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Archive for April 20th, 2013

THOUGHTS 4541 TO 4545

MY THOUGHTS 4541
RELATIONSHIPS: TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE YOU TRULY LOVE, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO MAKE CONDITIONAL STATEMENTS. IF YOU OR YOUR PARTNER SAY “IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU WILL……..,” TWO BASIC SITUATIONS ARISE. 1) THERE IS DOUBT IN THE RELATIONSHIP OR 2) THERE IS AN ATTEMPT TO MANIPULATE A PARTNER INTO DOING SOMETHING HE/SHE MAY NOT WANT TO DO. BOTH ARE NEGATIVES TO THE LONG TERM VIABILITY OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. IT IS SIMILAR TO SAYING “IF YOU LOVE ME YOU WILL DO………..” MEANING IF YOU DO NOT, YOU DO NOT LOVE ME. THIS TYPE OF THINKING CAN CREATE A SLIPPERY SLOPE FOR ANY RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT USE THESE TYPE OF CONDITIONS IN ANY RELATIONSHIPS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4542
PERCEPTIONS: WHEN YOU SEE THE STARS AT NIGHT, WHAT YOU ARE REALLY LOOKING AT IS WHAT WAS AND NOT WHAT IS. WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE SUN, THAT IS WHERE THE SUN WAS 8 MINUTES AGO, NOT WHERE IT IS ACTUALLY AT THIS MOMENT. THEREFORE, YOU ARE FOCUSING ON THE PAST AND NOT ON THE REALITY OF THE PRESENT. USE THE PAST THAT YOU KEEP IN YOUR PRESENT SHOULD BE USED TO SEEK THE REALITY OF WHERE THINGS TRULY ARE. LET YOUR INTELLIGENCE GUIDE YOUR EMOTIONS; DO NOT LET YOUR EMOTIONS DOMINATE YOUR INTELLIGENCE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4543
FOCUS: ONE MUST DETERMINE WHERE ONE’S DREAMS ARE AT THE PRESENT MOMENT, AND ONE MUST PROJECT WHERE ONE’S DREAMS CAN ACTUALLY BE IN A PROJECTED FUTURE. IF ONE FOCUSES ON PRESENT GRATIFICATIONS AND NOT ONE’S DREAMS, THEN THOSE DREAMS WILL BE LOST. ONE MUST BALANCE ONE’S PERSONAL GRATIFICATIONS AND ONE’S PURSUIT OF ONE’S DREAMS. WHERE ONE CHOOSES TO FOCUS IS WHERE ONE’S LIFE’S DIRECTION MOVES TOWARDS, PARTY, IF YOU WISH, TO RELEASE SOME STRESS. HOWEVER, IT IS THOSE STRESSES THAT HELPS YOU TO FOCUS AND GET CLOSER TO YOUR DREAMS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4544
FOCUS: ONE WAY TO RE-CENTER YOURSELF AND KEEP BALANCED ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH IS TO MINDFULLY QUESTION EVERY THING THAT YOU HAVE BEEN TAUGHT AND ARE BEING TAUGHT. REMEMBER THAT THINGS ARE NOT ALWAYS AS THEY SEEM TO BE; ESPECIALLY, WITH THE BIASED DISTRIBUTION OF INFORMATION THROUGH MODERN MEDIA SYSTEMS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4545
FOCUS: FOCUS ON WHAT IS TRULY IMPORTANT TO YOU IN YOUR LIFE AND IT SHOULD BE IN THIS ORDER: 1) YOU AND YOUR PARTNER, 2) YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, 3) THOSE PEOPLE IN YOUR PRESENT ENVIRONMENT. EmilKoval©2013

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