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THOUGHTS 5071 TO 5075

MY THOUGHTS 5071
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE IN A POSITIVE CONTENT MOOD SHOULD SIT DOWN AND WRITE ON SEPARATE SHEETS OF PAPER THREE CHARACTERISTICS WHAT EACH BELIEVES IS A PERFECT PARTNER AND WHAT EACH BELIEVES IS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. THEN DISCUSS THE FIRST ONE ON EACH LIST OF WHAT IS THE PERFECT PARTNER AND WHAT IS THE PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. IF EMOTIONS FLARE UP IT IS TIME TO STOP AND PAUSE AND RESUME WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE BACK IN A CONTENT MODE. REMEMBER THAT SOME IDEAS OF PERFECTION ARE NOT REALISTIC IN PRESENT TIMES. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DISCUSS THIS WITH YOUR PARTNER SO THAT YOU CAN HAVE A MORE LOVING AND CARING AND UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5072
RELATIONSHIPS: SOCIETY IS ALWAYS GIVEN THOSE IMAGES OF WHAT IS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT IS A PERFECT PARTNER. HOWEVER,THOSE ARE IDEAL SITUATIONS NOT REALISTIC SITUATIONS. IN REALITY, THE PERFECT PARTNER IS THE ONE WHO’S WILLING TO LISTEN TO YOU, UNDERSTAND YOU, COMMUNICATE WITH YOU, AND LOVE YOU DESPITE YOUR FAULTS AND SHORTCOMINGS. THE PERFECT RELATIONSHIP IS WHERE BOTH PARTNERS WORK TOGETHER TO OVERCOME OBSTACLES IN THEIR LIVES, LOVE TOGETHER, SHARE TOGETHER, AND TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER IN TIMES OF CRISES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5073
RELATIONSHIPS: EACH SOCIETY, CULTURE, OR ETHNIC GROUP HAS LAID OUT AN IDEAL PLAN FOR THE ROLES OF PARTNERS IN A RELATIONSHIP. THOSE ARE IDEAL RULES TO HELP KEEP THAT SOCIETY IN BALANCE AND IN CONTROL. HOWEVER, IN THE NEW MODERN MATERIALISTIC WORLD, ALL THAT WILL CHANGE AND HAS BEEN CHANGING. THE MOST IMPORTANT ROLE OF PARTNERS, IN TODAY’S WORLD, IS TO BE COOPERATIVE IN HOME CHORES, CORPORATIVE IN CHILD RAISING, AND COOPERATIVE IN FACING THE PROBLEMS OF MODERN SOCIETY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5074
LESSONS: IT IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT FOR YOUNG COUPLES TODAY TO SIT DOWN AND TALK WITH THEIR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS ABOUT HOW THEY HAVE HANDLED THE PROBLEMS IN THEIR LIVES. EACH GENERATION’S SITUATIONS MAY BE DIFFERENT, BUT THE PROBLEMS ARE THE SAME. IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOUNG COUPLES TO UNDERSTAND HOW THEIR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS HAVE FACED THE PROBLEMS OF THEIR LIVES BECAUSE THERE MAY BE VALUABLE LESSONS TO LEARN IN THEIR STORIES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5075
QUESTION 611: MANY SEE THE CHALLENGES AS NEGATIVE OBSTACLES TO OVER COME IN THEIR LIVES. SOME SEE THE CHALLENGES IN THEIR LIVES AS OPPORTUNITIES FOR SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL GROWTH. WHAT IS YOUR PERSONAL, NOT PUBLIC, PERCEPTION OF THOSE CHALLENGES? EmilKoval©2013

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