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THOUGHTS 4591 TO 4595

MY THOUGHTS 4591
TREASURE BOX: IF YOUR PERSONAL SPIRITUAL TREASURE BOX HAS BEEN BURIED UNDER YOUR MATERIAL TREASURES. IT IS TIME TO DE-CLUTTER AND GET RID OF THE UNNECESSARY MATERIAL THINGS, AS WELL AS, NEGATIVE INDIVIDUALS SO THAT YOU CAN REDISCOVER YOUR SPIRITUAL TREASURE BOX. OPEN THAT TREASURE BOX AND ALLOW YOUR SPIRITUAL LIGHT TO SHINE BRIGHTLY IN YOUR WORLD OF INFLUENCE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4592
LISTENING: LISTENING ATTENTIVELY IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF SHARING. WHEN YOU MINDFULLY LISTEN YOU ARE FULLY PREPARED TO RESPOND IF NECESSARY. LISTENING DOES NOT REQUIRE A RESPONSE. LISTEN MINDFULLY, CONTEMPLATE MINDFULLY, AND, IF NECESSARY, RESPOND MINDFULLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4593
LISTENING: LISTENING MAY BE ALL THAT IS NECESSARY TO HELP SOMEONE WHO NEEDS TO EXPRESS HIS/HER FEELINGS. A RESPONSE IS ONLY NECESSARY IF THE SPEAKER IS ASKING A QUESTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4594
LISTENING: AN EMOTIONAL PERSON MAY FEEL THE NEED TO RESPOND AFTER LISTENING TO A SPEAKER. A TRULY WISE PERSON WILL LISTEN MINDFULLY WHILE RECOGNIZING THE NEED FOR THE SPEAKER TO EXPRESS HER/HIS FEELINGS WITHOUT EXPECTING A VERBAL RESPONSE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4595
LISTENING: A GOOD LISTENER WILL RECOGNIZE THAT WHEN A SPEAKER VENTS HIS/HER FRUSTRATIONS THAT THE ONLY RESPONSE NECESSARY WOULD BE AN UNDERSTANDING SMILE, A GENTLE TOUCHING OF HANDS, OR A COMPASSIONATE EMBRACE. A VERBAL RESPONSE MAY BE TOTALLY UNNECESSARY. IF YOU MUST RESPOND VERBAL BE SURE NOT TO DISCOUNT THE SPEAKERS FRUSTRATIONS WHEN THEY VENT. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4586 TO 4590

MY THOUGHTS 4586
GIFTS: IT IS EASY TO GIVE WITH LOVE. HOWEVER, FOR MANY IT IS DIFFICULT TO RECEIVE. CAN YOU RECEIVE WITH GRACIOUS LOVE? DO YOU RECEIVE RELUCTANTLY OR GRACEFULLY? RECEIVING WITH YOUR HEART IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS GIVING WITH YOUR HEART. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4587
GIFTS: WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN A GIFT THAT YOU DO NOT REALLY WANT, ACCEPTED IT GRACEFULLY AND LOVINGLY AND WITH GREAT GRATITUDE. IT MAY NOT BE A GIFTED YOU THAT YOU WANTED, BUT YOU MAY BE THE INTERMEDIARY FOR THAT GIFT TO BE GIVEN TO SOMEONE UNKNOWN TO THE GIVER. RECEIVING AN UNWANTED GIFT MEANS THAT YOU ARE THE PERSON CHOSEN TO BRING THAT GIFT TO SOMEONE ELSE WHO REALLY NEEDS IT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4588
GIFTS: IF YOU DO NOT RECEIVE GIFTS GRACEFULLY, THEN YOU ARE DENYING THE GIVER THE SATISFACTION OF GIVING, WHICH IS NOT A GOOD KARMIC CHOICE FOR YOU. WHEN YOU CAN GIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS, YOU ARE ONE WITH THE COSMOS. IF YOU GIVE WITH EXPECTATIONS, YOU MAY BE DISAPPOINTED IF THE EXPECTATION IS NOT MET. IF YOU RECEIVE WHAT IS EXPECTED, THEN THERE IS NO COSMIC GRACE BECAUSE THE RECEPTION OF WHAT IS EXPECTED IS YOUR REWARD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4589
QUESTION 552: IS YOUR PERSONAL TREASURE BOX FULL OF THOUGHTS, IDEAS, AND GREAT WISDOM, OR IS YOUR TREASURE BOX FULL OF MATERIAL THINGS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4590
TREASURE BOX: EVERYONE HAS A PERSONAL TREASURE BOX. YOUR TREASURE BOX CONTAINS WHAT YOU CONSIDER PERSONALLY IMPORTANT TO YOU. WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG THAT TREASURE BOX MAY BE FULL OF MEMORIES, EXPERIENCES, AND THINGS. AS YOU GET OLDER YOU MAY SWITCH TO PHILOSOPHY, WISDOM, AND SPIRITUALITY. YOU SHOULD OFTEN RE-EVALUATE WHAT YOU KEEP IN YOUR TREASURE BOX AND REPLACE SOME TREASURES THAT ARE NO LONGER USEFUL TO YOU OR MAY BE IMPEDING YOUR GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4581 TO 4585

MY THOUGHTS 4581
CONFLICT: ONE OF THE PROBLEMS WITH MODERN INDIVIDUALS IS THAT THEY HAVE AN INNER FACE AND AN OUTER FACE. THE INNER FACE IS WHAT THEY REALLY FEEL ABOUT THINGS, AND THE OUTER FACE IS WHAT THEY FEEL THEY MUST PRESENT TO THEIR SOCIAL WORLD. THIS CAN CAUSE GREAT CONFLICT WITHIN THE INDIVIDUAL BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT BEING TRUE TO THEMSELVES. THIS IS A CONFLICT BETWEEN PERSONAL INTEGRITY AND SOCIAL SURVIVAL. WHEN THE OUTER YOU AND THE INNER YOU BECOME ONE, YOU WILL HAVE PEACE OF MIND, A CONTENT LIFE, AND TRUE SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4582
CONFLICT: WHEN YOU HAVE INTERNAL CONFLICTS, THERE ARE THREE BASIC THINGS TO CONSIDER: IS YOUR MIND YOUR BEST FRIEND, IS YOUR MIND YOUR ENEMY, OR IS YOUR MIND YOUR ANTAGONIST. WHEN YOU CAN STOP PLAYING THE SOCIAL GAMES OF MATERIALISM AND COMPETITION FOR GAINS, YOU CAN TURN YOUR MIND INTO YOUR BEST FRIEND. THEREFORE, GIVING PRIORITY TO YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH INSTEAD OF YOUR MATERIAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4583
QUESTION 550: ARE YOU THE SHEPHERD OF YOUR THOUGHTS. OR ARE OTHERS THE SHEPHERD OF YOUR THOUGHTS? DO OTHERS ACT AS SHEPHERDS OF YOUR MIND, OR ARE YOU THE TRUE SHEPHERD OF YOUR MIND? DO YOU USE YOUR MIND, OR DO OTHERS USE YOUR MIND? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4584
QUESTION 551: HAVE YOU BALANCED THE GIVING AND RECEIVING IN YOUR LIFE, OR ARE YOU HAVING A DIFFICULT TIME RECEIVING? HAVE YOU FOUND THE BALANCE OF THE YIN/YANG OF RECEIVING AND GIVING? WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU: GIVING OR RECEIVING? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4585
GIFTS: RECEIVING GRACEFULLY IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS GIVING GRACEFULLY. RECEIVING WITH GRATITUDE IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS GIVING WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4576 TO 4580

MY THOUGHTS 4576
SPIRITUALITY: DURING ONE’S LIFE’S JOURNEY, YOU WILL FACE MANY SPIRITUAL CRISES. WHEN THIS HAPPENS, IT IS TIME TO SEEK A PLACE OF SILENCE TO GO INWARD AND EVALUATE EACH CRISIS AS YOU ARE FACED WITH IT. YOU CAN FACE IT HEAD ON, AVOID IT TEMPORARILY, OR RUN-AWAY FROM IT. HOWEVER, IF YOU DO NOT FACE IT IMMEDIATELY, YOU WILL BE DOGGED BY IT UNTIL YOU EVENTUALLY HAVE TO FACE IT. IT IS IMPORTANT TO FACE IT NOW AND UNDERSTAND ITS IMPACT ON YOU AND THOSE WITHIN YOUR WORLD. EACH SPIRITUAL CRISIS MAY CREATE AN EMOTIONAL STORM WITHIN YOU AND YOUR SOCIAL WORLD. HOWEVER, IF YOU ARE INTERNALLY STRONG, YOU CAN OUTRIDE EACH STORM AND CREATE A HIGHER LEVEL OF SPIRITUALITY WITHIN YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4577
GOALS: THE TWO ESSENTIAL GOALS IN YOUR DAILY LIFE SHOULD BE TO BE BETTER THAN YOU WERE YESTERDAY AND HELP OTHERS TO BE BETTER THAN THEY ARE TODAY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4578
SPIRITUALITY: TRUE SPIRITUAL GROWTH BEGINS BY IMPROVING ON YESTERDAY’S MISTAKES TO MAKE A STRONGER FOUNDATION FOR THE PRESENT IN ORDER TO IMPROVE AND ENHANCE YOUR SPIRITUAL FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4579
QUESTION 549: IS YOUR PRECEPTS OF GOD ONE OF A COMPASSIONATE PARENT OR SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE TO FEAR BECAUSE OF ACTIONS IN YOUR LIFE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4580
SACRIFICES: WHEN YOU MAKE SELF SACRIFICES TO HELP OTHERS, BE SURE THAT THOSES SELF SACRIFICES DO NOT DIMINISH YOUR SPIRITUALITY. SELF-SACRIFICES SHOULD BE USED TO IMPROVE YOUR SPIRITUALITY WHILE HELPING OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4571 TO 4575

MY THOUGHTS 4571
ABUSE: IF YOU HAVE BEEN ABUSED IN A RELATIONSHIP, IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR LETTING YOURSELF BE ABUSED AND TO FORGIVE THE ABUSER TO RELIEVE YOUR EMOTIONAL PAIN. IT DOES NOT THAT YOU HAVE FORGOTTEN WHAT HAPPENED. IT DOES MEAN THAT YOU NO LONGER WISH TO FOCUS ON WHAT HAD HAPPENED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4572
ABUSE: IF YOU MEET A VERY CONTROLLING PERSON, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT SHE/HE WILL BE AN ABUSIVE PARTNER. REMEMBER THAT A VERY CONTROLLING PERSON WHO DEMANDS HIS OR HER WAY WILL BE A VERY ABUSING PERSON OF EQUAL INTENSITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4573
FORGIVENESS: WHEN WE CAN ACCEPT BEING WRONG, WE CAN FORGIVE EASILY, LOVE EASILY, AND GROW SPIRITUALLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4574
QUESTION 548: ARE YOU CREATING A FAMILY THAT WILL HELP YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY, OR ARE YOU CREATING A FAMILY THAT WILL HELP YOU GROW MATERIALLY? DOES YOUR FAMILY CREATE FREEDOM AND GROWTH FOR EVERYONE, OR DOES YOUR FAMILY IMPRISON ALL OF ITS MEMBERS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4575
SUGGESTIONS: LOOK AT YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF LIFE, NATURE, AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU AND TRANSPOSE THOSE THOUGHTS INTO POETRY, STORIES, PAINTING, AND PHOTOGRAPHY. WHEN YOU FINISH THOSE TRANSPOSITIONS, THEN RE-EXAMINE YOUR CREATIONS SO THAT YOU CAN LOOK BACK INTO YOUR SOUL. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4566 TO 4570

MY THOUGHTS 4566
FOCUS: WHEN YOU ARE FOCUSED ON TOO MANY THINGS AT ONE TIME, YOU BEGIN TO LOSE PERSPECTIVE. WHEN YOU BEGIN TO LOSE PERSPECTIVE, TO BEGIN TO LOSE YOUR SOUL (OR YOU). EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4567
FOCUS: WHEN NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ENTER YOUR MIND, ASK YOUR SELF IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GO THERE IN YOUR MIND. THEN CHANGE THOSE THOUGHTS TO POSITIVE THOUGHTS. IF YOU WISH TO CHANGE NEGATIVE HABITUAL PATTERNS, IT WILL USUALLY TAKE 30 DAYS OF RE-AFFIRMATIONS OF THE DIRECTION YOU WISH TO GO, SOMETIMES LONGER. FOCUS ON TURNING NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4568
VICTIMS: MANY PEOPLE PLAY THE ROLE OF THE VICTIM BECAUSE THEY HOPE TO THE GAIN THE ATTENTION OF THE PEOPLE WHO WILL FEEL SORRY FOR THEM. BASICALLY THEIR CRY IS “POOR ME,” “POOR ME, I AM A VICTIM OF….”
EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4569
VICTIMS: MANY WHO CLAIM TO BE VICTIMIZED ACTUALLY ARE ATTRACTING VICTIMIZATION BY PLAYING THE ROLE OF THE VICTIM. IT IS IMPORTANT TO GO INWARD AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE A VICTIM, AND HOW AND WHY VICTIMIZING EVENTS HAPPENED TO YOU OR WHY THEY ARE STILL HAPPENING TO YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4570
QUESTION 547: ARE YOU ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO ENJOY PLAYING THE ROLE OF VICTIM BECAUSE THAT IS THE ONLY WAY YOU GET CAN GET ATTENTION? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4561 TO 4565

MY THOUGHTS 4561
RELATIONSHIPS. ONE PROBLEM IN MANY LOVING RELATIONSHIPS IS THAT THE PARTNERS GET STUCK IN ROUTINES. THOSE ROUTINES GET THE PARTNERS TO RELY ON EXPECTATIONS INSTEAD OF PREFERENCES. SOMETIMES THOSE EXPECTATIONS BECOME DEMANDS AND EVENTUALLY THEY PUT STRESS ON THE RELATIONSHIP. ALWAYS BE CREATIVE AND INNOVATIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS. SHARE ROLES OR EXCHANGE ROLES FROM TIME TO TIME. RANDOMLY, CREATE SPONTANEOUS ACTS OF EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 4562
FAITH: IF YOU BELIEVE THAT THE HUMAN PERCEPTION OF GOD IS AN ALL OMNIPOTENT AND ALL-POWERFUL BEING, THEN HE/SHE MUST HAVE A VERY BORING EXISTENCE IF SHE/HE HAS TO PLAY GAMES AND MANIPULATE PEOPLE LIKE CHESS PIECES AND HAVE THEM DESTROY EACH OTHER FOR HIS/HER OWN PLEASURES. IS YOUR PERCEPTION OF GOD BEING MANIPULATED BY POWER-SEEKERS ON ALL LEVELS? YOU MUST GO INWARD TO UNDERSTAND TO TRULY UNDERSTAND THE MAGNIFICENCE OF THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4563
QUESTION 546: IF MANY SO-CALLED GODS ARE ALL OMNIPOTENT ALL-POWERFUL BEINGS, THEN WHY DO THOSE GODS NEED YOU TO ADORE THEM, OBEY THEM, OR KILL FOR THEM? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4564
FAITH: IF MANY SO-CALLED GODS ARE ALL-POWERFUL BEINGS AND ALL LOVING BEINGS, THEN THEY SHOULD BE TEACHING US AND GUIDING US WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING, NOT THREATENING US WITH CONDEMNATION, PUNISHMENT, AND TERRIBLE HELLS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4565
FAITH: IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE SOMETHING DEEPLY WITHIN YOU, THEN NOTHING OUTSIDE OF YOU CAN THREATEN THAT BELIEF. EmilKoval©2013

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