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Archive for October, 2013

THOUGHTS 5511 TO 5515

MY THOUGHTS 5511
GROWTH: IF YOU ARE IGNORED BY YOUR CHILDREN AS PARENTS, IT IS A SIGNAL FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER TO MOVE ON TOGETHER AS A COUPLE OR TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES SEPARATELY. YOU NEED TO FINISH YOUR OWN LESSONS IN THIS LIFETIME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5512
GROWTH: ONE OF THE GREATEST LESSONS LEARNED BY SPIRITUAL TEACHERS IS THAT ONE MUST LET GO OF THINGS AND PEOPLE THAT YOU ARE ATTACHED TO. THIS SHOULD BE DONE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. YOU MAY CONTINUE RELATIONS AND OWNERSHIP BUT WITHOUT ATTACHMENTS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5513
SUGGESTION: THIS IS A TOOL FOR INNER PEACE AND UNDERSTANDING. GO OVER EACH RELATIONSHIP IN YOUR PAST FROM THE FIRST TO THE PRESENT. STARTING WITH THE FIRST RELATIONSHIP, LOOK AT WHAT YOU HAD LEARNED FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP AND HOW THOSE LESSONS HAD AFFECTED THE FOLLOWING RELATIONSHIP, AS WELL AS, EACH OTHER RELATIONSHIP UP TO THE PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU DO THIS FOR EACH RELATIONSHIP, ONE BY ONE, UP TO THE PRESENT ONE, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH YOU HAVE GROWN, WHAT YOU STILL NEED TO LEARN, AND WHERE YOU ARE NOW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5514
QUESTION 757: WHEN YOU START YOUR DAY, WHAT IS YOUR FIRST THOUGHT: IS IT HOW MUCH YOU CAN GROW MATERIALLY TODAY, OR IS IT HOW MUCH YOU CAN GROW SPIRITUALLY TODAY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5515
PARENTING: ONCE YOUR CHILDREN HAVE LEFT THE NEST IT IS TIME TO LET THEM LEARN THE LESSONS THAT THEY CAME HERE TO LEARN WITH THE VALUES AND MORAYS THAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM. THEY MUST BE ALLOWED TO FALL AND GET UP BY THEMSELVES. IF YOU DO NOT ALLOW THEM TO DO THAT YOU WOULD LIMIT THEIR SPIRITUAL GROWTH, AS WELL AS, YOUR OWN SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5511 TO 5515

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THOUGHTS 5506 TO 5510

MY THOUGHTS 5506
SUGGESTION: MAKE A LIST OF WHAT YOU FEEL ARE YOUR PARTNER STRENGTHS AND YOUR PARTNERS WEAKNESSES. EXAMINE THEM CAREFULLY AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU FEEL THEY ARE WEAKNESSES OR STRENGTHS. IF YOUR PARTNER DOES THE SAME FOR YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES, THEN THE BOTH OF YOU, AT AN APPROPRIATE TIME, CAN FIRST DISCUSS EACH OTHER’S PERCEPTIONS OF YOUR PERSONAL STRENGTHS. THEN YOU CAN ‘MINDFULLY’ DISCUSS YOUR PERCEPTIONS OF EACH OTHER’S WEAKNESSES. THIS IS A WONDERFUL TOOL TO CLEAR UP MISCONCEPTIONS AND TO BUILD TO A STRONGER AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5507
ANGER: YOU CANNOT GET RID OF YOUR ANGER, YOUR HATES, OR YOUR RESENTMENTS ABOUT THINGS BY DENYING THAT THEY EXIST. YOU MUST EMBRACE THEM FULLY. YOU MUST FULLY FEEL THE EMOTIONS THAT IT CREATES WITHIN YOU. YOU SHOULD ACT OUT THOSE FRUSTRATIONS IN YOUR MIND. ONCE YOU DO THAT, YOU CAN EXAMINE YOUR FEELINGS AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU DO HAVE THOSE FEELINGS, WHY ARE YOU SO RESENTFUL, AND WHY YOU WANT RETRIBUTION. WHY WOULD YOU LET THOSE STAY IN YOUR MIND AND POISON YOUR PRESENT. ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND WHY HOW THEY AFFECT YOU, THEN YOU CAN TURN THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS TO BE USED TO MAKE A BETTER PRESENT AND A BETTER FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5508
ANGER: WHEN YOU DENY YOUR ANGRY OR RESENTFUL FEELINGS, ALL YOU ARE REALLY DOING IS HIDING THEM DEEP INSIDE OF YOU WHILE EATING AWAY AT YOUR SPIRITUALITY, YOUR HARMONY, AND PEACE OF MIND. RELEASE THEM BY DEALING WITH THEM FULLY IN YOUR MIND AND TURNING THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5509
QUESTION 755: DO YOU AS A PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP UNDERSTAND THE LIMITATIONS OF YOUR PARTNER PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND FINANCIALLY? DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE LIMITATIONS THAT YOU HAVE PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND FINANCIAL? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5510
QUESTION 756: IS THE FOUNDATION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER BASED ON COOPERATIVE FINANCIAL ABILITIES, PHYSICAL ABILITIES, MENTAL ABILITIES, EMOTIONAL ABILITIES, AND MUTUAL SPIRITUAL VALUES? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5501 TO 5505

MY THOUGHTS 5501
LESSONS: WHEN SOMEONE WALKS INTO YOUR LIFE WITH LOVE, YOU MAY FEEL THAT YOUR LIFE IS COMPLETE. HOWEVER, THAT IS ONLY THE BEGINNING OF THE LESSONS THAT YOU NEED TO LEARN AT THAT TIME. HOW YOU RESPOND TO EACH OTHER AS TEACHERS AND STUDENTS OF LIFE ON YOUR LIFE’S JOURNEY WILL DETERMINE WHETHER YOU WILL BE TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF THIS LIFETIME. IF LESSONS ARE RESISTED OR NOT LEARNED, THEN SOMEONE NEW MAY COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO HELP YOU COMPLETE THOSE LESSONS THIS TIME AROUND. YOU MAY EVEN HAVE TO COMPLETE YOUR JOURNEY ALONE IN ORDER TO LEARN THE LESSONS THAT YOU ARE RELUCTANT TO OR REFUSE TO LEARN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5502
CHANGE: EVERY MONTH YOU SHOULD DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER YOUR ‘AGREED TO’ SHORT TERM GOALS AND WHETHER ANY ADJUSTMENTS HAVE TO BE MADE IN THOSE GOALS. THOSE DISCUSSIONS WILL ALSO LEAD TO POSSIBLE ADJUSTMENTS IN LONG TERM GOALS. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DO THIS ON A REGULAR BASIS SO THAT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER CAN KEEP IN STEP WITH EACH OTHER AND DEAL WITH THE CHANGES THAT ARE HAPPENING WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, WITHIN YOUR COMMUNITY, WITHIN YOUR FAMILY, AND WITHIN YOUR ECONOMIC SITUATIONS. REMEMBER THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR COMMUNITY, YOUR FAMILY, AND YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATIONS ARE ALWAYS SUBJECT TO CHANGE. IT IS HOW YOU DEAL WITH THOSE CHANGES THAT WILL AFFECT YOUR FUTURE, YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5503
SUGGESTION: EVERY TWO OR THREE MONTHS SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER AND DISCUSS THE DYNAMICS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND WHETHER YOU BOTH ARE SATISFIED WITH THINGS AS THEY PRESENTLY ARE. DISCUSS WHETHER YOU BOTH ARE WILLING TO MODIFY SOME AGREEMENTS AND MAKE CERTAIN ADJUSTMENTS IN YOUR ROLES AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5504
QUESTION 753: ARE YOU MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY PREPARED TO HANDLE ANY FAILURES YOU MAY HAVE TO FACE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5505
QUESTION 754: DO YOU HAVE A CLEAR VISION OF WHO, WHAT, WHY, AND HOW YOU ARE, OR IS YOUR VISION OF YOU DETERMINED BY OTHERS PERCEPTIONS OF YOU? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5496 TO 5500

MY THOUGHTS 5496
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD MAKE A LIST OF THE MUSIC THAT EACH ONE LIKES. EACH PARTNER SHOULD DISCUSS HIS/HER SELECTIONS WITH HER/HIS PARTNER BY EXPLAINING TO EACH OTHER WHY YOU LIKE EACH PIECE OF MUSIC AND HOW THAT MUSIC HAS AFFECTED YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ALSO MAKE A LIST OF THE MOVIES THAT YOU HAVE SEEN AND DICUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER HOW EACH MOVIE HAS AFFECTED YOUR LIFE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. REVISITING THESE MEMORIES IS A WONDERFUL WAY TO REKINDLE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BY UNDERSTANDING WHY YOU ARE TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5497
MISTAKES: PAST MISTAKES ARE LEARNING TOOLS THAT SHOULD BE MADE INTO PERSONAL PROTECTIVE GUARDIANS, UNLESS YOU WISH TO CONTINUE TO REPEAT THE SAME MISTAKES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5498
TEACHERS: MANY PEOPLE FOLLOW TEACHERS BECAUSE THEY BELIEVE THOSE TEACHERS WILL SAVE THEM FROM THEMSELVES. HOWEVER NO TEACHER CAN SAVE YOU FROM YOURSELF. THOSE TEACHERS ONLY CAN STIMULATE YOUR THINKING SO THAT YOU CAN GO INWARD AND DISCOVER WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU ARE YOU. FOLLOWING ANY TEACHER BLINDLY WILL NOT GIVE YOU ENLIGHTENMENT. FOLLOWING A TEACHER MINDFULLY CAN BRING YOU YOUR OWN ENLIGHTENMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5499
QUESTION 751: ARE YOU SPIRITUALLY PREPARED FOR A CHANGE IN FORTUNE, A CHANGE IN RELATIONSHIPS, AND A CHANGE IN THE SOCIAL ORDER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5500
QUESTION 752: IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP FAILS COMPLETELY, ARE YOU PREPARED TO STAND ON YOUR OWN PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND FINANCIALLY? IF NOT, WHY NOT? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5491 TO 5495

MY THOUGHTS 5491
QUESTION 749: DO YOU LET YOUR CHARACTER AND PERSONALITY DEFINE YOU, OR DO YOU LET THE THINGS YOU HAVE AND THE THINGS YOU WANT DEFINE YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5492
QUESTION 750: DO YOU PONDER AFTER EVERY MISTAKE WHY YOU MADE THAT MISTAKE? IF SO, WHAT ARE YOU DOING DIFFERENTLY NOW TO PREVENT THOSE MISTAKES FROM HAPPENING AGAIN? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5493
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOU HAVE HAD MULTIPLE RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE AND SOMEONE ASK YOU WHICH WAS THE BEST! YOU CAN REPLY BY SAYING THAT EACH RELATIONSHIP WAS THE BEST AT THAT MOMENT IN MY LIFE. MISTAKES HAVE BEEN MADE ON BOTH SIDES, WHICH EVENTUALLY CAUSED THE DEMISE OF THOSE RELATIONSHIPS. SOME RELATIONS HAVE BEEN BALANCE PHYSICALLY, BUT WERE NOT BALANCED MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY; THEREFORE,THEY ALSO ENDED. SOME RELATIONSHIPS WERE COSMIC LESSONS TO HELP ME GROW MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY. I ALSO REPLIED THAT THE PRESENT RELATIONSHIP IS THE BEST RELATIONSHIP FOR ME AT THIS TIME IN MY LIFE BECAUSE OF WHAT I HAVE LEARNED FROM THE PAST RELATIONSHIPS AND WHAT MISTAKES THAT I DO NOT WISH TO REPEAT. REMIND THAT PERSON THAT YOUR PAST MISTAKES IN OTHER RELATIONSHIPS HAVE MADE THIS PRESENT RELATIONSHIP POSSIBLE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5494
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT SINGULARITIES. RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALWAYS DUALITIES. HOW WELL YOU UNDERSTAND THAT WILL DETERMINE THE QUALITY OF ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU WILL HAVE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5495
SUGGESTION. QUIETLY SIT IN A CALMING PLACE FOR YOU AND MAKE A LIST OF YOUR FAVORITE RELATIVES. CONTEMPLATE WHY THEY ARE YOUR FAVORITE RELATIVES AND HOW THEY HAVE AFFECTED YOUR LIFE. IF YOUR PARTNER DOES THIS ALSO, IT WOULD TO BE GOOD IDEA TO SHARE YOUR LIST AND HAVE IMPORTANT DISCUSSIONS ABOUT THOSE WHO HAVE INFLUENCED YOUR LIVES. THIS ALSO WILL LEAD TO BETTER COMMUNICATIONS AND A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW, WHO, WHAT, AND WHY YOU BOTH ARE IN THE NOW AND WHY YOU BOTH FEEL THE WAY YOU DO. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5486 TO 5490

MY THOUGHTS 5486
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER BOTH WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU FEEL ARE THE MOST SIGNIFICANT EVENTS IN YOUR CHILDHOOD. TAKE TURNS DISCUSSING THEM ONE AT A TIME AND WHY THOSE EVENTS WERE IMPORTANT TO YOU. THIS EXERCISE CAN LEAD TO A GREATER UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR FEELINGS OF WHO, WHY, HOW, AND WHAT YOU ARE AND ALSO WHY YOU ARE TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5487
QUESTION 747: ARE YOU AFRAID OF MAKING CHANGES, OR ARE YOU RELUCTANT TO MAKE CHANGES? IF SO, WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5488
QUESTION 748: WHAT ILLUSIONS DO YOU THINK YOU WILL LOSE IF DISCOVER WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU REALLY ARE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5489
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT ALL YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE LED UP TO YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. SO WHETHER THEY WERE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST, APPRECIATE THEM FOR BRINGING YOU TO YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5490
RELATIONSHIPS: IT IS IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT WAS TRUE IN YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS MAY NOT BE TRUE IN YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT CLOUD YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP WITH RESENTMENTS FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS. EmilKoval©2013

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