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THOUGHTS 3641 T0 3644

MY THOUGHTS 3641
SOULMATES: YOUR CHILDREN ARE YOUR TRUE SOULMATES WHO WILL STIMULATE YOUR LESSONS IN LIFE AND PRESENT YOU WITH POWERFUL KARMIC CHOICES. YOUR CHILDREN ARE YOUR SOURCE OF PRIDE AND YOUR SOURCE OF HUMILITY. YOU ARE THEIR TEACHER AND THEY ARE YOUR TEACHER; YOU ARE THEIR STUDENT AND THEY ARE YOUR STUDENT. THEY ARE YOUR PROVOCATEURS OF KARMIC CHOICES. THEY WILL GIVE YOU IMMEDIATE RESULTS TO YOUR KARMIC CHOICES. THEY ARE A PERMANENT PART OF YOU, SO LEARN WELL, TEACH WELL, AND BE GRATEFUL AND BE RESPECTFUL TOWARDS EACH OTHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3642
SOULMATES: YOUR PARTNER/ PARTNERS IN LIFE ARE/MAY BE LONG TERM SOULMATES. THEY ARE NOT ONLY THE SOURCES OF PHYSICAL PLEASURE, EMOTIONAL PLEASURE, AND SOCIAL PLEASURES; THEY ARE ALSO STIMULANTS ON YOUR LIFE PATH AND YOUR PERSONAL PROVOCATEURS OF YOUR KARMIC CHOICES. THEY WILL PROVIDE IMMEDIATE FEEDBACK TO WHICH YOU HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY TO REPAIR ANY WRONG CHOICES. PARTNERS ARE EACH OTHER’S TEACHERS AND EACH OTHER’S STUDENTS. TEACH WELL, LEARNED WELL, AND GROW TOGETHER SPIRITUALLY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3643
SOULMATES: YOUR NEXT SET OF SOULMATES ARE THE FRIENDS THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN. THEY ARE ANOTHER CLASS OF SOULMATES THAT WILL TEACH YOU SOME OF LIFE’S LESSONS AND PROVIDE FOR YOU MANY KARMIC CHOICES. THEY ARE YOUR HELPERS ON YOUR PATH. THEY WILL BE EXAMPLES OF HOW NOT TO BE AND HOW TO BE. FOR THOSE THAT HELP YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY, YOU WILL CHERISH THEM. FOR THOSE WHO BRING YOU NEGATIVITY, THANK THEM AND COMPASSIONATELY SEPARATE FROM THEM. HOWEVER, BE VERY GRATEFUL FOR THE LESSONS THAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU. SEPARATE WITH NO BITTERNESS, WITH GRATITUDE AND WITH COMPASSION. REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU MAKE NEGATIVE KARMIC CHOICES, YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO TURN THOSE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS IN YOUR LIFE. SO IT IS WITH NEGATIVE FRIENDS, NEGATIVE CHILDREN, AND NEGATIVE PARTNERS. LEARN WELL, GROW WELL, AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3644
QUESTION 371: ARE YOU IN COMPETITION WITH YOUR PARTNER FOR YOUR CHILDREN’S AFFECTION? IS YOUR PARTNER’S AFFECTION FOR YOUR CHILDREN OVERSHADOWING YOUR PARTNERS AFFECTION FOR YOU? ARE YOU AWARE THAT THIS IS A SIGN OF A PROBLEM IN THE RELATIONSHIP? WHY DO PARENTS HAVE TO COMPETE FOR THEIR CHILDREN’S AFFECTION? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3637 TO 3640

MY THOUGHTS 3637
DEATH: INFANTILE DEATHS ARE LESSONS FOR THE PARENTS AND STIMULI FOR THEIR SOCIETIES TO CREATE BETTER LIVING CONDITIONS AND MEDICAL SKILLS FOR THEIR SOCIETIES. THEY ARE ALSO MOMENTARY SPARKS OF ENLIGHTENMENT TO REKINDLE SPIRITUALITY IN THOSE WHO ARE READY. NON-HUMAN INDUCED INFANTILE AND PRE-BIRTH DEATHS ARE COSMIC TESTS PRESENTING MANY WITH SUCH STRONG KARMIC CHOICES. MANY PARENTS TODAY MAKE A STATEMENT THEY, NOT GOD, WILL DETERMINE WHAT COMES THROUGH THEIR BODIES. WHAT WILL THE FATE OF THEIR CHILDREN AND THEIR GRANDCHILDREN BE IN ORDER TO TEACH THOSE PARENTS TO RESPECT ALL FORMS OF LIFE, INCLUDING THE GIFTS FROM GOD IN THROUGH THEIR BODIES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3638
CONGENITAL DEFECTS ARE NOT PUNISHMENT FROM THE COSMOS, THEY ARE SPIRITUALITY TESTS FOR THEIR BIRTH PARENTS AND THEIR BIRTH SOCIETIES. IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE A TRULY LOVING AND COMPASSIONATE BEING, THEN I SUGGEST THAT YOU SPEND TIME VOLUNTEER TO HELP CHILDREN WITH WHAT IS CALLED “BIRTH DEFECTS”. VOLUNTEER TO HELP PARENTS WITH THOSE CHILDREN. IF YOU ARE REPULSED BY THE IDEA, IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU ARE WRONG. IT DOES MEAN THAT YOU ARE NOT SPIRITUAL READY YET, AND THEN YOU NEED TO DO SOME SELF SOUL SEARCHING. YOU SHOULD, AT LEAST, HAVE DEVELOPED A TRUE COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING FOR THE PARENTS IN THOSE SITUATIONS AND BE READY TO ASSIST WHEN NECESSARY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3639
SUGGESTION: REMEMBER THAT HELPING CHILDREN, OR ADULTS, WITH ‘LIMITATIONS’ CAN BE DIFFICULT FOR MANY. DO NOT CHASTISE THOSE ARE NOT QUITE READY YET. FOR THOSE WHO WISH TO TRY, YOU CAN ALSO VOLUNTEER TO HELP IN ANY SCHOOL THAT PROVIDES EDUCATION FOR CHILDREN WITH LIMITATIONS. SOME SCHOOLS DEAL WITH ONLY PHYSICAL LIMITATIONS WHICH MAY BE EASIER TO DEAL WITH. WHEN YOU ARE REALLY READY, THEN YOU CAN VOLUNTEER AT A SCHOOL WHICH WORKS WITH CHILDREN WHO ARE PROFOUNDLY PHYSICALLY AND EDUCATIONALLY LIMITED. YOU CAN START BY VOLUNTEERING FOR ONE HOUR A DAY OR A WEEK. LATER, YOU MAY WISH TO VOLUNTEER MORE TIME OR TO BE TOTALLY INVOLVED. THIS IS NO EASY TASK; HOWEVER, IT CAN BE SPIRITUALLY REWARDING. IF YOU CANNOT CONTINUE TO PARTICIPATE, BE GRATEFUL THAT YOU HAVE BECOME AWARE AND THE YOU WILL BE GRATEFUL FOR THE ‘NOT SO PERFECT, BUT GENERALLY NORMAL’ CHILDREN THAT YOU HAVE. ALSO REMEMBER THAT AWARENESS IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR SPIRITUAL JOURNEY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3640
SUGGESTION: SOME GROUPS WITH LIMITATIONS THAT YOU CAN START TO HELP ARE THOSE WHO ARE MILITARY SERVICE PERSONNEL, FIRE FIGHTERS, AND POLICE OFFICERS WHO HAVE SUSTAINED INJURIES WHILE CARRYING OUT THEIR DUTIES. THIS MAY BE PSYCHOLOGICALLY EASIER TO START WITH. YOU CAN ALSO VOLUNTEER TO HELP WITH THE ’SPECIAL OLYMPICS.” EACH STEP IN THE PROCESS WILL BRING YOU TO A LEVEL OF SELF-AWARENESS THAT YOU ARE READY FOR. YOU MAY ALSO VOLUNTEER TO READ BOOKS FOR THE BLIND, DELIVER OR PREPARE MEALS FOR THOSE WHO ARE SHUT-INS, AND EVEN HELP TEACHERS WITH THEIR PAPERWORK SO THAT THEY CAN PREPARE BETTER LESSONS FOR THEIR STUDENTS. SERVING THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED IS A WONDERFUL WAY TO SERVE YOURSELF MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3633 TO 3436

MY THOUGHTS 3633
PARENTS: WATCHING YOUR CHILDREN GROW BEYOND ‘YOU’ SHOULD BE YOUR GREATEST BLESSING IN THIS LIFE. WHEN THEY DO GROW BEYOND, YOU CAN BE ‘YOU’, AND YOU CAN BECOME THEIR PERSONAL ADVISORS WHEN THEY NEED CONSULTATIONS. REMEMBER THAT IT IS ALSO THE LAW OF NATURE THAT REQUIRES PARENTS TO DETACH FROM THEIR CHILDREN. IT IS THE NATURAL PROCESS IN NATURE FOR PARENTS TO BE NURTURING AND PROTECTIVE UNTIL THEIR CHILDREN MATURE. THEN THE PARENTS ARE TO CONTINUE ON WITH THEIR OWN LIVES AGAIN AS ROLE MODELS FOR THEIR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3634
HOPE: IT IS A FACT THAT YOU WILL ONE DAY RETURN TO NATURE, AND HOPEFULLY, YOU WILL RETURN BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN DO. AS FOR THE COSMOS, IT IS WHAT YOU PERCEIVE IN YOUR MIND. IT IS YOUR PERCEPTION OF THE COSMOS THAT ALLOWS YOU TO DEAL WITH THE REALITIES OF YOUR LIFE. IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO LIVE WITH A PERCEPTION OF HOPE OR TO LIVE WITH NO HOPE AT ALL. YOUR CHOICES WILL EXPRESS HOPE OR DESPAIR. CHOOSE WELL!!! EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3635
CHILDREN: IF YOUR CHILDREN ARE TOO ATTACHED TO YOU, HOW WILL THEY SURVIVE WHEN YOU ARE GONE? TEACH THEM TO STAND ON THEIR OWN AND WATCH THEM MOVE FORWARD ON THEIR PATHS. GIBRAN REMINDED US THAT OUR CHILDREN COME THROUGH US AND NOT FROM US. THEY ARE THE ARROWS, AND YOU, AS PARENTS, ARE THE BOW THAT WILL SEND YOUR CHILDREN INTO ‘THEIR’ FUTURE. THE ARCHER THAT PULLS THE STRING OF YOUR BOW IS YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3636
PARENTS: SEND YOUR CHILDREN ON THEIR PATHS TO DO WHAT THEY CAME HERE TO DO. YOU ARE TO BE THEIR REFERENCE LIBRARY AND CONSULTANTS WHILE YOU ARE STILL HERE. MEANWHILE, YOU ARE TO BECOME THE ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR CHILDREN ON HOW TO LIVE THEIR LIVE AFTER THEIR OWN CHILDREN START ON THEIR OWN PATHS. NOW YOU ARE FREE TO FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS AND YOUR SPIRITUAL PATH FROM THE LESSONS THAT YOU FROM LIFE AND FROM YOUR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3629 TO 3632

MY THOUGHTS 3629
DEATH: IF A CHILD DIES BEFORE THEIR PARENTS, IT IS NOT A COSMIC RETRIBUTION, IT IS NOT THE PARENTS FAULT, AND IT IS NOT AN ACCIDENT. IT MEANS THAT HIS/HER TIME HERE HAS BEEN COMPLETED BECAUSE SHE/HE HAS COMPLETED HER/HIS PERSONAL LESSONS. THAT CHILD’S EXIT ALSO BECOMES A KARMIC LESSON FOR HIS/HER PARENTS, SIBLINGS, AND FRIENDS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3630
LONELINESS: BEING ALONE CAN BE A PROFOUND BLESSING. LONELINESS MAY BE WORRISOME AT FIRST BECAUSE OF HUMAN ATTACHMENTS. HOWEVER, WHEN ONE MEETS OTHER LIKE-MINDED SEEKERS, ONE’S FOCUS CHANGES. HOWEVER, ONE’S TRUE COMPANIONS BECOME THE VOICES AND WONDERS OF NATURE. THAT WILL OPEN THE DOOR TO COSMIC WHISPERS WHICH WILL DISPEL ALL ASPECTS OF LONELINESS WHEN THE GREAT MASTERS AND YOUR GUARDIANS CARESS YOUR SPIRITUAL BEING WHILE SHARING THEIR WISDOM WITH YOU. BEING ALONE NO LONGER MEANS BEING LONELY. BEING ALONE BECOMES A WELLSPRING OF CREATIVITY THAT YOU CAN SHARE TO HELP THOSE WHO THOSE IN THE MUNDANE WORLD WHO ARE SEEKING SEEDS OF WISDOM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3631
QUESTS: ONE OF THE MOST INTERESTING, CHALLENGING, AND BENEFICIAL QUESTS IN YOUR LIFE IS TO FIND THE BALANCE BETWEEN ‘THE ESSENCE OF YOU’ AND YOUR OBLIGATIONS TO YOUR SOCIAL WORLD. HOWEVER, MAINTAINING THAT BALANCE REQUIRES ‘YOUR’ SPIRITUAL STRENGTH. IF YOUR SOCIAL WORLD CANNOT ACCEPT THE ESSENCE OF YOU, THEN IT IS TIME TO SEEK A COMPATIBLE SOCIAL WORD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3632
QUESTION 370: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING AGGRESSIVE AND BEING ASSERTIVE? DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE BEING ASSERTIVE, OR WHEN YOU ARE BEING AGGRESSIVE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3625 TO 3628

MY THOUGHTS 3625
GROWTH: WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, YOU LEARN THE STRUCTURES OF YOUR FAITH AND YOUR CULTURE. YOU ALSO LEARN ABOUT YOUR UNIQUE PERSONAL STRUCTURE AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND YOUR SOCIAL STRUCTURE AS MEMBER OF A COMMUNAL GROUP. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THE ASPECT OF THOSE STRUCTURES, YOU WILL FREELY BEGIN TO EXPLORE OTHER WORLDS AND POSSIBLY INTEGRATE OTHER CONCEPTS INTO YOUR BEING. THE BASIC STRUCTURES THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO HAVE GIVEN YOU THE FOUNDATION FOR YOUR LIFE’S WORK. THEY HAVE CREATED YOUR UNIQUENESS. YOUR UNIQUE SELF IS SUPPOSED TO GROW BEYOND THOSE STRUCTURES TO CREATE NEW INTEGRATED, COOPERATIVE, AND UNIVERSAL YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3626
SUCCESS: MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE START OFF WITHIN A STRUCTURE AND THEN THEY TAKE THAT STRUCTURE AND INTEGRATE IT WITH OTHER STRUCTURES TO CREATE UNIQUE STRUCTURES OF THEIR OWN. REMEMBER THAT WE ALL START WITH BASIC STRUCTURES TO GIVE US A STRONG FOUNDATION. SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE USE THAT FOUNDATION, TOGETHER WITH THEIR UNIQUENESS, TO CREATE A BETTER AND STRONGER FOUNDATION. WHEN THEY ENCOUNTER OTHER FOUNDATIONS, THEY CAN INCORPORATE SOME OF THEIR UNIQUENESS INTO THAT NEW STRUCTURE. EVERY SUCCESSFUL PERSON; WHETHER HE/SHE IS A GREAT MUSICIAN, A GREAT PHILOSOPHER, AND A GREAT LEADER; WILL DO THIS ALL THE TIME. REMEMBER THAT THE INTEGRATION OF IDEAS IS THE KEY TO ANYONE’S GROWTH, IT IS THE KEY TO MAINTAINING THE UNIQUENESS OF YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH. YOUR REAL CHOICE IS INTEGRATE AND GROW BEYOND THE PRESENT YOU, OR TO REMAIN STAGNANT, AND BECOME AN AUTOMATON WITHIN YOUR WORLD. IT IS YOUR DECISION ALONE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3627
SEPARATION: COULD IT BE THAT WHEN YOUR CHILDREN ABANDON YOU, THAT THE COSMOS WANTS YOU TO BE SEPARATED FROM THE HARD KARMIC LESSONS THAT THEY WILL NEED TO LEARN BCAUSE YOU ARE TOO PROTECTIVE AND MAY INTERFERE IN THOSE LESSONS!! WHEN/IF THEY LEARN THOSE LESSONS, THEY MAY TRY TO RECONNECT WITH YOU, OR THEY MAY NOT RECONNECT WITH YOU. IF THEY RECONNECT WITH YOU, THEY HAVE LEARNED THEIR LESSONS WELL. IF THEY DO NOT RECONNECT WITH YOU, IT MEANS THAT THEY WILL BE AN INTERFERENCE IN YOUR SPIRITUAL JOURNEY. IF YOU INSIST ON RECONNECTING WITH THEM, THEN YOU WILL LIMIT YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. YOU HAVE CHOSEN THE WORLDLY OVER THE SPIRITUAL. WHEN YOU STRUGGLE TO MAINTAIN CONNECTIONS ON THIS MUNDANE LEVEL, YOU ARE REDUCING YOUR CONNECTION TO THE SPIRITUAL/COSMIC LEVEL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3628
SEPARATION: IN NATURE, MOST LIFE FORMS SEPARATE FROM THEIR YOUNG WHEN THEIR YOUNG MATURE. HUMANS SEEM TO CONSTANTLY VIOLATE THAT LAW OF NATURE. WHEN YOUR CHILDREN MATURE THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO FOLLOW THEIR OWN PATH, CREATE THEIR OWN LIVES, AND MAKE THEIR OWN KARMIC CHOICES. PARENTS ARE TO BE THE REFERENCE LIBRARIES FOR THEIR CHILDREN. PARENTS ARE NOT TO BE THE CONTROLLERS OF THEIR MATURE CHILDREN’S LIVES. PARENTS ARE TO RELEGATE THEMSELVES TO BEING ADVISORS WHEN ASKED TO ADVISE, RESCUERS IN SPECIAL SITUATIONS, AND ROLE MODELS ON HOW TO LIVE A LIFE AFTER THE CHILDREN HAVE LEFT THE NEST. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3621 TO 3624

MY THOUGHTS 3621
LESSONS: THE PRIMARY LESSONS THAT YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED WITH IN THIS LIFETIME ARE BASED IN THE CULTURES, THE FAITHS, THE ETHNICITIES, AND THE SOCIAL SYSTEMS THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO. YOUR TASK IS NOT TO DOGMATICALLY DEFEND THOSE SITUATIONS ALL YOUR LIFE, BUT YOU ARE TO LEARN FROM THEM THROUGH THEIR POSITIVES AND NEGATIVES. THEN, YOU ARE TO GROW BEYOND THEM TO A MORE UNIVERSAL THOUGHT PATTERN. IT IS POSSIBLE THAT IF YOU DO NOT GROW BEYOND THEM, YOU WILL RETURN AGAIN TO A DIFFERENT SET OF CIRCUMSTANCES SO THAT YOU CAN GROW BEYOND THEM. TO STAGNATE IN ANY OF THE SITUATIONS THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO WILL LIMIT YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND YOU WILL ASSUREDLY RETURN TO THE SAME SITUATIONS, MAYBE IN DIFFERENT FORMS, THE NEXT TIME AROUND. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3622
LOVE: WHEN PEOPLE TALK ABOUT LOVE, YOU HAVE TO DETERMINE WHETHER THEY ARE MAINLY TALKING ABOUT PHYSICAL LOVE, SPIRITUAL LOVE, CULTURAL LOVE, INTELLECTUAL LOVE, OR A COMBINATION OF ALL OF THEM; HOWEVER, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR ONE TO DETERMINE WHAT IS ONE’S PRIMARY FOCUS IN ANY POTENTIAL ON GOING RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3623
LOVE: JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE SAYS THAT HE OR SHE LOVES YOU, YOU HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO LOVE BACK; HOWEVER, YOU CAN CREATE A WONDERFUL FRIENDSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3624
LOVE: WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE FEEL THAT BECAUSE THEY SAY THAT LOVE SOMEONE; THEREFORE, THAT PERSON HAS TO LOVE THEM BACK. WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE HIM/HER, IT IS A GAMBLE. HOW SOMEONE RESPONDS TO YOUR EXPRESSION OF LOVE IS A LESSON FOR YOU ABOUT HER/HIS CHARACTER AND PERSONALITY. OF COURSE, IF YOUR EXPRESSION OF LOVE IS ACCEPTED, THERE IS JOY. IF YOUR EXPRESSION OF LOVE IS REJECTED, THE IMPORTANT THING IS HOW YOUR LOVE WAS REJECTED. IF HE/SHE COMPASSIONATELY REJECTS YOUR LOVE, YOU KNOW THAT SHE/HE IS A KIND COMPASSIONATE PERSON. IF HE/SHE REJECTS YOUR LOVE WITH FEELINGS OF CONTEMPT, THEN YOU KNOW THE CHARACTER AND PERSONALITY OF THAT PERSON. THESE ARE ALL GOOD KARMIC LESSONS. YOU JUST HAVE TO LISTEN TO THEM AND LEARN FROM THEM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3617 TO 3620

MY THOUGHTS 3617
LOVE: YOUR BIOLOGICAL URGES(LOVE) WILL CHANGE DUE TO HORMONAL CHANGES, AGING, PHYSICAL ACCIDENTS, MEDICATIONS, AND SOCIAL CONDITIONS. YOUR EMOTIONAL LOVE IS UNSTABLE AND IS LIKE A MONKEY IN A CAGE. IT WILL EVENTUALLY REACH OUT TO WHEREVER THERE IS GRATIFICATION TO BE HAD. IT IS YOUR MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL COMMITMENT THAT CAN TRANSCEND THE PROBLEMS IN A RELATIONSHIP AND KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP ON COURSE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3618
FAMILY: THE MAJOR CHALLENGE TO ANY RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY TODAY IS MASS MEDIA CONSUMERISM. THE DESIRE FOR MATERIAL THINGS OVERSHADOWS THE NEEDS FOR FAMILY UNITY AND RELATIONSHIP UNITY. ONE MUST FIND A BALANCE BETWEEN FAMILY MEMBERS SOCIAL NEEDS AND THE NEEDS OF THE FAMILY AS A UNIT. TODAY FAMILY LEADERS CAN NO LONGER DICTATE THE DECISIONS OF FAMILY MEMBERS. DEMOCRACY HAS COME TO FAMILIES AND HAS LEVELED THE PLAYING FIELD BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN. PARENTS HAVE TO DEMONSTRATE THAT THE FAMILY IS AN OASIS IN THE MASS MEDIA SOCIETY WHICH HAS BEOME/IS BECOMING A HUMAN DESERT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3619
QUESTION 368: WHY ARE SO MANY PEOPLE PREPARING TO STAY HERE PERMANENTLY AND BUILDING MONUMENTS TO THEMSELVES OR THEIR BELIEFS WHEN THIS IS REALLY A TEMPORAL PLACE? ISN’T NATURE DEMONSTRATING TO THEM EVERY DAY THROUGH TORNADOES, HURRICANES, WEATHER CHANGES, TSUNAMIS, VOLCANOES, AND EARTHQUAKES THAT THIS IS REALLY A TEMPORARY PLACE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3620
QUESTION 369: IS IT POSSIBLE THAT YOU ARE BORN INTO A PARTICULAR CULTURE, INTO A PARTICULAR FAITH, INTO A PARTICULAR ETHNICITY, INTO A PARTICULAR SOCIAL SYSTEM SO THAT YOU CAN GROW BEYOND IT? IS IT POSSIBLE THAT THOSE SITUATIONS THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO ARE YOUR SCHOOLS FOR LEARNING A PARTICULAR SPIRITUALITY ON THIS LEVEL, AND THAT YOU ARE TO GROW BEYOND THOSE SITUATIONS TO A MORE UNIVERSAL SPIRITUALITY? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3613 TO 3616

MY THOUGHTS 3613
LOVE: WHEN LOVE IS GIVEN FREELY, IT IS A PURE LOVE. IF YOU HAVE TO BEG, PLEAD, OR BARGAIN FOR IT, IT IS NOT A PRISTINE LOVE. IT IS A TEMPORARY PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, OR ECONOMIC CONTRACT THAT WILL EXPIRE WHEN THE PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, OR ECONOMIC NEEDS CHANGE. IT IS BETTER NOT TO CONFUSE ATTRACTIONS WITH LOVE. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTRACTIONS AND LOVE, YOU CAN SAFELY DISTINGUISH FLIRTATIOUS RELATIONSHIPS FROM PRISTINE LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3614
LOVE: WHEN YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE WITH HIGH EXPECTATIONS OF ACCEPTANCE, YOU WILL BE HURT IF REJECTED. IF YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE WITH A PREFERENCE OF BEING ACCEPTED, YOU WILL ONLY BE DISAPPOINTED IF REJECTED. A REJECTION COULD MEAN THAT THE COSMOS HAS A BETTER PARTNER IN MIND FOR YOU. KEEP IN MIND THAT PAST RELATIONSHIPS COULD HAVE BEEN TEST RUNS TO MATURE YOU SO THAT YOU CAN HANDLE A TRULY MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3615
REJECTION: REJECTION WILL CREATE ONE OF TWO RESPONSES WITHIN YOU. YOU WILL EITHER ACCEPT THE REJECTION OR YOU WILL RESENT THE REJECTION. YOU MAY TRY AGAIN; HOWEVER, JUST LIKE IN BASEBALL YOU HAVE THREE STRIKES. IF YOU ARE REJECTED THE THIRD TIME, STOP! IT IS TIME TO RE-CENTER, RE-FOCUS, AND RE-DIRECT YOUR PARTNER QUEST SO THAT YOU WILL BE READY FOR A TRUE PARTNER WHEN HE/SHE APPEARS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3616
LOVE: PURE LOVE CAN ONLY COME TO YOU THROUGH FREE WILL, NOT THROUGH PRESSURE, NOT THROUGH INTIMIDATION, NOT THROUGH PERSISTENCE, AND NOT THROUGH ELIMINATING THE COMPETITION. DO NOT CONFUSE BIOLOGICAL URGES WITH PURE LOVE. THE BIOLOGICAL URGES MAY BRING YOU TOGETHER BUT MAY NOT KEEP YOU TOGETHER. IT IS THE MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL LOVE THAT WILL KEEP YOU TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3609 TO 3612

MY THOUGHTS 3609
GROWTH: DO YOU REALIZE THAT WHEN YOU BECOME TOTALLY DEPENDENT UPON YOUR TEACHER FOR EVERY ACTION IN YOUR LIFE. YOU HAVE LIMITED HIS/HER SPIRITUAL GROWTH BECAUSE THAT TEACHER HAS TO STAY WHERE HE IS SPIRITUALLY IN ORDER TO TAKE CARE OF YOU. WHEN YOU INCORPORATE YOUR TEACHER’S LESSONS INTO YOUR LIFE AND YOU CAN MOVE ON INDEPENDENTLY ON YOUR OWN, YOU ARE SHOWING TRUE RESPECT FOR THAT TEACHER. YOUR KARMIC CHOICES ARE TO STAGNATE ON ONE SPIRITUAL LEVEL OR TO GROW BEYOND THAT LEVEL TO HONOR YOUR TEACHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3610
TEACHERS: ANY TEACHER WHO LIMITS YOU FROM GROWING BEYOND HIS OWN TEACHINGS AND BEING INDEPENDENT IS NOT A TRUE SPIRITUAL TEACHER. HE/SHE IS A POWER SEEKER SEEKING POWER THROUGH CONTROLLING YOU AND OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3611
LOVE LOST: WHEN A LOVE IS LOST, IT IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU TO FIND A MORE SUITABLE LOVE. IT IS A COSMIC GIFT AND OPPORTUNITY TO RE-SET YOUR LIFE’S LOVE PATH. THE PAIN ASSOCIATED WITH A LOST LOVE IS ACTUALLY A LESSON FOR YOU TO BE MORE CAREFUL THE NEXT TIME YOU CHOOSE TO PARTNER WITH SOMEONE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3612
CONTROL: THE VIOLENCE CREATED BY RELIGIOUS PEOPLE, POLITICAL PEOPLE, AND INSECURE PEOPLE IS A SPIRITUAL LESSON FOR EVERYONE. EXTREMISM IN ANY FORM IS NON-SPIRITUAL AND IS DESTRUCTIVE. EXTREMISM DEMONSTRATES THE INSECURITIES OF THOSE GROUPS. FOR THE RELIGIONISTS, FOR THE POLITICIANS, AND THE INSECURE ONES, IT DEMONSTRATES THEIR INSECURITY AND LACK OF FAITH IN THEIR SYSTEMS. ONE CANNOT FORCE SOMEONE TO LOVE OR RESPECT ONE’S GOD, ONE’S POLITICAL SYSTEM, AND ONE’S CULTURE THROUGH VIOLENCE. ONE MAY CONTROL THE BODIES AND THE SPOKEN WORDS OF PEOPLE ONE CONTROLS; HOWEVER, ONE CANNOT CONTROL THE INNER THOUGHTS OF ANY PERSON. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3605 TO 3608

MY THOUGHTS 3605
YOU: AT THIS PRESENT MOMENT YOU ARE THE TOTALITY OF WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR PAST AND WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU AT THIS MOMENT. WHO YOU ARE IN THE FUTURE IS YET TO BE DETERMINED. IF YOU TURN YOUR NEGATIVES OF THE PAST INTO POSITIVES YOU WILL HAVE A CONTENT PRESENT. IF YOU ALLOW THOSE NEGATIVES TO EAT AWAY AT YOUR SOUL, THEN YOU WILL HAVE AN UNHAPPY PRESENT. SELF REFLECTION SHOULD BE A DAILY TASK DONE THROUGH MEDITATION, LOOKING IN THE MIRROR AT THE ‘REAL YOU’, OR BEING AT ONE WITH NATURE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3606
TEACHERS: THE GREATEST GIFT AND THE GREATEST RESPECT THAT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER IS TO FOLLOW HIS/HER TEACHINGS AND TO BECOME AN INDEPENDENT THINKER. WHEN YOU CAN WALK YOUR PATH WITHOUT DEPENDING ON YOUR TEACHER’S SUPPORT YOU HAVE TRULY GROWN SPIRITUALLY AND YOU HAVE RELEASED YOUR TEACHER FROM THE OBLIGATIONS OF TAKING CARE OF YOU. YOU WILL HAVE GIVEN YOUR TEACHER THE FREEDOM TO RETURN TO HER/HIS COSMIC HOME. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3607
QUESTION 367: CAN YOU DEFINE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LEARNING FROM A TEACHER AND DEPENDING ON THE TEACHER? DO YOU NOT BELIEVE LEARNING FROM YOUR TEACHER, GROWING BEYOND YOUR TEACHER, AND WALKING YOUR OWN PATH THE ULTIMATE SIGN OF RESPECT FOR YOUR TEACHER? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3608
TEACHERS: A GREAT TEACHER IS ONE WHO TEACHES YOU TO STAND ON YOUR OWN AND TO BE DEPENDENT ON NO ONE FOR YOUR SPIRITUALITY. WHEN YOU GROW BEYOND YOUR TEACHER, YOU SHOW THE ULTIMATE RESPECT FOR THAT TEACHER. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3601 TO 3604

MY THOUGHTS 3601
QUESTION 366: DO YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR UNIQUENESS WITHIN YOUR FAMILY, WITHIN YOUR CULTURE, WITHIN YOUR ETHNICITY, AND WITHIN YOUR FAITH? HAVE YOU LEARNED HOW TO MAINTAIN THE UNIQUENESS OF ‘YOU’ AND YET BE PART OF THE WHOLE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3602
YOU VERSUS THE GROUP: ONE KEY TO YOUR SPIRITUALITY IS TO FIND A BALANCE BETWEEN THE UNIQUENESS OF ‘YOU’ AND YOUR OBLIGATIONS TO YOUR GROUP. AS YOU REACH HIGHER LEVELS OF SPIRITUALITY YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF SEPARATING MORE FROM YOUR GROUP. THAT EVENTUAL SEPARATION SHOULD BE DONE BY SHARING YOUR WISDOM AND BY RESPECTFULLY SHOWING COMPASSION FOR THE GROUP THAT YOU BELONG TO. ONE SHOULD NEVER LEAVE ONE’S GROUP WITH ANY FEELING OF CONTEMPT. IF ONE DOES SHOW CONTEMPT; IT IS NOT SPIRITUALITY THAT IS DRIVING YOU, BUT IT IS SELFISHNESS. WHEN ONE EVENTUALLY SEPARATES FROM ONE’S GROUP, ONE MUST ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR FORMER POSITION WITHIN ONE’S GROUP AND HOW IT HAD HELPED YOU TO LEARN AND GROW. ANY SEPARATION FROM ANY GROUP SHOULD BE DONE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3603
YOU VERSUS THE GROUP: ONE PROBLEM TODAY IS THAT WHEN SOMEONE OUTGROWS ONE’S GROUP, THAT PERSON MAY EMPHASIZE THE SEPARATION BY SHOWING CONTEMPT OR DISDAIN FOR ONE’S FORMER GROUP. THAT ATTITUDE IS NOT A SPIRITUAL ATTITUDE. THIS IS THE GREATEST MISTAKE OF ANY CONVERSION. IF ONE CONVERTS TO A DIFFERENT FAITH, ADOPTS A DIFFERENT CULTURE, OR CHANGES POLITICAL PHILOSOPHY, ONE SHOULD NEVER SHOW CONTEMPT FOR WHERE ONE CAME FROM. YOUR PAST IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF YOU. HOW CAN ONE HATE WHAT IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF ONE’S ESSENCE! EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3604
YOU: EVERY EVENT IN YOUR LIFE, WHETHER NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE, BECOMES PART OF THE TOTAL PICTURE OF YOU. YOUR LIFE’S PAINTING ISN’T FINISHED UNTIL YOUR SPIRIT LEAVES YOUR BODY. WHEN YOU TURN THOSE NEGATIVE DARK SPOTS IN YOUR PICTURE OF LIFE INTO POSITIVES YOU CAN PUT A BRIGHT COLOR WITHIN THAT DARKNESS TO SHOW THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED A POSITIVE LESSON FROM THAT NEGATIVE EVENT. MEANWHILE, COMPLETE YOUR PICTURE OF YOUR LIFE WITH BRIGHTER COLORS BY MAKING LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, RESPECTFULLY CHOICES WITHOUT INTENTIONAL HARMING ANYONE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3597 TO 3600

MY THOUGHTS 3597
UNDERSTANDING VERSUS TOLERANCE: ‘UNDERSTANDING’ OTHER CULTURES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITHS MEANS THAT YOU RECOGNIZE AND ACCEPT THEIR RIGHT TO BE DIFFERENT WITH NO ANIMOSITY TOWARDS THEM. YOU ARE ALSO WILLING TO EXCHANGE IDEAS WITH THEM. WHEN YOU ‘TOLERATE’ OTHER CULTURES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITHS IT MEANS THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE THE DIFFERENCES BUT WILL LIVE WITH THEM FOR THE TIME BEING. UNDERSTANDING DEMONSTRATES RESPECT FOR ‘OTHERS’ AND CAN CREATE HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER, TOLERATION DEMONSTRATES A RESENTMENT THAT CAN LEAD TO CONTEMPT, CAN LEAD TO SEGREGATION, AND CAN EVENTUALLY LEAD TO PHYSICAL CONFLICT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3598
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN STARTING OR RE-EVALUATING A RELATIONSHIP, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR THE PARTNERS TO ACCEPT EACH OTHER’S PAST WITHOUT LIVING IN THOSE PASTS. THOSE PARTNERS CAME/ARE COMING TOGETHER BECAUSE OF THEIR PASTS. HOWEVER, PARTNERS SHOULD NOT ABUSE EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF THEIR PASTS. ANYONE WHO IS STILL LIVING IN HER/HIS PAST SHOULD NOT SEEK A NEW RELATIONSHIP UNTIL HE/SHE IS READY TO LIVE IN THE PRESENT WITHOUT THE GHOSTS OF HER/HIS PAST DOMINATING HIS/HER THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3599
FAITH: IT IS IMPORTANT FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL TO GO INWARD AND DISCOVER WHAT HIS/HER FAITH REALLY MEANS TO HER HIM IN A MORAL CONTEXT. BE WARY OF POLITICIANS, ECONOMISTS, AND POWER SEEKERS WHO WANT TO USE YOUR FAITH AS A TOOL TO GAIN POWER OVER YOU AND YOUR THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3600
FAITH: YOU CANNOT BE INSULTED BY WHAT YOU DO NOT FEAR. THEREFORE, GOD CANNOT BE THREATENED BY HIS/HER CREATIONS. GOD DOES NOT NEED ANYONE TO PROTECT HER/HIS HONOR. ALL ONE NEEDS TO DO IS TO FOLLOW THE PRECEPTS OF ONES FAITH WITH RESPECT FOR ONE’S CREATOR AND FOR WHAT THE CREATOR HAS CREATED. IT IS THE CREATOR ALONE WHO MUST SEEK RETRIBUTION IF THERE IS NEED TO DO SO. IT IS NOT THE DUTY OF THE FAITHFUL TO SECOND GUESS THE CREATOR AND DESTROY THE CREATOR’S CREATIONS IN HIS/HER NAME. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3593 TO 3596

MY THOUGHTS 3593
ANGER: WHEN YOU ENTER A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH ANGER TOWARDS A PAST LOVE, YOU WILL HAVE BROUGHT ‘A TOXIC YOU’ INTO THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP. YOU WILL EVENTUALLY RELEASE THAT TOXIC ANGER OUT TOWARDS YOUR NEW LOVE AND POISON THAT RELATIONSHIP. WHY SHOULD ANY FUTURE / PRESENT LOVE BE PUNISHED FOR THE TRANSGRESSIONS OF A FORMER LOVE. ONE SHOULD DEAL WITH THEIR PAST ISSUES COMPLETELY, LEARN FROM THOSE ISSUES IN A POSITIVE WAY, AND GET ON WITH ONE’S LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3594
LOVE: WHEN YOU RESOLVE THE ISSUES OF A PAST LOVE, YOU ARE TRULY OPEN TO ATTRACTING SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU FOR ‘YOU’. THE TIME TO LOOK FOR A NEW LOVE IS WHEN YOU NO LONGER FEEL LIKE A VICTIM OF A PAST SITUATION. WHEN YOU NO LONGER FEEL LIKE A VICTIM, IT MEANS THAT YOU HAVE DEALT WITH THE ISSUES, YOU HAVE LEARNED POSITIVE LESSONS FROM THEM, AND THAT YOU ARE READY TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3595
QUESTION 364: HOW MANY OF YOU ARE WILLING TO LIVE WITH SOMEONE WHOSE HEART AND MIND ARE FOCUSED MOSTLY ON A PAST LOVE? HOW MANY OF YOUR ARE WILLING TO PLAY “SECOND FIDDLE” TO YOUR POTENTIAL PARTNER’S PAST LOVE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3696
QUESTION 365: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCES IN CULTURES, PHILOSOPHIES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITH, OR DO YOU TOLERATE THE DIFFERENCES IN CULTURES, PHILOSOPHIES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITH? DO YOU COMPREHEND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN UNDERSTANDING AND TOLERATING? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3589 TO 3592

MY THOUGHTS 3589
QUESTION 363: IF YOU ARE WIDOWED AND YOU STILL HAVE LONGINGS FOR YOUR LOST PARTNER, IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE. HOWEVER, IF YOUR PARTNER HAS DUMPED YOU AND YOU STILL HAVE UNCONTROLLABLE LONGINGS FOR THAT FORMER PARTNER, YOU MUST GO INWARD AND RE-EVALUATE THOSE LONGINGS. HOW MUCH OF ‘YOU’ HAVE YOU SURRENDERED TO THE OTHER PERSON IN THE NAME OF LOVE? WHEN DID YOU STOP BEING ‘YOU’ TO HAVE THAT PERSON’S AFFECTION? ARE YOU MASOCHISTIC? ARE YOUR PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL GRATIFICATIONS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR PERSONAL INTEGRITY AND YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3590
REJECTION: WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO LIVE A LIFE OF LONG-TERM SUFFERING OVER A PARTNER WHO HAS REJECTED HIM/HER! THAT REJECTION MAY BE A COSMIC GIFT TO THAT PERSON SO THAT THAT INDIVIDUAL CAN FIND A MORE COMPATIBLE PERSON TO BE WITH. ONE SHOULD STOP WALLOWING IN ONE’S PAST AND START LISTENING TO ONE’S INNER COSMIC VOICES SO THAT ONE CAN GET ON WITH ONE’S LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3591
SENIORS: SENIORS, IT IS TIME TO KEEP YOUR BODY AND MIND IN PEAK HEALTH AND TO LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST. IT IS TIME TO START PRACTICING PREVENTATIVE MEDICINE BY DOING EXERCISES APPROPRIATE FOR YOU AND EATING HEALTHY. TO DO THIS, START SPENDING YOUR CHILDREN’S INHERITANCE. WHY, BECAUSE THE GOVERNMENT WILL TAKE MOST OF IT AWAY IN TAXES AND THE REST WILL BE USED TO PAY OFF YOUR ENORMOUS MEDICAL BILLS CREATED BY AN UNHEALTHY YOU. IN TODAY’S CONSUMER WORLD, THOSE MEDICAL BILLS WILL CAUSE SUCH ECONOMIC BURDENS ON YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN THAT MAY DENY THEM THEIR OWN DREAMS. THUS, YOU SHOULD START PRACTICING PREVENTATIVE MEDICINE SO THAT YOU CAN BE THERE TO ADVISE YOUR LOVED ONES IN THEIR TIMES OF NEED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3592
LOVE: THOSE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE WHILE COMPLAINING ABOUT A PAST LOVE WILL ONLY ATTRACT A ‘RESCUER’ WHO IS SEEKING TO HELP A ‘VICTIM’. THIS COULD BE THE BASIS FOR A FRIENDSHIP, BUT IT IS NOT THE BASIS OF A LIFE-LONG LOVE RELATIONSHIP. WHY, BECAUSE WHEN EITHER ONE NO LONGER FEEL LIKE A RESCUER OR A VICTIM, THE DYNAMICS OF THE RELATION CHANGES DRASTICALLY. ONE OR THE OTHER WILL FEEL TRAPPED IN A NEEDY RELATIONSHIP AND WILL EVENTUALLY WANT TO ESCAPE. IT IS BEST TO SOLVE ONE’S ISSUES WITH A PAST LOVE BEFORE STARTING A NEW ADVENTURE IN LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3585 TO 3588

MY THOUGHTS 3585
QUESTION 362: DO PEOPLE MAKE HISTORY, OR DOES HISTORY PROVIDE OPPORTUNITY FOR PEOPLE TO BECOME FAMOUS OR INFAMOUS? ARE THE HEROES IN YOUR SOCIETY GREAT BECAUSE THEY PERSONALLY ARE GREAT, OR DID HISTORICAL CIRCUMSTANCES PROVIDE OPPORTUNITIES FOR THEM TO BE GREAT? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3586
RELATIONSHIPS: RELATIONSHIPS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE BASED ON THE PARTNERS MUTUAL AGREEMENT OF LOYALTY AND FIDELITY. WHY DOES ONE PARTNER BLAME A THIRD PERSON FOR THEIR PARTNERS BETRAYALS IN THE RELATIONSHIP? THAT THIRD PERSON MAY ALSO BE A VICTIM OF YOUR PARTNERS DECEPTION. IF YOU CHOOSE TO HATE THE PERSON WHO ATTRACTS YOUR PARTNER AWAY, THEN YOU SHOULD HATE ALL MEN OR WOMEN OF THAT PERSON’S SEX. THE PROBLEM IS NOT SOMEONE BEING ATTRACTED TO YOUR PARTNER. THE PROBLEM IS YOUR PARTNER REACTING TO THAT PERSON’S ATTRACTION IN THE WAY THAT CAUSES DISLOYALTY. YOU WERE ATTRACTED TO YOUR PARTNER; THEREFORE, OTHERS WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOUR PARTNER, TOO. THE REAL PROBLEM THAT YOU HAVE IS HOW YOUR PARTNER HANDLES THOSE ATTRACTIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3587
TRUST: WHEN A PARTNER SHOWS SIGNS OF STARTING TO STRAY FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIP, IT IS TIME TO GO INWARD AND ASK YOURSELF WHETHER A VACUUM HAS BEEN CREATED IN THE RELATIONSHIP. THEN YOU MUST QUESTION THE MOTIVATION OF YOUR PARTNER AND ANY POSSIBLE CONTRIBUTIONS THAT YOU MAY HAVE MADE TO THAT MOTIVATION. IF YOU ARE NOT SATISFIED THE ANSWERS, THE NEXT QUESTION IS WHETHER CONTINUING THE RELATIONSHIP IS VALID OPTION, OR WHETHER YOU CAN RE-ESTABLISH A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT LOOSING THE BASICS OF TRUST. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3588
TRUST: A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT TRUST IS NOT A TRUE RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU ARE LIVING WITH SOMEONE AND YOU HAVE A CONSTANT FEAR THAT SOMETHING NEGATIVE IS GOING TO HAPPEN WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP, IT IS BETTER TO TERMINATE THE RELATIONSHIP AND RE-EVALUATE WHAT A RELATIONSHIP MEANS TO YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE DETERMINED THAT, THEN YOU CAN SEEK TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHOM YOU CAN TRUST AND RELATE TO WITHOUT ANY FEAR. REMEMBER THAT TRUST IS LIKE A MIRROR. WHEN YOU BREAK IT, YOU MAY PUT IT BACK TOGETHER, BUT THE IMAGE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3581 TO 3584

MY THOUGHTS 3581
PAIN: LOVE DOES NOT HURT ANYONE. IT IS THE FAILED EXPECTATIONS OF LOVE THAT HURTS THE INDIVIDUAL. CHANGE YOUR EXPECTATIONS TO PREFERENCES. WHEN YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH PREFERENCES, YOU ALWAYS HAVE OPTIONS. WHEN YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH EXPECTATIONS, EVENTUALLY MANY OF THOSE EXPECTATIONS WILL BECOME DEMANDS. WHEN THOSE DEMANDS ARE NOT MET, THEY WILL CAUSE MANY UNNECESSARY EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3582
RELATIONSHIPS: AS YOU WALK YOUR PATH IN LIFE, YOU WILL ENCOUNTER MANY INFATUATIONS / LOVES THAT ARE LIFE’S LESSONS TO TEACH YOU HOW YOU FEEL AND HOW YOU REACT TO EMOTIONAL SITUATIONS. THEY ARE PREPARATIONS FOR THE GRANDER SCHEME OF A LASTING PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL BOND. MANY INFATUATIONS/LOVES THAT YOU HAVE WILL SATISFY SOME OF, OR MOST OF, YOUR PHYSICAL AND/OR EMOTIONAL NEEDS. THESE ARE NOT SOLID BASES FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. A REALISTIC LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES A BALANCE OF BOTH PARTNERS’ SPIRITUAL NEEDS, EMOTIONAL NEEDS, AND PHYSICAL NEEDS TOGETHER WITH A SERIES OF COMMON GOALS IN LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3583
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP THE PHYSICAL NEEDS AND THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS THAT ONE HAS WILL CHANGE BASED ON ONE’S SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT AND EACH PARTNER’S BIOLOGICAL CHANGES AS TIME PROGRESSES. THEREFORE, ONE’S PHYSICAL AND/OR EMOTIONAL NEEDS ARE BASED THE FLUCTUATIONS IN EACH PARTNER’S SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT AND EACH PARTNER’S BIOLOGICAL ADJUSTMENTS. THE CATALYSTS THAT HOLD THE RELATIONSHIPS TOGETHER ARE THE PARTNERS’ COMMON GOALS AND THEIR SPIRITUAL CONNECTIONS TO EACH OTHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3584
FAMILY: PARENTS COMPLAIN THAT THEIR CHILDREN SPEND MOST THEIR TIME ON PHONES/GADGETS OF ALL KINDS TO ESCAPE THE FAMILY. ACTUALLY THE PARENTS DO THE SAME IN DIFFERENT WAYS. MANY MEN ESCAPE INTO SPORTS, EXTREME SPORTS, SUPER HEROES, GAMES, AND VEHICLES WHICH ARE LABELLED AS “DOING THE MAN THING.” WOMEN ESCAPE INTO “COMMUNITY SERVICES,” “SOAP OPERAS,” “REALITY TV,” OR ROMANCE NOVELS/ DRAMAS “DOING THE WOMAN THING.” THOSE ACTIVITIES ARE MOSTLY DONE SEPARATELY, NOT DONE JOINTLY. BOTH PARENTS KNOWINGLY / UNKNOWINGLY, AND THE CHILDREN, ARE AVOIDING INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH EACH OTHER. THE PROBLEM IS THAT THOSE ESCAPES BECOME THE REALITIES OF THOSE INDIVIDUALS, NOT THEIR FAMILIES. THUS, THE RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN HUSBAND-AND-WIFE BECOMES ESTRANGED AND THE GAP GETS WIDER BETWEEN THE CHILDREN AND THEIR PARENTS. IT’S TIME TO GET BACK TO HAVING MUTUALLY AGREED TO FAMILY DINNERS AND FAMILY COMMUNICATION TIMES. DURING THOSE TIMES, ALL COMMUNICATION DEVICES SHOULD BE TURNED OFF. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3577 TO 3580

MY THOUGHTS 3577
QUESTION 361: IF YOU HAD THE CHOICE OF SPENDING A WHOLE EVENING WITH A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS PERSON, A MEGASTAR, OR AN ENLIGHTENED TEACHER; WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3578
GOALS: REMEMBER THAT YOUR GOAL IS TO BE A BETTER YOU EACH DAY. YOU MAY GLEAN FROM THE THOUGHTS OF OTHERS. HOWEVER, YOU MUST ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT YOU ARE CONSTANTLY EVOLVING. THAT IS, IF MAKE GOOD KARMIC CHOICES YOU WILL EVOLVE. IF YOU MAKE BAD KARMIC CHOICES YOU WILL STAGNATE OR EVEN DE-VOLVE. EITHER WAY, YOU ARE IN THE PROCESS OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH. YOU ARE EITHER FOLLOWING THE STANDARD PATH OR TAKING A DETOUR FOR SPECIAL LESSONS NEEDED. ENJOY THE JOURNEY OF YOUR CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3579
TRUTH: TRUTH IS NOT A FACT! TRUTH IS AN INDIVIDUAL’S, A CULTURE’S, AN ETHNIC GROUP’S, OR A FAITH’S PERCEPTION OF THEIR REALITY. IF ONE FEELS THAT ONE’S FAITH’S TRUTH HAD BEEN OFFENDED, THEN LET YOUR FAITH’S GOD DO THE AVENGING, NOT YOU. WHY, BECAUSE YOU MAY HAVE A FALSE INTERPRETATION OF YOUR GOD’S TRUTH. SINCE GOD CREATED ALL CREATIONS ACCORDING TO EVERY FAITH, HOW CAN HE/SHE BE OFFENDED BY ANYTHING THAT HER/HIS CREATIONS HAVE DONE. COULD IT BE THAT SOMEONE’S SO-CALLED BLASPHEMY IS REALLY YOUR GOD TESTING THE STRENGTH OF ‘YOUR’ FAITH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3580
SUGGESTION: WHEN STARTING A NEW RELATIONSHIP OR SERIOUSLY DATING SOMEONE, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE AWARE OF WHETHER THAT PERSON TRULY WANTS TO SHARE THEIR LIFE WITH YOU, OR WHETHER THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO BE DEPENDENT ON EMOTIONALLY AND/OR ECONOMICALLY. ONE WAY TO TO TEST THIS IS TO ASK HIM/HER FOR THEIR CREDIT REPORT. IF SHE/HE IS SHOCKED, THEN YOU SHOLD WALK AWAY POLITELY AND COMPASSIONATELY BECAUSE YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER. NO, IT IS NOT ROMANTIC. HOWEVER, IT COULD OPEN DOORS TO A MORE LOVING AND SHARING RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3573 TO 3576

MY THOUGHTS 3573
SHAME VERSUS GUILT: SHAME IS WHEN ONE FEELS EMBARRASSED ABOUT A FAILURE TO PERFORM ONE’S RECOGNIZED SKILLS OR UNINTENTIONALLY FAILS TO PERFORM ONE’S PUBLIC RESPONSIBILITY. GUILT IS FELT WHEN ONE HAS OFFENDED SOMEONE THAT ONE HAS GREAT RESPECT FOR OR INTENTIONALLY FAILS TO PERFORM ONE’S PUBLIC RESPONSIBILITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3574
SIN VERSUS CRIME: SIN IS BASICALLY A VIOLATION OF THE CODES OF ONE’S FAITH. CRIME IS THE VIOLATION OF THE CODES OF THE STATE. ONLY IN A THEOCRACY ARE THEY ONE AND THE SAME. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3575
MISSPEAK VERSUS LIES: WHEN ONE MISSPEAKS, ONE BELIEVES THAT ONE IS SPEAKING THE TRUTH, BUT THE INFORMATION WAS NOT CORRECT. WHEN ONE LIES, ONE KNOWS THAT THE INFORMATION IS FALSE AND STILL PRESENTS IT. MISTAKES ARE UNINTENTIONAL AND LIES ARE INTENTIONAL. ONE MUST KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3576
REJECTION: IF YOU FEEL REJECTED BY OTHERS, YOU SHOULD PREPARE TO MOVE ON. THERE ARE OTHERS WHO WOULD BE INTERESTED IN YOU IF YOU WERE OPEN TO IT. THE FIRST SIGN OF REJECTION IS THE TIME TO PREPARE TO MOVE ON TO BETTER THINGS FOR YOU. NO ONE CAN MAKE SOME ONE LOVE HIM/HER. IT JUST IS, OR IT JUST ISN’T. CLOSE THE DOOR TO THOSE WHO REJECT YOU, FOR THEY ARE NOT READY FOR YOU PRESENTLY. OPEN THE DOOR TO SOMEONE WHO WOULD WANT TO BE WITH YOU ALWAYS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3569 TO 3572

MY THOUGHTS 3569
IN TODAY’S WORLD, THE “SOCIAL COOPERATIVE PUBLIC,” HAS BECOME A “COMPETITIVE PUBLIC ARENA” WHERE YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL WITH WHOM AND HOW YOU SHARE IDEAS, EVEN WITH YOUR NEIGHBORS AND CO-WORKERS, BECAUSE OF THE COMPETITION FOR ECONOMIC STABILITY AND GROWTH. FOR EXAMPLE, WHEN YOU WORK FOR SOMEONE OR A COMPANY, YOU REALLY CANNOT SPEAK FREELY ABOUT THE AUTHORITIES AND ABOUT THE MISTAKES THAT THEY ARE MAKING IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR JOB, KEEP YOUR PENSION, AND BE ABLE TO CONTINUE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILIES. HOWEVER, IN THE SECLUSION OF YOUR MIND, YOU CAN ALWAYS WORK ON THINGS THAT NEED TO BE CORRECTED, THINGS THAT NEED TO BE CHANGED, AND THINGS THAT NEED TO BE IMPROVED, YOU CAN DISCUSS THEM FREELY IN YOUR MIND BUT NOT NECESSARILY FREELY IN THE PUBLIC ARENA OR IN YOUR WORK PLACE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3570
” THE MASTER/AUTHORITY” MAY CONTROL YOUR PUBLIC THOUGHTS IN HIS/HER AREA OF CONTROL. HOWEVER WITHIN THE SECURITY OF YOUR OWN MIND YOU ARE FREE TO DANCE, CRY, CRITICIZE, AND LAUGH. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THIS HAPPENS ALSO WITH DOMINEERING LIFE PARTNER’S, DOMINEERING SPOUSES, DOMINEERING BOSSES, DOMINEERING PARENTS, AND EVEN DOMINEERING CHILDREN. THE ONLY PLACE YOUR THOUGHTS CAN BE TRULY YOUR THOUGHTS, NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS, IS IN YOUR INNER MIND. IF YOU WANT TO CONFORM TO SOCIAL NORMS, AND IF YOU GO OUTSIDE OF SOCIAL NORMS, THERE CAN BE MANY NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES. YOU MUST SEEK, AND MAY HAVE TO CONSTANTLY ADJUST, THE BALANCE BETWEEN THE YIN AND YANG OF INDIVIDUALITY AND THE GROUP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3571
POLITICS IS ONE OF THE GREAT CHALLENGES ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. POLITICS PROVIDES A CONSTANT SELECTION OF DIFFICULT KARMIC CHOICES. BEING POLITICAL ALSO ASSURES YOUR ATTACHMENT TO THIS LEVEL. IT OFFERING OF POWER POSITIONS, ADVERSITY, AND ECONOMIC GAINS WILL ONLY INCREASE THE NUMBER OF YOUR INCARNATIONS. A TRULY SPIRITUAL PERSON WILL DETACH HIM/HERSELF FROM POWER POSITIONS, POLITICS, AND CONSUMERISM IN ORDER TO GO INWARD AND SEEK HER/HIS ENLIGHTENMENT. THE LIGHT CREATED BY THE SPIRITUAL PERSON MAY ONLY SHINE FOR HIM/HER BECAUSE IT WILL BE OVER SHADOWED BY OTHERS’ DESIRE FOR POWER AND WEALTH IN THE NAME OF HELPING OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3572
IF YOU FEEL THE NEED, OR THAT IT IS PART OF YOUR KARMIC LESSONS, TO SEEK POWER AND WEALTH. SEEK THE PROs OF POLITICS AND AVOID THE ANTIs OF POLITICS. FOR EXAMPLE, BE PRO-PEACE, NOT ANTI-WAR; BE PRO-HEALTH, NOT ANTI-DRUGS; BE PRO-JUSTICE, NOT ANTI-CRIME. WHICH EVERY YOU GIVE YOUR ENERGY TO WILL GROW IN INTENSITY. AS FOR WEALTH, USE YOUR WEALTH AS A TOOL TO GROW SPIRITUALLY AND TO HELP YOUR FELLOW HUMANS WHO ARE IN NEED. REMEMBER THAT THE ANTI- FOCUS WILL BRINGS OUT THE NEGATIVITIES WITHIN YOU, AND THE PRO- FOCUS WILL BRINGS OUT THE POSITIVES WITHIN YOU. YOUR CHOICE; CHOOSE WELL. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3565 TO 3568

MY THOUGHTS 3565
INTROSPECTION: THE ONLY PLACE WHERE YOU HAVE TOTAL FREEDOM TO FEEL WHATEVER YOU WANT IS IN ‘YOUR PERSONAL INNER WORLD’. THERE YOU CAN TRULY CONNECT WITH THE COSMOS, YOU CAN TRULY WEIGH YOUR THOUGHTS BEFORE REACTING TO ANYTHING, AND YOU CAN LET YOUR CREATIVITY FLOW. YOUR ONLY TRUE OASIS IN THIS MODERN WORLD IS ‘INSIDE OF YOU’ WHERE YOU CAN REFRESH AND RE-ENERGIZE TO MEET THE CHALLENGES OF THE MODERN WORLD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3566
DISASTERS: YOU WILL COME ACROSS MANY DISASTERS IN YOUR LIFETIME. THEY ARE REMINDERS THAT MATERIAL THINGS ARE NOT PERMANENT, THAT ECONOMIC SITUATIONS DO NOT ALWAYS CONTINUE POSITIVELY, AND THAT LIFE DOES NOT GO ON FOREVER AND EVER. DISASTERS ARE TO HELP YOU RE-CENTER, RE-FOCUS, AND RE-EVALUATE YOUR LIFE. THE ONLY WAY TO AVOID THE EFFECTS OF DISASTERS IS TO BE PREPARED MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY, MATERIALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY. YOU MUST BE PREPARED TO SURVIVE ANY DISASTER. IF YOU DO NOT SURVIVE, THE MATERIAL PREPARATIONS YOU HAVE MADE WILL HELP OTHERS. THAT IS A POSITIVE KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3567
THE HUMAN JOURNEY IS A UNIQUE JOURNEY AMONG ALL LIFE FORMS ON THIS PLANET.THE INDIVIDUALITY OF YOU MUST FIND YOUR UNIQUE SELF WITHIN THE SOCIAL ORDER OF HUMANITY. AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST FIND YOUR IMPORTANCE AS PART OF THE WHOLE OF HUMANITY. THE CHALLENGE FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL IS TO FIND HIS/HER BALANCE WITHIN THE YIN AND YANG OF HUMAN INDIVIDUALITY AND HUMAN COMMUNALISM. YOU, AS A UNIQUE INDIVIDUAL, MUST FIND YOUR PLACE AS PART OF THE WHOLE OF HUMANITY AND YOUR UNIQUENESS WITHIN THAT ONENESS OF HUMANITY. YOU MUST FIND THAT PERSONAL BALANCE BETWEEN ATTACHMENT AND DETACHMENT.THE WHOLENESS OF HUMANITY WILL PROVIDE THE KARMIC LESSONS THAT YOUR UNIQUE INDIVIDUALITY MUST LEARN FOR YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3568
YOUR DHARMIC PATH IS THE PATH YOU ARE TO FOLLOW TO LEARN YOUR LESSONS IN THIS LIFE. TODAY MANY ARE UNHAPPY IN LIFE BECAUSE THE ARE TOO BUSY SEEKING TO ACCUMULATE MATERIAL POSSESSIONS INSTEAD OF USING THEM TO GROW SPIRITUALLY. REMEMBER THAT MATERIAL THINGS ARE JUST TOOLS THAT YOU CAN USE TO HELP OTHERS AND FOR YOU TO USE TO GROW SPIRITUALLY. YOU CANNOT TAKE THEM WITH YOU WHEN YOU LEAVE THIS LIFETIME, SO TURN THEM IN TOOLS TO HELP YOU AND OTHERS TO GROW SPIRITUALLY. EmilKoval©2012

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