK IN THE PROCESS OF TAKING NOTES. ALL ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR THE TEACHER TO GROW. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3454
FLEXIBILITY: AS A SPIRITUAL BEING IN A HUMAN BODY YOU ARE SUPPOSED SEEK KNOWLEDGE FROM ALL LEVELS OF HUMAN SOCIETY. YOU SHOULD NOT STAY WITH ONE GROUP TOO LONG BECAUSE THAT GROUP CAN STAGNATE OR CORRUPT YOUR THINKING. YOU MUST MAINTAIN YOUR OWN FLEXIBILITY FOR YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. IT IS BEST TO ASSOCIATE WITH ALL GROUPS WITHOUT BECOMING A PERMANENT PARTICIPANT. BE THE OBSERVER OF HISTORY, BE THE OBSERVER OF EVENTS, AND BE THE ONE WHO CAN SPEAK HONESTLY ABOUT EVENTS IN SOCIETY WITHOUT ANY BIASES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3455
WRITERS: THE PURPOSE OF A WRITER IS TO WITNESS AND REPORT, OBJECTIVELY, THE TRUE CONDITIONS OF SOCIETY ON ALL LEVELS. IF YOU FEEL THAT YOU MUST ‘SAVE SOCIETY’ THEN YOU MUST BE AN OBJECTIVE WRITER. HOW? DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO ANY PARTICULAR GROUP OR CAUSE. BE THE OBJECTIVE WRITER OF EVENTS TO MAINTAIN CREDIBILITY WITH ALL LEVELS OF SOCIETY. THE WRITER CAN WRITE ABOUT GROUPS OR CAUSES BY SHARING HIS/HER OBSERVATIONS IN A WAY THAT OTHERS CAN FEEL THE JOYS AND FRUSTRATION OF THOSE GROUPS. HER/HIS TASK, AS A WRITER, IS TO SHARE THE FEELINGS OF THOSE GROUPS/CAUSES SO THAT OTHERS MAY/CAN UNDERSTAND THEIR SITUATIONS AND THEIR EMOTIONS BETTER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3456
SUGGESTION: WHEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE IN A COOPERATIVE MOOD, BOTH OF YOU, SEPARATELY, WRITE DOWN YOUR PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT LOVE IS TO YOU. THEN WRITE DOWN WHAT LOVE IS NOT TO YOU. ALSO DETERMINE WHETHER THESE ARE YOUR PERSONAL PERCEPTIONS, YOUR PARENTS DEFINITIONS, YOUR CULTURE’S CODE, OR YOUR FAITH’S RULES OF LOVE. BOTH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD DISCUSS WHAT EACH OTHER’S PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT LOVE IS AND WHAT LOVE IS NOT. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER’S DEFINITIONS OF LOVE, YOU CAN OPEN THE DOOR TO A MORE POSITIVE AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP. OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION IS ALWAYS BEST. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3449 TO 3452

MY THOUGHTS 3449
VICTIM: AVOID GETTING INTO THAT HUMAN CAME CALLED “VICTIM, PERSECUTOR, AND RESCUER.” IT IS A VICIOUS GAME OF STAGNATION THAT GETS WORSE AND WORSE AS YOU PLAY IT. THE KEY EXPRESSIONS IN THAT GAME ARE “I CAN’T BECAUSE THEY DON’T LIKE ME”, ‘POOR ME, I AM HELPLESS,’ AND “SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME.” REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE CREATE BOTH THE VICTIM AND THE PERSECUTOR IN YOUR OWN MIND; THEREFORE, YOU MUST BECOME YOUR OWN RESCUER. THE ONLY WAY TO RESCUE YOURSELF FROM THIS VICIOUS CYCLE IS TO STOP PLAYING THE DUAL ROLES OF VICTIM AND PERSECUTOR, LEARN YOUR LESSONS, AND MOVE ON. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3450
VICTIMS: YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN FROM THE CHALLENGES YOU WILL MEET IN THIS LIFE. THE CHOICES YOU MAKE ARE YOUR OWN PERSONAL CHOICES. THEREFORE, YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM OF YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU ARE A PARTICIPANT IN THOSE SITUATIONS. WHEN YOU HAVE LEARNED EACH LESSON, YOU ARE TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT LESSON. IF YOU HAVEN’T LEARNED THAT LESSON AND CONTINUE TO STAY IN THAT CIRCUMSTANCE, YOU MAY FEEL LIKE YOU ARE A VICTIM. HOWEVER, YOU ALONE ARE THE PERSECUTOR OF THE VICTIM YOU HAVE CREATED IN YOUR MIND. LEARN YOUR LESSONS AND MOVE ON. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3451
QUESTION 342: IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE GOD EXCESSIVELY? CAN YOU LOVE GOD WITHOUT DESTROYING GOD’S OWN CREATIONS IN HIS/HER NAME? CAN YOU LOVE GOD FULLY AND COMPLETELY WHILE ALLOWING GOD TO DO GOD’S OWN DESTRUCTION OF GOD’S OWN CREATION? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3452
QUESTION 343: WHEN YOU DESTROY SOMETHING OR SOME PEOPLE IN THE NAME OF GOD, ARE YOU USURPING GOD’S PREROGATIVE TO MAKE GOD’S OWN DECISIONS? DO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOUR GOD IS SO WEAK THAT YOU HAVE TO PROTECT YOUR GOD’S HONOR? ARE YOUR DESTRUCTIVE FEELINGS A COVER-UP FOR YOUR PERSONAL WEAKNESS IN FAITH? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3445 TO 3448

MY THOUGHTS 3445
LESSONS FROM NATURE: ROSES ARE A SYMBOL OF LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, AND BEAUTY TO ALMOST EVERYONE. THEY ARE A VISION OF BEAUTY, FRAGRANT TO NASAL SENSES, AND SOFT TO THE TOUCH. ITS BLOSSOM OF MANY HUES ATTRACTS ATTENTION TO IT THROUGH ITS RADIANT FRAGRANCES AND CATCHES THE EYES WITH ITS SPECTRUM OF SOFT WARM COLORS. BE AWARE THAT IT ALSO HAS A STEM THAT CAN BE PAINFUL TO THOSE WHO DO NOT HANDLE IT GENLTY AND CAREFULLY. ALSO, WHEN YOU CUT IT FROM IT ROOTS, IT SOON WITHERS AND DIES.JUST LIKE IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS, WHEN COMPLETELY TRY TO CUT THE PERSON ‘YOU LOVE’ FORM HIS/HER ROOTS, HER/HIS BEAUTY AND LIGHT WILL BEGIN TO DIMINISH. IF YOU WISH YOUR ‘FLOWER’ TO BLOOM FOREVER IN YOUR GARDEN OF LOVE, YOU MUST ALLOW SOME OF HIS/HER ENVIRONMENT TO BE A PART OF YOUR GARDEN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3446
DO NOT SURRENDER TO SOCIETY’S DEFINITION OF WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND WHAT IS UGLY. BASICALLY, UGLY IS SOMETHING OR SOMEONE WHO MAKES YOU FEEL TERRIBLE, AND BEAUTIFUL IS WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL WONDERFUL. USE YOUR SOCIETY’S GUIDELINES THE HELP YOU FOCUS ON WHAT IS UGLY AND WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL. HOWEVER, BE PREPARED AS YOU MATURE IN LIFE TO GO BEYOND THOSE DEFINITIONS TO A TRUER UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL AND WHAT IS REALLY UGLY. YOU WILL FIND THAT MANY THINGS AND PEOPLE THAT MAY BE CONSIDERED EXTERNALLY BEAUTIFUL ARE INTERNALLY VERY UGLY. REMEMBER THAT THE THINGS AND PEOPLE YOUR SOCIETY CONSIDERS UGLY AND REPULSIVE CAN REALLY SO BEAUTIFUL INTERNALLY THAT IT WOULD ALMOST BE IMPOSSIBLE TO RESIST THEM. WHEN YOU HAVE MATURED, MAKE SURE THAT “YOU” DECIDE WHAT IS UGLY AND WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL IN “YOUR” LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3447
LOVE: LOVE IS A GIFT THAT YOU GIVE TO YOURSELF. YOU CANNOT GIVE SOMEONE YOU LOVE; HOWEVER, YOU CAN SHARE IT WITH SOMEONE. WHETHER YOUR LOVE IS ACCEPTED OR REJECTED, IT IS YOUR LOVE. IT IS TRUE. IT IS PURE. IF YOUR LOVE IS ACCEPTED, YOU SHARE IT FREELY. IF YOUR LOVE IS REJECTED, REMEMBER THAT HE/SHE HAS LOST YOUR LOVE. YOU STILL HAVE IT TO SHARE WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL APPRECIATE IT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3448
LOVE: LOVE WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART; HOWEVER, MAKE SURE YOU DO NOT LOVE SOMEONE EXCESSIVELY. WHEN YOU HAVE ABANDONED THE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE FOR YOU IN ORDER TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE, YOU HAVE LOVED EXCESSIVELY. EmilKoval©2012

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