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Archive for January 8th, 2013

THOUGHT 4076 TO 4080

MY THOUGHTS 4076
CHILDREN: HAVING CHILDREN OR NOT HAVING CHILDREN IS A BIOLOGICAL OR KARMIC PROBLEM. HAVING AND LOVING YOUR OWN CHILDREN IS A SELFISH LOVE. NOT HAVING CHILDREN AND LOVING CHILDREN REQUIRES A TRUE COSMIC LOVE. TO LOVE WHAT IN NOT YOURS BIOLOGICALLY IS A TRUE EXPRESSION OF LOVE. THE BEST EXAMPLE IS MOTHER TERESA. HOWEVER, IF YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHO HAS CHILDREN, THE QUESTION IS HOW TRUE IS THE YOUR LOVE FOR HER/HIS CHILDREN. THE TRUE ANSWER COMES WHEN YOU BEGIN TO HAVE PROBLEMS WITH THAT BIOLOGICAL PARENT OR YOU SEPARATE FROM THAT BIOLOGICAL PARENT. WHEN THOSE THINGS HAPPEN, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL TOWARDS THE CHILDREN OF THAT BIOLOGICAL PARENT? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4077
KINDNESS: IF YOU WISH TO LIVE IN A WORLD OF LOVING KINDNESS, IT STARTS FROM WITHIN ONE SELF. THAT IS, YOU, YOURSELF, MUST FOCUS ON BEING LOVING, KIND, AND COMPASSIONATE TO ALL THOSE AROUND YOU WITHOUT EXPECTING THE SAME ATTITUDES FROM OTHERS. THOSE WHO HAVE THE SAME OR SIMILAR ATTITUDES WILL GRAVITATE TOWARDS YOU. THOSE WHO DO NOT WILL START TO DISTANCE THEMSELVES FROM YOU. REMEMBER THAT YOUR LOVING KINDNESS IS BASED ON YOUR INTERNAL BELIEFS, NOT THE EXPECTATIONS OF OTHERS. ONE WAY TO LIVE A LOVING AND KIND LIFE IS TO LIVE A SIMPLE LIFE AND SHARING ‘YOUR’ LOVING KINDNESS WITH OTHERS WITHOUT EXPECTING LOVING KINDNESS FROM THEM. JUST BE LOVING KINDNESS ITSELF. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4078
COMPASSION: TRUE COMPASSION REQUIRES A STRONG SOLID INNER-SELF AND A SOFT EXTERIOR. TRUE COMPASSION IS WHEN YOU CAN SEE AND UNDERSTAND THE SUFFERING OF OTHERS. YOU MAY SIT DOWN AND EMPATHIZE WITH A HURT SOMEONE, BUT THE BEST WAY TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR COMPASSION IS WITH LOVING CARE, HEART FELT TOUCHING, SINCERELY LISTENING, AND WISELY ADVISING. TRUE COMPASSION IS ALSO HELPING TO CHANGE THAT SUFFERING INTO ASPIRATIONS FOR A BETTER FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4079
COMPASSION: DO NOT EXPRESS YOUR COMPASSION WITH PITY; EXPRESS YOUR COMPASSION WITH UNDERSTANDING. DO NOT EXPRESS YOUR COMPASSION WITH MORAL OUTRAGE; EXPRESS YOUR COMPASSION WITH LOVING CONCERN. DO NOT EXPRESS YOUR COMPASSION WITH FEAR; EXPRESS YOUR COMPASSION WITH LOVING HOPE. IF THIS IS CONFUSING, THEN FOLLOW THE EXAMPLE OF MOTHER TERESA AND THE DALAI LAMA. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4080
BLAME: WHEN YOU START TO BLAME OTHER PEOPLE, SITUATIONS, AND THINGS FOR YOUR PROBLEMS IN LIFE, YOU HAVE JUST BEGUN TO LOSE CONTROL OF ‘YOU’. WHEN YOU ARE IN TOTAL CONTROL OF YOU, ALL YOU NEED TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT IS YOUR REACTIONS TO THE EXTERNAL FORCES UPON YOU. EmilKoval©2013

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