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Archive for August 10th, 2013

THOUGHTS 5101 TO 5105

MY THOUGHTS 5101
PARABLES: MILAN MET AN OLD FRIEND NAMED JUAN WHO HAD RETIRED AND MOVED AWAY TO LIVE CLOSE TO HIS CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN. MILAN WAS CURIOUS AS TO WHY JUAN HAD RETURNED TO HIS NEIGHBORHOOD. JUAN SAID THAT HE WANTED TO BE WITH HIS FRIENDS WHO UNDERSTOOD HIM AND ACCEPTED HIM FOR WHO HE WAS. HE SAID THAT HIS CHILDREN HAD ONLY TALK TO HIM WHEN THEY NEEDED MONEY. WHEN HE SAID NO! THEY SENT THE GRANDCHILDREN TO ASK FOR MONEY. HE REALIZED THAT HIS CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN ONLY WANTED TO USE HIM AS AN ‘ATM MACHINE’, SO HE PACKED UP AND RETURNED TO THOSE WHO TRULY LOVED JUAN FOR JUAN. NOW JUAN IS LIVING FREELY AND TRAVELING FREELY AND ASSOCIATING WITH THOSE WHO LOVE HIM THE MOST. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5102
SENIORS: MANY SENIORS TODAY FACE THE TOTAL ABANDONMENT BY THEIR CHILDREN. INSTEAD OF FEELING SORRY FOR THEMSELVES, THEY SHOULD ENJOY THEIR NEW FREEDOM AND SPEND THE INHERITANCE THAT THEY HAD PLANNED FOR THEIR CHILDREN AND GRAND-CHILDREN. THEY DESERVE TO KEEP THAT INHERITANCE FOR THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY HAD SACRIFICED SO MUCH OF THEIR LIVES FOR THEIR UNGRATEFUL CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5103
FORGIVENESS: THE PAIN THAT YOU FEEL FROM ANY CHILD WHO HAS ABANDONED YOU CAN BE DEVASTATING. IF IT IS YOUR FAULT, FORGIVE YOURSELF AND MAKE AMENDS IF POSSIBLE. IF YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT, FORGIVE THEM AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5104
TRILOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS: IN THE TRILOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS, IT IS IMPORTANT TO RESPECT THE ‘YOU’, THE ‘ME’, AND THE ‘US’ OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. ‘YOU’ MEANS THAT YOU WILL RESPECT YOUR PARTNER AS AN INDIVIDUAL, AND THAT YOU HELP YOUR PARTNER ACHIEVE HIS/HER GOALS. THE ‘ME’ MEANS THAT YOU WILL RESPECT YOURSELF AND SEEK YOUR GOALS WITH THE HELP OF YOUR PARTNER. THE ‘US’ MEANS THAT THE ‘YOU’ AND THE ‘ME’ WILL WORK TOGETHER TO SUPPORT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL UNITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5105
QUESTION 621: HAVE YOU REALLY SAT DOWN AND DISCUSSED WITH YOUR PARTNER WHAT MARRIAGE REALLY MEANS TO EACH ONE OF YOU? HAVE YOU REALLY SAT DOWN AND DISCUSSED WITH YOUR PARTNER WHAT THE ROLE OF EACH INDIVIDUAL IS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2013

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