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THOUGHTS 3613 TO 3616

MY THOUGHTS 3613
LOVE: WHEN LOVE IS GIVEN FREELY, IT IS A PURE LOVE. IF YOU HAVE TO BEG, PLEAD, OR BARGAIN FOR IT, IT IS NOT A PRISTINE LOVE. IT IS A TEMPORARY PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, OR ECONOMIC CONTRACT THAT WILL EXPIRE WHEN THE PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, OR ECONOMIC NEEDS CHANGE. IT IS BETTER NOT TO CONFUSE ATTRACTIONS WITH LOVE. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTRACTIONS AND LOVE, YOU CAN SAFELY DISTINGUISH FLIRTATIOUS RELATIONSHIPS FROM PRISTINE LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3614
LOVE: WHEN YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE WITH HIGH EXPECTATIONS OF ACCEPTANCE, YOU WILL BE HURT IF REJECTED. IF YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE WITH A PREFERENCE OF BEING ACCEPTED, YOU WILL ONLY BE DISAPPOINTED IF REJECTED. A REJECTION COULD MEAN THAT THE COSMOS HAS A BETTER PARTNER IN MIND FOR YOU. KEEP IN MIND THAT PAST RELATIONSHIPS COULD HAVE BEEN TEST RUNS TO MATURE YOU SO THAT YOU CAN HANDLE A TRULY MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3615
REJECTION: REJECTION WILL CREATE ONE OF TWO RESPONSES WITHIN YOU. YOU WILL EITHER ACCEPT THE REJECTION OR YOU WILL RESENT THE REJECTION. YOU MAY TRY AGAIN; HOWEVER, JUST LIKE IN BASEBALL YOU HAVE THREE STRIKES. IF YOU ARE REJECTED THE THIRD TIME, STOP! IT IS TIME TO RE-CENTER, RE-FOCUS, AND RE-DIRECT YOUR PARTNER QUEST SO THAT YOU WILL BE READY FOR A TRUE PARTNER WHEN HE/SHE APPEARS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3616
LOVE: PURE LOVE CAN ONLY COME TO YOU THROUGH FREE WILL, NOT THROUGH PRESSURE, NOT THROUGH INTIMIDATION, NOT THROUGH PERSISTENCE, AND NOT THROUGH ELIMINATING THE COMPETITION. DO NOT CONFUSE BIOLOGICAL URGES WITH PURE LOVE. THE BIOLOGICAL URGES MAY BRING YOU TOGETHER BUT MAY NOT KEEP YOU TOGETHER. IT IS THE MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL LOVE THAT WILL KEEP YOU TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3609 TO 3612

MY THOUGHTS 3609
GROWTH: DO YOU REALIZE THAT WHEN YOU BECOME TOTALLY DEPENDENT UPON YOUR TEACHER FOR EVERY ACTION IN YOUR LIFE. YOU HAVE LIMITED HIS/HER SPIRITUAL GROWTH BECAUSE THAT TEACHER HAS TO STAY WHERE HE IS SPIRITUALLY IN ORDER TO TAKE CARE OF YOU. WHEN YOU INCORPORATE YOUR TEACHER’S LESSONS INTO YOUR LIFE AND YOU CAN MOVE ON INDEPENDENTLY ON YOUR OWN, YOU ARE SHOWING TRUE RESPECT FOR THAT TEACHER. YOUR KARMIC CHOICES ARE TO STAGNATE ON ONE SPIRITUAL LEVEL OR TO GROW BEYOND THAT LEVEL TO HONOR YOUR TEACHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3610
TEACHERS: ANY TEACHER WHO LIMITS YOU FROM GROWING BEYOND HIS OWN TEACHINGS AND BEING INDEPENDENT IS NOT A TRUE SPIRITUAL TEACHER. HE/SHE IS A POWER SEEKER SEEKING POWER THROUGH CONTROLLING YOU AND OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3611
LOVE LOST: WHEN A LOVE IS LOST, IT IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU TO FIND A MORE SUITABLE LOVE. IT IS A COSMIC GIFT AND OPPORTUNITY TO RE-SET YOUR LIFE’S LOVE PATH. THE PAIN ASSOCIATED WITH A LOST LOVE IS ACTUALLY A LESSON FOR YOU TO BE MORE CAREFUL THE NEXT TIME YOU CHOOSE TO PARTNER WITH SOMEONE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3612
CONTROL: THE VIOLENCE CREATED BY RELIGIOUS PEOPLE, POLITICAL PEOPLE, AND INSECURE PEOPLE IS A SPIRITUAL LESSON FOR EVERYONE. EXTREMISM IN ANY FORM IS NON-SPIRITUAL AND IS DESTRUCTIVE. EXTREMISM DEMONSTRATES THE INSECURITIES OF THOSE GROUPS. FOR THE RELIGIONISTS, FOR THE POLITICIANS, AND THE INSECURE ONES, IT DEMONSTRATES THEIR INSECURITY AND LACK OF FAITH IN THEIR SYSTEMS. ONE CANNOT FORCE SOMEONE TO LOVE OR RESPECT ONE’S GOD, ONE’S POLITICAL SYSTEM, AND ONE’S CULTURE THROUGH VIOLENCE. ONE MAY CONTROL THE BODIES AND THE SPOKEN WORDS OF PEOPLE ONE CONTROLS; HOWEVER, ONE CANNOT CONTROL THE INNER THOUGHTS OF ANY PERSON. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3605 TO 3608

MY THOUGHTS 3605
YOU: AT THIS PRESENT MOMENT YOU ARE THE TOTALITY OF WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR PAST AND WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU AT THIS MOMENT. WHO YOU ARE IN THE FUTURE IS YET TO BE DETERMINED. IF YOU TURN YOUR NEGATIVES OF THE PAST INTO POSITIVES YOU WILL HAVE A CONTENT PRESENT. IF YOU ALLOW THOSE NEGATIVES TO EAT AWAY AT YOUR SOUL, THEN YOU WILL HAVE AN UNHAPPY PRESENT. SELF REFLECTION SHOULD BE A DAILY TASK DONE THROUGH MEDITATION, LOOKING IN THE MIRROR AT THE ‘REAL YOU’, OR BEING AT ONE WITH NATURE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3606
TEACHERS: THE GREATEST GIFT AND THE GREATEST RESPECT THAT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER IS TO FOLLOW HIS/HER TEACHINGS AND TO BECOME AN INDEPENDENT THINKER. WHEN YOU CAN WALK YOUR PATH WITHOUT DEPENDING ON YOUR TEACHER’S SUPPORT YOU HAVE TRULY GROWN SPIRITUALLY AND YOU HAVE RELEASED YOUR TEACHER FROM THE OBLIGATIONS OF TAKING CARE OF YOU. YOU WILL HAVE GIVEN YOUR TEACHER THE FREEDOM TO RETURN TO HER/HIS COSMIC HOME. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3607
QUESTION 367: CAN YOU DEFINE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LEARNING FROM A TEACHER AND DEPENDING ON THE TEACHER? DO YOU NOT BELIEVE LEARNING FROM YOUR TEACHER, GROWING BEYOND YOUR TEACHER, AND WALKING YOUR OWN PATH THE ULTIMATE SIGN OF RESPECT FOR YOUR TEACHER? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3608
TEACHERS: A GREAT TEACHER IS ONE WHO TEACHES YOU TO STAND ON YOUR OWN AND TO BE DEPENDENT ON NO ONE FOR YOUR SPIRITUALITY. WHEN YOU GROW BEYOND YOUR TEACHER, YOU SHOW THE ULTIMATE RESPECT FOR THAT TEACHER. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3601 TO 3604

MY THOUGHTS 3601
QUESTION 366: DO YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR UNIQUENESS WITHIN YOUR FAMILY, WITHIN YOUR CULTURE, WITHIN YOUR ETHNICITY, AND WITHIN YOUR FAITH? HAVE YOU LEARNED HOW TO MAINTAIN THE UNIQUENESS OF ‘YOU’ AND YET BE PART OF THE WHOLE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3602
YOU VERSUS THE GROUP: ONE KEY TO YOUR SPIRITUALITY IS TO FIND A BALANCE BETWEEN THE UNIQUENESS OF ‘YOU’ AND YOUR OBLIGATIONS TO YOUR GROUP. AS YOU REACH HIGHER LEVELS OF SPIRITUALITY YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF SEPARATING MORE FROM YOUR GROUP. THAT EVENTUAL SEPARATION SHOULD BE DONE BY SHARING YOUR WISDOM AND BY RESPECTFULLY SHOWING COMPASSION FOR THE GROUP THAT YOU BELONG TO. ONE SHOULD NEVER LEAVE ONE’S GROUP WITH ANY FEELING OF CONTEMPT. IF ONE DOES SHOW CONTEMPT; IT IS NOT SPIRITUALITY THAT IS DRIVING YOU, BUT IT IS SELFISHNESS. WHEN ONE EVENTUALLY SEPARATES FROM ONE’S GROUP, ONE MUST ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR FORMER POSITION WITHIN ONE’S GROUP AND HOW IT HAD HELPED YOU TO LEARN AND GROW. ANY SEPARATION FROM ANY GROUP SHOULD BE DONE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3603
YOU VERSUS THE GROUP: ONE PROBLEM TODAY IS THAT WHEN SOMEONE OUTGROWS ONE’S GROUP, THAT PERSON MAY EMPHASIZE THE SEPARATION BY SHOWING CONTEMPT OR DISDAIN FOR ONE’S FORMER GROUP. THAT ATTITUDE IS NOT A SPIRITUAL ATTITUDE. THIS IS THE GREATEST MISTAKE OF ANY CONVERSION. IF ONE CONVERTS TO A DIFFERENT FAITH, ADOPTS A DIFFERENT CULTURE, OR CHANGES POLITICAL PHILOSOPHY, ONE SHOULD NEVER SHOW CONTEMPT FOR WHERE ONE CAME FROM. YOUR PAST IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF YOU. HOW CAN ONE HATE WHAT IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF ONE’S ESSENCE! EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3604
YOU: EVERY EVENT IN YOUR LIFE, WHETHER NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE, BECOMES PART OF THE TOTAL PICTURE OF YOU. YOUR LIFE’S PAINTING ISN’T FINISHED UNTIL YOUR SPIRIT LEAVES YOUR BODY. WHEN YOU TURN THOSE NEGATIVE DARK SPOTS IN YOUR PICTURE OF LIFE INTO POSITIVES YOU CAN PUT A BRIGHT COLOR WITHIN THAT DARKNESS TO SHOW THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED A POSITIVE LESSON FROM THAT NEGATIVE EVENT. MEANWHILE, COMPLETE YOUR PICTURE OF YOUR LIFE WITH BRIGHTER COLORS BY MAKING LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, RESPECTFULLY CHOICES WITHOUT INTENTIONAL HARMING ANYONE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3597 TO 3600

MY THOUGHTS 3597
UNDERSTANDING VERSUS TOLERANCE: ‘UNDERSTANDING’ OTHER CULTURES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITHS MEANS THAT YOU RECOGNIZE AND ACCEPT THEIR RIGHT TO BE DIFFERENT WITH NO ANIMOSITY TOWARDS THEM. YOU ARE ALSO WILLING TO EXCHANGE IDEAS WITH THEM. WHEN YOU ‘TOLERATE’ OTHER CULTURES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITHS IT MEANS THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE THE DIFFERENCES BUT WILL LIVE WITH THEM FOR THE TIME BEING. UNDERSTANDING DEMONSTRATES RESPECT FOR ‘OTHERS’ AND CAN CREATE HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER, TOLERATION DEMONSTRATES A RESENTMENT THAT CAN LEAD TO CONTEMPT, CAN LEAD TO SEGREGATION, AND CAN EVENTUALLY LEAD TO PHYSICAL CONFLICT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3598
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN STARTING OR RE-EVALUATING A RELATIONSHIP, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR THE PARTNERS TO ACCEPT EACH OTHER’S PAST WITHOUT LIVING IN THOSE PASTS. THOSE PARTNERS CAME/ARE COMING TOGETHER BECAUSE OF THEIR PASTS. HOWEVER, PARTNERS SHOULD NOT ABUSE EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF THEIR PASTS. ANYONE WHO IS STILL LIVING IN HER/HIS PAST SHOULD NOT SEEK A NEW RELATIONSHIP UNTIL HE/SHE IS READY TO LIVE IN THE PRESENT WITHOUT THE GHOSTS OF HER/HIS PAST DOMINATING HIS/HER THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3599
FAITH: IT IS IMPORTANT FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL TO GO INWARD AND DISCOVER WHAT HIS/HER FAITH REALLY MEANS TO HER HIM IN A MORAL CONTEXT. BE WARY OF POLITICIANS, ECONOMISTS, AND POWER SEEKERS WHO WANT TO USE YOUR FAITH AS A TOOL TO GAIN POWER OVER YOU AND YOUR THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3600
FAITH: YOU CANNOT BE INSULTED BY WHAT YOU DO NOT FEAR. THEREFORE, GOD CANNOT BE THREATENED BY HIS/HER CREATIONS. GOD DOES NOT NEED ANYONE TO PROTECT HER/HIS HONOR. ALL ONE NEEDS TO DO IS TO FOLLOW THE PRECEPTS OF ONES FAITH WITH RESPECT FOR ONE’S CREATOR AND FOR WHAT THE CREATOR HAS CREATED. IT IS THE CREATOR ALONE WHO MUST SEEK RETRIBUTION IF THERE IS NEED TO DO SO. IT IS NOT THE DUTY OF THE FAITHFUL TO SECOND GUESS THE CREATOR AND DESTROY THE CREATOR’S CREATIONS IN HIS/HER NAME. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3593 TO 3596

MY THOUGHTS 3593
ANGER: WHEN YOU ENTER A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH ANGER TOWARDS A PAST LOVE, YOU WILL HAVE BROUGHT ‘A TOXIC YOU’ INTO THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP. YOU WILL EVENTUALLY RELEASE THAT TOXIC ANGER OUT TOWARDS YOUR NEW LOVE AND POISON THAT RELATIONSHIP. WHY SHOULD ANY FUTURE / PRESENT LOVE BE PUNISHED FOR THE TRANSGRESSIONS OF A FORMER LOVE. ONE SHOULD DEAL WITH THEIR PAST ISSUES COMPLETELY, LEARN FROM THOSE ISSUES IN A POSITIVE WAY, AND GET ON WITH ONE’S LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3594
LOVE: WHEN YOU RESOLVE THE ISSUES OF A PAST LOVE, YOU ARE TRULY OPEN TO ATTRACTING SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU FOR ‘YOU’. THE TIME TO LOOK FOR A NEW LOVE IS WHEN YOU NO LONGER FEEL LIKE A VICTIM OF A PAST SITUATION. WHEN YOU NO LONGER FEEL LIKE A VICTIM, IT MEANS THAT YOU HAVE DEALT WITH THE ISSUES, YOU HAVE LEARNED POSITIVE LESSONS FROM THEM, AND THAT YOU ARE READY TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3595
QUESTION 364: HOW MANY OF YOU ARE WILLING TO LIVE WITH SOMEONE WHOSE HEART AND MIND ARE FOCUSED MOSTLY ON A PAST LOVE? HOW MANY OF YOUR ARE WILLING TO PLAY “SECOND FIDDLE” TO YOUR POTENTIAL PARTNER’S PAST LOVE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3696
QUESTION 365: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCES IN CULTURES, PHILOSOPHIES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITH, OR DO YOU TOLERATE THE DIFFERENCES IN CULTURES, PHILOSOPHIES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITH? DO YOU COMPREHEND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN UNDERSTANDING AND TOLERATING? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3589 TO 3592

MY THOUGHTS 3589
QUESTION 363: IF YOU ARE WIDOWED AND YOU STILL HAVE LONGINGS FOR YOUR LOST PARTNER, IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE. HOWEVER, IF YOUR PARTNER HAS DUMPED YOU AND YOU STILL HAVE UNCONTROLLABLE LONGINGS FOR THAT FORMER PARTNER, YOU MUST GO INWARD AND RE-EVALUATE THOSE LONGINGS. HOW MUCH OF ‘YOU’ HAVE YOU SURRENDERED TO THE OTHER PERSON IN THE NAME OF LOVE? WHEN DID YOU STOP BEING ‘YOU’ TO HAVE THAT PERSON’S AFFECTION? ARE YOU MASOCHISTIC? ARE YOUR PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL GRATIFICATIONS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR PERSONAL INTEGRITY AND YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3590
REJECTION: WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT TO LIVE A LIFE OF LONG-TERM SUFFERING OVER A PARTNER WHO HAS REJECTED HIM/HER! THAT REJECTION MAY BE A COSMIC GIFT TO THAT PERSON SO THAT THAT INDIVIDUAL CAN FIND A MORE COMPATIBLE PERSON TO BE WITH. ONE SHOULD STOP WALLOWING IN ONE’S PAST AND START LISTENING TO ONE’S INNER COSMIC VOICES SO THAT ONE CAN GET ON WITH ONE’S LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3591
SENIORS: SENIORS, IT IS TIME TO KEEP YOUR BODY AND MIND IN PEAK HEALTH AND TO LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST. IT IS TIME TO START PRACTICING PREVENTATIVE MEDICINE BY DOING EXERCISES APPROPRIATE FOR YOU AND EATING HEALTHY. TO DO THIS, START SPENDING YOUR CHILDREN’S INHERITANCE. WHY, BECAUSE THE GOVERNMENT WILL TAKE MOST OF IT AWAY IN TAXES AND THE REST WILL BE USED TO PAY OFF YOUR ENORMOUS MEDICAL BILLS CREATED BY AN UNHEALTHY YOU. IN TODAY’S CONSUMER WORLD, THOSE MEDICAL BILLS WILL CAUSE SUCH ECONOMIC BURDENS ON YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN THAT MAY DENY THEM THEIR OWN DREAMS. THUS, YOU SHOULD START PRACTICING PREVENTATIVE MEDICINE SO THAT YOU CAN BE THERE TO ADVISE YOUR LOVED ONES IN THEIR TIMES OF NEED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3592
LOVE: THOSE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE WHILE COMPLAINING ABOUT A PAST LOVE WILL ONLY ATTRACT A ‘RESCUER’ WHO IS SEEKING TO HELP A ‘VICTIM’. THIS COULD BE THE BASIS FOR A FRIENDSHIP, BUT IT IS NOT THE BASIS OF A LIFE-LONG LOVE RELATIONSHIP. WHY, BECAUSE WHEN EITHER ONE NO LONGER FEEL LIKE A RESCUER OR A VICTIM, THE DYNAMICS OF THE RELATION CHANGES DRASTICALLY. ONE OR THE OTHER WILL FEEL TRAPPED IN A NEEDY RELATIONSHIP AND WILL EVENTUALLY WANT TO ESCAPE. IT IS BEST TO SOLVE ONE’S ISSUES WITH A PAST LOVE BEFORE STARTING A NEW ADVENTURE IN LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

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