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Archive for August 8th, 2013

THOUGHTS 5091 TO 5095

MY THOUGHTS 5091
REFLECTION: IF YOU FEEL CONFUSED OR LOST IN YOUR LIFE, THEN IT IS TIME TO STOP AND REFLECT ON YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS VARIOUS ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE. REFLECT ON YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD BEAUTY, TRUST, LOVE, RELATIONSHIP, AND OTHER VALUES IN YOUR LIFE. THIS WILL TAKE TIME, BUT IT WILL BE HELPFUL TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK IN THE SINK.EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5092
QUESTION 619: IF YOU HAD THE CHOICE OF BEING KIND OR C0RRECT, WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5093
PARABLES: WHEN MILAN ASKED A WELL-RESPECTED TEACHER WHY HE NEVER GETS ANGRY OVER NEGATIVITIES, HE WAS TOLD THIS STORY: WHEN I WAS IN MY EARLY 20s I HAD A VERY GOOD FRIEND I USED TO DRINK WITH OFTEN AND HAD VERY INTERESTING CONVERSATIONS. I ALSO DESCRIBED WHOM I THOUGHT WAS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. A FEW MONTHS LATER, MY FRIEND TOLD ME THAT HE AND ‘THE LOVE OF MY LIFE’ WERE GOING TO GET MARRIED. I WAS IN SHOCK BECAUSE MY ‘DRINKING BUDDY’ WAS SEEING ‘THE LOVE OF MY LIFE’ BEHIND MY BACK. I WAS SAD AND DEPRESSED BECAUSE I HAD LOST THE TWO PERSONS THAT I TRUSTED COMPLETELY. SOMETIMES WHEN I WOULD WALK THE STREETS AT NIGHT, I WOULD PICK UP THE STONE AND WITH GREAT ANGER THROW IT DOWN THE STREET AS FAR AND AS HARD AS I COULD. ON TWO OCCASIONS MY EXPENSIVE WATCH WENT FLYING DOWN THE STREET WITH THE STONE THAT I HAD THROWN. EACH WATCH WAS DESTROYED ON EACH OCCASION AND HAD TO BE REPLACED. ON THE SECOND OCCASION, I REALIZE THAT MY ANGER WAS ONLY HURTING ME AND THAT IT HAD NO EFFECT ON MY EX-GIRLFRIEND AND MY EX-FRIEND. THEY WERE HAPPILY LIVING TOGETHER IN LOVING EMBRACES PLANNING THEIR WEDDING. I WAS NON-EXISTENT IN THEIR MINDS. AT THAT TIME I UNDERSTOOD VERY CLEARLY THAT MY ANGER ONLY AFFECTED ME AND DID NOT AFFECT THE OTHER TWO PEOPLE. MILAN REMINDED THE QUESTIONER THAT ALMOST ALWAYS THE MAIN VICTIM OF ONE’S ANGER IS ONESELF, AND THAT THE PEOPLE WHO CAUSED THE ANGER MAY NOT EVEN CARE HOW YOU FEEL AND MAY EVEN LAUGH AT YOUR DISTRESS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5094
LESSONS: WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO PEOPLE, LESSONS ARE TO BE LEARNED. IF YOU DON’T LEARN THE LESSONS WHEN THEY COME TO YOU, THOSE SAME LESSONS, IN DIFFERENT SITUATIONS, WILL ARISE AGAIN AND AGAIN IN MORE NEGATIVE FORMS UNTIL YOU LEARN THEM. ALWAYS BE READY TO LEARN AND GROW SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY, AND INTELLECTUALLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5095
LESSONS: WHEN LITTLE THINGS CONTINUE TO HURT YOU, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND THOSE LITTLE THINGS AND WHY THEY CONTINUE TO HURT YOU. THEN, IT IS IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO TURN THOSE LITTLE THINGS INTO POSITIVE LESSONS THAT WILL HELP YOU TO AVOID ANY FUTURE SUCH NEGATIVITIES. FOCUS ON THE POSITIVES IN YOUR LIFE, EVEN IF THERE IS ONLY ONE. EmilKoval©2013

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