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THOUGHTS 4896 TO 4900

MY THOUGHTS 4896
LESSONS: ALL INTERACTIONS WITH OTHERS, WHETHER MOMENTARY OR LONG-TERM, WILL HAVE LESSONS AND GIFTS OF WISDOM FOR YOU. ALL INTERACTIONS, EVEN IF THEY ARE NEGATIVE, CAN BECOME POSITIVE TOOLS IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4897
LISTENING: WHEN SOMEONE SHARES THEIR THOUGHTS WITH YOU, IT DOES NOT ALWAYS MEAN THAT THEY ARE ASKING YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE. THEY MAY JUST WANT TO BE HEARD. YOUR LISTENING SKILLS ARE PARAMOUNT TO YOUR LEARNING. JUST BE FULLY PRESENT BY LISTENING TO WHAT SOMEONE HAS TO SAY TO YOU. NO RESPONSE MAY BE THE BEST RESPONSE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4898
LISTENING: LISTENING, OBSERVING, AND LEARNING ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT TOOLS IN YOUR LIFE’S PROCESS. WHEN YOU APPROACH LIFE WITH AN OPEN MIND, THERE IS SO MUCH FOR YOU TO DISCOVER. EACH PERSON THAT YOU MEET IS A TEACHER THAT YOU WILL LEARN SOMETHING FROM WHETHER THE LESSON IS A MINOR LESSON OR A MAJOR LESSON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4899
LISTENING: THE MORE YOU LISTEN AND LEARN, THE GREATER YOUR FUTURE POTENTIALS CAN BE. WHEN YOU HAVE HUMILITY, YOU ARE KEEPING AN OPENED-MIND WHILE LISTENING TO OTHERS. WHEN YOU HAVE A CLOSED MIND, YOU ARE NOT REALLY LISTENING. IF YOU ARE PATIENT, YOU ARE JUST WAITING TO BE HEARD. IF YOU ARE IMPATIENT, YOU WILL INTERRUPT THE SPEAKER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4900
QUESTION 575: WHEN YOU ARE HAVING A CONVERSATION, ARE YOU HAVING A TRUE CONVERSATION OR ARE YOU JUST WAITING FOR THE OTHER PERSON TO STOP SO THAT YOU CAN SPEAK? ARE YOU REALLY LISTENING TO THAT PERSON, OR ARE YOU PREPARING WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4891 TO 4895

MY THOUGHTS 4891
STRESS/DISTRESS: FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL, LIFE IS FULL OF INTERESTING CHALLENGES, WHICH CAN CREATE STRESS OR DISTRESS. SOME INDIVIDUALS ACTUALLY PREFER DEPRESSION TO VITALITY. IT IS THEIR COMFORT ZONE WHERE THE CAN RECEIVE ATTENTION OR REJECTION EASILY. NEGATIVE ATTENTION IS BETTER THAN ZERO ATTENTION. ZERO ATTENTION MEANS YOUR EXISTENCE ISN’T RECOGNIZED. ANY ATTENTION, WHETHER NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE, SHOWS THAT YOUR EXISTENCE IS RECOGNIZED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4892
FEARS: A GREAT INSIGHT INTO ONESELF IS TO BE AWARE OF HOW YOU PERSONALLY DEAL WITH YOUR FEARS. SOME WILL DENY THEIR FEARS PUBLICLY WHILE BEING TERRORIZED BY THEM INTERNALLY. SOME WILL CHALLENGE AND DENY THEIR FEARS. WHICHEVER IS TRUE FOR YOU, YOU MUST BEGIN TO DEFINE AND UNDERSTAND YOUR FEARS. THIS MAY BE A LIFE-LONG PROJECT. DURING THIS PROCESS YOU MUST LEARN TO TURN THOSE FEARS INTO POSITIVE TOOLS TO HELP YOU FACE YOUR CHALLENGES ON YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4893
FEAR: WHEN YOU BEGIN TO FEEL A SENSE OF FEAR, FIND A PLACE OF SOLITUDE AND LET IT BLOOM FULLY IN YOUR MIND AS ‘YOU’ MINDFULLY OBSERVE IT. AS YOU OBSERVE IT, TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHY IT IS APPEARING AT THAT TIME AND EVALUATE YOUR REACTIONS TO IT. IF YOU ARE IN A PUBLIC SETTING, DO NOT EXPRESS YOUR FEAR BUT MINDFULLY OBSERVE IT AND YOUR REACTIONS TO THEM.
THE TIMES THAT YOU HAVE TO FACE YOUR FEARS ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR SELF UNDERSTANDING AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH. ONCE YOU HAVE FACED ONE OF YOUR FEARS FULLY AND HAVE TURNED IT INTO AN ALLY, YOUR FUTURE FEARS WILL BE EASIER TO OVER COME AND MAY BE DIMINISHED TO THE LEVEL OF ANXIETY OR NERVOUSNESS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4894
FEAR: THERE ARE FOUR BASIC LEVELS OF EMOTION THE PEOPLE CALL ‘FEAR’. 1) NERVOUSNESS WHICH IS A MINOR EMOTIONAL REACTION TO UNCERTAINTY; 2), ANXIETY WHICH IS A HEIGHTENED NERVOUS REACTION TO ‘PERCEIVED’ THREATS OR MENACING EVENTS; 3) FEAR WITH IS DEFENSIVE REACTION TO REALISTIC OR PERCEIVED DANGER; AND 4) PHOBIAS WHICH ARE HEIGHTEN LEVELS OF FEAR THAT PRODUCE MENTAL TERROR AND EXTREME PHYSICAL REACTIONS. THESE ARE GENERALIZED DEFINITIONS TO HELP CLARIFY THESE LEVELS OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS. EACH LEVEL MUST BE MINDFULLY UNDERSTOOD BY EACH INDIVIDUAL WHO EXPERIENCES THEM. PHOBIAS ARE THE MOST DANGEROUS OF THE FOUR AND MAY NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP TO OVERCOME THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4895
FEAR: ALL CREATURES HAVE A SENSE OF FEAR. FOR ANIMALS, FEAR IS FELT IN CLEAR AND PRESENT DANGERS. FOR HUMANS, IT IS NOT ONLY WITH CLEAR AND PRESENT DANGER, BUT ALSO CAN BE FELT IN THE ANTICIPATION OF THINGS TO COME AND CONTINUING MEMORIES FROM THE PAST. HUMAN FEAR CAN CREATE HIGH LEVELS OF ‘IMAGINED’ HUMAN ANXIETY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4886 TO 4890

MY THOUGHTS 4886
ANGER: WHEN YOU HAVE EXPRESSED YOUR ANGER AT SOMEONE OR SOMETHING, YOU SHOULD FOLLOW UP WITH A RE-APPRAISAL OF YOUR REASON(S) FOR YOUR ANGER. IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO EXAMINE HOW YOU ACTUALLY FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF AFTER YOU HAVE EXPRESSED YOUR ANGER. DID YOU FEEL HONEST SATISFACTION, OR DID YOU FEEL REGRET AND/OR REMORSE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4887
ANGER: WHEN YOU BEGIN TO FEEL YOUR ANGER RISING, TAKE CONTROL OF THAT MOMENT AND PAUSE SO THAT YOU CAN TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE ANGRY AT AND WHY YOU ARE ANGRY. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DETERMINE WHETHER IT IS ‘THAT PERSON’ OR SOME UNCONSCIOUS MEMORY(IES) THAT HAVE TRIGGERED YOUR ANGER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4888
STRESS/ DISTRESS: STRESS IS AN IMPORTANT TOOL TO KEEP OUR MIND, BODY, AND EMOTIONS FINED TUNED. PUZZLES, QUESTIONS, WRITING, AND DISCUSSIONS KEEP OUR MINDS PROPERLY TUNED. PROPER EXERCISE, GOOD NUTRITION PRACTICES, AND OTHER MILD PHYSICAL ACTIVITIES KEEP OUR PHYSICAL BODIES FINE TUNED. ALLOWING OURSELVES TO FEEL AND EXPRESS OUR EMOTIONS WILL KEEP OUR EMOTIONAL STATE FINE TUNED. HOWEVER, WHEN YOU GO TO EXTREMES AND OVER STRESSED YOUR MIND, BODY, AND EMOTIONS, YOU WILL CREATE ‘DISTRESS’ AND CAUSE AN IMBALANCE IN YOUR SPIRITUAL STATE. YOU MUST KNOW THE LIMITS OF YOUR STRESS IN ALL AREAS AND HOW TO PREVENT DISTRESS. PROPER STRESS CAN AID IN SPIRITUAL GROWTH, AND DISTRESS CAN LIMIT SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4889
STRESS/DISTRESS: DISTRESS DENIES YOU HAPPINESS, DRAINS YOUR ENERGY, AND DIMINISHES YOUR SPIRITUALITY. CHRONIC DISTRESS CAN LEAD TO DEPRESSION WHICH IS USUALLY THE RESULT UNMANAGEABLE CHRONIC SADNESS. THUS, YOU SHOULD FOCUS ON RESTORING YOUR VITALITY, WHICH IS THE OPPOSITE OF DEPRESSION. ONCE YOU VITALITY IS RESTORED, YOUR HAPPINESS WILL RETURN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4890
FOCUS: INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON YOUR MISERY, FOCUS ON GETTING OUT OF YOUR MISERY. YOU CAN DO THIS BY FOCUSING ON YOUR STRENGTHS INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON YOUR WEAKNESSES. WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR FOCUS, YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR MENTAL DIRECTION. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4881 TO 4885

MY THOUGHTS 4881
LESSONS: ENTERING ANOTHER CULTURE IS A GREAT OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU TO SEE YOURSELF CLEARLY. WHEN YOU SEE THIS AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW BEYOND WHO YOU ARE PRESENTLY, WITH RESPECT FOR WHERE YOU CAME FROM, YOU HAVE MADE A POSITIVE KARMIC CHOICE. IF YOU EXPECT THE NEW CULTURE TO CHANGE TO ACCOMMODATE YOU, YOU HAVE DEMONSTRATED YOUR CULTURAL ARROGANCE. THIS INTER-CULTURAL EXCHANGE IS A GREAT OPPORTUNITY FOR SELF DISCOVERY, RE-EVALUATION OF YOUR PERCEPTIONS, AND POSSIBLY A RE-ALIGNING OF YOUR GOALS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4882
LESSONS: ALL OF YOUR SOCIALIZING AND INTERACTING IN YOUR EARLIER YEARS ARE TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND THE DUALITIES OF LIFE. THERE WILL BE GREAT MOMENTS OF DISAPPOINTMENT AND GREAT MOMENTS OF UNEXPECTED JOY, AND THERE WILL BE LOSSES AND GAINS TO HELP YOU LEARN YOUR KARMIC LESSONS. THROUGH YOUR EXPERIENCES AND UNDERSTANDING OF THOSE DUALITIES YOU CAN BEGIN THE PROCESS TO UNDERSTAND THE ONENESS OF ALL. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4883
HAPPINESS: MATERIALISM CAN BRING YOU EXPENSIVE THINGS AND TAKE YOU TO EXOTIC PLACES WHICH CAN/MAY BRING YOU ‘MOMENTS OF JOY’; HOWEVER, IT CANNOT GIVE YOU LONG-TERM INTERNAL SATISFACTION AND CONTENTMENT. EXPENSIVE POSSESSIONS CAN ALSO BRING WITH THEM GREAT STRESS BECAUSE OF THE NEED TO PROTECT THOSE POSSESSIONS FROM PREDATORS. MONEY CAN GIVE YOU ‘PERIODS’ OF PEACE OF MIND, AS WELL AS ‘PERIODS’ OF STRESS; HOWEVER, MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS CANNOT GIVE YOU FULFILLMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4884
ANGER: THE OBJECTIVE OF YOUR ANGER MAY BE A DESIRE TO HURT SOMEONE WHO HAS HURT YOU, BUT IN REALITY, YOU ARE HURTING YOURSELF. YOUR OFFENDER MAY ACTUALLY TAKE JOY IN YOUR ANGER AND DISCOMFORT. MEANWHILE, YOUR ANGER IS EATING AWAY AT YOUR HAPPINESS AND YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM. IF YOUR ANGER IS FOCUSED ON REVENGE, YOU SHOULD CHANGE THAT FOCUS TO UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARE SO ANGRY AND WHY YOU SEEK RETRIBUTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4885
EMOTIONS: IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF THE RANGE OF YOUR EMOTIONS. BE AWARE OF HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL, HOW THEY MAKE YOU THINK, AND HOW THEY MAKE YOU BEHAVE. BEING ABLE TO ACCEPT AND UNDERSTAND YOUR RANGE OF EMOTIONS IS AN IMPORTANT STEP IN YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. BE WITH THEM, BE UNDERSTANDING OF THEM, AND BE ABLE TO DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM THEM WHEN NECESSARY. KEEP YOUR EMOTIONS IN THEIR PROPER PLACE AS POSITIVE TOOLS TO BE USED IN TIMES OF NEED. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4876 TO 4880

MY THOUGHTS 4876
CHOICES: WHEN PEOPLE ENTER DIFFERENT CULTURES, THERE ARE BASICALLY THREE PATHS THAT THEY CAN TAKE: 1) THEY CAN BECOME SO DEEPLY EMERGED IN THAT CULTURE THAT THEY BECOME MORE FANATICAL ABOUT THAT CULTURE THAN THE PEOPLE OF THAT CULTURE AND BECOME AN EMBARRASSMENT TO THE PEOPLE OF THAT CULTURE; 2) THEY CAN SEE ONLY THE NEGATIVES OF THE CULTURE AND KEEP THEMSELVES ISOLATED IN THEIR OWN CULTURAL COMMUNITIES WITHIN THAT CULTURE; AND 3) THEY CAN SEE THE POSITIVES AND NEGATIVES OF THE CULTURE AND STILL LOVE, RESPECT, AND HONOR THAT CULTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4877
CHOICES: ENCOUNTERING OTHER CULTURES IS A WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITY FOR GROWTH AND SELF-EVALUATION. THERE ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR CULTURAL, TECHNOLOGICAL, AND SOCIAL EXCHANGE AND GROWTH. THERE ARE OPPORTUNITIES FOR PHILOSOPHICAL AND SPIRITUAL RE-EVALUATION. YOU CAN MAKE THESE ENCOUNTERS POSITIVE LESSONS ON YOUR LIFE’S PATH, OR YOU CAN MAKE THEM NEGATIVES ON YOUR LIFE’S PATH. YOU CAN EITHER OPEN THE DOOR TO POSITIVE RE-EVALUATION AND GROWTH OF YOURSELF, OR YOU COULD WEAR BLINDERS AND REMAINS PHILOSOPHICALLY, CULTURALLY, AND TECHNOLOGICALLY STAGNANT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4878
GROWTH: YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN, EXPERIENCE, AND TO GROW. IF YOU WISH TO REMAIN STAGNANT YOU ARE NOT WALKING YOUR DHARMIC PATH. YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN FROM EXPERIENCES AND TO MAKE POSITIVE CHOICES THROUGH THE KARMIC LESSONS THAT YOU ARE PRESENTED. IF YOU WISH TO REMAIN STAGNANT, THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE REINCARNATED AS ROCK. YOU ARE HERE IN ‘YOUR RIVER OF LIFE’ WHICH IS FLOWING CONSTANTLY AND MEETING ALL KINDS OF CHANGES. GO WITH THE FLOW AND GROW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4879
NATURES LESSONS: YOU START OUT YOUR LIFE AS A PURE SPRING TO BEGIN YOUR JOURNEY TO THE COSMIC OCEAN. ALONG THE WAY YOUR PURE SPRING WILL BECOME YOUR RIVER OF LIFE AS YOU ENCOUNTER DRASTIC AND MILD CHANGES IN THE QUALITY OF YOUR WATER OF LIFE. YOUR RIVER OF LIFE WILL ENCOUNTER PURIFICATION TOOLS SUCH AS WATERFALLS, RAPIDS, WHIRLPOOLS, AND CASCADES. YOUR RIVER OF LIFE WILL ALSO ENCOUNTER DAMS, LAKES, AND PONDS WHERE STAGNATION AND POLLUTION MAY OCCUR. THERE WILL ALSO BE TIMES OF A SMOOTH SERENE FLOWING RIVER OF LIFE. THIS PROCESS MAY REPEAT ITSELF MANY TIMES UNTIL YOU RE-CONNECT WITH THE COSMIC OCEAN. BE MINDFULLY AWARE OF WHO AND WHAT YOU ARE AND BE MINDFULLY PREPARED FOR SUDDEN CHANGES AND SHIFTS IN YOUR RIVER OF LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4880
PROCESS OF LIFE: YOU START OUT WITH YOUR FAMILY IN YOUR PUREST FORM. THEN YOUR RELATIVES BEGIN TO INFLUENCE YOUR REACTIONS TO LIFE. LATER YOU WILL CREATE FRIENDS AND MAY HAVE TO ASSOCIATE WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHO WILL CONSTANTLY CHALLENGE YOU AND FORCING YOU TO GROW BEYOND WHO YOU ARE. AT SOME POINT, YOU MAY CREATE A LOVING RELATIONSHIP OUTSIDE OF YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND EVEN START YOUR OWN FAMILY. THIS WILL CREATE NEW ADVENTURES AND STRUGGLES IN MAKING SURVIVAL CHOICES AS YOU ENCOUNTER THE SOCIAL INTRICACIES OF SOCIAL LIFE. ALONG THE WAY YOU WILL EXPERIENCE LOSSES OF LOVED-ONES AND THE BIRTHS OF NEW LOVED-ONES AND RELATIONSHIPS. AFTER YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED AND LEARNED FROM THESE DUALITIES OF LIFE, THE PROCESS OF RE-EVALUATING WHO, WHAT, AND WHY YOU ARE YOU BEGINS. WHEN YOU TRULY UNDERSTAND THAT, YOU WILL GRADUALLY DETACH YOURSELF FROM THINGS AND PEOPLE IN A LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND CARING WAY IN THE PURSUIT OF THE ONENESS OF ALL. AT THIS POINT, YOU SHOULD BE CLOSE ENOUGH TO SERVE AND DISTANT ENOUGH TO BE DETACHED. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4871 TO 4875

MY THOUGHTS 4871
REINCARNATION: NO ONE HAS THE ABSOLUTE ANSWER TO THE EXISTENCE OF PARADISE OR HELL OR REINCARNATION. THEY ARE PRESENTED TO PEOPLE OF VARIOUS FAITHS AND IN VARIOUS WAYS TO HELP MAINTAIN OF SOCIAL ORDER AND A PLAUSIBLE EXPLANATION FOR A POSSIBLE LIFE AFTER DEATH. HOWEVER, IF ONE BELIEVES IN THE POSSIBILITY OF REINCARNATION, MAYBE THERE WILL BE MORE COOPERATION AND MORE TOLERANCE IN THIS WORLD. IF YOU HAVE BEEN INTOLERANT OF OTHERS AND HAVE HAD A CHANGE OF HEART, THEN THE DYNAMICS OF YOUR REINCARNATION WILL CHANGE. BASICALLY, IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THE VALUES OF A GROUP, IT IS BETTER TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT GROUP THAN TO CONFRONT IT. IF YOU CONFRONT A GROUP DUE TO LACK OF COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING, YOU MAY BE PART OF THAT GROUP IN YOUR NEXT INCARNATION. IT IS BETTER TO LET THEM BE AND DO NOT BE AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS THEM. YOU ARE IN CONTROL AND YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR DESTINY BY THE CHOICES YOU MAKE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4872
SUGGESTIONS: EVERY COUNTRY SHOULD ADOPT A POLICY THAT ANY ONE WHO WISHES TO “IMMIGRATE” TO THAT COUNTRY SHOULD LEARN THE PUBLIC LANGUAGE OF THAT COUNTRY AND DEMONSTRATE SOME KNOWLEDGE OF THAT CULTURE WITHOUT SURRENDERING ONE’S OWN CULTURE AND LANGUAGE. IF ONE IS JUST A VISITOR, ONE SHOULD OBSERVE AND APPRECIATE WHERE ONE IS. ONE SHOULD LEARN THE LANGUAGE, UNDERSTAND THE CULTURE, AND INTERACT WITH THE PEOPLE WHILE PREPARING TO BECOME A MULTICULTURAL PERSON. THIS IS A GOOD KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4873
CHOICES: WHEN YOU MOVE INTO A DIFFERENT CULTURE, YOU MUST BE PREPARED FOR AN EVENTUAL BLENDING OF CULTURES, ESPECIALLY WITH CHILDREN. YOU SHOULD BE PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE BLENDING OF THE POSITIVES OF BOTH CULTURES AND TRY TO LIMIT THE NEGATIVES OF EACH CULTURE. IF YOU CANNOT ACCEPT THIS, IT IS BEST TO RETURN TO YOUR CULTURE AND LIVE THE CHANGES AS THE WILL EVENTUALLY SEEP IN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4874
CHANGES: ONE MUST KEEP IN MIND THAT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE TRANSITIONAL CHANGES IN ONE’S LIFE. WITH EACH GENERATION AND CULTURAL INTERACTION, MANY OLD WAYS AND VALUES WILL CHANGE SLIGHTLY OR DRASTICALLY. ACCEPTING THOSE CHANGES IS ONE’S INDIVIDUAL KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4875
CHOICES: A REAL KARMIC TEST FOR ANY INDIVIDUAL IS TO LIVE IN A DIFFERENT CULTURE. THIS IS A GREAT OPPORTUNITY TO START SEEING THE ONENESS OF ALL. IF ONE CANNOT ADAPT TO THE CHANGES IN THE PERCEPTIONS OF EACH CULTURE, THEN ONE SHOULD RETURN TO ONE’S HOME CULTURE AND CONTINUE TO WALK THE PATH OF DUALITY. HOPEFULLY, AT SOME POINT, ONE CAN GET BEYOND CULTURAL ARROGANCE AND BEGIN TO ACCEPT THE ONENESS OF ALL. EVERYTHING IN ITS TIME. WHEN YOU ARE READY THE OPPORTUNITY WILL RE-PRESENT ITSELF. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4866 T0 4870

MY THOUGHTS 4866
SPIRITUALITY: YOU COME INTO THIS MATERIAL WORLD TO LEARN YOUR KARMIC LESSONS AND FOLLOW YOUR DHARMIC PATH. YOU ARE CONSTANTLY GIVEN CHOICES THAT CAN HELP BALANCE YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE WITH YOUR MATERIAL LIFE. DEPENDING ON HOW YOU WALK YOUR DHARMA PATH AND HOW YOU RESPOND TO YOUR KARMIC LESSONS, YOUR SPIRITUALITY WILL GROW, STAGNATE, OR DECLINE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4867
SPIRITUALITY: MATERIAL THINGS ARE NOT NEGATIVE THINGS; THEY ARE JUST THINGS. HOW YOU USE THEM MAKES THEM POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. THEY CAN EXPRESS YOUR POSITIVE OR YOUR NEGATIVE SIDE OF YOUR ESSENCE. HOW YOU USE MATERIAL THINGS IS A PERSONAL KARMIC CHOICE. YOU CAN BE A SHARER OR A MISER CONCERNING YOUR MATERIAL POSSESSIONS. THOSE CHOICES WILL DETERMINE YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH, YOUR SPIRITUAL STAGNATION, OR YOUR SPIRITUAL DECLINE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4868
PARABLES: AN OLD INDIAN STORY STATES THAT WHEN A WEALTHY RAJA WHEN TALKING TO ONE THE GODS, A LONG LINE OF ANTS PASSED BETWEEN THEM. THE RAJA WAS SURPRISED AND ASKED THE GOD WHAT WAS HAPPENING. THE GOD TOLD THE RAJA THAT THEY WERE ALL FORMER RAJAS. SO, WHEN YOU ARE FORTUNATE TO HAVE MATERIAL THINGS, ARE YOU USING THEM TO BENEFIT YOURSELF AS WELL AS OTHERS IN NEED, OR ARE YOU USING THEM TO WEIGH DOWN YOUR SPIRITUALITY TO THE LEVEL OF THE ANTS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4869
SPIRITUALITY: ‘ALL PATHS’ EVENTUALLY LEAD TO ‘GOD’. THE QUESTION IS DO WANT TO TAKE THE SHORT-CUTS OR DO YOU WISH TO TAKE THE LONG WAY AROUND. YOU KNOW THAT IT IS YOUR CHOICE ALONE. YOU CAN TAKE THE PATH OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING; OR YOU CAN TAKE THE PATH OF HATE, GREED, AND CONTEMPT. THE LATER, MAY TAKE MANY LIFETIMES, BUT EVENTUALLY YOU WILL COME TO LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4870
SPIRITUALITY: ALL PATHS MINDFULLY TAKEN INWARD WILL LEAD TO ‘GOD’, WHATEVER YOUR FAITH OR NON-FAITH IS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4861 TO 4865

MY THOUGHTS 4861
HAPPINESS: YOU MAY FIND PLEASURE AND HAPPINESS IN MATERIAL THINGS, THE PEOPLE YOU ASSOCIATE WITH, AND THE ENTERTAINMENT THAT YOU WATCH. THAT IS PERFECTLY ALL RIGHT BECAUSE THEY ARE TOOLS TO HELP YOU LEARN ON THIS LEVEL. REMEMBER THAT THEY WILL ONLY BRING YOU MOMENTARY FEELINGS OF PLEASURE AND HAPPINESS. HOWEVER, TRUE CONTENTMENT AND TRUE HAPPINESS CAN ONLY BE ACHIEVED INTERNALLY. TRUE PEACE, CONTENTMENT, AND JOY CAN ONLY COME FROM WITHIN YOU, NOT FROM YOUR EXTERNAL WORLD WHICH IS SUBJECT TO SUDDEN AND DRASTIC CHANGES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4862
LESSONS: EACH DAY CAN BRING NEW ADVENTURES INTO YOUR LIFE. HOW YOU FACE THOSE ADVENTURES IS BASED ON HOW STRONG YOUR INTERNAL SPIRITUALLY IS. WHEN YOU FACE THOSE ADVENTURES WITH YOUR SPIRITUALITY IN MIND YOU WILL RECEIVE MANY WONDERFUL LESSONS AND BLESSINGS. WHEN YOU FACE THOSE ADVENTURES WITH SELFISH GREED, YOU WILL FALL DEEPER AND DEEPER INTO THE QUAGMIRE OF MATERIALISM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4863
HAPPINESS: YOU MAY AND SHOULD FIND GREAT JOY IN YOUR PHYSICAL AND SENSORY PLEASURES ON THIS LEVEL; HOWEVER, THOSE PHYSICAL AND SENSORY PLEASURES CAN BE VERY FLEETING IN TIME. AS YOUR BODY CHANGES THROUGH HORMONES, MALADIES, ACCIDENTS, AND AGE, THOSE PLEASURES AND JOYS MAY BECOME DISTANT MEMORIES. IT IS BETTER TO PURSUE THOSE PLEASURES IN A WAY THAT WILL ENHANCE YOUR SPIRITUALITY THROUGH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4864
RELATIONSHIPS: THE MORE YOU REMAINS SOCIALLY OR INTIMATELY CONNECTED TO SOMEONE WHO CAUSES YOU PAIN, THE DEEPER THE HURT YOU WILL FEEL. STOP HURTING YOURSELF AND MOVE ON TO COMPANIONS WITH THOSE WHO ARE MORE COMPATIBLE WITH YOU. YOUR LIFE IS YOUR LIFE TO LIVE AS YOU WISH. THE PERSON WHO CAUSES YOU PAIN HAS HER/HIS LIFE TO LIVE. HIS/HER HURTING YOU MAY BE HER/HIS ATTEMPT TO LIVE HER/HIS LIFE WITHOUT YOU. HAVING CONSTANT PAINFUL SITUATIONS IN A RELATION MAY BE THE COSMOS TELLING YOU THAT IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE. DO NOT STAY CONNECTED TO SITUATIONS THAY CAUSE YOU UNNECESSARY STRESS. LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE; NOT SOMEONE ELSE’S LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4865
THE TRILOGY OF THE MIND, THE BODY, AND THE SOUL: YOU MUST LEARN TO RESPECT THE PARTNERSHIP BETWEEN YOUR SPIRITUAL SELF AND YOUR PHYSICAL SELF. YOU MUST GO THROUGH LIFE FEEDING AND BALANCING BOTH. KEEP YOUR BODY TONED, HEALTHY, AND STRONG SO THAT YOU CAN INCREASE YOUR SPIRITUALITY TO UNBELIEVABLE LEVELS. YOUR MIND IS THE LINK BETWEEN YOUR BODY AND YOUR SOUL, SO BE SURE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR MIND, BODY AND SOUL BY ENHANCING ALL THREE AREAS SIMULTANEOUSLY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4856 TO 4860

MY THOUGHTS 4856
RELATIONSHIP: FOR THOSE WHO PREFER THE PATH OF HARMONY AND GENTLENESS IN A RELATIONSHIP, REMEMBER THAT THOSE WHO HAVE REJECTED THAT SIDE OF YOU WILL USUALLY TRY TO COME BACK WITHIN A PERIOD OF TIME TO RE-ESTABLISH THE RELATIONSHIP THAT THEY HAD REJECTED FOR MORE EXCITING ADVENTURES. IT IS OKAY ACCEPT THEIR RE-NEWED FRIENDSHIP, BUT BE WARY OF A RE-NEWED INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP. THEIR RETURN MAY JUST BE A RE-ADJUSTING POINT BEFORE THEY HEAD ON TO THEIR NEXT ADVENTURE LEAVING YOU ABANDONED AGAIN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4857
RELATIONSHIPS: ACCEPT THE REJECTION OF OTHERS AS A COSMIC LESSON THAT HELPS YOU UNDERSTAND ‘YOU’ BETTER AND OTHERS BETTER. REMEMBER THE SOME PEOPLE WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE AND ONLY WALK WITH YOU FOR A SHORT TIME TO HELP YOU MAKE SPECIFIC KARMIC DECISIONS. WHEN THEY WISH TO RECONNECT WITH YOU, AT FIRST, ACCEPT A LIMITED CONDITIONAL RECONNECTION. THEN, YOU CAN COUNSEL ON THEM HOW THEY WERE IN THE PAST, AND HOW THEY CAN BEST MAINTAIN ANY PRESENT RELATIONSHIPS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4858
SUGGESTIONS TO WRITERS: CONFORMITY IS GOOD TO A CERTAIN POINT TO MAINTAIN HARMONY WITHIN ANY GROUP. HOWEVER, WHEN THE GROUP TRIES TO SUPPRESS YOUR ESSENCE, IT IS TIME TO GROW BEYOND THAT GROUP. DO NOT SUPPRESS YOUR THOUGHTS BY NOT WRITING WHAT YOUR HEART FEELS. WRITE SHORT PIECES TO SATISFY YOU AND SOME WITHIN YOUR GROUP. IF THEY BEGIN TO LIKE WHAT YOU SAY, YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE BOLDER WITH YOUR WRITINGS. ONCE YOU ARE ESTABLISHED AS A WRITER, YOU ARE HOME FREE. ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART WHETHER YOU WRITE PRIVATELY OR PUBLICLY. REMEMBER THAT YOUR PRIVATE WRITING IS MEANS TO SHOW APPRECIATION FOR YOUR GROUP OR TO ESCAPE FROM THE LIMITATIONS OF YOUR GROUP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4859
SUGGESTION TO WRITERS: REMEMBER THAT YOUR WRITINGS WILL AFFECT OTHERS IN THEIR OWN WAY, NOT NECESSARILY THE WAY IT AFFECTS YOU OR HOW YOU WISH TO AFFECT OTHERS. YOUR WRITINGS ARE A GIFT TO YOU AND THE WORLD AROUND YOU. REMEMBER THAT YOUR EXPRESSED FEELINGS MAY OPEN THE CLOSED DOORS IN MANY MINDS ALLOWING THEM TO FEEL THEIR OWN FEELINGS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4860
SUGGESTIONS: LET PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES AND MAKE THEIR OWN MISTAKES. BE THERE TO HELP WHEN THEY ASK FOR IT. YOU CAN VOLUNTEER YOUR HELP; HOWEVER, IF IT IS IGNORED, BACK OFF AND LET THEM LEARN ON THEIR OWN. HOWEVER, YOU MAY PLANT IDEAS IN THEIR MINDS, BUT THEY NEED TO NURTURE THEM. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4851 T0 4855

MY THOUGHTS 4851
LOVE: REMEMBER THAT TRUE LOVE IS AN ACTION VERB. IT IS NEITHER A STATIC VERB NOR A NOUN. IT WILL BECOME A STAIC VERB OR NOUN WHEN YOU START TO TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP FOR GRANTED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4852
FAMILY: THE FAMILY IS THE BASIC UNIT OF ANY TRADITIONAL SOCIETY. FAMILIES CAN PROVIDE ORDER OR DISORDER FOR ITS MEMBERS. EACH FAMILY IS A COSMIC LESSON FOR ITS MEMBERS. WHEN THE LESSONS ARE LEARNED IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY, IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON. FAMILY IS THE STARTING POINT IF YOUR LIFE, NOT YOUR BIOLOGICAL PRISON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4853
FAMILY: IF YOU ARE RAISED IN A FAMILY WHERE YOU WERE ADOPTED, IT IS YOUR REAL FAMILY. YOUR BIRTH FAMILY OPENED A DOOR TO YOUR LIFE. YOUR BIRTH FAMILY CLOSED THAT CONNECTION TO YOU AFTER YOU WERE ADOPTED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4854
FAMILY: TODAY THERE ARE FOUR FORCES WORKING AGAINST THE UNITY OF FAMILY: 1) MATERIALISM WHICH PUTS MATERIAL VALUE ABOVE FAMILY VALUES; 2) COMMUNISM WHERE THE GOVERNMENT REPLACES YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER AND HAS FAMILY MEMBERS SPYING ON EACH OTHER; 2) EXTREME SOCIALISM WHERE ‘SOCIAL VALUES’ BECOME MORE IMPORTANT THAN FAMILY VALUES; AND 4) FUNDAMENTALISM WHERE RELIGION OR PHILOSOPHY BECOME SO DOGMATIC THAT FAMILIES ARE TORN APART OR MEMBERS ELIMINATED DUE TO ITS INTOLERANCE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4855
QUESTION 575: IS YOUR GOD A LOVING COMPASSIONATE CONSULTANT, OR IS YOUR GOD A FEARFUL DICTATOR OF YOUR LIFE? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4846 TO 4850

MY THOUGHTS 4846
SPIRITUALITY: SPIRITUAL GROWTH IS A PROCESS; IT IS NOT A STAGNANT STATE. AS YOU REACH DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SPIRITUALITY, DOORS WILL OPEN TO NEW SPIRITUAL VENTURES AND UNDERSTANDING. THE TEACHINGS HAVE NOT CHANGED; HOWEVER, YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF THEM HAS EXPANDED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4847
SPIRITUALITY: YOUR SPIRITUAL SUCCESS CANNOT BE MEASURED; IT CAN ONLY BE LIVED. JUST LIVE YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER’S TEACHINGS ON ‘YOUR PATH’. IT BE JUST ‘YOU’ WHO DECIDES HOW TO WALK ‘YOUR PATH’ WITH THE GUIDING WISDOM OF YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER. AS YOU PROCEED ON YOUR PATH, YOU WILL GROW AND SEE YOUR TEACHER’S TEACHINGS IN DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES AS ‘YOUR’ PERCEPTIONS CHANGE. YOUR PERCEPTIONS ON SPIRITUALITY WILL CHANGE AS YOU GROW. AS YOU CREATE A FAMILY, LOOK TO YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHERS’ WORDS FOR GUIDANCE. AS YOUR CHILDREN GROW BEYOND YOU, AGAIN, LOOK TO YOUR TEACHER’S WISDOM FOR GUIDANCE. YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH CAN BECOME THE GUIDING LIGHT FOR YOUR LOVED-ONES AND OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4848
ATTACHMENTS: WHEN YOU ARE TOO ATTACHED TO THINGS AND TO PEOPLE ON THIS LEVEL, YOU ARE LIMITING THE LEVEL OF YOU SPIRITUAL GROWTH. YOUR ATTACHMENTS MAY HELP YOU AND OTHERS GROW SPIRITUALLY TO A CERTAIN LEVEL; HOWEVER, WHEN YOU START DETACHING WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING, YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH BECOMES UNLIMITED. MANY MAKE THE MISTAKE OF DETACHING WITH ARROGANCE, WHICH IS A NEGATIVE KARMIC CHOICE AND VERY LIMITING BY KEEPING THEM IN THE REALM OF DUALITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4849
SPIRITUALITY: WHEN YOU LEARN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR JOB FROM THE MINOR THINGS TO THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS, YOU WILL BECOME THE INDISPENSABLE EMPLOYEE. WHEN YOU DO THIS, YOU ARE TRULY WALKING YOUR DHARMIC PATH. IN THIS WAY, YOUR PROFESSION BECOMES AN IMPORTANT TOOL TO YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH THROUGH POSITIVE KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4850
SPIRITUALITY: FOCUS ON YOU YOUR CAREER. WALK THAT PATH WITH THE TEACHINGS OF YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER TO HELP YOU IN DECISION MAKING. WHEN YOU HEAR HIS/HER WHISPERS IN YOUR MIND, FOCUS ON WHETHER THEY ARE CONSISTENT WITH YOUR BELIEFS AND HOPES, NOT ON WHO IS SAYING THEM. IN TIME, YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER’S THOUGHTS CAN BECOME ONE. YOU MUST LIVE ‘YOUR LIFE’ AND MAKE ‘YOUR KARMIC DECISIONS’ ON YOUR PATH WITH THE TEACHINGS OF YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER AS GUIDEPOSTS ALONG THE WAY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4841 TO 4845

MY THOUGHTS 4841
TEACHERS: TO TRULY FOLLOW ANY MASTER TEACHER, YOU MUST SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM THE COMMERCIALIZATION OF YOUR MASTER TEACHER AND LOOK AT HIS/HER TEACHINGS EXCLUSIVELY. YOUR MASTER TEACHER’S WORDS ARE THE KEY TO YOUR CONNECTION WITH HER/HIM AND HOW YOU SEE YOUR TEACHER IN YOUR MIND. YOU CAN HAVE MANY ITEMS AROUND YOU TO HELP YOU REMEMBER HIM/HER; HOWEVER, LIVING AND BEING YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER’S TEACHINGS IS THE ONLY TRUE CONNECTION WITH HER/HIM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4842
TEACHERS: BUYING PICTURES AND MEMORABILIA ARE THINGS TO HELP YOU REMEMBER YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER. HOWEVER, ALL YOU REALLY NEED TO DO IN ORDER TO TRULY HONOR YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER IS TO LIVE HIS/HER TEACHINGS WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF YOUR LIFE’S PATH. BEING ‘YOU’ THROUGH HER/HIS TEACHINGS WILL CONNECT YOU SPIRITUALLY TO HIM/HER MUCH BETTER THAN BUYING MEMORABILIA. THE MONEY YOU SPEND ON THOSE THINGS WOULD BETTER SERVE THOSE IN NEED. INSTEAD OF FILLING THE POCKETS OF THE VENDORS, FILL THE STOMACHES OF THE NEEDY. BUYING MEMORABILIA IS LIVING IN THE PAST. LIVING YOUR MASTER’S TEACHINGS IS LIVING IN THE PRESENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4843
TEACHERS: SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM THE COMMERCIALIZATION OF YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER AND LOOK AT HIS/HER TEACHINGS EXCLUSIVELY. YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER’S WORDS ARE THE KEY TO YOUR CONNECTION WITH HER/HIM AND HOW YOU SEE YOUR TEACHER IN YOUR MIND. YOU CAN HAVE MANY ITEMS AROUND YOU TO HELP YOU REMEMBER YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER; HOWEVER, ‘BEING HIS TEACHINGS’ IS THE ONLY TRUE CONNECTION TO YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4844
SUGGESTION: WHEN YOU HAVE A PRESSING QUESTION ON YOUR MIND, FIND A PLACE OF SILENCE AND FOCUS ON THAT QUESTION. YOU CAN HAVE BACKGROUND MUSIC TO HELP YOU FOCUS. LOOK AT YOU QUESTION THROUGH YOUR SPIRITUAL TEACHER’S TEACHINGS. IT WILL TAKE PRACTICE AND TIME. THIS IS A GOOD WAY TO START TO HAVE A TRUE SPIRITUAL CONNECTION WITH YOU SPIRITUAL TEACHER. THIS PRACTICE MAY ACTUALLY ANSWER MANY QUESTIONS AT THE SAME TIME. REMEMBER THAT YOU MUST FIND A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN MOMENTARILY DISCONNECT FROM ALL EARTHLY ATTACHMENTS SO THE YOU CAN RE-CONNECT TO THE COSMIC WISDOM OF YOUR TEACHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4845
GROWTH: REMEMBER THAT YOUR ATTACHMENTS IN YOUR EARLIER LIFE ARE/WERE THE MEANS OF UNDERSTANDING ‘YOU’ THROUGH YOUR DUALITY ROLE. THAT UNDERSTANDING WILL EVENTUALLY LEAD TO A DISCONNECTION FROM YOUR ATTACHMENTS SO THAT YOU CAN TRULY UNDERSTAND THE ONENESS OF ALL. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4836 TO 4840

MY THOUGHTS 4836
SPIRITUALITY: FOR THOSE WHO ARE ON A HIGHER SPIRITUAL LEVEL, THE DUALITY-OF-LIFE IS NO LONGER SIGNIFICANT. FOR THE NEW SEEKERS OF SPIRITUALITY, UNDERSTANDING THE DUALITY OF THEIR LIVES IS IMPORTANT. ONCE THEY UNDERSTAND THE DUALITY OF THEIR LIVES THEY CAN MOVE ON TO UNDERSTANDING THE ONENESS OF ALL. TRULY ENLIGHTENED TEACHERS UNDERSTAND THIS WELL AND WILL HELP THE NOVICE TO UNDERSTAND THE DUALITY OF HIS/HER OWN WORLD SO THAT SHE/HE CAN EVENTUALLY BE TAUGHT ABOUT THE ONENESS OF ALL. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4837
SPIRITUALITY: FOR THOSE SPIRITUAL TEACHERS WHO CLAIM TO BE WALKING WITH GOD AND DO NOT SHOW LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING TOWARDS THOSE ON DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH ARE NOT WALKING THEIR PATH WITH GOD. THEY ARE WALKING THE PATH ALONG WITH THEIR OWN EGO, NOT WITH GOD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4838
QUESTION 574: HOW CAN SOMEONE WHO EXPRESSES THE ONENESS OF ALL MOCK THOSE WHO ARE STILL STRUGGLING WITH THEIR OWN DUALITY BEFORE THEY CAN UNDERSTAND THE ONENESS OF ALL? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4839
SPIRITUALITY: TO THOSE SO CALLED ENLIGHTENED BEINGS ON THIS LEVEL WHO PUT DOWN THOSE WHO ARE NOT AT THEIR PERCEIVED LEVEL OF ENLIGHTENMENT, YOU ARE ACTUALLY DEMONSTRATING THAT YOUR TRUE LEVEL THE SPIRITUALITY IS LOWER THAN THE INITIATE WHO IS TRYING TO PRACTICE LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. ARROGANCE IS NEVER A SIGN OF SPIRITUAL ACHIEVEMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4840
SPIRITUALITY: WHEN YOU COME INTO THIS LIFE YOU ARE TOTALLY DEPENDENT ON OTHERS, FIRST YOU ARE DEPENDENT ON YOUR FAMILY AND RELATIVES. THAN FRIENDS, TEACHERS, CLASSMATES, PARTNERS, CHILDREN, BOSSES, AND CO-WORKERS. ALL ARE LESSONS IN DEALING WITH THE DUALITIES IN YOUR LIFE AND, EVENTUALLY, THE ONENESS OF ALL. THE UNDERSTANDING OF THE ONENESS OF ALL COMES THROUGH THE ABILITY TO DISCONNECT FROM YOUR LIMITING DUALITY ATTACHMENTS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4831 TO 4835

MY THOUGHTS 4831
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ADOPTEES HAVE BEEN RELINQUISHED OR ABANDONED BY THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS BECAUSE THEY ARE TO FOLLOW A TOTALLY DIFFERENT PATH THAN THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE COMING INTO THIS WORLD THROUGH THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, NOT FROM THEM. WE ARE ALL CHILDREN OF THE COSMOS AND WE MUST GO WITH THE FLOW OF THE PATH THAT IT HAS GIVEN US TO FOLLOW. WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN A DIFFERENT SET OF PARENTS TO BE WITH, YOU ARE GIVEN OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN DIFFERENT THINGS ALONG YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4832
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ADOPTEES HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW ABOUT THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS’ GENETICS AND HISTORY; HOWEVER, THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO INTERFERE IN THEIR PERSONAL LIVES IF THE BIRTH PARENTS DO NOT WISH IT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4833
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ANY ADOPTED CHILD WHO SEEKS TO FIND HIS/HER BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, SHOULD SEEK CAREFULLY. THE ADOPTED CHILD SHOULD MAKE SURE THAT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS WANT THE CONNECTION AND THAT THAT CONNECTION DOES NOT DISRUPT THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIVES. THEY DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO SEEK BIOLOGICAL AND GENETIC INFORMATION FROM THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. HOWEVER, THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DESTROY OR DISRUPT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIFE AFTER SO MANY YEARS OF SEPARATION. ANY REUNION HAS TO BE MUTUALLY ACCEPTABLE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4834
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ADOPTIONS ARE LIKE A COMBINED DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE ARRANGEMENT ALL IN ONE LEGAL SUIT. THE ADOPTEES BECOME LEGALLY SEPARATED FROM THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS AND ARE RECONNECTED WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NON-BIOLOGICAL AND ARE WILLING TO RECEIVE THEM AS THEIR OWN CHILDREN. THE MOST IMPORTANT RE-CONNECTION IS TO BE LEGALLY ALLOWED TO SEE THE BIOLOGY, THE GENETICS, THE HISTORY OF THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, AS WELL AS THE REASONS FOR THE ADOPTION ACTIONS. A PERSONAL RE-CONNECTION SHOULD ONLY BE DONE ON THE MUTUAL BASIS. THE ADOPTEES DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO TOTALLY DISRUPT THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIVES FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL EMOTIONAL DESIRES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4835
FOCUSING: REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO FORGET THINGS OR PEOPLE, YOU WILL NEVER FORGET BECAUSE YOU ARE REALLY RE-ENFORCING THEIR IMAGES IN YOUR MIND. WHEN YOU INTENTIONALLY TRY TO IGNORE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING, YOU ARE ACTUALLY INCREASING YOUR ATTENTION TOWARDS IT/HIM/HER. WHEN THOSE IMAGES POP UP IN YOUR MIND, YOU HAVE TWO BASIC CHOICES: YOU CAN TAKE IT ON OR YOU CAN SAY THAT YOU WOULD PREFER TO FOCUS ON SOMETHING ELSE AT THIS MOMENT. WHATEVER YOU FOCUS ON OR ‘TRY’ TO FORGET, YOU GIVE POWER TO IT. BE MINDFUL OF YOUR THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4826 TO 4830

MY THOUGHTS 4826
POST FATHER’S DAY: IF YOU HAVE HAD A FATHER, OR MOTHER, WHO HAS TAKEN CARE OF YOU WITH ALL YOUR PROBLEMS FROM YOUR CHILDHOOD TO ADULTHOOD, YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL TODAY, SO MANY CHILDREN ARE ABANDONED, KILLED, OR ABUSED BECAUSE OF THEIR MOTHERS AND FATHERS NEED FOR MATERIAL GAINS, SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE, OR TO BE ABLE TO PARTY MOST OF THE TIME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4827
FATHERS DAY: REMEMBER THAT FATHERS DAY, FOR MANY, IS A GREAT DAY TO CELEBRATE BEING A FATHER. HOWEVER, FOR SOME, IT IS A DAY TO DREAD. ALWAYS BE AWARE OF THE YIN AND YANG OF THIS DAY AND SHARE YOUR LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSION WITH THOSE WHO DREAD THIS DAY AND WITH THOSE WHO LOOK FORWARD TO THIS DAY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4828
FORGIVENESS: IF YOU HAVE BEEN IGNORED BY YOUR CHILDREN OR OTHER LOVED ONES AND THEY HAVE A CHANGE OF HEART AND WISH TO APOLOGIZE, ACCEPT THE APOLOGY WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. HOWEVER, IF YOU ARE DYING AND THEY WANT TO APOLOGIZE, REMEMBER THAT IT IS NOT A SINCERE APOLOGY. IF YOU WERE NOT ON YOUR DEATH BED, THEY WOULD STILL IGNORE YOU. EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE ALREADY FORGIVEN THEM IN YOUR HEART, YOU MUST LOVINGLY TEACH THEM ONE FINAL LESSON ABOUT RESPECT BY NOT ACCEPTING THEIR APOLOGY. IF YOU DO NOT DO THIS, THEY WILL CONTINUE TO EASILY BE DISRESPECTFUL TO OTHERS. IT IS A KARMIC LESSON FOR THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4829
RELATIONSHIP: IF ADOPTED CHILDREN ABANDON THEIR ADOPTER PARENTS FOR THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, THEY HAVE MADE A NEGATIVE KARMIC CHOICE. IF THOSE ADOPTED CHILDREN WISH TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR BIRTH PARENTS WHILE HONORING AND RESPECTING THE ADOPTER PARENTS, IT IS A POSITIVE KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4830
RELATIONSHIP: ANY ADOPTED CHILD WHO SEEKS TO FIND THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, SHOULD SEEK CAREFULLY. THE ADOPTED CHILD SHOULD MAKE SURE THAT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS WANT THE CONNECTION AND THAT THAT CONNECTION DOES NOT DISRUPT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIVES. THEY DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO SEEK BIOLOGICAL AND GENETIC INFORMATION FROM THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. HOWEVER, THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DESTROY OR DISRUPT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIFE AFTER SO MANY YEARS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4821 TO 4825

MY THOUGHTS 4821
FATHERS DAY: HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO ALL FATHERS AT EVERY LEVEL: BIRTH FATHERS, ADOPTER FATHERS, STEP FATHERS, FOSTER FATHERS, FATHERS-IN LAW, GRANDFATHERS, GREAT GRANDFATHERS, AND ALL MALE CAREGIVERS. HAVE A JOYOUS AND LOVING FATHERS DAY. MAY EVERY DAY BE A FATHERS DAY TO ALL OF YOU! ALSO HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO THOSE SINGLE MOTHERS WHO HAVE THE DOUBLE ROLE OF BEING A FATHER AND MOTHER TO HER CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4822
POST-FATHERS DAY: THE DAY AFTER FATHERS DAY SHOULD BE DECLARED A DAY TO REMEMBER ALL FORGOTTEN AND ABANDONED FATHERS ON ALL LEVELS. WHY THEY HAVE BEEN FORGOTTEN OR WHY THEY HAVE BEEN ABANDONED SHOULD BE DEEPLY REFLECTED UPON. IF IT WAS FOR PERSONAL REASONS IT IS TIME TO FORGIVE WHATEVER THE REASON WAS WITHIN YOUR HEART. IF YOU HAVE ABANDONED OR FORGOTTEN YOUR FATHERS FOR MATERIAL REASONS, IT IS TIME TO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4823
FATHERS DAY: REMEMBER THAT WHATEVER HAPPENS BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR ‘FATHER’ IS BASED UPON THE KARMIC LESSONS TO BE LEARNED ON YOUR DHARMIC PATHS. MAKE SURE THAT YOU UNDERSTAND THOSE LESSONS CLEARLY WITHIN YOU HEART, SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR YOUR FATHER’S ROLE IN THOSE LESSONS. IF YOU MOVE ON WITH RESENTMENT, HATE, AND NO FORGIVENESS, THEN YOU HAVE NOT UNDERSTOOD THOSE LESSONS PRESENTED TO YOU AND HIM. THE ONE WHO TRULY UNDERSTANDS THOSE LESSONS WILL MOVE ON TO SPIRITUAL MATURITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4824
FATHERS DAY: DO NOT FORGET TO HONOR THE FATHERS WHO HAD TO TAKE ON THE ROLE OF MOTHER BECAUSE THE MOTHER ABANDONED THE FAMILY. ALSO DO NOT FORGET TO HONOR THE MOTHERS WHO ALSO HAD TO TAKE ON THE ROLE OF FATHER BECAUSE THE FATHER HAD ABANDONED THE FAMILY. IT IS ALSO A TIME TO REMEMBER THE BROTHERS OR SISTERS WHO ALSO HAD TO TAKE ON THE ROLE OF MOTHER AND FATHER TO THEIR SIBLINGS BECAUSE THEIR PARENTS HAD DIED OR ABANDONED THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4825
POST FATHERS DAY: IF YOU WERE RAISED BY A LOVING CARING UNDERSTANDING ‘FATHER.’ ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL TO HIM BECAUSE YOU WERE RAISED BY A FATHER WHO HAD/HAS MADE EXCEPTIONAL SACRIFICES FOR YOU THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY UNAWARE OF. REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE MANY INDIVIDUALS WHO HAVE NEVER HAD THE GIFT OF A FATHER’S LOVE. YOU ARE FORTUNATE TO HAVE THOSE WARM MEMORIES, WHILE FOR OTHERS THE WORD ‘FATHER’ IS WORD THAT HAS NO MEMORIES AND NO LOVING VIBRATIONS AT ALL. EVEN IF YOUR FATHER WERE NOT PERFECT IN EVERY WAY, YOU DO HAVE SOME LOVING MEMORIES OF A FATHER WHO DID CARE FOR YOU. FOR SOME, THE WORD FATHER IS AN EMOTIONAL BLANK. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4816 TO 4820

MY THOUGHTS 4816
FATHER’S DAY: ONE OF THE MOST PAINFUL FEELINGS OF ANY FATHER, OR MOTHER, IS THE TOTAL ABANDONMENT BY ONE’S OWN CHILDREN WITHOUT EXPLANATION. IF YOU ARE NOT THE CAUSE OF THEIR ABANDONMENT, IT SAYS A LOT ABOUT THE CHARACTER OF YOUR CHILDREN. THEIR CHARACTERS DEPENDS ON HOW THEY WERE RAISED, WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS THEY HAVE ACCUMULATED, AND THE KARMIC LESSONS THAT THEY NEED TO LEARN. IT MAY REALLY HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU PERSONALLY. YOUR PART IN THEIR LIVES MAY BE TO BE AN EXAMPLE OF HOW A GOOD PERSON LIVES HIS/HER LIFE. AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES THEY MAY REALIZE THAT AND LOOK TO YOU AS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW THEY SHOULD LIVE THEIR LIVES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4817
FATHERS DAY: ALWAYS HONOR YOUR FATHER FOR PLANTING YOUR SEED OF LIFE. IF YOUR FATHER WAS A LOVING NURTURING FATHER, THANK HIM FOR THE LESSONS ON HOW TO BE A LOVING PARENT. IF YOUR FATHER WAS A NEGATIVE PERSON IN MANY ASPECTS, THEN THANK HIM FOR SHOWING YOU HOW NOT TO BE A PARENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4818
FATHERS DAY: TODAY IS THE DAY TO SHOW SPECIAL RESPECT TOWARDS YOUR FATHER WHETHER HE IS A BIRTH FATHER, AN ADOPTER FATHER, A STEP FATHER, OR A FOSTER FATHER. HONOR HIM FOR THE LOVE, THE CARE, AND UNDERSTANDING THAT HE HAS GIVEN TO YOU. WHETHER THEY WERE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE EFFECTS ON YOUR LIFE, THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU MANY LESSONS ABOUT YOURSELF AND OTHERS, SO HONOR HIM FOR THE LESSONS THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM HIM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4819
FATHERS DAY: ALMOST EVERYONE HAS A MEMORY OF A FATHER’S LOVE AND CARE AND THAT FATHER’S AFFECT ON THEIR LIVES WHETHER THEY ARE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. HOWEVER, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE THE LUCKY ONE BECAUSE TO MANY PEOPLE THE WORD FATHER HAS NO MEANING AT ALL. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4820
FATHERS DAY: FATHER’S DAY SHOULD BE A DAY THAT REMINDS YOU TO HONOR YOUR FATHER EVERY DAY OF HIS LIFE. THIS DOES NOT MEAN TO SUBMIT TO EVERY ONE OF HIS WISHES OR DEMANDS. IT DOES MEAN TO HONOR AND RESPECT HIS ROLE AS YOUR FATHER, AND TO DO WHATEVER YOU CAN TO MAKE HIM HAPPY WITHOUT SACRIFICING YOU AND YOUR OWN FAMILY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4811 TO 4815

MY THOUGHTS 4811
ATTACHMENTS: YOUR ATTACHMENTS ARE THE KEYS TO YOUR JOYS AND SORROWS. ALL ATTACHMENTS ARE COSMIC LESSONS TO BE LEARNED ON YOUR LIFE’S PATH. PARTS OF THOSE LESSONS ARE LEARNING TO DETACH FROM THE NEGATIVES OR TO TURN THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS. AS YOU REACH DIFFERENT STAGES IN YOUR LIFE YOU WILL DISCOVER THAT MANY ATTACHMENTS ARE NO LONGER NECESSARY. THE FEWER ATTACHMENTS THAT YOU HAVE, THE GREATER YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH WILL BE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4812
QUESTION 572: ARE YOUR NEEDY ATTACHMENTS TO OTHERS LIMITING THEIR SPIRITUAL GROWTH AS WELL AS YOURS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4813
LESSONS: EACH HOLIDAY BRINGS INTERESTING CHALLENGES TO THOSE DEEPLY INVOLVED WITH FAMILY. IT CAN INVOLVE MANY BLISSFUL MOMENTS AND MANY ANTAGONISTIC MOMENTS. IF YOU TRULY AND MINDFULLY UNDERSTAND ‘YOU’, EVERY MOMENT CAN BE A JOYOUS CONTENT MOMENT. ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS BE ‘YOU’, WITH NO PRETENSES AT ALL. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4814
QUESTION 573: ARE YOU ONE OF THOSE ENLIGHTEN SOULS WHO FEEL SO BLESSED UNTIL YOU HAVE TO SPEND A WEEK WITH YOUR FAMILY? ARE YOU WILLING TO TEST YOUR SPIRITUALITY BY SPENDING A WEEK WITH YOUR WHOLE FAMILY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4815
BALANCE: FIND THE YIN AND YANG BALANCE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR LOVED ONES. BE CLOSE ENOUGH TO BE ENDEARING, AND JUST DISTANT ENOUGH TO BE SPIRITUALLY YOU. EmilKoval©2013

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