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Archive for August 31st, 2013

THOUGHTS 5206 TO 5210

MY THOUGHTS 5206
LOVE: A MARRIAGE OF LOVE DOES NOT EXIST ON THE LEGAL DOCUMENT. IT EXISTS ONLY IN CONFINES OF MUTUALLY COOPERATIVE, LOVING, AND UNDERSTANDING HEARTS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5207
QUESTION 645: WHY DOES SOMEONE HAVE TO LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU LOVE THEM? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5208
LOVE: WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE THEM THERE ARE THREE POSSIBLE RESPONSES: 1) ACCEPTANCE, 2) INDIFFERENCE, OR 3) REJECTION. IF THE FIRST RESPONSE IS GIVEN, YOU WILL HAVE GREAT JOY IN YOUR HEART. IF THE LATTER TWO RESPONSES ARE GIVEN, THEN YOU SHOULD ACCEPT THE NEGATIVE RESPONSES AND MOVE ON. IF YOU TRY TO CONVINCE SOMEBODY TO LOVE YOU BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM, THE PROBLEM LIES WITH YOU, NOT WITH HIM/HER. JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE SOMEBODY DOES NOT MEAN THAT THEY HAVE TO LOVE YOU BACK. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5209
LOVE: IF YOU HAVE TO CONVINCE SOMEBODY TO LOVE YOU BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM/HER, YOU ARE TAKING THE WRONG PATH. YOU MAY, LIKE A SALES PERSON WITH A GREAT SALES PITCH, CONVINCE HER/HIM TO ACCEPT YOUR LOVE FOR NOW. HOWEVER, IN THE LONG RUN, IT WILL LEAD TO A TOTAL DISASTER BECAUSE IT REALLY WASN’T HIS/HER FREE WILL CHOICE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5210
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOU INSISTS ON STARTING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MINDSET THAT ‘ALL MEN ARE …’ OR ‘ALL WOMEN ARE…’, THEN YOU SHOULD NOT TRY TO HAVE A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE OF THAT SEX. IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT ‘ALL (MEN/WOMEN) ARE….’ WHEN BEGINNING A RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU ARE BEGINNING THAT RELATIONSHIP ON A NEGATIVE NOTE AND WILL PUT YOUR POTENTIAL ‘LOVING’ PARTNER IN A DEFENSIVE STANCE IMMEDIATELY. THAT DEFENSIVE STANCE WILL NOT LEAD TO A HARMONIOUS UNION; IT WILL, EVENTUALLY, LEAD TO A RELATIONSHIP FILLED WITH CONFLICT AND DISUNION. EmilKoval©2013

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