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Archive for June 17th, 2013

THOUGHTS 4831 TO 4835

MY THOUGHTS 4831
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ADOPTEES HAVE BEEN RELINQUISHED OR ABANDONED BY THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS BECAUSE THEY ARE TO FOLLOW A TOTALLY DIFFERENT PATH THAN THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE COMING INTO THIS WORLD THROUGH THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, NOT FROM THEM. WE ARE ALL CHILDREN OF THE COSMOS AND WE MUST GO WITH THE FLOW OF THE PATH THAT IT HAS GIVEN US TO FOLLOW. WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN A DIFFERENT SET OF PARENTS TO BE WITH, YOU ARE GIVEN OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN DIFFERENT THINGS ALONG YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4832
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ADOPTEES HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW ABOUT THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS’ GENETICS AND HISTORY; HOWEVER, THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO INTERFERE IN THEIR PERSONAL LIVES IF THE BIRTH PARENTS DO NOT WISH IT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4833
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ANY ADOPTED CHILD WHO SEEKS TO FIND HIS/HER BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, SHOULD SEEK CAREFULLY. THE ADOPTED CHILD SHOULD MAKE SURE THAT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS WANT THE CONNECTION AND THAT THAT CONNECTION DOES NOT DISRUPT THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIVES. THEY DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO SEEK BIOLOGICAL AND GENETIC INFORMATION FROM THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. HOWEVER, THEY DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO DESTROY OR DISRUPT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIFE AFTER SO MANY YEARS OF SEPARATION. ANY REUNION HAS TO BE MUTUALLY ACCEPTABLE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4834
RELATIONSHIPS-ADOPTEES: ADOPTIONS ARE LIKE A COMBINED DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE ARRANGEMENT ALL IN ONE LEGAL SUIT. THE ADOPTEES BECOME LEGALLY SEPARATED FROM THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS AND ARE RECONNECTED WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NON-BIOLOGICAL AND ARE WILLING TO RECEIVE THEM AS THEIR OWN CHILDREN. THE MOST IMPORTANT RE-CONNECTION IS TO BE LEGALLY ALLOWED TO SEE THE BIOLOGY, THE GENETICS, THE HISTORY OF THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS, AS WELL AS THE REASONS FOR THE ADOPTION ACTIONS. A PERSONAL RE-CONNECTION SHOULD ONLY BE DONE ON THE MUTUAL BASIS. THE ADOPTEES DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO TOTALLY DISRUPT THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS LIVES FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL EMOTIONAL DESIRES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 4835
FOCUSING: REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO FORGET THINGS OR PEOPLE, YOU WILL NEVER FORGET BECAUSE YOU ARE REALLY RE-ENFORCING THEIR IMAGES IN YOUR MIND. WHEN YOU INTENTIONALLY TRY TO IGNORE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING, YOU ARE ACTUALLY INCREASING YOUR ATTENTION TOWARDS IT/HIM/HER. WHEN THOSE IMAGES POP UP IN YOUR MIND, YOU HAVE TWO BASIC CHOICES: YOU CAN TAKE IT ON OR YOU CAN SAY THAT YOU WOULD PREFER TO FOCUS ON SOMETHING ELSE AT THIS MOMENT. WHATEVER YOU FOCUS ON OR ‘TRY’ TO FORGET, YOU GIVE POWER TO IT. BE MINDFUL OF YOUR THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2013

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