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Archive for May 24th, 2013

THOUGHTS 4711 TO 4715

MY THOUGHTS 4711
THE NOW: THE BASIC QUESTIONS THAT YOU FACE EVERY DAY FOR EVERY SITUATION ARE: WHO, WHAT, WHERE, HOW, WHEN, AND WHY. THE ANSWERS ARE WHO: YOU, WHAT: THE SITUATION AT HAND, WHERE: HERE, WHEN: NOW, AND WHY: BECAUSE IT NEEDS TO BE DONE. THERE ARE NO OTHER TIMES FOR THESE QUESTIONS BUT NOW. REMEMBER THAT NOW IS THE ONLY TRUE MOMENT IN TIME AND THAT TOMORROW NEVER COME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4712
SHARING: WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE ON YOUR JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE. YOU MAY WALK THE SAME PATH TOGETHER FOR A WHILE. YOU MAY LISTEN TO EACH OTHER, SHARE IDEAS WITH EACH OTHER, NUTURE AND HEAL EACH OTHER, AND HELP REKINDLE EACH OTHER’S INNER LIGHT. HOWEVER, YOU CANNOT WALK EACH OTHER’S PATH FOR EACH OTHER. THEIR PATHS ARE THEIRS, AND YOURS IS YOURS. THE FINAL STEPS ON YOUR PATH IS SOLELY BETWEEN YOU AND THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4713
CHOICES: YOUR ACTIONS ARE THE RESULTS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE. THEREFORE, IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF THE AFFECTS OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR ACTIONS ON YOU AND ON OTHERS. IT IS MOST IMPORTANT TO RE-VIEW AND RE-ADJUST YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS FREQUENTLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4714
SUGGESTION: IN A NON-CONFLICTING SITUATION, SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER, AT OPPOSITE ENDS OF THE TABLE, AND WRITE A TITLE THAT DESCRIBES YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND THEN WRITE THREE REASONS WHY YOU CHOSE THAT TITLE. ALSO WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE THAT TITLE TO BE IF YOUR ARE NOT SATISFIED WITH IT. THIS SHOULD ONLY TAKE ABOUT FIVE MINUTES. NEXT, DISCUSS THE TITLE WITH YOUR PARTNER AND THE REASONS YOU CHOSE YOUR TITLE. IF EMOTIONS START TO FLARE UP, CALL A ‘TIME-OUT’ UNTIL YOU CAN CONTINUE WITH CIVIL CONVERSATION. THIS SHOULD HELP BOTH PARTNERS TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, RE-DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, OR TO UNDERSTAND ANY UNDERLYING PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4715
SUGGESTION: IN A HARMONIOUS SITUATION, SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER, AT OPPOSITE ENDS OF THE TABLE, AND WRITE DOWN THREE POINTS THAT YOU BOTH INDIVIDUALLY BELIEVE TO BE THE STRENGTH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. NEXT WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU FEEL ARE THE THREE WEAK POINTS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ALLOW ONLY FIVE MINUTES TO WRITE THEM DOWN. THEN TAKE ONE POINT AT A TIME FROM EACH LIST AND DISCUSS IT. IF EMOTIONS START TO FLARE UP, CALL A ‘TIME-OUT’ UNTIL YOU CAN CONTINUE WITH CIVIL CONVERSATION. THIS SHOULD HELP BOTH PARTNERS TO DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, RE-DEFINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP, OR TO UNDERSTAND ANY UNDERLYING PROBLEMS THAT NEED TO BE WORKED ON. EmilKoval©2013

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