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Archive for May, 2013

THOUGHTS 4731 TO 4735

MY THOUGHTS 4731
SUCCESS: THERE IS NO SUCH PERSON AS A SOLELY SELF-MADE PERSON. HOWEVER, THERE IS A SELF-DIRECTED PERSON. A ‘SO-CALLED’ SELF-MADE PERSON DOES RELY UPON THE HELP AND THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY OTHERS, WHETHER THE INFORMATION IS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. HE/SHE WILL MAKE HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS BASED ON THE INFORMATION THAT SHE/HE HAS GATHERED FROM OTHERS. A SELF-DIRECTED PERSON USES ALL THE INFORMATION AVAILABLE TO HIM/HER AND MAKES HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS AND TAKES THE CONSEQUENCES OF HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4732
LIKE, WANT, NEED, DESIRE: WHEN YOU SAY YOU LIKE SOMEONE IT USUALLY REFLECTS A FONDNESS FOR THAT PERSON. BECAUSE HE/SHE MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF. WHEN YOU SAY YOU WANT SOMEONE IT USUALLY REFLECTS A PHYSICAL DESIRE. WHEN YOU SAY YOU NEED SOMEONE, IT USUALLY REFLECTS A DEFICIENCY WITHIN ONESELF. WHEN YOU SAY YOU DESIRE SOMEONE, IT COULD BE A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION OR IT COULD BE AN EMOTIONAL, INTELLECTUAL, SPIRITUAL ATTRACTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4733
RELATIONSHIPS: IF ONE FOCUSES ONLY ON THE PHYSICAL ASPECTS OF A RELATIONSHIP, IT WILL BECOME ROUTINE AND MUNDANE. IF ONE FOCUSES ON THE MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL ASPECTS OF ONE’S PARTNER, THEN EVERY DAY CAN BE A NEW ADVENTURE SHARED TOGETHER AND MAY EVEN ENHANCE THE PHYSICAL ASPECTS OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. THERE WILL BE GROWTH, WITH SOME CRUISING ALONG THE WAY, AND EXCITEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU MINDFULLY FOCUS MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL ASPECTS OF ONE’S RELATIONSHIP, THEN, HAVING CHILDREN WILL ENHANCE THAT RELATIONSHIP, INSTEAD OF HINDERING IT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4734
SPIRITUALITY: WE CAN ONLY BE EXAMPLES TO PEOPLE ON HOW TO LIVE OUR LIVES. YOU CANNOT CONTROL MINDLESS PUPPETS. IF YOU CONFRONT THEM, THEY WILL DESTROY YOU, IF YOU FOLLOW THEM, THEN YOU, TOO, WILL BECOME A MINDLESS PUPPET. IF YOU LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING; YOU, MAY SURVIVE THEM OR INFLUENCE SOME OF THEM. EITHER WAY YOU MUST BE SPIRITUALLY READY FOR WHATEVER HAPPENS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4735
LEADERSHIP: AS SOCIAL BEINGS, WE TEND TO FOLLOW THE CROWD. HOWEVER, THOSE OF US WHO BECOME THE LONE WOLVES ARE THE ONES THAT MAKE THE MAJOR DIFFERENCES AND INNOVATIONS. SOME LONE WOLVES MAY BE DESTROYED BY THE CROWD FOLLOWER, SOME WILL BECOME THE LEADERS OF THE CROWD FOLLOWERS, AND SOME WILL BE KEPT AT A DISTANCE BUT READILY AVAILABLE FOR CONSULTATION. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4726 TO 4730

MY THOUGHTS 4726
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO PRAY FOR AND CONSOLE ALL THOSE WHO BECAME COLLATERAL ‘DAMAGE’ BECAUSE OF POWER SEEKERS TRYING TO SEEK SUPPORT FOR THEIR CAUSES BY USING SCHOOLS, HOSPITALS, AND PUBLIC HOUSING AS DEFENSIVE POSITIONS. THAT IS COWARDLY AND INVITES DISASTER TO THOSE AREAS. THE DEFENDERS AND THE ATTACKERS ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS KIND OF COLLATERAL DAMAGE. ALL COMBATANTS SHOULD STAY OUT OF NON-COMBATIVE AREAS. HOWEVER, THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN BECAUSE ALL DEFENDERS USE NONCOMBATANT AREAS AS A DEFENSE POSITION FOR PROPAGANDA PURPOSES. AS A RESULT, BOTH DEFENDERS AND ATTACKERS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE DEATHS OF MANY INNOCENT NONCOMBATANTS.EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4727
SMILES: THE MOST IMPORTANT CURVE ON THE HUMAN BODY IS THE HUMAN SMILE. ALL OTHER HUMAN PHYSICAL CURVES ARE SUBJECT TO TIME, HORMONES, AND CALAMITIES. THE LOVING SMILE IS ONLY SUBJECT TO CONDITIONS IN THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE THE SMILE REPRESENTS THE SPIRITUAL ESSENCES OF AN INDIVIDUAL. THE SMILE IS ALSO A BAROMETER THAT MEASURES HOW HEALTHY A RELATIONSHIP IS. ONE MUST ALWAYS KEEP THAT SMILE AS THE MOST IMPORTANT TREASURE IN YOUR TREASURE BOX OF LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4728
QUESTION 564: WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE, ARE YOU LOOKING FOR SEXUAL GRATIFICATION OR ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A LIFETIME RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4729
RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU HAVE TO SEARCHING FOR REASON TO LOVE SOMEONE, THEN THAT ISN’T THE PERSON THAT YOU SHOULD LOVE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4730
RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU FEEL THAT IT’S TIME FOR A LIFETIME RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU SHOULD MINDFULLY UNDERSTAND YOU, AND YOU SHOULD MINDFULLY UNDERSTAND ANY POSSIBLE FUTURE LIFE-MATES. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4721 TO 4725

MY THOUGHTS 4721
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE MOTHERS AND FATHERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR SONS AND DAUGHTERS EITHER IN DEFENSE OF THEIR NATIONS OR BECAUSE OF THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4722
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE SONS AND DAUGHTERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR FATHERS AND OR MOTHERS IN DEFENSE OF THEIR NATIONS OR BECAUSE OF THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4723
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN DEFENSE OF THEIR NATIONS OR BECAUSE OF THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4724
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE LIVING DEAD THAT ARE FLOUNDERING IN MILITARY HOSPITAL WAITING TO DIE OR WANDERING THE STREETS AS HOMELESS VETERANS WHO HAVE BEEN FORGOTTEN BY THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4725
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE THE TIME TODAY TO REFLECT ON WHETHER YOUR NATION, YOUR CULTURE, OR YOUR FAITH IS REALLY SUPERIOR TO ANY OTHER, AND WHY YOU WOULD NEED TO USE MILITARY FORCE TO PROVE THAT. IF YOU DO NOT BELIEVE THAT WAR IS HELL, THEN IT IS SUGGESTED THAT YOU VISIT THE HOMELESS VETERANS ON THE STREETS AND THE LIVING DEAD VETERANS IN HOSPITALS OR CONVALESCENT HOMES WAITING TO DIE AN UNNOTICED DEATH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4716 TO 4720

MY THOUGHTS 4716
MEMORIAL DAY: MEMORIAL DAY IS OFFICIAL DAY TO HONOR AND TO REMEMBER ALL THOSE WHO HAVE GIVEN THEIR LIVES IN DEFENSE OF THIS COUNTRY. ON THIS DAY MANY GO TO NATIONAL OR PRIVATE CEMETERIES TO PUT FLOWERS ON THE GRAVES OF THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS WHO HAD GIVEN THEIR LIVES FOR THIS COUNTRY. AFTER VISITING THE CEMETERIES, THE FAMILY MEMBERS SHOULD GATHER AND CELEBRATE THE LIVES OF THOSE LOVED ONES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4717
MEMORIAL DAY: WE SHOULD NOT ONLY REMEMBER THOSE WHO HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR COUNTRY, BUT WE SHOULD ALSO HONOR THOSE THAT ARE CONSIDERED THE LIVING DEAD. THEY ARE THE ONES WHO HAD RECEIVED VERY DEBILITATING INJURIES, ARE IN COMAS, AND ARE IN A PERMANENT STATE OF SHOCK DUE TO CONFLICT RELATED INJURIES. THEY ARE USUALLY ALONE AND FORGOTTEN WHILE SPENDING THE REST OF THEIR LIVES IN MILITARY HOSPITALS WAITING TO DIE. A VISIT BY ANY COMPASSIONATE SOUL WILL GIVE THEM SOME SENSE OF HOPE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4718
MEMORIAL DAY: WE SHOULD TURN THIS DAY INTO AN INTERNATIONAL DAY FOR ALL NATIONS TO MOURN THE LOSS OF THEIR MILITARY PERSONNEL. ONCE WE UNDERSTAND THE FUTILITY OF LOSING THE FUTURES OF OUR YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN IN POLITICAL, ECONOMIC, OR RELIGIOUS CONFLICTS, WE CAN START WORKING TOWARDS A MORE PEACEFUL AND HARMONIOUS WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4719
MEMORIAL DAY: IN EVERY CONFLICT, REGARDLESS OF THE PURPOSE OF THE CONFLICT IS, ALL SIDES LOSE THEIR FUTURE POTENTIAL MOTHERS, FATHERS, TEACHERS, SCIENTISTS, ENGINEERS, AND DOCTORS. MEMORIAL DAY IS THE DAY TO REMEMBER THE BRAVERY OF THOSE WHO SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR GROUPS. AT THE SAME TIME, THOSE GROUPS SHOULD REFLECT ON THE LOSS OF THE FUTURE POTENTIAL CONTRIBUTIONS OF THOSE LOST WARRIORS TO WHATEVER CULTURE, NATION, OR FAITH THAT THEY BELIEVED IN OR BELONGED TO. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4720
MEMORIAL DAY: MEMORIAL DAY SHOULD HAVE FOUR BASIC FUNCTIONS: 1) TO HONOR THOSE WHO HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE WHOLE. 2) TO CELEBRATE THE LIVES THAT THEY HAD LIVED AND TO REFLECT ON THEIR POTENTIALITY HAD THEY SURVIVED. 3) TO REFLECT ON THE WASTING OF LIFE AND POTENTIAL DREAMS BECAUSE OF THE POLITICAL, THE ECONOMIC, AND THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS OF ALL GROUPS, AND 4) TO REMIND US TO SEEK A MORE LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND UNDERSTANDING WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4711 TO 4715

MY THOUGHTS 4711
THE NOW: THE BASIC QUESTIONS THAT YOU FACE EVERY DAY FOR EVERY SITUATION ARE: WHO, WHAT, WHERE, HOW, WHEN, AND WHY. THE ANSWERS ARE WHO: YOU, WHAT: THE SITUATION AT HAND, WHERE: HERE, WHEN: NOW, AND WHY: BECAUSE IT NEEDS TO BE DONE. THERE ARE NO OTHER TIMES FOR THESE QUESTIONS BUT NOW. REMEMBER THAT NOW IS THE ONLY TRUE MOMENT IN TIME AND THAT TOMORROW NEVER COME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4712
SHARING: WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE ON YOUR JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE. YOU MAY WALK THE SAME PATH TOGETHER FOR A WHILE. YOU MAY LISTEN TO EACH OTHER, SHARE IDEAS WITH EACH OTHER, NUTURE AND HEAL EACH OTHER, AND HELP REKINDLE EACH OTHER’S INNER LIGHT. HOWEVER, YOU CANNOT WALK EACH OTHER’S PATH FOR EACH OTHER. THEIR PATHS ARE THEIRS, AND YOURS IS YOURS. THE FINAL STEPS ON YOUR PATH IS SOLELY BETWEEN YOU AND THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4713
CHOICES: YOUR ACTIONS ARE THE RESULTS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE. THEREFORE, IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF THE AFFECTS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR ACTIONS ON YOU AND ON OTHERS. IT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO RE-VIEW AND RE-ADJUST YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS FREQUENTLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4714
SUGGESTION: IN A NON-CONFLICTING SITUATION, SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER, AT OPPOSITE ENDS OF THE TABLE, AND WRITE A TITLE THAT DESCRIBES YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND THEN WRITE THREE REASONS WHY YOU CHOSE THAT TITLE. ALSO WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE THAT TITLE TO BE IF YOUR ARE NOT SATISFIED WITH IT. THIS SHOULD ONLY TAKE ABOUT FIVE MINUTES. NEXT, DISCUSS THE TITLE WITH YOUR PARTNER AND THE REASONS YOU CHOSE YOUR TITLE. IF EMOTIONS START TO FLARE UP, CALL A ‘TIME-OUT’ UNTIL YOU CAN CONTINUE WITH CIVIL CONVERSATION. THIS SHOULD HELP BOTH PARTNERS TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, RE-DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, OR TO UNDERSTAND ANY UNDERLYING PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4715
SUGGESTION: IN A HARMONIOUS SITUATION, SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER, AT OPPOSITE ENDS OF THE TABLE, AND WRITE DOWN THREE POINTS THAT YOU BOTH INDIVIDUALLY BELIEVE TO BE THE STRENGTH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. NEXT WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU FEEL ARE THE THREE WEAK POINTS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ALLOW ONLY FIVE MINUTES TO WRITE THEM DOWN. THEN TAKE ONE POINT AT A TIME FROM EACH LIST AND DISCUSS IT. IF EMOTIONS START TO FLARE UP, CALL A ‘TIME-OUT’ UNTIL YOU CAN CONTINUE WITH CIVIL CONVERSATION. THIS SHOULD HELP BOTH PARTNERS TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, RE-DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, OR TO UNDERSTAND ANY UNDERLYING PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED ON. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4706 TO 4710

MY THOUGHTS 4706
IMMORTALITY: THE ONLY WAY TO SEEK IMMORTALITY ON THIS LEVEL IS TO LIVE IN THE MINDS OF THOSE WHO HAVE A REASON TO REMEMBER YOU. HOWEVER, YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED IN A POSITIVE MANNER OR IN A NEGATIVE MANNER. SO WEIGH YOUR THOUGHTS CAREFULLY AND YOUR ACTIONS CAREFULLY. IF YOU ARE REMEMBERED, YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED FAMOUSLY OR INFAMOUSLY. YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS ARE YOUR LEGACY EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4707
THE NOW: YOUR ONLY REALTY IS THIS MOMENT AND THIS DAY. THE DAY BEFORE TODAY WAS YOUR TODAY AND IS NOW YOUR YESTERDAY. IT IS NOW YOUR PAST AND CANNOT BE CHANGED. TODAY IT IS ONLY A REMINDER OF WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE WHEN IT USED TO BE TODAY. THEREFORE, FOCUS ON WHAT IS IMPORTANT TODAY. DO NOT DWELL ON WHAT WAS TODAY AND IS NOW YESTERDAY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4708
THE NOW: YOUR ONLY TRUE REALTY IS THIS MOMENT AND THIS DAY. TOMORROW WILL BE YOUR TODAY TOMORROW. WHEN YOU ONLY FOCUS ON YOUR TOMORROW YOU ARE LIVING IN A FANTASY. YOUR TOMORROW CAN ONLY BECOME A REALITY BY WHAT YOU DO WITH THIS MOMENT AND THIS DAY. TOMORROW IS ONLY A REMINDER OF WHICH POSSIBILITIES CAN BECOME REALITIES BY WHAT YOU DO TODAY. THEREFORE, FOCUS ON WHAT IS IMPORTANT TODAY, SO THAT YOUR TOMORROW CAN BE A REALITY, NOT A FANTASY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4709
NOW: TODAY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY IN MY LIFE. WHEN IT IS GONE, IT IS GONE FOREVER. THEREFORE, I WILL BLESS THIS DAY WITH SUCCESS, NOT FAILURE; WITH POSITIVES, NOT NEGATIVES; WITH LOVE; NOT HATE; WITH UNDERSTANDING, NOT CONTEMPT; AND WITH COMPASSION, NOT NEGLECT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4710
THE NOW: TODAY IS A NEW DAY GIVEN TO YOU BY YOUR ‘GOD OF FAITH’. IT IS YOUR CHOICE AS TO HOW YOU WILL LIVE IT AND HOW YOU WILL USE IT. IT IS YOUR KARMIC CHOICE TO USE IT TO YOUR BENEFIT AND TO THE BENEFIT OF OTHERS, OR TO TOTALLY WASTE IT. YOU WILL EITHER HONOR THE PRECEPTS OF YOUR GOD OF FAITH, OR YOU WILL IGNORE THE PRECEPTS OF YOUR GOD OF FAITH. IT IS YOUR DAY TO DO WITH IT AS YOU WISH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4701 TO 4705

MY THOUGHTS 4701
CHANGE: IT IS THE INDIVIDUAL, WHO HAS A DREAM, WHO WILL MAKE THE GREAT DIFFERENCES IN THE WORLD. GROUPS TEND TO CAUSE THE REPETITION OF HISTORY, AS WELL AS, CREATE INFLEXIBLE DOGMA. APPLE, AS A GROUP, WAS FAILING UNTIL STEVE JOBS CAME BACK AND MADE ALL DECISIONS. THE CHRIST, THE BUDDHA, MOHAMMED, MOTHER TERESA, THE DALAI LAMA, SAI BABA, BRUCE LEE, AND MANY OTHERS WERE UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS WITHIN A GROUP THAT CREATED UNIQUE WAYS OF THINKING THAT MOVED PARTS OF THE WORLD IN DIFFERENT POSITIVE DIRECTIONS. THE GREAT THINKERS ARE LIKE GREAT EAGLES FLYING SOLO; AND SOMETIMES THEY ARE KILLED-OFF BY STAGNANT GROUP THINKERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4702
FAITH: WHEN YOU SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM OTHERS DUE TO ‘SO-CALLED’ DEVINE DESIGN, YOU CREATE TURMOIL AND DIVISION WITHIN THE GROUP, AS WELL AS, INVITE CONFLICTS WITH OTHERS. INSTEAD OF SEPARATING YOURSELF FROM OTHERS DUE TO YOUR FAITH, YOU SHOULD BE AN EXAMPLE OF YOUR FAITH WHILE LIVING AMONG OTHERS. DO NOT TRY TO CONVERT OTHERS, JUST LIVE THE ESSENCE OF YOUR FAITH WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4703
FAITH: REMEMBER THAT THE GREAT BOOKS OF FAITH WERE WRITTEN AFTER THE GREAT MASTERS HAD EXPRESSED THEIR WISDOM AND HAD LEFT THEIR PHYSICAL BODIES. LAO TSE AND MOHAMMED HAD WRITTEN THEIR WISDOM DOWN; HOWEVER, THOSE WHO HAD COPIED THOSE TEXTS MAY HAVE MISPLACED A FEW WORDS THROUGH CULTURAL, TRIBAL, AND LINGUISTIC INTERPRETATIONS. THIS IS TRUE FOR ALL SACRED TEXTS. FOLLOW YOUR SACRED TEXT WITHIN THE SPIRIT OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WITH NO SENSE OF VIOLENCE TOWARDS OTHERS AND NATURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4704
MEDITATION: BE AT ONE WITH NATURE IN THE FORESTS AND PARKS BY LISTENING AS THE TREES CATCH THE WINDS MAKING MUSIC AS THE WINDS PASS THROUGH THE MYRIAD OF LEAVES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4705
ENDURANCE: IN THE HIGH DESERT OF CALIFORNIA, THE SENTINEL STALWART JOSHUAS RESIST THE FORCEFUL WINDS, DEFY THE BLAZING SUN, ABSORBS THE INFREQUENT DOWNPOURS, AND WELCOMES THE BLANKETS OF SNOW, WHILE SHELTERING THE MANY FORMS OF DESERT LIFE AND CREATING HIGH PERCHES FOR BIRDS TO REST THEIR WEARY WINGS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5696 TO 4700

MY THOUGHTS 4696
GOALS: WHATEVER YOU DO, ALWAYS DO ‘YOUR’ BEST. WHATEVER YOU ATTEMPT TO DO MAY NOT BE EASY, BUT AT LEAST YOU ARE TRYING ‘YOUR’ BEST. THE PROCESS IS MORE IMPORTANT TO ‘YOU’ THAN THE GOAL THAT YOU ARE STRIVING FOR. THE GOAL YOU SEEK MAY EVEN CHANGE DUE TO THE PROCESS OF TRYING TO GET THERE. BE SATISFIED WITH YOUR BEST EFFORTS, NOT THE EXPECTATIONS OF OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4697
QUESTION 561: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CRITICIZING A BELIEF AND PERSECUTING A BELIEF? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4698
QUESTION 562: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TEACHING ABOUT A RELIGION AND THE TEACHING OF RELIGION IN SCHOOLS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4699
QUESTION 563: WHO IS MORE SPIRITUALLY FREE: THE PERSON WHO HAS TO PUT ON MATERIAL MASKS TO ACCEPT HIS/HER OWN BEAUTY, OR THE PERSON WHO ALLOWS HER/HIS INNER BEAUTY TO SHINE THROUGH TO OTHERS WITHOUT EXCESSIVE EXTERNAL BODY DECORATIONS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4700
QUESTION 563: WHO IS MORE SPIRITUALLY FREE: THE PERSON WHO HAS TO PUT ON MATERIAL MASKS TO ACCEPT HIS/HER OWN BEAUTY, OR THE PERSON WHO ALLOWS HER/HIS INNER BEAUTY TO SHINE THROUGH TO OTHERS WITHOUT EXCESSIVE EXTERNAL BODY DECORATIONS? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4691 TO 4695

MY THOUGHTS 4691
EDUCATION: YOUR FORMAL EDUCATION IS SUPPOSED TO TEACH YOU HOW TO THINK AND ANALYZE. IT ALSO GIVES YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO BECOME A WELL-ROUNDED SOCIAL PERSON OR A STRONG INDIVIDUALIST. ONCE YOUR FORMAL EDUCATION IS COMPLETED, THEN YOU REAL EDUCATION BEGINS. REMEMBER THAT EDUCATION WILL ALWAYS BE A LIFE-LONG LEARNING PROCESS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4692
TEACHERS: A TRULY ENLIGHTENED TEACHER WILL TEACH HER/HIS STUDENTS ALL THAT HE/SHE KNOWS AND WHAT SHE/HE HAS LEARNED FROM THOSE SEEKING HIS/HER WISDOM. FOR THOSE STUDENTS THAT ARE READY TO BE ON THEIR OWN, THAT TEACHER WILL SEND THOSE STUDENTS ON THEIR WAY TO PRACTICE WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED AND TO SHARE THEIR WISDOM WITH OTHER SEEKERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4693
TEACHERS: A TRULY ENLIGHTENED TEACHER DOES NOT SEEK THE STATUS OF BEING A MASTER, BEING A SAINT, OR BEING WORSHIPPED AS A GOD. THAT TEACHER WILL TEACH HER/HIS STUDENTS TO BE SELF-SUSTAINING SHARERS OF HIS/HER WISDOM SO THAT THEY WILL NO LONGER BE DEPENDENT ON THEIR TEACHERS FOR SUPPORT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4694
TEACHERS: A TRULY ENLIGHTENED TEACHER DOES NOT SEEK A GROUP ‘WORSHIPPERS’ THAT NEED TO BE DEPENDENT ON THAT TEACHER FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES. THAT ENLIGHTENED TEACHER WILL STRIVE TO HELP HER/HIS STUDENTS TO BE FREE OF PERSONAL BONDAGE TO HIM. THAT TEACHER WILL TEACH HIS/HER STUDENTS TO BE SELF-SUFFICIENT SPIRITUAL BEINGS, NOT PARASITES HANGING ON TO HIS EXISTENCE WHILE STAGNATING THEIR TEACHERS OWN SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4695
TEACHERS: ALL TRULY ENLIGHTEN STUDENTS WILL GROW BEYOND THEIR TEACHERS. THEY WILL BECOME SELF-SUFFICIENT BEINGS ON A PERSONAL SPIRITUAL JOURNEY. ON THAT JOURNEY, THEY WILL SHARE WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED WITH OTHER SEEKERS AND WITH THOSE THAT ARE OPEN TO THE KNOWLEDGE THAT THEY HAVE TO SHARE. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4686 TO 4690

MY THOUGHTS 4686
FAITH: IF YOU HAVE THE FINANCIAL MEANS TO BUILD EDIFICES OR TO BUY FLOWERS TO DEDICATE TO YOUR ‘MASTER OF FAITH’, IT WOULD BE MUCH BETTER TO USE THOSE FINANCIAL SOURCES TO HELP THOSE IN NEED IN THE NAME OF YOUR ‘MASTER OF FAITH.’ EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4687
FAITH: ALL EXTREME ELEMENTS OF ANY BELIEF, WHETHER IT IS CHRISTIANITY, ISLAM, BUDDHISM, HINDUISM, OR JUDAISM ARE VERY DANGEROUS; SO ONE MUST BE ON GUARD CONSTANTLY. THE MODERATE FORMS OF ALL THESE FAITHS HAVE BENEVOLENT INTENTIONS. UNFORTUNATELY, THE EXTREMIST GROUPS GET MORE ATTENTION THAN THE MODERATE GROUPS. EVERYONE MUST BE PREPARED TO FACE ALL EXTREMIST ELEMENTS OF ANY FAITH OR PHILOSOPHY. UNFORTUNATELY, FEW ARE PREPARED BECAUSE THEY LIVE IN THEIR IDEALISM, NOT THEIR REALITIES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4688
COMPASSION: IT IS IMPORTANT TO SHOW YOUR LOVED ONES THAT YOU LOVE THEM IRREGARDLESS OF THEIR SITUATION WHETHER IT CONCERNS SOCIAL SITUATIONS OR END OF PHYSICAL LIFE SITUATIONS. THE BEST KARMIC CHOICE IS TO LOVE AND CHERISH THEM THROUGH THEIR SOCIAL PROBLEMS OR TO THE TIME THEY LEAVE THEIR PHYSICAL BODIES. DO NOT EXPRESS SYMPATHY FOR THEIR SITUATIONS; JUST EXPRESSION YOUR LOVE FOR WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEY ARE. IF THEY LEAVE THEIR BODIES, DO NOT MOURN THEIR LOSS, BUT CELEBRATE THE LIVES THEY HAVE LIVED AND THE LESSONS THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU. YOU MAY LOSE THEM PHYSICALLY; HOWEVER, YOU HAVE NOT LOST THEM SPIRITUALLY.
EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4689
COMPASSION: WHEN YOU SHOW YOUR LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING TO YOUR LOVED ONES WHEN THEY ARE IN CRITICAL TIMES, YOU DEMONSTRATE THAT THEY ARE STILL PERSONS OF VALUES AND DIGNITY. IF YOU SHOW ONLY PITY, YOU ALLOW THEM TO FEEL VALUELESS AND STAY IN A STATE OF SELF-PITY. YOU WILL EITHER SUPPORT THEIR VALUE AS A HUMAN BEING, OR YOU WILL DIMINISH THEIR VALUE AS A HUMAN BEING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4690
EDUCATION: REMEMBER THAT EVEN AFTER YOUR FORMAL SCHOOLING ENDS, YOUR REAL EDUCATION BEGINS AND CONTINUE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE UNTIL THE DAY YOU LEAVE YOUR BODY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4681 TO 4685

MY THOUGHTS 4681
DEATH: IF A LOVED ONE IS RESIGNED TO THE FACT OF HIS/HER EVENTUAL DEMISE, THEN THAT LOVED ONE IS AT PEACE WITH HER/HIMSELF. IS IT NOT BETTER TO BE AT PEACE WITH GOD THAN TO STRUGGLE TO REMAIN ON THIS LEVEL IN ORDER TO PLEASE THOSE THAT WILL REMAIN. IT IS NOT BETTER TO LET THAT LOVED ONE GO AND HAVE PEACE IN THE ARMS OF HIS/HER GOD. WHEN THE TIME COMES, YOU CAN BE RE-UNITED WITH THAT LOVED ONE. THE LOVED WHO IS RESIGNED TO HER/HIS DEMISE IS TEACHING YOU SOME IMPORTANT SPIRITUAL LESSONS DURING THIS TIME. DO NOT VEIL THOSE LESSONS IN SELF PITY. LEARN THOSE LESSONS, SO THAT YOUR LOVED ONE CAN GO IN PEACE AND WAIT FOR YOU ON THE ‘OTHER SIDE.’ EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4682
LESSONS: WE COME INTO EACH OTHER’S LIVES FOR A REASON. IT COULD BE FOR LESSONS THAT NEED TO BE LEARNED THROUGH EACH OTHER. IT COULD BE TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AT CERTAIN TIMES. SOME ENCOUNTERS CAN BECOME PERMANENT CONNECTIONS AND SOME WILL BE TEMPORARY OR MOMENTARY. WE SHOULD APPRECIATE EACH CONNECTION, WHETHER POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE, FOR THE LESSONS THEY BRING US. EACH ENCOUNTER, WHETHER BEGINNING OR ENDING, SHOULD BE TREATED WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4683
LESSONS FROM NATURE: WHEN YOU LOOK AT A FRUIT TREE IN THE SPRING, THE LEAVES BEGIN TO APPEAR, THEN BLOSSOMS BEGIN TO APPEAR, AND ARE FOLLOWED BY NOURISHING FRUIT. THAT FRUIT, IF NOT USED, WILL RETURN TO THE EARTH TO RECYCLE. THAT FRUIT WILL SOON BE FOLLOWED BY THE WITHERING LEAVES. THEN THE TREE WILL STAND ALONE IN NAKED ABANDONMENT FOR A WHILE. THEN NEW SPRING WILL START THE PROCESS AGAIN. SO IT IS WITH HUMAN ENCOUNTERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4684
FAITH: IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT THE ENTITY THAT YOU GIVE DEVOTION TO WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYERS, THEN YOU ONLY NEED TO ASK ONCE. NOW, YOU JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR THE ANSWER TO YOUR PRAYER. NO ANSWER IS AN ANSWER WHICH COULD MEAN “NO”, IT IS NOT TIME YET, OR YOU ARE NOT READY YET. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4685
FAITH: THE PUREST DEVOTION TO YOUR CHOSEN ‘MASTER OF FAITH’ IS NOT PRAYERS, THE BUILDING MONUMENTS, NOR THE BUYING FLOWERS OR TRINKETS. THE TRUE DEVOTION TO YOUR ‘MASTER OF FAITH’ IS LIVING THE TEACHINGS OF YOUR ‘MASTER OF FAITH’ AND WALKING YOUR ‘YOUR MASTERS’ PATH WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR ALL LIVING THINGS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4676 TO 4580

MY THOUGHTS 4676
CHANGES: IF YOU FEEL STAGNATED IN YOUR SITUATION IN LIFE, THEN IT IS TIME TO FIND A SITUATION IN WHERE YOU FEEL ALIVE. EVERYTHING CHANGES IN LIFE INCLUDING FRIENDS AND RELATIONS. IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO RECOGNIZE WHEN IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PHASE OF YOUR LIFE. ALSO, IF YOU CANNOT CHANGE YOUR PRESENT SITUATION, THEN IT IS TIME TO CHANGE HOW YOU PERCEIVE THAT SITUATION. YOU ARE HERE TO GROW; YOU ARE NOT TO STAGNATE BECAUSE OF PERSONAL CONNECTIONS OR DISCONNECTIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4677
SEPARATIONS: WHEN YOU BECOME SEPARATED FROM FRIENDS AND FAMILY, IT IS A SIGN THAT YOU ARE TO WALK A DIFFERENT PATH FROM THEM. AT FIRST, THE SEPARATION MAY BE PAINFUL; HOWEVER, IN THE LONG RUN, IT MAY BE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE. THE BUDDHA FELT PAIN WHEN HIS FAMILY WAS COMPLETELY DESTROYED; HOWEVER, HE DID NOT LET IT MAKE HIM SUFFER. HE UNDERSTOOD THAT THEY HAD CHOSEN TO WALK TWO DIFFERENT PATHS. HIS FAMILY WAS INTO EARTHLY POWER, WHILE HE WAS INTO SPIRITUALITY. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO WALK A DIFFERENT PATH FROM YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY IN ORDER TO COMPLETE YOUR KARMIC LESSONS ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4678
FAILURE: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE IF YOU KEEP ON TRYING REGARDLESS OF THE SETBACKS. EACH SETBACK GIVES YOU A CHANCE TO RE-FOCUS YOUR GOALS. THE ONLY TIME THAT YOU WILL TRULY FAIL IS WHEN YOU GIVE UP AND REFUSE TO TRY ANYMORE. REMEMBER THAT TAKING A NEW DIRECTION IS NOT FAILURE, IT THE RE-SETTING OF GOALS. YOU ARE MOVING FORWARD, NOT STAGNATING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4679
QUESTION 560: IS YOUR GOAL TO JUST GET PAST YOUR CHALLENGES IN LIFE, OR IS YOUR GOAL TO UNDERSTAND THE FULL IMPLICATIONS OF YOUR CHALLENGES IN LIFE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4680
FORGIVENESS: IN ORDER TO TRULY FORGIVE OTHERS, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FIRST FOR ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE HURT OR OFFENDED. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4671 TO 4675

MY THOUGHTS 4671
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOUR EX-PARTNER TURNS YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST YOU, IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT THAT IS A LESSON FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED: THAT IS A LESSON FOR YOUR EX-PARTNER, FOR YOU, AND FOR YOUR CHILDREN. HOW ‘YOU’ LEARN ‘YOUR PART’ OF THAT LESSON IS YOUR PRIORITY, NOT HOW THEY LEARN THEIRS. THEY MAY NOT BE ABLE TO LEARN THEIR PARTS OF THE LESSON UNTIL YOU HAVE DISTANCED FROM THEM. IT IS POSSIBLE THAT YOUR PRESENCE ONLY COMPLICATES THE LESSON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4672
RESPECT: LOVE AND RESPECT CAN NEVER BE DEMANDED; IT CAN ONLY BE GIVEN FREELY. IF YOU DO NOT RECEIVE LOVE AND RESPECT, THEN IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON TO A DIFFERENT PLACE AND DIFFERENT PEOPLE WHERE YOU CAN FIND THE LOVE AND RESPECT THAT YOU SEEK. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4673
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT YOUR SPIRITUAL CONNECTIONS ARE FAR MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANY BIOLOGICAL CONNECTION ON THIS LEVEL. YOUR BIOLOGICAL CONNECTIONS ON THIS LEVEL ARE TO HELP YOU GET STARTED ON YOUR PATH AND HELP YOU WALK YOUR PATH. HOWEVER, YOU WILL BE PRESENTED WITH MANY LESSONS THEY MAY SEPARATE YOU FROM YOUR BIOLOGICAL CONNECTIONS. REMEMBER THAT, IN THE LONG RUN, THE ONLY TRUE CONNECTIONS WITH OTHERS ARE YOUR SPIRITUAL CONNECTIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4674
ISSUES: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ISSUES IN LIFE, SO YOU SHOULD BE PREPARED TO FACE ANY ISSUES WHEN YOU ARE CONFRONTED BY ANY OF THEM. HOWEVER, THE EXISTENCE OF ISSUES IS NOT AS IMPORTANT AS HOW YOU HANDLE THEM. HOW YOU DEAL WITH ISSUES WILL EITHER TONE AND STRENGTHEN YOUR SPIRITUALITY OR WEAKEN AND DEBILITATE YOUR SPIRITUALITY. GOOD KARMIC CHOICES ARE ESSENTIAL HERE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4675
MISTAKES: YOU SHOULD NEVER BE ASHAMED OR EMBARRASSED WHEN YOU MAKE MISTAKES. IF YOU WERE PERFECT YOU WOULD NOT BE ON THIS LEVEL IN THIS WORLD. MISTAKES ARE OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN, NOT TO FEEL EMBARRASSED OR TO FEEL ASHAMED. EMBARRASSMENT COMES FROM THE EGO AND SHAME COMES FROM YOUR PERCEPTION OF YOU IN YOUR RELATION TO THE OUTER WORLD. NEITHER IS NECESSARY. JUST REMEMBER THAT YOU LEARN AND RE-LEARN EVERY DAY. LIFE IS A LEARNING PROCESS, NOT A PLACE TO REMAIN STAGNANT. REMEMBER THAT THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4666 TO 4670

MY THOUGHTS 4666
RESPECT: MANY YOUNG PEOPLE TODAY SHOW LACK OF RESPECT FOR BOTH PARENTS OR FOR EITHER ONE OR THE OTHER OF THE PARENTS. THE EXCUSE GIVEN BY MANY IS THAT THEY ARE YOUNG AND THAT THEY WILL GROW TO RESPECT THEIR PARENTS. CHILDREN DO NOT GROW INTO RESPECT. THEY ARE TAUGHT RESPECT BY THEIR PARENTS. IF ONE PARENT IS DISRESPECTED BY HIS OR HER CHILDREN, THE FAULT IS WITH THE OTHER PARTNER WHO HAS NOT TAUGHT HIS/HER CHILD/CHILDREN TO RESPECT THE OTHER PARTNER. IF BOTH PARENTS ARE NOT RESPECTED BY THEIR CHILDREN, IT IS TIME FOR DEEP INTROSPECTION OF THE VALUES TAUGHT TO THEIR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4667
RESPECT: IF YOUR CHILD OR CHILDREN SHOW YOU ONLY SUPERFICIAL RESPECT OR A TOKEN RESPECT, THEN IT IS TIME TO DISCONNECT FROM THEM COMPLETELY AND LET THEM MOVE ON WITH THEIR LIVES SO THAT THEY CAN LEARN THEIR LESSONS WITHOUT YOU. IF THEY SEEK YOUR ADVICE, GIVE THEM YOUR ADVICE WITH COMPASSION, LOVE, AND UNDERSTANDING. HOWEVER, DO NOT RECONNECT UNLESS THEY ARE WILLING TO SHOW YOU FULL RESPECT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4668
RESPECT: IF YOUR ADULT CHILDREN HAVE NOT CALLED YOU AT LEAST ONCE A MONTH TO ASK YOU HOW YOU ARE DOING, WHETHER YOU ARE IN NEED OF ANY HELP, OR JUST FOR A CONNECTING CONVERSATION; THEN THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. IF THAT IS TRUE, IT IS TIME TO DISCONNECT FROM THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE WALKING A PATH THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE YOU. IT IS BEST TO ACCEPT THE SITUATION AS IT IS AND WALK YOUR OWN PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4669
RESPECT: NO ONE CAN DEMAND RESPECT FROM ANYONE. IT HAS TO BE GIVEN FREELY. THEREFORE, IF YOU ARE HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH YOUR ADULT CHILDREN AND THEY SEEM TO BE ANTAGONISTIC TOWARDS YOU; IT IS BETTER TO POLITELY, COMPASSIONATELY, AND LOVINGLY DISCONNECT YOURSELF FROM THE CONVERSATION AND LEAVE THEIR PRESENCE. REMEMBER THAT ‘YOU’ MAY NOT BE THE CAUSE OF THAT DISRESPECT. THE CAUSE MAY HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU AND EVERYTHING TO DO WITH THEIR PRESENT ENVIRONMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4670
RESPECT: YOU CAN NEVER DEMAND RESPECT FROM ANYONE; HOWEVER, YOU CAN DEMAND OBEDIENCE FOR SOMEONE. TRUE RESPECT CAN ONLY COME TO YOU NATURALLY AND FREELY. IF YOU ARE NOT RECEIVING THE RESPECT THAT YOU DESIRE AND IT BOTHERS YOU, IT IS BEST TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. REMEMBER WE ARE ALL HERE TO LEARN DIFFERENT LESSONS AND TO WALK DIFFERENT PATHS. YOUR LESSON MAY BE TO MOVE ON WITH ‘YOUR’ LIFE AND LET THE OTHERS LIVE THEIRS.
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THOUGHTS 4661 TO 4665

MY THOUGHTS 4661
FORGIVENESS: THE FIRST STEP IN THE ACT OF FORGIVENESS IS TO FORGIVE ONESELF FIRST FOR ALLOWING ONESELF TO STAY IN THE STATE OF ANGER AND HURT. THEN, IT IS TRULY POSSIBLE TO FORGIVE OTHERS THAT HAVE CAUSED ONESELF ANY SORT OF PAIN. THE ACT OF FORGIVENESS SHOULD BE DONE INTERNALLY FIRST. THE EXTERNAL FORGIVENESS IS OPTIONAL AND AN ACT OF GRACE ON ONE’S PART. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4662
LESSONS: REMEMBER THAT THE HARDER THE KARMIC LESSONS THAT YOU WILL FACE, THE MORE PROFOUND THE RESULTS WILL BE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4663
BALANCE: YOUR KARMIC/DHARMIC PATH CAN BE FULFILLED BY BALANCING THE YIN AND YANG OF YOUR INNER AND OUTER WORLDS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4664
SPIRITUALITY: REMEMBER THAT AS YOU SPIRITUALLY MATURE, YOU WILL ACCOMPLISH MORE WITH LESS EFFORT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4665
A BLESSING: MAY YOUR SPIRITUALITY ALWAYS BLOOM WITH THE FRAGRANCES OF LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSION. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4656 TO 4660

MY THOUGHTS 4656
FORGIVENESS: FORGIVING CAN BE DIFFICULT FOR MANY; HOWEVER, FORGIVING IS BENEFICIAL FOR YOUR SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, AND PHYSICAL HEALTH. REMEMBER THAT FORGIVENESS IS AN INTERNAL ISSUE AND REQUIRES GREAT INNER STRENGTH. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO BE FRIENDS WITH THE OFFENDER. IT DOES MEAN THAT YOU REFUSE TO CARRY AROUND THAT ANGER ABOUT THAT OFFENSE ANYMORE. THAT OFFENSE HAS TAUGHT YOU MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF AND MUCH ABOUT THE OFFENDER. LEARN THE LESSONS PRESENTED AND CONTINUE YOUR LIFE WITH THOSE THAT DO NOT WISH TO HURT YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4657
PARABLES: A MAN WHO HAD HAD THREE DIFFERENT WIVES WAS ASKED BY HIS CURRENT THIRD WIFE: “WHO WAS THE BEST?” HE REPLIED THAT THE FIRST WAS THE BEST AT THAT TIME HE HAD MARRIED HER. IF THINGS HAD WORKED OUT PERFECTLY BETWEEN THEM, HE WOULD STILL BE MARRIED TO HER. HE TOLD HIS CURRENT WIFE THAT SHE SHOULD BE GRATEFUL THAT THE FAILURE OF THE FIRST TWO HAD EVENTUALLY BROUGHT HIM TO HER. HE ALSO SAID THAT HE WOULD NOT CRITICIZE THEM BECAUSE THEY WERE HIS TEACHERS WHO HAD TAUGHT HIM HOW TO BE THE PERSON WHOM SHE HAD MARRIED. HE SUGGESTED THAT THEY BOTH SHOULD SEND HIS FORMER WIVES LOVE AND GRATITUDE BECAUSE THEY HELP HIM TO BE READY FOR HIS CURRENT WIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4658
LESSONS: ALWAYS HONOR ALL YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS, WHETHER GOOD OR BAD, AS SPECIAL KARMIC LESSONS SENT BY THE COSMOS TO YOU. HOW CAN YOU OR ANYONE HATE THE LESSONS SENT BY ‘GOD’ THAT HELPED FORM WHOM AND WHAT YOU ARE TODAY!! EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4659
INNER-BALANCE: TO FIND THE TRUE YOU, YOU MUST GO INWARD WITH REALISTIC REALITY CHECKS. IF YOU SEARCH OUTWARDLY FOR THE REAL YOU, YOU WILL ONLY FIND ONE OF MANY ILLUSIONS OF WHOM AND WHAT YOU ARE. HOWEVER, YOU MAY USE THOSE EXTERNAL PERCEPTIONS OF YOU AS TOOLS TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN INTERNAL PERCEPTIONS OF YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4660
BEAUTY: YOUR PERSONAL BEAUTY IS LIKE A HOME. THE EXTERNAL EDIFICE OF WHICH IS SUPERFICIALLY BEAUTIFUL AND REQUIRES CONSTANT FACELIFTS AS IT DETERIORATES WITH TIME AND NATURAL EVENTS. YOUR INNER BEAUTY HOWEVER, CAN BE MAINTAINED THROUGH ANY EXTERNAL STORMS OR EVENTS BY CONSTANT SPIRITUAL VIGILANCE. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4651 TO 4655

MY THOUGHTS 4651
POST-MOTHERS DAY: THE DAY AFTER MOTHERS DAY SHOULD BE DECLARED A DAY TO REMEMBER ALL FORGOTTEN AND ABANDONED MOTHERS OF ALL CATEGORIES. WHY THEY HAVE BEEN FORGOTTEN OR WHY THEY HAVE BEEN ABANDONED SHOULD BE DEEPLY REFLECTED UPON. IF IT WAS FOR PERSONAL REASONS IT IS TIME TO FORGIVE WHATEVER THE REASON WAS WITHIN YOUR HEART. IF YOU HAVE ABANDONED OR FORGOTTEN YOUR MOTHERS FOR MATERIAL REASONS, IT IS TIME TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4652
POST-MOTHERS DAY: REMEMBER THAT WHATEVER HAPPENS BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR ‘MOTHER’ IS BASED UPON THE KARMIC LESSONS TO BE LEARNED ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. MAKE SURE THAT YOU UNDERSTAND THOSE LESSONS CLEARLY WITHIN YOU HEART, SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR YOUR MOTHER’S ROLE IN THOSE LESSONS. IF YOU MOVE ON WITH RESENTMENT, HATE, AND NO FORGIVENESS, THEN YOU HAVE NOT UNDERSTOOD THOSE LESSONS PRESENTED TO YOU AND HER. THE ONE WHO TRULY UNDERSTANDS THOSE LESSONS WILL MOVE ON TO SPIRITUAL MATURITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4653
POST-MOTHERS DAY: DO NOT FORGET TO HONOR THE FATHERS WHO HAD TO TAKE ON THE ROLE OF MOTHER BECAUSE THE MOTHER ABANDONED THE FAMILY. ALSO DO NOT FORGET TO HONOR THE MOTHERS WHO ALSO HAD TO TAKE ON THE ROLE FATHER BECAUSE THE FATHER HAD ABANDONED THE FAMILY. IT IS ALSO A TIME TO REMEMBER THE SISTERS WHO ALSO HAD TO TAKE ON THE ROLE OF MOTHER AND FATHER TO THEIR SIBLINGS BECAUSE THEIR PARENTS HAD DIED OR ABANDONED THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4654
POST MOTHERS DAY: IF YOU WERE RAISED BY A LOVING CARING UNDERSTANDING ‘MOTHER.’ ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL TO HER BECAUSE YOU WERE RAISED BY A MOTHER WHO HAD/HAS MADE EXCEPTIONAL SACRIFICES FOR YOU. REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE MANY INDIVIDUALS WHO HAVE NEVER HAD THE GIFT OF A MOTHER’S LOVE. YOU ARE FORTUNATE TO HAVE THOSE WARM MEMORIES, WHILE FOR OTHERS THE WORD ‘MOTHER’ IS WORD THAT HAS NO MEMORIES AND NO LOVING VIBRATIONS AT ALL. EVEN IF YOUR MOTHER WERE NOT PERFECT IN EVERY WAY, YOU DO HAVE SOME LOVING MEMORIES OF A MOTHER WHO DID CARE FOR YOU.FOR SOME THE WORD MOTHER IS AN EMOTIONAL BLANK. EmilKoval©2013
4651 TO 4655

MY THOUGHTS 4655
FORGIVENESS: DO NOT WAIT FOR ANYONE TO APOLOGIZE FOR THE HURTS THAT THEY HAVE INFLICTED UPON YOU. FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE HURT, AND FORGIVE THEM IN YOUR HEART FOR THEIR PART IN YOUR HURT. THIS SHOULD BE AN INTERNAL ACTION FOR YOU. YOUR VERBAL FORGIVENESS TO THEM MAY ONLY BE REJECTED OR CAUSE MORE HURT TO YOU. IF THEY APOLOGIZE TO YOU LATER, JUST TELL THEM THAT YOU APPRECIATE THEIR PRESENT APOLOGY. LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE ALREADY FORGIVEN THEM IN THE PAST AND HAVE MOVED ON. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4646 TO 4650

MY THOUGHTS 4646
MOTHERS DAY: HAPPY MOTHERS DAY ALL MOTHERS AT EVERY LEVEL: BIRTH MOTHERS, ADOPTER MOTHERS, STEP MOTHERS, FOSTER MOTHERS, MOTHERS-IN LAW, GRANDMOTHERS, GREAT GRANDMOTHERS, AND ALL FEMALE CAREGIVERS. HAVE A JOYOUS AND LOVING MOTHERS DAY. MAY EVERY DAY BE A MOTHERS DAY TO ALL OF YOU!!! EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4647
MOTHERS DAY: ALWAYS HONOR YOUR MOTHER FOR GIVING YOU YOUR LIFE. IF YOUR MOTHER WAS A LOVING NURTURING MOTHER, THANK HER FOR THE LESSONS ON HOW TO BE A PARENT. IF YOUR MOTHER WAS A NEGATIVE PERSON IN MANY ASPECTS, THEN THANK HER FOR SHOWING YOU HOW NOT TO BE A PARENT.EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4648
MOTHER’S DAY: TODAY IS THE DAY TO RESPECT TO SHOW SPECIAL RESPECT TOWARDS YOUR MOTHER WHETHER SHE IS A BIRTH MOTHER, AN ADOPTER MOTHER, A STEP MOTHER, OR A FOSTER MOTHER. HONOR HER FOR THE LOVE, THE CARE, AND UNDERSTANDING THAT SHE HAS GIVEN TO YOU. WHETHER THEY WERE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE EFFECTS ON YOUR LIFE, THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU MANY LESSONS ABOUT YOURSELF AND OTHERS, SO HONOR THEM FOR THE LESSONS THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4649
MOTHER’S DAY: ALMOST EVERYONE HAS A MEMORY OF A MOTHERS LOVE AND CARE AND THAT MOTHER’S AFFECT ON THEIR LIVES WHETHER THEY ARE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. HOWEVER, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE THE LUCKY ONE BECAUSE FOR MANY PEOPLE THE WORD MOTHER HAS NO MEANING AT ALL. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4650
MOTHERS DAY: MOTHER’S DAY SHOULD BE A DAY THAT REMINDS YOU TO HONOR YOUR MOTHER EVERY DAY OF HER LIFE. THIS DOES NOT MEAN TO SUBMIT TO EVERY ONE OF HER WISHES OR DEMANDS. IT DOES MEAN TO HONOR AND RESPECT HER ROLE AS YOUR MOTHER, AND TO DO WHATEVER YOU CAN TO MAKE HER HAPPY WITHOUT SACRIFICING YOU AND YOUR OWN FAMILY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4641 TO 4645

MY THOUGHTS 4641
PARENTS: YOU, AS PARENTS, ARE YOUR CHILDREN’S GUIDES THROUGH THEIR EARLY YEARS. IN THEIR LATER YEARS, AS WELL AS THROUGHOUT THEIR LIVES, YOU ARE TO SHARE YOUR WISDOM AND EXPERIENCES WITH THEM. YOUR ROLE AS A CAREGIVER ENDS WHEN YOUR CHILDREN BECOME ADULTS. WHEN THEY BECOME ADULTS YOUR ROLE AS ADVISOR BEGINS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4642
FAMILY: PARENTS AT SOME POINT MUST RELEASE THEIR CHILDREN INTO THE WORLD AND CONTINUE ON THEIR OWN PATHS WITH THEIR PARTNERS. IF YOU, THE PARENT, DO NOT CONTINUE TOGETHER WITH YOUR PARTNER, YOU HAVE MADE SOME INCORRECT KARMIC CHOICES WHICH WILL SOONER OR LATER AFFECT YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN IN A NEGATIVE WAY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4643
FAMILY: WHEN PARTNERS BECOME PARENTS THEY CREATE A SHARED RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR CHILDREN. THAT RESPONSIBILITY INCLUDES NOT ONLY NURTURING THEIR CHILDREN BUT ALSO NURTURING THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH OTHER. YOUR CHILDREN HAVE COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO CREATE LESSONS FOR YOU AND TO CREATE A GREATER BONDING BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNERS. IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS WEAKENED OR DESTROYED BY RAISING YOUR CHILDREN, THEN YOU HAVE MADE BOTH MADE SOME SERIOUSLY INCORRECT KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4644
FAMILY: IF YOU HAVE LOST YOUR PARTNER DUE TO TOO MUCH FOCUS ON YOUR CHILDREN, THEN YOU HAVE MADE SERIOUS NEGATIVE KARMIC CHOICES THAT MAY AFFECT YOUR OWN CHILDREN’S RELATIONSHIPS. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT A CHILD IS ONE OF THE ESSENTIAL PARTS OF THE FAMILY, NOT THE ONLY ESSENTIAL PART OF THE FAMILY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4645
FAMILY: WHEN YOU FOCUS ON A LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER: YOU HAVE CREATED WHAT IS ESSENTIAL TO THE HAPPINESS OF YOUR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

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