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Archive for September 16th, 2012

THOUGHTS 3585 TO 3588

MY THOUGHTS 3585
QUESTION 362: DO PEOPLE MAKE HISTORY, OR DOES HISTORY PROVIDE OPPORTUNITY FOR PEOPLE TO BECOME FAMOUS OR INFAMOUS? ARE THE HEROES IN YOUR SOCIETY GREAT BECAUSE THEY PERSONALLY ARE GREAT, OR DID HISTORICAL CIRCUMSTANCES PROVIDE OPPORTUNITIES FOR THEM TO BE GREAT? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3586
RELATIONSHIPS: RELATIONSHIPS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE BASED ON THE PARTNERS MUTUAL AGREEMENT OF LOYALTY AND FIDELITY. WHY DOES ONE PARTNER BLAME A THIRD PERSON FOR THEIR PARTNERS BETRAYALS IN THE RELATIONSHIP? THAT THIRD PERSON MAY ALSO BE A VICTIM OF YOUR PARTNERS DECEPTION. IF YOU CHOOSE TO HATE THE PERSON WHO ATTRACTS YOUR PARTNER AWAY, THEN YOU SHOULD HATE ALL MEN OR WOMEN OF THAT PERSON’S SEX. THE PROBLEM IS NOT SOMEONE BEING ATTRACTED TO YOUR PARTNER. THE PROBLEM IS YOUR PARTNER REACTING TO THAT PERSON’S ATTRACTION IN THE WAY THAT CAUSES DISLOYALTY. YOU WERE ATTRACTED TO YOUR PARTNER; THEREFORE, OTHERS WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOUR PARTNER, TOO. THE REAL PROBLEM THAT YOU HAVE IS HOW YOUR PARTNER HANDLES THOSE ATTRACTIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3587
TRUST: WHEN A PARTNER SHOWS SIGNS OF STARTING TO STRAY FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIP, IT IS TIME TO GO INWARD AND ASK YOURSELF WHETHER A VACUUM HAS BEEN CREATED IN THE RELATIONSHIP. THEN YOU MUST QUESTION THE MOTIVATION OF YOUR PARTNER AND ANY POSSIBLE CONTRIBUTIONS THAT YOU MAY HAVE MADE TO THAT MOTIVATION. IF YOU ARE NOT SATISFIED THE ANSWERS, THE NEXT QUESTION IS WHETHER CONTINUING THE RELATIONSHIP IS VALID OPTION, OR WHETHER YOU CAN RE-ESTABLISH A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT LOOSING THE BASICS OF TRUST. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3588
TRUST: A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT TRUST IS NOT A TRUE RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU ARE LIVING WITH SOMEONE AND YOU HAVE A CONSTANT FEAR THAT SOMETHING NEGATIVE IS GOING TO HAPPEN WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP, IT IS BETTER TO TERMINATE THE RELATIONSHIP AND RE-EVALUATE WHAT A RELATIONSHIP MEANS TO YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE DETERMINED THAT, THEN YOU CAN SEEK TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHOM YOU CAN TRUST AND RELATE TO WITHOUT ANY FEAR. REMEMBER THAT TRUST IS LIKE A MIRROR. WHEN YOU BREAK IT, YOU MAY PUT IT BACK TOGETHER, BUT THE IMAGE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. EmilKoval©2012

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