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THOUGHTS 4191 TO 4195

MY THOUGHTS 4191
PURPOSE: WHEN YOU ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTION “WHY I AM HERE?” REMEMBER THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO CERTAIN INTO A CERTAIN CULTURE, INTO A PARTICULAR FAMILY, INTO A PARTICULAR FAITH,INTO A PARTICULAR ETHNICITY, AND A PARTICULAR STATUS WITHIN A SOCIETY. THEY ARE YOUR FIRST TEACHERS IN THIS LIFETIME. YOUR TASK IS TO GROW WITHIN THEM TO YOUR FULLEST POTENTIAL, AND AT SOME POINT, YOU WILL GROW BEYOND THEM TO HIGHER LEVELS OF UNDERSTANDING. ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL TO YOUR FORMER TEACHERS FOR WHAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU BECAUSE THEY HAVE BROUGHT YOU TO THE POINT WHERE YOU ARE READY TO GO BEYOND WHAT THEY HAVE TO OFFER. ALSO REMEMBER THAT THE VERY HARD AND DIFFICULT TIMES WERE IMPORTANT LESSONS TO BE LEARNED, AND THE POSITIVES WERE THE AFFIRMATIONS OF SUCCESSFULLY LEARNED LESSONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4192
LONELINESS: IF YOU FEEL LONELY, ISOLATED, OR ABANDONED, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE IN A RE-EVALUATION STAGE OF YOUR LIFE’S PROCESS, AND THAT YOU WILL NOT BE LONELY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. TAKE CARE OF YOUR PRESENT ISSUES, CLOSE THE DOORS OF THE PAST, AND FOCUS ON THE WORLD AROUND YOU SO THAT NEW DOORS OF TRUE RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE OPENED. LOVE IS THEIR FOR EVERYONE, BUT MANY HAVE KEPT THE DOORS BLOCKED BY CLINGING TO THE PAST. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4193
QUESTION 459: CAN YOU COMMUNICATE WITH OTHERS WITHOUT PROJECTING THE IMAGE THAT THEY WANT SEE OF YOU? ARE YOU FREE ENOUGH TO PROJECT A TRUE IMAGE OF YOU, NOT THE FALSE IMAGE OF YOU FOR SPECIFIC GAINS? CAN YOU DISCERN THE OTHER PERSON’S PROJECTION OF HIMSELF TO YOU AND WHO THAT PERSON REALLY IS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4194
MEDITATION: MEDITATION IS A TOOL TO HELP YOU CENTER YOURSELF SO THAT YOU CAN GO INWARD AND ESCAPE FROM THE DISTRACTIONS AROUND YOU LIKE THE MEDIA, COMMERCIALS, AND TELEVISION WHICH FOCUS YOUR MIND AWAY FROM YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4195
SUGGESTION: THE SHARING OF A SIMPLE SMILE, A FRIENDLY HELLO, AND A NOD OF APPROVAL CAN OPEN THE DOORS TO A MYRIAD OF POSSIBILITIES. THEY ARE SIMPLE GESTURES THAT CAN ENLIGHTEN YOUR WORLD AND THE WORLD OF OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4186 TO 4190

MY THOUGHTS 4186
SUGGESTION: THE PERCEPTION GAME: MY CLASSES USUALLY HAD TEN TO THIRTY DIFFERENT NATIONALITIES. I WOULD ASK THE STUDENTS ONE BY ONE WHAT THEIR FIRST THOUGHT WAS ABOUT ONE PARTICULAR COUNTRY. THE STUDENTS FROM THAT COUNTRY ARE MINDFULLY LISTEN TO THE IMAGES THAT OTHER COUNTRIES HAVE OF THEIR COUNTRY. THEY ARE NOT TO REACT IN ANYWAY TO THE IMAGES EXPRESSED. WHEN ALL IMAGES HAVE BEEN EXPRESSED WITHOUT INTERRUPTIONS, THE STUDENTS OF THAT COUNTRY SHOULD REFLECT ON THE IMAGES EXPRESSED. THEN THE STUDENT CAN RESPOND, NOT REACT, TO WHAT THEY HAVE HEARD. THEY CAN AGREE, DEFEND, OR EXPRESS HER/HIS OPINION OF HIS/HER OWN COUNTRY WITHOUT NEGATIVE EMOTIONS. THE PURPOSE IS TO DEMONSTRATE HOW ONE’S PERCEPTION OF ONESELF CAN BE DIFFERENT THAN WHAT OTHERS SEE. THIS IS A WONDERFUL LEARNING TOOL IF DONE RIGHT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4187
IMAGES: ‘WHO YOU ARE’ IS NOT TOTALLY BASED ON HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF. ‘WHO YOU ARE’ IS ALSO BASED ON THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOU PROJECTED TO OTHERS. THERE IS THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOU SEE, THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOUR PARENTS SEE, THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOUR FRIENDS SEE. THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOUR COMMUNITY SEES, THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOUR TEACHERS SEE, THE ‘YOU’ THAT YOUR FAITH LEADER SEES, THE ‘YOU’ YOUR PARTNER SEES, THE ‘YOU’ THAT STRANGERS SEE, AND THE ‘YOU’ THAT FACEBOOK SEES. ALL CAN BE VERY DIFFERENT DEPENDING ON HOW ‘YOU’ CHOOSE TO ‘PROJECT YOURSELF’ TO OTHERS.EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4188
IMAGES: WHAT ONE SEES AS AN IMAGE OF ‘ONE’S GOD’ IS REALLY A REFLECTION OF ONE’S THOUGHTS ABOUT ONE’S SPIRITUALITY. EVERYONE’S IMAGE OF HIS/HER GOD IS VALID FOR HER/HIM BECAUSE IT IS A REFLECTION OF ONE’S INNER BEING’S PERCEPTIONS ON HOW ONE SEES THE COSMOS. AS ONE BECOMES MORE AND MORE CONSCIOUSLY AWARE AND ONE HAS SPIRITUAL GROWTH, THOSE IMAGES WILL CHANGE. REMEMBER THAT THAT IS VALID FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL. WE HAVE NO RIGHT TO DISAPPROVE OF ANYONE’S IMAGE OF HIS/HER PERCEPTIONS OF HER/HIS IMAGES OF THE ALMIGHTY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4189
UNDERSTANDING: TO UNDERSTAND THE COSMOS AND THE MEANING OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MUST FIRST LOOK AROUND YOU AND OBSERVE THE WORLD AROUND YOU. THEN GO INWARD AND FIND THE ANSWERS FROM THE CLUES PRESENTED BY THE WORLD OUTSIDE OF YOU. THE TRUE ANSWERS ARE TO BE FOUND ONLY WITHIN YOU. THEY ARE NOT OUTSIDE OF YOU. THE OUTSIDE WORLD IS ONLY YOUR GUIDE OR MENTOR THAT PRESENTS SITUATIONS TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT IS ALREADY WITHIN YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4190
QUESTION 458: IF EVERYTHING ON THIS WORLD IS A CREATION OF AND A MANIFESTATION OF ‘GOD’, THEN, HOW CAN ANYONE SO EASILY POISON OR DESTROY THE WORLD AROUND ONESELF? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4181 TO 4185

MY THOUGHTS 4181
MOTHERS: MOST MOTHERS ARE FULL OF LOVE FOR THEIR CHILDREN, EVEN TO THE DAY THAT THEY LEAVE THEIR BODIES. SOME MOTHERS REJECT, DESPISE, AND DISPOSE OF THEIR CHILDREN, EVEN AT BIRTH. MOTHERS, TODAY, HAVE VERY DIFFICULT PATHS TO WALK AND SOME VERY HARD KARMIC CHOICES TO MAKE. THE CHOICE IS USUALLY BETWEEN THE VALUES AND RESPONSIBILITIES OF MOTHERHOOD AND SELF-GRATIFICATION WITHIN THEIR SOCIAL WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4182
MOTHERS: A MOTHER’S PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITY IS TO NURTURE AND TEACH HER CHILDREN HOW TO BE COMPASSIONATE AND NURTURING TO OTHERS IN THEIR COMMUNITY. THE FATHER PRIMARY ROLE IS TO PROTECT AND TEACH HIS CHILDREN HOW TO SURVIVE THE CHALLENGES OF LIFE. BOTH PARENTS HAVE THE OBLIGATION TO RELEASE THEIR CHILDREN AT MATURITY SO THAT THEY CAN CREATE THEIR OWN LIVES AND FAMILIES. THIS IS THE PROCESS TAUGHT BY NATURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4183
CHILDREN: KHALIL GIBRAN SUGGESTED TO PARENTS THAT CHILDREN DO NOT COME FROM THEM, BUT THROUGH THEM FROM “GOD”. THE PARENTS ARE THE BOW, THEIR CHILDREN ARE THE ARROWS, AND ‘GOD” IS THE ARCHER. THE PARENTS ARE TO TEACH THEIR CHILDREN THE MORAL TEACHINGS OF THEIR DIETY. THE PARENTS ARE TO SEND THEIR CHILDREN INTO THE FUTURE WITHOUT THE PARENTS’ BIASES SO THAT THOSE CHILDREN CAN CREATE A BETTER WORLD. TODAY, UNFORTUNATELY, THE CONFLICTS DUE TO THE SELF INTERESTS OF EACH PARENT CREATES MORALLY CONFUSED CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4184
CHILDREN: WHEN CHILDREN GROW UP IN A LOVING COMMUNICATING FAMILY, THEY, TOO, WILL WANT TO CREATE LOVING COMMUNICATING RELATIONSHIPS AND RAISE THEIR OWN CHILDREN IN THE SAME MOLD. WHEN CHILDREN ARE RAISED IN NON-LOVING NON-COOPERATIVE FAMILIES, THEIR GOALS TEND TO TURN TO ESCAPING FROM THEIR FAMILIES AND FROM RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4185
SUGGESTION: REMEMBER THAT WHAT YOU SEE IN OTHERS IS REALLY A REFLECTION OF YOU. WHEN YOU ARE WITH SOME FRIENDS IN A PUBLIC PLACE, AT MUSEUMS, OR IN NATURE, PLAY THE REFLECTIONS GAME. EVERYONE IS TO SILENTLY LOOK AT THE SAME OBJECT OR PERSON FOR ONE MINUTE. THEN EACH PERSON IS TO EXPRESS WHAT HE/SHE SEES. THERE SHOULD BE NO REACTIONS OR GESTURES UNTIL EVERYONE HAS EXPRESSED THEIR VIEWS. THERE SHOULD BE ONLY MINDFUL LISTENING. IF SOMEONE MINDLESSLY REACTS, THE GAMES IS OVER BECAUSE THE GAME HAS BEEN COMPROMISE BY SOMEONES EMOTIONAL REACTION. THE PURPOSE OF THE GAME IS TO DEMONSTRATE THAT WHAT WE SEE IN OTHERS IS A REFLECTION OF OURSELVES. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4176 TO 4185

MY THOUGHTS 4176
CHILDREN: CHILDREN SHOULD BE A SPIRITUAL CATALYST THAT COMPLETES A TRULY LOVING RELATIONSHIP. HOWEVER, MANY PARTNERS, INSTEAD, USE THEIR CHILDREN AS A MEANS OF MAINTAINING A DETERIORATING RELATIONSHIP, OR USE THEIR CHILDREN AS EXCUSES FOR NOT COMMUNICATING WITH EACH OTHER. SOME PARENTS EVEN USE THEIR CHILDREN AS A WEAPON AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT. EVENTUALLY, INSTEAD OF A FAMILY BEING A SANCTUARY FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLD, THE OUTSIDE WORLD BECOMES A SANCTUARY FROM THE FAMILY FOR BOTH THE CHILDREN AND THE PARTNERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4177
GROWTH: TODAY, SOME ARE BORN INTO SOCIETIES THAT DEMAND THAT ONE PARTNER CONTROLS THE OTHER; SUCH ARE THEIR KARMIC LESSONS. SOME ARE BORN INTO SOCIETIES WHERE THE PARTNERSHIP IS SUPPOSED TO BE BALANCED. THERE NEEDS TO BE A BALANCE BETWEEN THE INDIVIDUAL AND THE COLLECTIVE FOR PERSONAL AND COLLECTIVE GROWTH. WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS ON A HUMAN JOURNEY TO GROW INDIVIDUALLY AND JOINTLY WITH OUR CHOSEN PARTNERS. OUR MAIN PURPOSE IS TO GROW BEYOND WHO WE WERE WHEN WE CAME HERE AND WHO WE ARE AT THIS MOMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4178
GROWTH: MANY ‘GURUS’ AND SPIRITUAL BEINGS HAVE LEFT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS TO GROW BEYOND THE LIMITS OF THE MATERIAL NEEDS OF THE PRESENT FAMILY OR GROUP SITUATIONS. THE FINALLY STEPS OF ONE’S SPIRITUAL GROWTH IS DONE SOLO. IF YOU PRACTICE TANTRIC KUNDALINI METHODS, MAYBE ONE CAN GROW TOGETHER FULLY OP TO A CERTAIN POINT IN LIFE. HOWEVER, EVERYONE’S TIMELINE IS DIFFERENT, SO THAT MAY NOT BE POSSIBLE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4179
FORGIVENESS: WHEN YOU PRACTICE FORGIVENESS, YOU WILL CREATE ALL KINDS OF WONDERFUL POSSIBILITIES IN YOUR LIFE. WHEN YOU ARE JUDGMENTAL, YOU WILL CREATE AND ENHANCE ALL KINDS OF PROBLEMS IN LIFE IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4180
QUESTION 457: WHEN SOMEONE SAYS THAT NOBODY LOVES THEM, DOES IT MEAN THAT ‘NOBODY’ LOVES THEM, OR DOES IT MEAN THAT THE PEOPLE THEY WANT TO LOVE THEM DO NOT LOVE THEM? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4171 TO 4175

MY THOUGHTS 4171
QUESTION 456: INSTEAD OF ASKING WHY ARE YOU HERE IN THIS EXISTENCE, MAYBE YOU SHOULD BE ASKING WHAT ARE YOU HERE TO CONTRIBUTE TO THIS WORLD? WHAT ARE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES TO YOU, WHAT ARE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES TO YOUR COMMUNITY, AND WHAT ARE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES TO NATURE? INSTEAD OF WONDERING WHY YOU EXIST, WOULD IT NOT BE BETTER TO JUST SEEK GROWTH AND CELEBRATE YOUR EXISTENCE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4172
GROWTH: INSTEAD OF BEING CONCERNED ABOUT WHY YOU EXIST, IT IS IMPORTANT TO RECOGNIZE THAT YOU DO EXIST. WHEN YOU ACCEPT THE FACT OF YOUR EXISTENCE, THEN YOU CAN GO INWARD AND FIND OUT WHY YOU EXIST WITHIN A PARTICULAR CULTURE, WITHIN A PARTICULAR FAITH, AND WITHIN A PARTICULAR ETHNICITY. IF YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO CHANGE YOUR CULTURE OR FAITH, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND WHETHER THOSE CHANGES ARE AN ESCAPE FROM YOUR FORMER REALITIES OR WHETHER THEY ARE DUE TO THE PROCESS OF SPIRITUAL AND SOCIAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4173
SEPARATION: THE WORST KARMIC CHOICE THAT ANY PARENT CAN MAKE IN THE SEPARATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS TO USE THE CHILDREN AS A TOOL AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT. A BETTER KARMIC CHOICE WOULD BE FOR THE PARENTS TO TELL THE CHILDREN THAT THEY BOTH LOVED THEM VERY MUCH EVEN THOUGH THEY THEMSELVES ARE HAVING DIFFICULTY STAYING TOGETHER. SEPARATED PARENTS DO HAVE THE CHOICE OF BEING CORDIAL AND CARING WHILE LIVING THEIR SEPARATE LIVES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4174
PARENTS: A PARENT WHO USES HIS OR HER CHILDREN AGAINST THE OTHER PARENT MAY HAVE A TEMPORARY PERSONAL VICTORY: HOWEVER, THEY WILL CREATE GREAT INNER CONFLICT WITHIN THEIR OWN CHILDREN THAN HARM TO THE OTHER PARTNER FOR WHATEVER REASON. REMEMBER THAT YOU DO NOT OWN YOUR CHILDREN: THEY ARE NOT POSSESSIONS. THEY ARE LIVING BEINGS WHO HAVE TO LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES THROUGH THE VALUES THAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM. A PARENT’S NEGATIVITY TOWARDS THE OTHER PARTNER WILL EVENTUALLY AFFECT NOT ONLY THEIR OWN CHILDREN BUT ALSO THE LIVES OF THEIR GRANDCHILDREN. WOE TO THESE KIND OF KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4175
REJECTION: FOR THE PARENT WHO IS A VICTIM OF THE OTHER PARENT’S ANGER AND THE TURNING OF THE CHILDREN AGAINST HIM OR HER, IT IS BEST TO EXPRESS, IF POSSIBLE, TO THE CHILDREN THAT YOU LOVE THEM, CARE FOR THEM, AND WOULD LIKE TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. IF THEIR RESPONSE IS NEGATIVE, THEN WALK AWAY WITH LOVE COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING IN YOUR HEART FOR YOUR CHILDREN. IT MAY BE HURTFUL TO YOU FOR THE MOMENT: HOWEVER, IT IS A KARMIC CHOICE THAT THE SPITEFUL PARENT HAS MADE THAT WILL AFFECT THE CHILDREN AND BITTER PARTNER. FOLLOW YOUR PATH AND DEAL WITH THE PAIN WHILE TURNING THOSE NEGATIVITIES INTO A LIGHT THAT CAN HELP OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4166 TO 4170

MY THOUGHTS 4166
PARENTING: ONE DAY, A MOTHER ASKED HER CHILDREN TWO QUESTIONS: WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GET MARRIED, AND HOW MANY CHILDREN DO YOU WANT TO HAVE? HER CHILDREN RESPONDED WITH TWO WORDS; NEVER AND NONE. THE MOTHER WAS STUNNED AND ASKED HER CHILDREN WHY. THEY RESPONDED BY SAYING, “I DON’T WANT TO BE LIKE YOU, MOM!” THEY SAW THAT THEIR PARENTS WERE ALWAYS FRUSTRATED AND FIGHTING OVER THEIR PERCEIVED NEEDS OF THEIR OWN CHILDREN. THEY WERE COMPETING FOR THEIR CHILDREN’S ‘LOVE’ INSTEAD OF BEING GOOD ROLE MODELS AND TEACHERS FOR THEIR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4167
PARENTING: THE CHILDREN WERE BEING HONEST WITH HER. THE MOTHER HAD NEGLECTED HERSELF AND HER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER PARTNER IN ORDER TO SACRIFICE EVERYTHING FOR HER CHILDREN. WHAT THE CHILDREN SAW WAS A MOTHER WHO USED TO BE SO BEAUTIFUL AND HAPPY BEFORE SHE HAD CHILDREN. THEY ALSO SAW THAT THEIR MOTHER AND FATHER WERE VERY HAPPY BEFORE THEY START MAKING THE SACRIFICES FOR THEIR CHILDREN. INSTEAD OF PRESENTING TO THEIR CHILDREN THE IMAGE OF A HAPPY COUPLE AND AS HAPPY PARENTS, THEY DEMONSTRATED PARENTS WHO WERE FRUSTRATED AND ANGRY ABOUT BILLS AND THE ‘DEMANDS’ OF THEIR CHILDREN CAUSING CONFLICTS WITHIN THEIR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4168
PARENTING: PARENTS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE ROLE MODELS FOR THEIR CHILDREN ON HOW TO LIVE THEIR FUTURE LIVES, HOW TO MAINTAIN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP, AND HOW TO RAISE CHILDREN. PARENTS SHOULD PRESENT THEMSELVES AS HAPPY INDIVIDUALS WHO LOVE, LIKE, AND RESPECT EACH OTHER WHILE CREATING A LOVING, CARING, HAPPY FAMILY LIFE FOR THEIR CHILDREN. UNFORTUNATE, IN MANY FAMILIES THE “ME” HAS BECOME MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE “WE.”
EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4169
EXISTENCE: IF THE QUESTION “WHY DO I EXIST?” IS UNANSWERABLE TO YOU AT THIS MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE, THEN, THE NEXT QUESTION SHOULD BE BASED ON THE RECOGNITION THAT YOU ‘DO EXIST’, SO THE STATEMENT/QUESTION SHOULD BE, “I RECOGNIZED THAT I DO EXIST, SO WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH MY EXISTENCE? WILL YOU CHOOSE TO EXIST IN A SOCIAL COMMUNITY, WILL YOU CHOOSE TO EXIST IN ISOLATION, OR WILL YOU SEEK A BALANCE BETWEEN BOTH? AFTER YOU HAVE WORKED ON LATER QUESTION, YOU MAY FIND THE ANSWER TO THE FORMER QUESTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4170
QUESTION 455: DO YOU SEE THE EXPERIENCES IN YOUR LIFE AND THE CHALLENGES IN YOUR LIFE AS NEGATIVES OR POSITIVES? DO YOU SEE THEM JUST AS CHALLENGES OR EXPERIENCES TO BE LEARNED FROM AND TO GROW FROM? DO YOU SEE THEM AS NEITHER GOOD NOR BAD, OR DO YOU ACCEPT THEM AS OPPORTUNITIES FOR GROWTH? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHT 4161 TO 4165

MY THOUGHTS 4161
GROWTH: EVERY ONE HAS A DHARMIC PATH TO FOLLOW WHICH IS FILLED WITH KARMIC CHOICES. YOU START ALONG THAT PATH IN THE FAMILIES, CULTURES, ETHNICITIES, AND FAITHS THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO. ALL OF THEM WILL PRESENT YOU WITH CHOICES TO MAKE. SOME OF THOSE CHOICES WILL BE VERY DIFFICULT AND LIFE CHANGING. SOME OF THOSE CHANGES WILL REQUIRE YOU TO GROW BEYOND YOUR BIRTH GROUPS TO NEW LEVELS CONSCIOUSNESS. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOUR BIRTH GROUPS ARE YOUR FIRST MENTORS/TEACHERS ON YOUR PATH. THEY ARE NOT NECESSARILY YOUR LIFETIME TEACHERS/MENTORS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4162
ASSISTANCE: AS YOU MATURE IN LIFE YOUR DAY SHOULD BE FILLED WITH SHARING YOUR LIGHT WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING OF THE WORLD AROUND YOU. THE CHALLENGES OF NEGATIVITY WILL ALWAYS CONFRONT YOU. HELP THOSE WHOM YOU CAN HELP WITH THE PRESENCE OF YOUR LIGHT. REMEMBER THAT EVERYONE HAS LESSONS TO LEARN, SO DO NOT INTERFERE UNLESS ASKED TO. YOU MAY OFFER YOU HELP, BUT DO NOT INSIST. SOMETIMES JUST A WARM SMILE, KIND GESTURES, A NOD OF RECOGNITION, OR A GENTLE TOUCH WILL SUFFICE TO EASE THEIR SITUATIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4163
SUGGESTION: START YOUR DAY WITH A TEN-MINUTE MEDITATIVE SHOWER. MINDFULLY GROOM YOUR SELF WHILE FOCUSING ON THE DAY’S TASKS AHEAD. BE PREPARED TO FLOOD ANY NEGATIVITY, WHICH COMES YOUR WAY, WITH PURE COSMIC WHITE LIGHT. WHEN THINGS BECOME OVERWHELMING, FIND A QUIET PLACE TO REFOCUS FOR A FEW MINUTES. REMEMBER THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE CENTERED DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU WILL NOT BE CHALLENGED IN YOUR DAILY ROUTINES. BEING CENTERED AND FOCUSED WILL HELP YOU DEAL WITH LIFE’S CHALLENGES IN A POSITIVE WAY.
EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4164
CHALLENGES: AS YOU PROCEED THROUGH YOUR DAY YOU WILL ENCOUNTER POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE SITUATIONS. WHEN YOU MEET THOSE WHO ARE GREEDY OR ANGRY, REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE LEARNING THEIR KARMIC LESSONS IN THEIR WAY. IN TODAYS ECONOMIC WORLD THERE ARE MANY WHO ARE LEARNING LESSONS THROUGH THEIR GREED, THEIR ANGER, AND THEIR INSENSITIVITY. YOUR TASK IS TO SHARE YOUR LIGHT WHERE YOU CAN, GIVE YOUR ADVICE FREELY WHEN ASKED, AND SHOW YOUR LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WHENEVER THE OPPORTUNITY ARISES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4165
CHOICES: IN THIS MODERN MATERIALISTIC WORLD, ECONOMICS BECOMES THE CENTER OF EVERY ONE’S LIFE. IF YOUR CHOICE IS TO BECOME ECONOMICALLY SUCCESSFUL THROUGH GREED, DECEPTION, AND INSENSITIVITY TO OTHERS NEEDS, YOU MAY BECOME ECONOMICALLY SUCCESSFUL WHILE YOU BECOME MORALLY BANKRUPT. IF YOUR CHOICE IS TO BECOME ECONOMICALLY SUCCESSFUL THROUGH HONESTY, INTEGRITY, AND SENSITIVITY TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS, YOU WILL HAVE GAINED ECONOMIC SUCCESS WHILE INCREASING THE CIRCLE OF PEOPLE WHO WILL LOVE AND TRUST YOU. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4156 TO 4160

MY THOUGHTS 4156
GROWTH: THE PROCESSES OF DISCOVERING WHO YOU ARE AS YOU MATURE IN LIFE ARE 1) THE DISCOVERY OF WHO YOU ARE WITH YOU WITHIN YOUR BODY, MIND AND EMOTIONS, 2) WHO YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP TO YOUR FAMILY, 3) WHO YOU ARE IN AS AN INDIVIDUAL WITHIN YOUR SOCIAL WORLD, AND 4) WHO YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP TO NATURE. THIS IS A LIFELONG PROCESS OF DISCOVERING WHO YOU ARE AT EACH MOMENT AND AT EACH STAGE OF YOUR LIFE. TO BE MINDFULLY AWARE IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4157
FAITH/SCIENCE: MANY TRY TO ESCAPE RELIGION BY FOCUSING ON TRYING TO FIND THE ANSWERS TO THE MYSTERIES OF LIFE IN SCIENCE. AS THEY DELVE DEEPER AND DEEPER INTO SCIENCE, THERE ARE QUESTIONS THAT CAN ONLY BE ANSWERED WITHIN A SPIRITUAL CONTEXT. AS NEW SCIENTIFIC DISCOVERS HAPPEN, THE CYCLE BEGINS AGAIN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4158
FAITH/SCIENCE: IN THE PAST AND MANY PLACES IN THE PRESENT, MIRACLES OR MAGIC ARE/WERE UNEXPLAINABLE FACTS OF SCIENCE. SCIENCE IS THE DEMOCRATIZATION OF MAGIC. THE EXPLORATION OF SCIENCE EVENTUALLY LEADS TO A SPIRITUALITY THAT IS NOT BASED ON RELIGIOUS DOGMA. SCIENCE BECOMES THE PATHWAY THAT WILL EVENTUALLY TRANSFORM RELIGION INTO PURER FORMS OF SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4159
QUESTION 453: DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE AS PART OF THE WHOLE OF EXISTENCE, OR DO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE COMPLETELY SEPARATE FROM THE WHOLE? CAN YOU BALANCE YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND YOU AS A TEAM PLAYER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4160
QUESTION 454: IF YOU BELIEVE THAT GOD EXISTS IN ALL THINGS, THEN HOW CAN YOU SEND PEOPLE OFF TO WAR TO KILL GOD’S CREATIONS AND TO ALLOW GOD’S CREATIONS TO STARVE AND LIVE IN SQUALOR? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4151 TO 4155

MY THOUGHTS 4151
GROWTH: AS YOU GROW, YOU DEVELOP A CONSCIOUSNESS ABOUT WHO YOU ARE WITHIN YOUR SOCIETY. ALSO, YOU BEGIN TO HAVE A CONSCIOUSNESS ABOUT NATURE AND THE WORLD AROUND YOU. YOU START OFF WITH UNDERSTANDING YOUR HUMAN CONSCIOUSNESS, THEN YOUR SOCIAL CONSCIOUSNESS, YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS OF NATURE, AND EVENTUALLY YOUR CONSCIOUS AWARENESS OF YOU WITH THE SCHEME OF THE COSMOS. YOUR CONSCIOUS AWARENESS OF ALL THESE IS PREPARING YOU FOR A HIGHER-LEVEL CONSCIOUSNESS WHEN YOU LEAVE YOUR BODY. IF YOU HAVEN’T DEVELOPED A HIGHER LEVEL OF CONSCIOUSNESS, THEN YOU WILL COME BACK AGAIN AND AGAIN UNTIL YOU LEARN THAT CONSCIOUSNESS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4152
TRUE SELF: YOUR TRUE SELF IS WHO YOU ARE AT THIS MOMENT. YOUR TASK IS TO GO DEEPER INTO WHOM YOU ARE TO CREATE A GREATER UNDERSTANDING AND A MORE COMPASSIONATE AND A MORE SPIRITUAL YOU. YOU CANNOT SAY THAT YOU HAVE FOUND THE TRUE YOU. YOU CAN ONLY SAY THAT YOU HAVE FOUND WHOM YOU ARE AT THIS MOMENT. IN THE NEXT MOMENT OR MILESTONE YOU MAY HAVE DIFFERENT VIEWS AS YOU EXPERIENCE CHANGES IN LIFE, IN SOCIETY, IN NATURE, AND IN YOUR INNER FEELINGS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4153
UNDERSTANDING: TO UNDERSTAND THE COSMOS AND THE MEANING OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MUST FIRST LOOK AROUND YOU AND OBSERVE THE WORLD AROUND. THEN GO INWARD AND FIND THE ANSWERS FROM THE CLUES PRESENTED BY THE WORLD OUTSIDE OF YOU. THE TRUE ANSWERS ARE ONLY INSIDE OF YOU. THEY ARE NOT OUTSIDE OF YOU. THE OUTSIDE WORLD IS ONLY YOUR GUIDE OR MENTOR THAT PRESENTS SITUATIONS TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT IS WITHIN YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4154
QUESTION 453: DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE AS PART OF THE WHOLE OF EXISTENCE OR DO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE COMPLETELY SEPARATE FROM THE WHOLE? CAN YOU BALANCE YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND YOU AS A TEAM PLAYER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4155
QUESTION 454: IF YOU BELIEVE THAT GOD EXISTS IN ALL THINGS, THEN HOW CAN YOU SEND PEOPLE OR GO OFF TO WAR TO KILL GOD’S CREATIONS, AND HOW CAN YOU ALLOW GOD’S CREATIONS TO LIVE IN STARVATION AND TO LIVE IN SQUALOR? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4146 TO 4150

MY THOUGHTS 4146
PROGRESS: IF YOU WISH TO MOVE FORWARD IN LIFE AND ATTAIN A HIGHER LEVEL OF SPIRITUALITY AND SELF-FULFILLMENT, YOU MUST LEAVE THE PAST HURTS BEHIND. DO NOT DWELL ON PAST NEGATIVITY BUT LEARN FROM THEM FULLY. YOU MUST BE ABLE TO GET BEYOND EACH HURDLE IN LIFE AND CONTINUE MOVING ON. EACH HURT AND EACH DISAPPOINTMENT AND EACH FAILURE IS A MILESTONE OF LEARNING TOOLS TO HELP YOU GO BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AT THAT MOMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4147
PROGRESS: WHO YOU ARE THIS LEVEL IS THE SUMMATION OF ALL OF THE SUCCESSES AND FAILURES AND HURTS THAT YOU HAVE ENCOUNTERED TO THIS MOMENT ON THIS LEVEL. ALL ARE MAJOR LEARNING TOOLS TO HELP YOU GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE. WHO YOU ARE AT THIS MOMENT IS WHO YOU ARE AT THIS MOMENT. YOU ARE NOT WHO YOU WILL BE TOMORROW OR WHO YOU WILL BE BY THE TIME YOU LEAVE YOUR BODY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4148
PURPOSE: ON THIS LEVEL YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO LEARN WHO YOU ARE IN YOUR PHYSICAL BODY, WHO YOU ARE WITHIN SOCIAL SETTINGS, WHO YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP TO NATURE, AND WHO YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP TO THE COSMOS. THAT IS YOUR PURPOSE HERE. IT IS CONSTANTLY EVOLVING AS YOU PROGRESS IN LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4149
PURPOSE: MANY ASK THEMSELVES “WHO AM I?” ON THIS LEVEL. YOU ARE WITH A MIND, A BODY, AND A SOUL TO FULFILL CERTAIN TASKS AND LEARN SPECIFIC LESSONS BEFORE YOU RETURN TO YOUR FULL SPIRITUAL SELF. YOUR PURPOSE IS NOT TO ESCAPE THIS EXISTENCE. YOUR PURPOSE IS TO USE THIS EXISTENCE TO GROW SPIRITUALLY AND TO FULFILL YOUR DHARMIC PATH THROUGH YOUR KARMIC LESSONS. THEY ARE NOT LESSONS THAT ARE LEARNED IN ONE DAY. THERE IS A LIFELONG PROCESS OF SELF-DISCOVERY ON THIS LEVEL. WHEN YOU LEARN YOUR LESSONS WELL AND FOLLOW YOUR DHARMIC PATH, THE TASK BECOMES EASIER AS YOUR SENSE OF ENLIGHTENMENT ENHANCES. YOUR TASK IS TO NOT TO BECOME SELFISH OR SELFLESS BUT TO BECOME SELF-FULLED; THAT IS, TO BE YOU AT YOUR FULL POTENTIAL THAT WILL BENEFIT YOU AND ALL THOSE AROUND YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4150
PURPOSE: YOU MAY DISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE AND FOLLOW THAT PURPOSE. HOWEVER AS YOU FOLLOW THAT PURPOSE, THERE WILL BE TRANSFORMATIONS OF YOU AND YOUR PURPOSE AT EACH MILESTONE IN YOUR LIFE. YOU REAL CONCERN SHOULD BE THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE AT EACH MILESTONE IN YOUR LIFE WILL. WILL THEY BE POSITIVE CHOICES OR NEGATIVE CHOICES? THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THOSE CHOICES RESTS ON YOU ALONE, SO CHOOSE WELL. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4141 TO 4145

MY THOUGHTS 4141
IMAGES: OLD IMAGES OF A COSMIC DIETY ARE NOT FALSE, THEY ARE THE IMAGES NECESSARY FOR THE LEVEL OF HUMAN CONSCIOUSNESS AT THOSE TIMES. THOSE IMAGES ARE STILL VALID FOR MANY TODAY. IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE ON A HIGHER CONSCIOUSNESS LEVEL, THEN YOU SHOULD BE UNDERSTANDING OF THOSE WHO ARE NOT THERE YET. IF YOU FEEL SUPERIOR TO THOSE NOT ON YOUR LEVEL, THEN YOU ARE NOT ON A TRULY HIGHER LEVEL OF CONSCIOUSNESS. YOUR ARE JUST ON A DIFFERENT TRACK. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4142
SKILLS: MANY HAVE THE COSMIC GIFT OF INSIGHT INTO COMING EVENTS IN PEOPLE’S LIVES. THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THOSE GIFTS MUST BE GIVEN FREELY WITHOUT PAYMENT. IT WAS GIVEN FREELY TO THOSE INDIVIDUALS BY THE COSMOS AS A GIFT TO HELP OTHERS AND AS A SOURCE OF SURVIVAL FOR THOSE WITH THE INSIGHT. IF SOMEONE IS IN DIRE NEED AND IS REFUSED HELP WITHOUT PAYMENT, THEN THE ISSUE IS BETWEEN THE GIFTED-ONE AND THE COSMOS. MANY PROFESSIONALS CHARGE HIGHER PRICES TO THE RICH SO THAT THEY CAN GIVE FREELY TO THE POOR. WHEN A GIFT FROM THE COSMOS IS GIVEN TO ANYONE, AND IT IS USED EXCLUSIVELY FOR PAYMENT WITHOUT COMPASSION, THERE WILL BE A RECKONING WITH THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4143
SKILLS: EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO MAKE A LIVING FROM THEIR SKILLS. NO ONE HAS A RIGHT TO DENY ESSENTIAL INFORMATION TO THOSE WHO CANNOT AFFORD THEIR SKILLS. NEVER LET YOUR SKILLS CORRUPT YOU. IF YOU DO NOT SHARE YOUR SKILLS FREELY DURING DIRE CIRCUMSTANCES, IT WLL EFFECT YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, YOUR CHARACTER, AND YOUR INTEGRITY. SKILLED PERSONS WHO ALWAYS GIVE A LITTLE EXTRA WITHOUT COMPENSATION TO HELP OTHERS SEEM TO DO A LOT BETTER IN LIFE. THOSE WHO GO STRICTLY BY THE CLOCK WITHOUT COMPASSION TEND TO LOSE THEIR SKILLS AND RELY MORE AND MORE ON GUESS WORK. WISHING ALL SKILLED INDIVIDUALS TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND COMPASSIONATE WITH THEIR GIFTS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4144
RESPONSIBILITIES: IF ONE DOES NOT HAVE CONTROL OF ONE’S PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITIES AND ONE’S SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES, THEN LIFE BECOMES A CONSTANT STRUGGLE BETWEEN ONE’S INDIVIDUALITY AND ONE’S COMMUNAL RESPONSIBILITIES. THIS ALSO APPLIES TO MARRIAGE. THE REALITY IS THAT THERE IS THE NEED TO BALANCE ONE’S ONENESS WITH ONE’S TOGETHERNESS. WE ARE HERE TO LEARN OUR INDIVIDUAL LESSONS AND OUR SOCIAL LESSONS, HOPEFULLY, WITH A PARTNER WHO UNDERSTANDS THAT HE/SHE HAS LESSONS TO LEARN SEPARATELY AND ALSO LESSONS TO LEARN AS A PARTNERSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4145
INTEGRITY: SOMETIMES ONE MUST WALK AWAY FROM A LUCRATIVE POSITION IF IT STARTS TO EFFECT YOUR PERSONAL INTEGRITY AND YOUR SPIRITUALITY. THE REAL CHOICE HERE IS WHETHER TO MAINTAIN YOUR SPIRITUAL INTEGRITY OR TO SELL YOUR SOUL FOR MATERIAL PHYSICAL COMFORTS AND GRADUAL MORAL DECAY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4136 TO 4140

MY THOUGHTS 4136
MATERIALISM: MANY SWAMIS AND GURU HAVE BECOME CORRUPTED BY MATERIALISM, JUST AS MANY TEACHERS AND POLITICIANS HAVE. THIS IS TRULY A TIME OF ENLIGHTENMENT WHEN THE COSMOS HAS PROVIDED SO MANY TEST OF ONE’S SPIRITUALITY. MANY ARE CHOOSING MATERIALISM AND MANY ARE CHOOSING SPIRITUALITY. IF YOU CHOOSE MATERIALISM TO THE DETRIMENT OF OTHERS, IT IS A POOR KARMIC CHOICE. IF YOU CHOOSE TO SEEK MATERIAL GAIN TO HELP YOU AND OTHERS TO HAVE A BETTER SPIRITUAL LIFE, IT IS A GOOD KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4137
SHARING: TO MAINTAIN A SPIRITUAL YOU, YOU SHOULD LIVE A SIMPLE LIFE AND BE SATISFIED WITH THE SIMPLE NEEDS OF YOUR SOCIETY. IF YOU HAVE MATERIAL WEALTH, DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF IT IF YOU ARE USING IT TO HELP OTHERS LESS FORTUNATE THAN YOU. SHARE FREELY AND EXPECT NO COMPENSATION AS SOME SPIRITUALLY ELITE DO TODAY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4138
CHOICES: THESE CHAOTIC TIMES ARE A GIFT FROM THE COSMOS TO GIVE EVERYONE THE OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE GOOD KARMIC CHOICES. MANY WILL NOT MAKE GOOD KARMIC CHOICES AND WILL BE GIVEN OPPORTUNITIES AGAIN IN THIS LIFE TIME OR THE NEXT TIME AROUND TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES. ONE SHOULD ONLY WISH TO LEAVE HERE WITH ONE’S SPIRITUALITY AT ITS BEST FOR THE LESSONS THAT ONE IS HAS BEEN GIVEN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4139
PROGRESS: ALWAYS SEEK TO PROGRESS SPIRITUALLY IN YOUR LIFE. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE UPS AND DOWNS. THE DOWNS ARE LESSONS TO BE LEARNED. THE UPS ARE THE SHARING OF YOUR LIGHT. EVERYONE HAS A SPECIAL PURPOSE IN THIS LIFE THAT WILL BE REVEALED TO HIM/HER AT SOME FUTURE TIME IN HER/HIS LIFE. MEANWHILE, ONE MUST PROGRESS AND LEARN. PROGRESS SOMETIMES REQUIRES BACKWARD STEPS TO REFLECT ON SO THAT ONE CAN MOVE FORWARD AGAIN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4140
CRISES: WHEN A CRISIS CONFRONTS YOU, THERE ARE ONLY TWO OUTCOMES: YOU DEAL WITH IT OR RUNAWAY FROM IT. WHEN YOU FINISH FACING ANY CRISIS, YOU CAN RE-FOCUS ON YOU. YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH SATISFACTION AND WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU NEED TO IMPROVE ON SOMETHING, OR THAT PARTICULAR TYPE OF CRISIS IS TO BE AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS. EITHER WAY, IT IS CLARIFICATION FOR YOU. THOSE WHO TRULY LOVE YOU WILL STILL LOVE YOU. TRUE FRIENDS WILL STILL BE THERE FOR YOU. ANY CRISIS IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD; IT CAN BE THE SIGN OF NEW BEGINNINGS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4131 TO 4135

MY THOUGHTS 4131
WISDOM: TRUE WISDOM IS KNOWING THAT YOU ARE NOT TRULY WISE ENOUGH. YOU ARE CONSTANTLY SEEKING NEW KNOWLEDGE AND FROM THAT NEW KNOWLEDGE YOU HOPE THAT WE CAN OBTAIN A DEEPER WISDOM. ACTUALLY THE WISE MAN ALWAYS SEEKS DEEPER WISDOM FROM ALL KNOWLEDGE SOURCES. THE NOT SO WISE PERSON SEEKS ONLY PROFIT FROM ALL KNOWLEDGE SOURCES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4132
SHARING: HAVING INNER PRIDE FOR YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS CAN BE HELPFUL TO MANY OTHERS. HOWEVER DO NOT BE EXTERNALLY PROUD OR BOASTFUL OF WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED. JUST SHARE AND HELP OTHER WITH WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED. EVERYONE HAS SOMETHING TO SHARE WHETHER IT’S VERY MINOR OR MAJOR. EVERYONE IS EQUAL IN THE GIFT GIVING OF LIFE. THEREFORE, BE OPEN-MINDED TO WHAT OTHERS NEED TO OR WANT TO SHARE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4133
HUMILITY: HAVING HUMILITY DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU BECOME SELFLESS. IT MEANS THAT YOU BECOME SELF-FULL. THAT IS, YOU DEVELOP YOURSELF IN ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE WHILE NOT TAKING A POSITION OF SUPERIORITY IN ANY FORM OVER ANYONE. HUMILITY IS SHARING WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4134
QUESTION 452: ARE YOU MINDFULLY LEARNING TO GAIN PERSONAL MATERIAL WEALTH AND SELF-AGGRANDIZEMENT, OR ARE YOU LEARNING TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE AS WELL AS THE LIVES OF ALL THOSE AROUND? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4135
HUMILITY: WHEN YOU HAVE TRUE HUMILITY, THE DOORS TO DEEPER UNDERSTANDING OPEN VERY EASILY. IF YOU TRY TO CREATE HUMILITY WITH EXPECTATIONS OF SPECIFIC GAINS, YOU ARE ON THE WRONG TRACK. YOU SHOULD HAVE HUMILITY TO BE HUMBLE. BEING HUMBLE DOES NOT MEAN SELF-EFFACEMENT. BEING HUMBLE MEANS BEING THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE WITHOUT FEELING SUPERIOR TO OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4126 TO 4130

MY THOUGHTS 4126
OPEN-MINDEDNESS: A CLOSED-MIND IS SELF-CENTERED, DOGMATIC, AND DICTATORIAL. AN OPENED-MIND MIND LEADS TO OPENNESS, SELF-DISCOVERY, AND THE DISCOVERY OF ALL THE WONDERS AROUND IT. AN OPEN-MIND IS A LISTENING MIND, NOT A SPEAKING MIND. AN OPEN-MIND MINDFULLY LISTENS AND ONLY SPEAKS WHEN IT HAS SOMETHING IMPORTANT TO CONTRIBUTE. OPEN-MINDS KNOW HOW TO LISTEN, KNOW HOW TO LEARN, AND KNOW HOW TO EVALUATE ALL THAT IS WITHIN THEIR HEARING RANGE. A TRULY OPEN-MIND IS ABLE TO ASSIMILATE ALL THE WISDOM THAT IS AROUND IT. YOUR CHOICE: BE OPEN-MINDED OR BE CLOSED-MINDED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4127
QUESTION 451: ARE YOU OPEN-MINDED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS OR ARE YOU CLOSE MINDED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? ARE YOU CLOSED-MINDED ON CERTAIN THINGS CONCERNING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? ARE YOU OPEN-MINDED ON THE ISSUES THAT ‘YOU’ HAVE IN THE RELATIONSHIP? ARE CLOSED-MINDED ON THE ISSUES THAT YOUR PARTNER HAS IN THE RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU AN ACTIVE LISTENER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS OR ARE YOU A PASSIVE LISTENER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4128
LISTENING: WHEN YOU MINDFULLY LISTEN TO OTHERS AS THEY SHARE THEIR FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS, YOU ARE CREATING BETTER COMMUNICATION SKILLS WITH THEM. LISTENING IS LIKE DOING THE VIENNESE WALTZ WITH THE OTHER PERSON. A HARMONIOUS, LIVELY, ‘MEETING OF THE MINDS’ KIND OF DANCE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4129
LISTENING: ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT STRENGTHS THAT ONE MUST HAVE IN ORDER TO PRODUCE A HARMONIOUS WORLD IS KNOWING HOW TO MINDFULLY LISTEN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4130
LISTENING: WHO LEARNS MORE THE LISTENER OR THE TALKER? A TRULY WISE PERSON WILL MINDFULLY LISTEN TO AND CONTEMPLATE ON WHAT THE SPEAKER IS COMMUNICATING. A TRULY WISE PERSON WILL SPEAK ONLY WHEN THERE IS SOMETHING IMPORTANT TO CONTRIBUTE. A NOT SO WISE PERSON WILL TRY TO CONVINCE YOU THAT HE OR SHE IS RIGHT IN EVERYTHING THAT THEY SAY AND DO. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4121 TO 4125

MY THOUGHTS 4121
ATTACHMENTS: WHEN YOU COMBINE NON-ATTACHMENT WITH COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING, YOU ARE TAKING THE RIGHT PATH. IF YOU ARE ATTACHED TO THE RESULTS OF WHAT HAPPENS, IT WILL CAUSE YOU DISAPPOINTMENTS OR GREAT JOY. THE KEY IS TO DO THE BEST YOU CAN WITH PREFERRED RESULTS, BUT NOT WITH EXPECTED RESULTS. IT IS THE FAILED EXPECTATIONS THAT CAUSES DISAPPOINTMENTS AND DISHARMONY WITHIN ONESELF. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4122
ATTACHMENTS: WHEN YOU FACE YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES AND DUTIES WITHOUT ATTACHMENTS, YOU CAN ACHIEVE HIGHER LEVELS OF SELF-AWARENESS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4123
BLAME: YOU CAN ELIMINATE BLAMING OTHERS IF YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS WHILE TAKING FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4124
QUESTION 450: ARE YOU LISTENING TO LEARN SOMETHING FROM THE OTHER PERSON OR ARE YOU LISTENING PASSIVELY WHILE PREPARING TO RESPOND TO THE OTHER PERSON? ARE YOU OUTWARDLY LISTENING TO SOMEONE BUT INTERNALLY PREPARING YOUR PERSONAL STATEMENTS TO THAT PERSON?
EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4125
LISTENING: YOU DO NOT HAVE TO RESPOND EVERY TIME SOMEONE SHARES INFORMATION WITH YOU. THEY ARE SHARING AND YOU ARE LISTENING. AFTER YOU HAVE LISTENED, GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY ARE SHARING. AND THEN, IF NECESSARY, YOU CAN RESPOND IN AN APPROPRIATE WAY. LISTENING TO SOMEONE DOES NOT NECESSARY MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO RESPOND TO WHAT YOU HAVE HEARD, JUST LISTEN TO LEARN AND LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND SO THAT YOU CAN CONTEMPLATE WHAT THAT PERSON IS SHARING WITH YOU. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4116 TO 4120

MY THOUGHTS 4116
ROLE MODELS: WHO ARE YOUR ROLE MODELS OR HEROES IN LIFE? IF THEY ARE SPORTS FIGURES, MOVIE STARS, AND ENTERTAINERS, IT’S TIME TO GO INWARD AND RE EXAMINE YOUR VALUES IN LIFE. IT IS OKAY TO ADMIRE THE SKILLS OF SPORTS FIGURES, HOW MOVIE STARS PLAY THE ROLES, AND HOW ENTERTAINERS BRING ENJOYMENT TO YOU: HOWEVER, THEY ARE NOT HEROES OR ROLE MODELS TO FOLLOW IN LIFE; THEY ARE ONLY ENTERTAINERS. IF YOU NEED A HERO OR ROLE MODEL TO MIMIC, THEN LOOK AT YOUR LOCAL PEACE OFFICERS, FIREFIGHTERS, FIRST RESPONDERS, AND OTHER COMMUNITY HELPERS AS EXAMPLES OF HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4117
RELATIONSHIPS: TODAY, THE THREE SILENT ENEMIES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE MODERN MASS MEDIA AND ITS COMMERCIALS, GOVERNMENT SOCIAL WELFARE ORGANIZATIONS, AND THE CURRENT EDUCATIONAL SYSTEMS. THE MASS MEDIA NEWS GIVES LIMITED NEWS IN HALF TRUTHS, PRESENT PROGRAMS THAT DESTROYS OR DISTORTS SOCIAL VALUES, AND INTERRUPT PROGRAMS WITH BRAINWASHING COMMERCIALS. THE GOVERNMENT SOCIAL WELFARE PROGRAMS DICTATE FAMILY VALUES WHICH DIVIDE FAMILY MEMBERS SOCIALLY AND POLITICALLY. THE EDUCATION SYSTEM TEACHES OR DICTATES POLITICAL AND SOCIAL VALUES THAT CAUSE FAMILY DISUNITY. MANY UNIONS, WORKERS AND TEACHERS UNIONS, ARE MORE INTERESTED IN POLITICAL AGENDAS THEN IN THE WORKERS OR THE TEACHERS THAT THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO REPRESENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4118
RELATIONSHIPS: TODAY, MANY PEOPLE ARE CAUGHT UP IN MATERIAL ACHIEVEMENTS AND TRYING TO BE ‘#1’ AT ALL COSTS. THEY ARE FORGETTING TO NURTURE THE PERSONAL ONE TO ONE RELATIONSHIPS. THEY ARE MORE CONNECTED BY MATERIAL CONNECTIONS INSTEAD OF HEART TO HEART, MIND TO MIND, SOUL TO SOUL HUMAN CONNECTIONS. THE RECENT ECONOMIC COLLAPSE STARTED TO BRING SOME PEOPLE BACK TO REALITY OF HUMAN TO HUMAN, HUMAN TO NATURE, SPIRIT TO SPIRIT CONNECTIONS. SOME PEOPLE ARE RETURNING TO THE WARM HUMANE SIDE OF HUMANITY WHILE SOME RATHER HOLD ON TO THE COLD MATERIALISTIC SIDE OF HUMANITY. CHOICES! EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4119
INNER PEACE: WHEN YOU GO INWARD AND CREATE AN INNER AWARENESS OF YOU AND CREATE A CALM AROUND THE ESSENCE OF YOU, YOU WILL BE BALANCED HARMONIOUSLY AND BE ABLE TO FACE ANYTHING THAT COMES YOUR WAY. AS YOU GO THROUGH LIFE YOU WILL MEET SITUATIONS THAT WILL HAVE A TENDENCY TO CREATE TENSION WITHIN YOU. IF YOU HAVE INNER PEACE, AND IF YOU ARE TRULY CENTERED; THEN YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOU. IF YOU ARE NOT CENTERED, THEN SOME OUTER FORCE HAS CONTROL OF YOU. YOUR CHOICE: INNER CONTROL OR SUBMIT TO OUTER FORCES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4120
REFLECTIONS: WHEN YOUR DAY IS OVER, FIND A NICE QUIET PLACE WHERE YOU CAN REFLECT ON YOUR DECISIONS OF THE DAY AND HOW YOU HAD MADE THEM. PONDER WHETHER YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS PRODUCED HARMONY OR DISHARMONY IN OTHERS AND IN THE WORLD AROUND YOU. ALSO, PONDER WHETHER YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS CREATED WITHIN YOU A TEMPORARY SATISFACTION OF RETRIBUTION OR INTERNAL PEACE AND HARMONY. YOUR ACTIONS AND REACTIONS ARE YOUR KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4111 TO 4115

MY THOUGHTS 4111
SOLITUDE: BEING ALONE IS LIKE A TWO-EDGED SWORD. YOU CAN FALL INTO DEPRESSION AND FEELINGS OF REGRET, WHICH CREATES NEGATIVE FEELINGS. ONE CAN USE THE ALONE TIME TO GO INWARD AND UNDERSTAND ONESELF COMPLETELY AND BUILD THE LIGHT WITHIN ONESELF. THE QUESTION IS WHICH DO YOU FEED: THE FEELING OF LONELINESS OR THE FEELING OF INTROSPECTION. BOTH EDGES OF THE BLADE ARE TOOLS FOR YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. USE THEM WELL.
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MY THOUGHTS 4112
GROWTH: NEVER INTERFERE IN THE PATH THAT YOUR LOVED-ONES HAVE TO WALK. HOWEVER, ALWAYS BE READY TO HELP WHEN THEY ASK YOU FOR ADVICE. THEREFORE, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO GO INWARD AND UNDERSTAND YOU AND DEVELOP YOUR INNER WISDOM AND SPIRITUALITY SO THAT YOU CAN HELP THEM WHEN THEY NEED YOUR HELP. YOUR RESPONSIBILITY IS TO BE READY SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND PHYSICALLY FOR WHEN THEY NEED YOUR HELP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4113
TEACHING: A TRUE TEACHER DOES NOT WANT HER/HIS STUDENTS TO BE TOTALLY DEPENDENT ON HIM/HER. THE TEACHERS DESIRE SHOULD BE TO TEACH AND GUIDE HER/HIS STUDENTS SO THAT THEY CAN BE INDEPENDENT THINKERS AND BECOME INDEPENDENT TEACHERS ON THEIR OWN. WHEN THE STUDENTS LEAVE TO BECOME INDEPENDENT TEACHERS, IT ALLOWS NEW STUDENTS TO ENTER HIS TEACHERS WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4114
TEACHING: THE BEST WAY FOR STUDENTS TO RESPECT AND HONOR THEIR TEACHERS IS TO MOVE ON AND TRY TO BE BETTER THAN THEIR TEACHERS. A TRUE STUDENT WILL STRIVE TO BE INDEPENDENT OF HIS/HER TEACHERS WHILE SHARING THE TEACHERS’ WISDOM. IF THE STUDENT BECOMES DEPENDENT ON THAT TEACHER FOR THAT STUDENT’S WHOLE LIFE, THAT STUDENT HAS NOT LEARNED THE TEACHER’S LESSONS AND HAS MADE HIM A PRISONER OF THAT STUDENT BY THAT STUDENT’S DEPENDENCY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4115
TEACHING: A TRUE TEACHER WANTS HIS/HER STUDENTS TO THINK FOR THEMSELVES AND NOT TO BECOME TOTALLY DEPENDENT ON THE TEACHER. A TRUE TEACHER WANT HER/HIS STUDENTS TO BE SELF-SUFFICIENT SPIRITUAL BEINGS, NOT PARASITES HANGING ON TO THE TEACHER’S EXISTENCE. THEY NEEDED TO GROW BEYOND HIM. A SOME POINT EACH STUDENT MUST MOVED ON AND HONOR HIS TEACHER BY BECOMING SELF-SUFFICIENT BEINGS ON ONE’S OWN SPIRITUAL JOURNEY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4106 TO 4110

MY THOUGHTS 4106
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN A RELATIONSHIP ENDS THERE ARE THREE POSSIBLE OUTCOMES: 1) BOTH PARTIES ARE UNHAPPY, 2) BOTH PARTIES ARE HAPPY, AND 3) ONE MEMBER MAY BE UNHAPPY AND THE OTHER MEMBER MAY BE HAPPY. AFTER YOU HAVE DEALT WITH THE TURMOILS OF A BREAK UP, CELEBRATE THE END OF THE RELATIONSHIP FOR TWO REASONS: 1) YOU ARE FREE TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND GROW BEYOND THAT RELATIONSHIP, AND 2) THE OTHER PARTNER IS ALSO FREE TO GROW BEYOND THE RELATIONSHIP. IF OR WHEN YOUR PATHS CROSS AGAIN, CONGRATULATE EACH OTHER NEW RELATIONSHIPS AND THEIR GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4107
SEPARATION: THE MEMBERS OF A SEPARATED RELATIONSHIP MAY HAVE DIFFICULTIES IF ONE OF THE SEPARATED PARTNERS HAS NO RESPECT FOR THE OTHER PARTNER. SO, MANY MEMBERS OF THAT RELATIONSHIP WILL COVER UP THEIR FEELINGS BY PARTYING. REMEMBER THAT THOSE WHO PARTY ALL THE TIME MAY BE TRYING TO FORGET THEIR SORROWS OR CONFUSING THOUGHTS BY PARTYING WITH THEIR FRIENDS. REMEMBER THAT THOSE WHO SPEND MORE TIME DRINKING THAN COMMUNICATING WITH BOTH PARTNERS MAY BE TRYING TO DROWN THEIR SORROWS IN THEIR DRINKS. HOWEVER, THEY MAY TEMPORARILY DROWN THEIR SORROWS, BUT THOSE SORROWS WILL RETURN ONCE THEY ARE SOBER AGAIN. THE ONLY WAY TO DEAL WITH THOSE ISSUES IS TO FACE THEM FULLY AND HONESTLY. IT WILL ALSO BE A LOT CHEAPER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4108
CHOICES: IF IT IS A LOT CHEAPER TO DEAL WITH THE ISSUES THAT YOU HAVE THEN TO TRY TO DROWN THEM IN DRINK. WHEN YOU DRINK, YOU SUPPRESS YOUR HURT FEELINGS AND YOU FEED THE URINALS OR COMMODES AROUND YOU. WHEN YOU DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUES, THE MONEY YOU SAVE CAN BE USED TO HELP THOSE WHOM YOU LOVE WHO NEED YOUR HELP. THE CHOICES ARE EITHER TO SUPPRESS YOUR FEELINGS WITH DRINK OR TO USE THAT MONEY TO HELP THOSE WHO NEED YOUR HELP. WHICH IS THE BETTER KARMIC CHOICE. ESCAPING OR BE USEFUL. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4109
TEACHING: A TRUE TEACHER WILL KNOW WHEN A STUDENT HAS BEEN TAUGHT ALL THAT THE TEACHER CAN TEACH HIM/HER. IT IS THEN TIME FOR THAT TEACHER TO RELEASE THAT STUDENT SO THAT SHE/HE CAN PRACTICE, PERFECT, AND IMPROVE ON WHAT HE HAS BEEN TAUGHT. THE STUDENT CAN RETURN TO SHARE WHAT HE HAS LEARNED TO IMPROVE ON THE TEACHER’S LESSON. HOWEVER, HE MUST RETURN TO HIS OWN STUDENTS TO CONTINUE THE TEACHING/LEARNING PROCESS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4110
TEACHING: A STUDENT SEEKS A TEACHER TO HELP OPEN HER/HIS THOUGHT PROCESSES. WHEN THAT STUDENT HAS LEARNED ALL THAT HE CAN FROM THAT TEACHER, IT IS TIME FOR THAT STUDENT TO MOVE ON AND PUT WHAT HE HAS LEARNED INTO PRACTICE IN HIS/HER CHOSEN SOCIAL WORLD. WHEN THE STUDENT BECOMES A TEACHER IN HIS/HER OWN RIGHT, THAT BECOMES THE REAL TEST OF WHAT SHE/HE HAS LEARNED. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGH 4101 TO 4105

MY THOUGHTS 4101
SUGGESTION: WHEN YOU ARE DRIVING AND OTHER DRIVERS ARE RUDE AND YOU BEGIN TO FEEL ROAD RAGE, INSTEAD OF GIVING THAT ROAD RAGE POWER, SLOW DOWN AND LET THE RUDE DRIVER MOVE ON. JUST COVER HIS/HER VEHICLE IN WHITE COSMIC LIGHT CONTAINING A PRAYER WISHING HER/HIM TO REACH HIS/HER DESTINATION WITHOUT CAUSING INJURY TO ANYONE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4102
MARRIAGE: MARITAL AGE IS BASED ON THE CULTURE THAT ONE LIVES IN AND THE TYPE OF SOCIETY ONE LIVES IN. IN AGRICULTURAL SOCIETIES, MARRIAGE AT A YOUNG AGE IS IMPORTANT. IN INDUSTRIAL AND HIGH-TECH SOCIETIES, MARRIAGE AT A MUCH LATER AGE IS PREFERABLE. ONE MUST FINISH ONE’S FORMAL EDUCATION BEFORE MARRIAGE AND STARTING A FAMILY. REMEMBER THAT TODAY MANY CULTURES ARE TRANSITIONING AWAY FROM AGRICULTURE TOWARD INDUSTRIAL HIGH-TECH SOCIETIES. THIS IS CAUSING A GREAT CONFLICT BETWEEN TRADITIONAL VALUES AND NEW EMERGING VALUES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4103
MARRIAGE: MARRIAGE SHOULD BE DELAYED UNTIL YOU HAVE MET SOMEONE WHO IS COMPATIBLE WITH YOU AND IS ON A SIMILAR DHARMIC PATH. IF YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE WHO IS WILLING TO SHARE A TANTRIC KUNDALINI RELATIONSHIP, THE CHOICE WILL BE BENEFICIAL TO BOTH OF YOU. IT CAN CREATE A STRONG PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL BOND. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4104
SEPARATION: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IF YOU STAY AWAY FROM YOUR LOVED-ONES IF YOU ARE ON A SPIRITUAL JOURNEY AND THEY ARE NOT RECEPTIVE NOR UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR RIGHTS TO YOUR THOUGHTS. BE DISTANT ENOUGH TO BE ‘YOU’ AND CLOSE ENOUGH TO BE AVAILABLE TO HELP THEM IN A CRISIS IF YOU ARE CALLED UPON TO HELP. IF YOU ARE NOT CALLED UPON TO HELP, REMEMBER THAT THEY HAVE TO WALK THEIR DHARMIC PATH AND FACE THEIR OWN KARMIC CHOICES. YOU CAN, HOWEVER, SEND THEM PRAYERS AND LIGHT TO ASSIST THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4105
CHANGES: THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE. YOU MUST BE WILLING TO MAKE THOSE ADJUSTMENTS AND MOVE ON WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING IN YOUR HEART. SO, STRIVE TO UNDERSTAND THOSE CHANGES, TO ACCEPT THOSE CHANGES, AND TO LIVE THOSE CHANGES ON YOUR RE-NEWED LIFE’S PATH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4096 TO 4100

MY THOUGHTS 4096
SUGGESTIONS: WHEN YOU COME ACROSS A TRAGIC ACCIDENT, SEND WHITE COSMIC LIGHT, PRAYERS, AND ANGELS TO THE SCENE. THE WHITE COSMIC LIGHT WILL HELP THOSE SPIRITS WHO HAVE LEFT THEIR HUMAN BODIES FIND THEIR WAY HOME. THE PRAYERS ARE FOR THE SURVIVORS TO GET HELP AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. THE ANGELS HAVE TWO FUNCTION: 1) TO HELP THOSE HAVE PASSED ON OR ABOUT TO PASS ON TO DO SO AS QUICKY AND AS MERCIFULLY AS POSSIBLE, AND 2) FOR THOSE WHO HAVE SURVIVED, TO HAVE A SPEEDY RECOVERY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4097
SEPARATION: WHEN YOU FEEL ABANDONED BY FAMILY AND FRIENDS YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED BECAUSE YOU AND THEY ARE NOW ON DIFFERENT PATHS IN YOUR LIVES. INSTEAD OF HOLDING ON TO BITTERNESS OR HURT FEELINGS, FOCUS ON EXPRESSING YOUR GRATITUDE FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU WERE AT THAT TIME OF SEPARATION WHILE WISHING THE OTHERS SUCCESS ON THEIR PATHS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4098
SEPARATION: WHEN IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON, YOU MUST MOVE ON. MOVE ON WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING IN YOUR HEART. IF AND WHEN YOU HAVE MOMENTS OF REGRET, REMEMBER WHERE YOU ARE NOW AND WHERE YOU WERE THEN. IT IS NATURAL TO HAVE HEARTFELT PAINS FROM TIME TO TIME. IT MEANS THAT YOU HAD HAD SOME MEANINGFUL ASPECTS IN THOSE RELATIONSHIPS. REMEMBER THAT WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN PATHS TO WALK AND AT SOME POINT WE MAY HAVE TO SEPARATE AND MOVE ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4099
SEPARATION: HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THOSE THAT YOU ARE SEPARATED FROM IS YOUR KARMIC CHOICE, AND HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU IS THERE KARMIC CHOICE. LIVE YOUR NEW LIFE AND LET THEM LIVE THERE NEW LIVES. EVEN IF THEY DO NOT WISH YOU WELL, WISH THEM WELL ON THEIR PATH. IF THEY WISH WALK IN THE DARK FOR A WHILE, YOU MUST CONTINUE TO WALK IN THE LIGHT. THIS IS THE BEGINNING OF UNDERSTANDING THE NEED FOR THE SEPARATION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4100
CHANGES: THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE. YOU MUST BE WILLING TO MAKE THOSE ADJUSTMENTS AND MOVE ON WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING IN YOUR HEART. SO, STRIVE TO UNDERSTAND THOSE CHANGES, TO ACCEPT THOSE CHANGES, AND TO LIVE THOSE CHANGES ON YOUR RE-NEWED LIFE’S PATH. EmilKoval©2013

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