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THOUGHTS 4731 TO 4735

MY THOUGHTS 4731
SUCCESS: THERE IS NO SUCH PERSON AS A SOLELY SELF-MADE PERSON. HOWEVER, THERE IS A SELF-DIRECTED PERSON. A ‘SO-CALLED’ SELF-MADE PERSON DOES RELY UPON THE HELP AND THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY OTHERS, WHETHER THE INFORMATION IS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. HE/SHE WILL MAKE HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS BASED ON THE INFORMATION THAT SHE/HE HAS GATHERED FROM OTHERS. A SELF-DIRECTED PERSON USES ALL THE INFORMATION AVAILABLE TO HIM/HER AND MAKES HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS AND TAKES THE CONSEQUENCES OF HER/HIS OWN DECISIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4732
LIKE, WANT, NEED, DESIRE: WHEN YOU SAY YOU LIKE SOMEONE IT USUALLY REFLECTS A FONDNESS FOR THAT PERSON. BECAUSE HE/SHE MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF. WHEN YOU SAY YOU WANT SOMEONE IT USUALLY REFLECTS A PHYSICAL DESIRE. WHEN YOU SAY YOU NEED SOMEONE, IT USUALLY REFLECTS A DEFICIENCY WITHIN ONESELF. WHEN YOU SAY YOU DESIRE SOMEONE, IT COULD BE A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION OR IT COULD BE AN EMOTIONAL, INTELLECTUAL, SPIRITUAL ATTRACTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4733
RELATIONSHIPS: IF ONE FOCUSES ONLY ON THE PHYSICAL ASPECTS OF A RELATIONSHIP, IT WILL BECOME ROUTINE AND MUNDANE. IF ONE FOCUSES ON THE MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL ASPECTS OF ONE’S PARTNER, THEN EVERY DAY CAN BE A NEW ADVENTURE SHARED TOGETHER AND MAY EVEN ENHANCE THE PHYSICAL ASPECTS OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. THERE WILL BE GROWTH, WITH SOME CRUISING ALONG THE WAY, AND EXCITEMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU MINDFULLY FOCUS MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL ASPECTS OF ONE’S RELATIONSHIP, THEN, HAVING CHILDREN WILL ENHANCE THAT RELATIONSHIP, INSTEAD OF HINDERING IT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4734
SPIRITUALITY: WE CAN ONLY BE EXAMPLES TO PEOPLE ON HOW TO LIVE OUR LIVES. YOU CANNOT CONTROL MINDLESS PUPPETS. IF YOU CONFRONT THEM, THEY WILL DESTROY YOU, IF YOU FOLLOW THEM, THEN YOU, TOO, WILL BECOME A MINDLESS PUPPET. IF YOU LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING; YOU, MAY SURVIVE THEM OR INFLUENCE SOME OF THEM. EITHER WAY YOU MUST BE SPIRITUALLY READY FOR WHATEVER HAPPENS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4735
LEADERSHIP: AS SOCIAL BEINGS, WE TEND TO FOLLOW THE CROWD. HOWEVER, THOSE OF US WHO BECOME THE LONE WOLVES ARE THE ONES THAT MAKE THE MAJOR DIFFERENCES AND INNOVATIONS. SOME LONE WOLVES MAY BE DESTROYED BY THE CROWD FOLLOWER, SOME WILL BECOME THE LEADERS OF THE CROWD FOLLOWERS, AND SOME WILL BE KEPT AT A DISTANCE BUT READILY AVAILABLE FOR CONSULTATION. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4726 TO 4730

MY THOUGHTS 4726
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO PRAY FOR AND CONSOLE ALL THOSE WHO BECAME COLLATERAL ‘DAMAGE’ BECAUSE OF POWER SEEKERS TRYING TO SEEK SUPPORT FOR THEIR CAUSES BY USING SCHOOLS, HOSPITALS, AND PUBLIC HOUSING AS DEFENSIVE POSITIONS. THAT IS COWARDLY AND INVITES DISASTER TO THOSE AREAS. THE DEFENDERS AND THE ATTACKERS ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS KIND OF COLLATERAL DAMAGE. ALL COMBATANTS SHOULD STAY OUT OF NON-COMBATIVE AREAS. HOWEVER, THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN BECAUSE ALL DEFENDERS USE NONCOMBATANT AREAS AS A DEFENSE POSITION FOR PROPAGANDA PURPOSES. AS A RESULT, BOTH DEFENDERS AND ATTACKERS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE DEATHS OF MANY INNOCENT NONCOMBATANTS.EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4727
SMILES: THE MOST IMPORTANT CURVE ON THE HUMAN BODY IS THE HUMAN SMILE. ALL OTHER HUMAN PHYSICAL CURVES ARE SUBJECT TO TIME, HORMONES, AND CALAMITIES. THE LOVING SMILE IS ONLY SUBJECT TO CONDITIONS IN THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE THE SMILE REPRESENTS THE SPIRITUAL ESSENCES OF AN INDIVIDUAL. THE SMILE IS ALSO A BAROMETER THAT MEASURES HOW HEALTHY A RELATIONSHIP IS. ONE MUST ALWAYS KEEP THAT SMILE AS THE MOST IMPORTANT TREASURE IN YOUR TREASURE BOX OF LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4728
QUESTION 564: WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE, ARE YOU LOOKING FOR SEXUAL GRATIFICATION OR ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A LIFETIME RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4729
RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU HAVE TO SEARCHING FOR REASON TO LOVE SOMEONE, THEN THAT ISN’T THE PERSON THAT YOU SHOULD LOVE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4730
RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU FEEL THAT IT’S TIME FOR A LIFETIME RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU SHOULD MINDFULLY UNDERSTAND YOU, AND YOU SHOULD MINDFULLY UNDERSTAND ANY POSSIBLE FUTURE LIFE-MATES. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4721 TO 4725

MY THOUGHTS 4721
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE MOTHERS AND FATHERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR SONS AND DAUGHTERS EITHER IN DEFENSE OF THEIR NATIONS OR BECAUSE OF THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4722
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE SONS AND DAUGHTERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR FATHERS AND OR MOTHERS IN DEFENSE OF THEIR NATIONS OR BECAUSE OF THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4723
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO HAVE LOST THEIR BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN DEFENSE OF THEIR NATIONS OR BECAUSE OF THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4724
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE TIME TODAY TO CONSOLE THE LIVING DEAD THAT ARE FLOUNDERING IN MILITARY HOSPITAL WAITING TO DIE OR WANDERING THE STREETS AS HOMELESS VETERANS WHO HAVE BEEN FORGOTTEN BY THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4725
MEMORIAL DAY: TAKE THE TIME TODAY TO REFLECT ON WHETHER YOUR NATION, YOUR CULTURE, OR YOUR FAITH IS REALLY SUPERIOR TO ANY OTHER, AND WHY YOU WOULD NEED TO USE MILITARY FORCE TO PROVE THAT. IF YOU DO NOT BELIEVE THAT WAR IS HELL, THEN IT IS SUGGESTED THAT YOU VISIT THE HOMELESS VETERANS ON THE STREETS AND THE LIVING DEAD VETERANS IN HOSPITALS OR CONVALESCENT HOMES WAITING TO DIE AN UNNOTICED DEATH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4716 TO 4720

MY THOUGHTS 4716
MEMORIAL DAY: MEMORIAL DAY IS OFFICIAL DAY TO HONOR AND TO REMEMBER ALL THOSE WHO HAVE GIVEN THEIR LIVES IN DEFENSE OF THIS COUNTRY. ON THIS DAY MANY GO TO NATIONAL OR PRIVATE CEMETERIES TO PUT FLOWERS ON THE GRAVES OF THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS WHO HAD GIVEN THEIR LIVES FOR THIS COUNTRY. AFTER VISITING THE CEMETERIES, THE FAMILY MEMBERS SHOULD GATHER AND CELEBRATE THE LIVES OF THOSE LOVED ONES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4717
MEMORIAL DAY: WE SHOULD NOT ONLY REMEMBER THOSE WHO HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR COUNTRY, BUT WE SHOULD ALSO HONOR THOSE THAT ARE CONSIDERED THE LIVING DEAD. THEY ARE THE ONES WHO HAD RECEIVED VERY DEBILITATING INJURIES, ARE IN COMAS, AND ARE IN A PERMANENT STATE OF SHOCK DUE TO CONFLICT RELATED INJURIES. THEY ARE USUALLY ALONE AND FORGOTTEN WHILE SPENDING THE REST OF THEIR LIVES IN MILITARY HOSPITALS WAITING TO DIE. A VISIT BY ANY COMPASSIONATE SOUL WILL GIVE THEM SOME SENSE OF HOPE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4718
MEMORIAL DAY: WE SHOULD TURN THIS DAY INTO AN INTERNATIONAL DAY FOR ALL NATIONS TO MOURN THE LOSS OF THEIR MILITARY PERSONNEL. ONCE WE UNDERSTAND THE FUTILITY OF LOSING THE FUTURES OF OUR YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN IN POLITICAL, ECONOMIC, OR RELIGIOUS CONFLICTS, WE CAN START WORKING TOWARDS A MORE PEACEFUL AND HARMONIOUS WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4719
MEMORIAL DAY: IN EVERY CONFLICT, REGARDLESS OF THE PURPOSE OF THE CONFLICT IS, ALL SIDES LOSE THEIR FUTURE POTENTIAL MOTHERS, FATHERS, TEACHERS, SCIENTISTS, ENGINEERS, AND DOCTORS. MEMORIAL DAY IS THE DAY TO REMEMBER THE BRAVERY OF THOSE WHO SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR GROUPS. AT THE SAME TIME, THOSE GROUPS SHOULD REFLECT ON THE LOSS OF THE FUTURE POTENTIAL CONTRIBUTIONS OF THOSE LOST WARRIORS TO WHATEVER CULTURE, NATION, OR FAITH THAT THEY BELIEVED IN OR BELONGED TO. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4720
MEMORIAL DAY: MEMORIAL DAY SHOULD HAVE FOUR BASIC FUNCTIONS: 1) TO HONOR THOSE WHO HAVE SACRIFICED THEIR LIVES FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE WHOLE. 2) TO CELEBRATE THE LIVES THAT THEY HAD LIVED AND TO REFLECT ON THEIR POTENTIALITY HAD THEY SURVIVED. 3) TO REFLECT ON THE WASTING OF LIFE AND POTENTIAL DREAMS BECAUSE OF THE POLITICAL, THE ECONOMIC, AND THE POWER NEEDS OF THE POWER SEEKING LEADERS OF ALL GROUPS, AND 4) TO REMIND US TO SEEK A MORE LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND UNDERSTANDING WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4711 TO 4715

MY THOUGHTS 4711
THE NOW: THE BASIC QUESTIONS THAT YOU FACE EVERY DAY FOR EVERY SITUATION ARE: WHO, WHAT, WHERE, HOW, WHEN, AND WHY. THE ANSWERS ARE WHO: YOU, WHAT: THE SITUATION AT HAND, WHERE: HERE, WHEN: NOW, AND WHY: BECAUSE IT NEEDS TO BE DONE. THERE ARE NO OTHER TIMES FOR THESE QUESTIONS BUT NOW. REMEMBER THAT NOW IS THE ONLY TRUE MOMENT IN TIME AND THAT TOMORROW NEVER COME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4712
SHARING: WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE ON YOUR JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE. YOU MAY WALK THE SAME PATH TOGETHER FOR A WHILE. YOU MAY LISTEN TO EACH OTHER, SHARE IDEAS WITH EACH OTHER, NUTURE AND HEAL EACH OTHER, AND HELP REKINDLE EACH OTHER’S INNER LIGHT. HOWEVER, YOU CANNOT WALK EACH OTHER’S PATH FOR EACH OTHER. THEIR PATHS ARE THEIRS, AND YOURS IS YOURS. THE FINAL STEPS ON YOUR PATH IS SOLELY BETWEEN YOU AND THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4713
CHOICES: YOUR ACTIONS ARE THE RESULTS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE. THEREFORE, IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF THE AFFECTS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR ACTIONS ON YOU AND ON OTHERS. IT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO RE-VIEW AND RE-ADJUST YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS FREQUENTLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4714
SUGGESTION: IN A NON-CONFLICTING SITUATION, SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER, AT OPPOSITE ENDS OF THE TABLE, AND WRITE A TITLE THAT DESCRIBES YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND THEN WRITE THREE REASONS WHY YOU CHOSE THAT TITLE. ALSO WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE THAT TITLE TO BE IF YOUR ARE NOT SATISFIED WITH IT. THIS SHOULD ONLY TAKE ABOUT FIVE MINUTES. NEXT, DISCUSS THE TITLE WITH YOUR PARTNER AND THE REASONS YOU CHOSE YOUR TITLE. IF EMOTIONS START TO FLARE UP, CALL A ‘TIME-OUT’ UNTIL YOU CAN CONTINUE WITH CIVIL CONVERSATION. THIS SHOULD HELP BOTH PARTNERS TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, RE-DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, OR TO UNDERSTAND ANY UNDERLYING PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4715
SUGGESTION: IN A HARMONIOUS SITUATION, SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER, AT OPPOSITE ENDS OF THE TABLE, AND WRITE DOWN THREE POINTS THAT YOU BOTH INDIVIDUALLY BELIEVE TO BE THE STRENGTH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. NEXT WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU FEEL ARE THE THREE WEAK POINTS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ALLOW ONLY FIVE MINUTES TO WRITE THEM DOWN. THEN TAKE ONE POINT AT A TIME FROM EACH LIST AND DISCUSS IT. IF EMOTIONS START TO FLARE UP, CALL A ‘TIME-OUT’ UNTIL YOU CAN CONTINUE WITH CIVIL CONVERSATION. THIS SHOULD HELP BOTH PARTNERS TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, RE-DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, OR TO UNDERSTAND ANY UNDERLYING PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED ON. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4706 TO 4710

MY THOUGHTS 4706
IMMORTALITY: THE ONLY WAY TO SEEK IMMORTALITY ON THIS LEVEL IS TO LIVE IN THE MINDS OF THOSE WHO HAVE A REASON TO REMEMBER YOU. HOWEVER, YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED IN A POSITIVE MANNER OR IN A NEGATIVE MANNER. SO WEIGH YOUR THOUGHTS CAREFULLY AND YOUR ACTIONS CAREFULLY. IF YOU ARE REMEMBERED, YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED FAMOUSLY OR INFAMOUSLY. YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS ARE YOUR LEGACY EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4707
THE NOW: YOUR ONLY REALTY IS THIS MOMENT AND THIS DAY. THE DAY BEFORE TODAY WAS YOUR TODAY AND IS NOW YOUR YESTERDAY. IT IS NOW YOUR PAST AND CANNOT BE CHANGED. TODAY IT IS ONLY A REMINDER OF WHAT YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE WHEN IT USED TO BE TODAY. THEREFORE, FOCUS ON WHAT IS IMPORTANT TODAY. DO NOT DWELL ON WHAT WAS TODAY AND IS NOW YESTERDAY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4708
THE NOW: YOUR ONLY TRUE REALTY IS THIS MOMENT AND THIS DAY. TOMORROW WILL BE YOUR TODAY TOMORROW. WHEN YOU ONLY FOCUS ON YOUR TOMORROW YOU ARE LIVING IN A FANTASY. YOUR TOMORROW CAN ONLY BECOME A REALITY BY WHAT YOU DO WITH THIS MOMENT AND THIS DAY. TOMORROW IS ONLY A REMINDER OF WHICH POSSIBILITIES CAN BECOME REALITIES BY WHAT YOU DO TODAY. THEREFORE, FOCUS ON WHAT IS IMPORTANT TODAY, SO THAT YOUR TOMORROW CAN BE A REALITY, NOT A FANTASY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4709
NOW: TODAY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY IN MY LIFE. WHEN IT IS GONE, IT IS GONE FOREVER. THEREFORE, I WILL BLESS THIS DAY WITH SUCCESS, NOT FAILURE; WITH POSITIVES, NOT NEGATIVES; WITH LOVE; NOT HATE; WITH UNDERSTANDING, NOT CONTEMPT; AND WITH COMPASSION, NOT NEGLECT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4710
THE NOW: TODAY IS A NEW DAY GIVEN TO YOU BY YOUR ‘GOD OF FAITH’. IT IS YOUR CHOICE AS TO HOW YOU WILL LIVE IT AND HOW YOU WILL USE IT. IT IS YOUR KARMIC CHOICE TO USE IT TO YOUR BENEFIT AND TO THE BENEFIT OF OTHERS, OR TO TOTALLY WASTE IT. YOU WILL EITHER HONOR THE PRECEPTS OF YOUR GOD OF FAITH, OR YOU WILL IGNORE THE PRECEPTS OF YOUR GOD OF FAITH. IT IS YOUR DAY TO DO WITH IT AS YOU WISH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4701 TO 4705

MY THOUGHTS 4701
CHANGE: IT IS THE INDIVIDUAL, WHO HAS A DREAM, WHO WILL MAKE THE GREAT DIFFERENCES IN THE WORLD. GROUPS TEND TO CAUSE THE REPETITION OF HISTORY, AS WELL AS, CREATE INFLEXIBLE DOGMA. APPLE, AS A GROUP, WAS FAILING UNTIL STEVE JOBS CAME BACK AND MADE ALL DECISIONS. THE CHRIST, THE BUDDHA, MOHAMMED, MOTHER TERESA, THE DALAI LAMA, SAI BABA, BRUCE LEE, AND MANY OTHERS WERE UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS WITHIN A GROUP THAT CREATED UNIQUE WAYS OF THINKING THAT MOVED PARTS OF THE WORLD IN DIFFERENT POSITIVE DIRECTIONS. THE GREAT THINKERS ARE LIKE GREAT EAGLES FLYING SOLO; AND SOMETIMES THEY ARE KILLED-OFF BY STAGNANT GROUP THINKERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4702
FAITH: WHEN YOU SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM OTHERS DUE TO ‘SO-CALLED’ DEVINE DESIGN, YOU CREATE TURMOIL AND DIVISION WITHIN THE GROUP, AS WELL AS, INVITE CONFLICTS WITH OTHERS. INSTEAD OF SEPARATING YOURSELF FROM OTHERS DUE TO YOUR FAITH, YOU SHOULD BE AN EXAMPLE OF YOUR FAITH WHILE LIVING AMONG OTHERS. DO NOT TRY TO CONVERT OTHERS, JUST LIVE THE ESSENCE OF YOUR FAITH WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4703
FAITH: REMEMBER THAT THE GREAT BOOKS OF FAITH WERE WRITTEN AFTER THE GREAT MASTERS HAD EXPRESSED THEIR WISDOM AND HAD LEFT THEIR PHYSICAL BODIES. LAO TSE AND MOHAMMED HAD WRITTEN THEIR WISDOM DOWN; HOWEVER, THOSE WHO HAD COPIED THOSE TEXTS MAY HAVE MISPLACED A FEW WORDS THROUGH CULTURAL, TRIBAL, AND LINGUISTIC INTERPRETATIONS. THIS IS TRUE FOR ALL SACRED TEXTS. FOLLOW YOUR SACRED TEXT WITHIN THE SPIRIT OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WITH NO SENSE OF VIOLENCE TOWARDS OTHERS AND NATURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4704
MEDITATION: BE AT ONE WITH NATURE IN THE FORESTS AND PARKS BY LISTENING AS THE TREES CATCH THE WINDS MAKING MUSIC AS THE WINDS PASS THROUGH THE MYRIAD OF LEAVES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4705
ENDURANCE: IN THE HIGH DESERT OF CALIFORNIA, THE SENTINEL STALWART JOSHUAS RESIST THE FORCEFUL WINDS, DEFY THE BLAZING SUN, ABSORBS THE INFREQUENT DOWNPOURS, AND WELCOMES THE BLANKETS OF SNOW, WHILE SHELTERING THE MANY FORMS OF DESERT LIFE AND CREATING HIGH PERCHES FOR BIRDS TO REST THEIR WEARY WINGS. EmilKoval©2013

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