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THOUGHTS 4666 TO 4670

MY THOUGHTS 4666
RESPECT: MANY YOUNG PEOPLE TODAY SHOW LACK OF RESPECT FOR BOTH PARENTS OR FOR EITHER ONE OR THE OTHER OF THE PARENTS. THE EXCUSE GIVEN BY MANY IS THAT THEY ARE YOUNG AND THAT THEY WILL GROW TO RESPECT THEIR PARENTS. CHILDREN DO NOT GROW INTO RESPECT. THEY ARE TAUGHT RESPECT BY THEIR PARENTS. IF ONE PARENT IS DISRESPECTED BY HIS OR HER CHILDREN, THE FAULT IS WITH THE OTHER PARTNER WHO HAS NOT TAUGHT HIS/HER CHILD/CHILDREN TO RESPECT THE OTHER PARTNER. IF BOTH PARENTS ARE NOT RESPECTED BY THEIR CHILDREN, IT IS TIME FOR DEEP INTROSPECTION OF THE VALUES TAUGHT TO THEIR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4667
RESPECT: IF YOUR CHILD OR CHILDREN SHOW YOU ONLY SUPERFICIAL RESPECT OR A TOKEN RESPECT, THEN IT IS TIME TO DISCONNECT FROM THEM COMPLETELY AND LET THEM MOVE ON WITH THEIR LIVES SO THAT THEY CAN LEARN THEIR LESSONS WITHOUT YOU. IF THEY SEEK YOUR ADVICE, GIVE THEM YOUR ADVICE WITH COMPASSION, LOVE, AND UNDERSTANDING. HOWEVER, DO NOT RECONNECT UNLESS THEY ARE WILLING TO SHOW YOU FULL RESPECT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4668
RESPECT: IF YOUR ADULT CHILDREN HAVE NOT CALLED YOU AT LEAST ONCE A MONTH TO ASK YOU HOW YOU ARE DOING, WHETHER YOU ARE IN NEED OF ANY HELP, OR JUST FOR A CONNECTING CONVERSATION; THEN THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM. IF THAT IS TRUE, IT IS TIME TO DISCONNECT FROM THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE WALKING A PATH THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE YOU. IT IS BEST TO ACCEPT THE SITUATION AS IT IS AND WALK YOUR OWN PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4669
RESPECT: NO ONE CAN DEMAND RESPECT FROM ANYONE. IT HAS TO BE GIVEN FREELY. THEREFORE, IF YOU ARE HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH YOUR ADULT CHILDREN AND THEY SEEM TO BE ANTAGONISTIC TOWARDS YOU; IT IS BETTER TO POLITELY, COMPASSIONATELY, AND LOVINGLY DISCONNECT YOURSELF FROM THE CONVERSATION AND LEAVE THEIR PRESENCE. REMEMBER THAT ‘YOU’ MAY NOT BE THE CAUSE OF THAT DISRESPECT. THE CAUSE MAY HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU AND EVERYTHING TO DO WITH THEIR PRESENT ENVIRONMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4670
RESPECT: YOU CAN NEVER DEMAND RESPECT FROM ANYONE; HOWEVER, YOU CAN DEMAND OBEDIENCE FOR SOMEONE. TRUE RESPECT CAN ONLY COME TO YOU NATURALLY AND FREELY. IF YOU ARE NOT RECEIVING THE RESPECT THAT YOU DESIRE AND IT BOTHERS YOU, IT IS BEST TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. REMEMBER WE ARE ALL HERE TO LEARN DIFFERENT LESSONS AND TO WALK DIFFERENT PATHS. YOUR LESSON MAY BE TO MOVE ON WITH ‘YOUR’ LIFE AND LET THE OTHERS LIVE THEIRS.
EmilKoval©2013

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