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Archive for September 15th, 2012

THOUGHTS 3581 TO 3584

MY THOUGHTS 3581
PAIN: LOVE DOES NOT HURT ANYONE. IT IS THE FAILED EXPECTATIONS OF LOVE THAT HURTS THE INDIVIDUAL. CHANGE YOUR EXPECTATIONS TO PREFERENCES. WHEN YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH PREFERENCES, YOU ALWAYS HAVE OPTIONS. WHEN YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE WITH EXPECTATIONS, EVENTUALLY MANY OF THOSE EXPECTATIONS WILL BECOME DEMANDS. WHEN THOSE DEMANDS ARE NOT MET, THEY WILL CAUSE MANY UNNECESSARY EMOTIONAL DISTURBANCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3582
RELATIONSHIPS: AS YOU WALK YOUR PATH IN LIFE, YOU WILL ENCOUNTER MANY INFATUATIONS / LOVES THAT ARE LIFE’S LESSONS TO TEACH YOU HOW YOU FEEL AND HOW YOU REACT TO EMOTIONAL SITUATIONS. THEY ARE PREPARATIONS FOR THE GRANDER SCHEME OF A LASTING PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL BOND. MANY INFATUATIONS/LOVES THAT YOU HAVE WILL SATISFY SOME OF, OR MOST OF, YOUR PHYSICAL AND/OR EMOTIONAL NEEDS. THESE ARE NOT SOLID BASES FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. A REALISTIC LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP REQUIRES A BALANCE OF BOTH PARTNERS’ SPIRITUAL NEEDS, EMOTIONAL NEEDS, AND PHYSICAL NEEDS TOGETHER WITH A SERIES OF COMMON GOALS IN LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3583
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP THE PHYSICAL NEEDS AND THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS THAT ONE HAS WILL CHANGE BASED ON ONE’S SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT AND EACH PARTNER’S BIOLOGICAL CHANGES AS TIME PROGRESSES. THEREFORE, ONE’S PHYSICAL AND/OR EMOTIONAL NEEDS ARE BASED THE FLUCTUATIONS IN EACH PARTNER’S SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT AND EACH PARTNER’S BIOLOGICAL ADJUSTMENTS. THE CATALYSTS THAT HOLD THE RELATIONSHIPS TOGETHER ARE THE PARTNERS’ COMMON GOALS AND THEIR SPIRITUAL CONNECTIONS TO EACH OTHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3584
FAMILY: PARENTS COMPLAIN THAT THEIR CHILDREN SPEND MOST THEIR TIME ON PHONES/GADGETS OF ALL KINDS TO ESCAPE THE FAMILY. ACTUALLY THE PARENTS DO THE SAME IN DIFFERENT WAYS. MANY MEN ESCAPE INTO SPORTS, EXTREME SPORTS, SUPER HEROES, GAMES, AND VEHICLES WHICH ARE LABELLED AS “DOING THE MAN THING.” WOMEN ESCAPE INTO “COMMUNITY SERVICES,” “SOAP OPERAS,” “REALITY TV,” OR ROMANCE NOVELS/ DRAMAS “DOING THE WOMAN THING.” THOSE ACTIVITIES ARE MOSTLY DONE SEPARATELY, NOT DONE JOINTLY. BOTH PARENTS KNOWINGLY / UNKNOWINGLY, AND THE CHILDREN, ARE AVOIDING INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH EACH OTHER. THE PROBLEM IS THAT THOSE ESCAPES BECOME THE REALITIES OF THOSE INDIVIDUALS, NOT THEIR FAMILIES. THUS, THE RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN HUSBAND-AND-WIFE BECOMES ESTRANGED AND THE GAP GETS WIDER BETWEEN THE CHILDREN AND THEIR PARENTS. IT’S TIME TO GET BACK TO HAVING MUTUALLY AGREED TO FAMILY DINNERS AND FAMILY COMMUNICATION TIMES. DURING THOSE TIMES, ALL COMMUNICATION DEVICES SHOULD BE TURNED OFF. EmilKoval©2012

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