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THOUGHTS 4346 TO 4350

MY THOUGHTS 4346
ADDICTIONS: RECOGNIZING THAT YOU HAVE AN OBSESSION ABOUT SOMETHING IS THE FIRST STEP IN DEALING WITH THAT OBSESSION. THEN YOU MUST DETERMINE WHETHER THAT OBSESSION IS AN ESCAPE FROM SOME NEGATIVITY IN YOUR LIFE OR WHETHER IT IS AN ADDICTION. IF IT IS AN ESCAPE FROM LIFE’S NEGATIVES, IT IS TIME TO FACE THOSE NEGATIVES FULLY, UNDERSTAND THEM FULLY, AND EMBRACE THEM FULLY BECAUSE THEY ARE A PART OF YOUR LIFE’S EXPERIENCE. FIND A WAY TO TURN THOSE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. THE QUESTION IS: DO YOU LET THE NEGATIVES CONTROL YOUR LIFE, OR DO YOU TURN THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS TO ENHANCE YOU LIFE? IF IT IS AN ADDICTION, THEN YOU WILL HAVE DECIDE WHO WILL BE CONTROL OF YOUR EXISTENCE: YOU AND YOU DREAMS OR THE ADDICTION(S). THESE ARE NOT EASY CHOICES. THEY REQUIRE YOUR INNER STRENGTH TO GET BEYOND THE NEGATIVES OR THE ADDICTIONS. THE BOTTOM LINE IS WHO IS IN CONTROL OF YOUR EXISTENCE: YOU OR YOUR OBSESSIONS AND ADDICTIONS. THE CHOICE IS YOURS: BE ‘YOU’ FULLY OR SURRENDER TO THE NEGATIVES OF LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4347
ADDICTIONS: MANY ARE ADDICTED TO CERTAIN TYPES OF PEOPLE, HABITS, SPENDING, ATTENTION, FOOD, CARS, SHOES, AND SPECIFIC MATERIAL THINGS. IF THESE ADDICTIONS CREATE COMPLICATIONS IN YOUR LIFE, THEN YOU MUST DETERMINE WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT: THE ADDICTION OR YOU. IF THE ANSWER IS YOU, THEN YOU MUST START THE PROCESS REDUCING YOUR DEPENDENCY ON THOSE ADDICTIONS. YOU JUST NEED TO CONTROL YOUR OBSESSIONS WITH THEM. YOU MAY SURRENDER TO THOSE ADDICTIONS FROM TIME TO TIME. AS LONG AS YOU RECOGNIZE THOSE WEAK MOMENTS AND THEN CONTINUE REDUCING YOUR DEPENDENCY, YOU WILL BE OKAY. REMEMBER THAT MOMENTARY FAILURES ARE JUST REMINDERS THAT THERE IS STILL A PROBLEM, AND THAT YOU MUST CONTINUE TO WORK ON IT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4348
SELF-MADE: THERE IS NO SUCH PERSON AS A TRULY SELF-MADE PERSON. HOWEVER, THERE IS A SELF DIRECTED PERSON WHO MAKES SUCCESSFUL DECISIONS BASED ON THE INFORMATION GATHERED FROM THOSE IN HIS CIRCLE OF KNOWLEDGE. A SELF-MADE PERSON DOES RELY UPON THE HELP AND THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY OTHERS, WHETHER THE INFORMATION IS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. HE/SHE WILL MAKE HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS BASED ON THE INFORMATION THAT SHE/HE HAS GATHERED FROM OTHERS. A SELF-DIRECTED PERSON USES ALL THE INFORMATION AVAILABLE TO HIM/HER AND MAKES HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS AND TAKES THE CONSEQUENCES OF HIS/HER OWN DECISIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4349
QUESTION 510: ARE YOU LIMITED BY YOUR GROUP OR YOUR ‘TRIBAL’ PRECEPTS? CAN YOU GO BEYOND THOSE LIMITING PRECEPTS TO A WHOLE SPECIES ORIENTED PRECEPT? ARE YOU WILLING TO INCLUDE ALL THINGS OUTSIDE OF YOUR HUMAN SPECIES? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4350
QUESTION 511: HOW IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO MOVE FORWARD IN YOUR LIFE IF YOU ARE ALWAYS HANGING ON TO THE PAST? HOW CAN YOU START A NEW RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU CONTINUE TO HOLD ONTO THE PAST RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2013

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