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THOUGHTS 5511 TO 5515

MY THOUGHTS 5511
GROWTH: IF YOU ARE IGNORED BY YOUR CHILDREN AS PARENTS, IT IS A SIGNAL FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER TO MOVE ON TOGETHER AS A COUPLE OR TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIVES SEPARATELY. YOU NEED TO FINISH YOUR OWN LESSONS IN THIS LIFETIME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5512
GROWTH: ONE OF THE GREATEST LESSONS LEARNED BY SPIRITUAL TEACHERS IS THAT ONE MUST LET GO OF THINGS AND PEOPLE THAT YOU ARE ATTACHED TO. THIS SHOULD BE DONE WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. YOU MAY CONTINUE RELATIONS AND OWNERSHIP BUT WITHOUT ATTACHMENTS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5513
SUGGESTION: THIS IS A TOOL FOR INNER PEACE AND UNDERSTANDING. GO OVER EACH RELATIONSHIP IN YOUR PAST FROM THE FIRST TO THE PRESENT. STARTING WITH THE FIRST RELATIONSHIP, LOOK AT WHAT YOU HAD LEARNED FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP AND HOW THOSE LESSONS HAD AFFECTED THE FOLLOWING RELATIONSHIP, AS WELL AS, EACH OTHER RELATIONSHIP UP TO THE PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU DO THIS FOR EACH RELATIONSHIP, ONE BY ONE, UP TO THE PRESENT ONE, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH YOU HAVE GROWN, WHAT YOU STILL NEED TO LEARN, AND WHERE YOU ARE NOW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5514
QUESTION 757: WHEN YOU START YOUR DAY, WHAT IS YOUR FIRST THOUGHT: IS IT HOW MUCH YOU CAN GROW MATERIALLY TODAY, OR IS IT HOW MUCH YOU CAN GROW SPIRITUALLY TODAY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5515
PARENTING: ONCE YOUR CHILDREN HAVE LEFT THE NEST IT IS TIME TO LET THEM LEARN THE LESSONS THAT THEY CAME HERE TO LEARN WITH THE VALUES AND MORAYS THAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM. THEY MUST BE ALLOWED TO FALL AND GET UP BY THEMSELVES. IF YOU DO NOT ALLOW THEM TO DO THAT YOU WOULD LIMIT THEIR SPIRITUAL GROWTH, AS WELL AS, YOUR OWN SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5511 TO 5515

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THOUGHTS 5506 TO 5510

MY THOUGHTS 5506
SUGGESTION: MAKE A LIST OF WHAT YOU FEEL ARE YOUR PARTNER STRENGTHS AND YOUR PARTNERS WEAKNESSES. EXAMINE THEM CAREFULLY AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU FEEL THEY ARE WEAKNESSES OR STRENGTHS. IF YOUR PARTNER DOES THE SAME FOR YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES, THEN THE BOTH OF YOU, AT AN APPROPRIATE TIME, CAN FIRST DISCUSS EACH OTHER’S PERCEPTIONS OF YOUR PERSONAL STRENGTHS. THEN YOU CAN ‘MINDFULLY’ DISCUSS YOUR PERCEPTIONS OF EACH OTHER’S WEAKNESSES. THIS IS A WONDERFUL TOOL TO CLEAR UP MISCONCEPTIONS AND TO BUILD TO A STRONGER AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5507
ANGER: YOU CANNOT GET RID OF YOUR ANGER, YOUR HATES, OR YOUR RESENTMENTS ABOUT THINGS BY DENYING THAT THEY EXIST. YOU MUST EMBRACE THEM FULLY. YOU MUST FULLY FEEL THE EMOTIONS THAT IT CREATES WITHIN YOU. YOU SHOULD ACT OUT THOSE FRUSTRATIONS IN YOUR MIND. ONCE YOU DO THAT, YOU CAN EXAMINE YOUR FEELINGS AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU DO HAVE THOSE FEELINGS, WHY ARE YOU SO RESENTFUL, AND WHY YOU WANT RETRIBUTION. WHY WOULD YOU LET THOSE STAY IN YOUR MIND AND POISON YOUR PRESENT. ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND WHY HOW THEY AFFECT YOU, THEN YOU CAN TURN THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS TO BE USED TO MAKE A BETTER PRESENT AND A BETTER FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5508
ANGER: WHEN YOU DENY YOUR ANGRY OR RESENTFUL FEELINGS, ALL YOU ARE REALLY DOING IS HIDING THEM DEEP INSIDE OF YOU WHILE EATING AWAY AT YOUR SPIRITUALITY, YOUR HARMONY, AND PEACE OF MIND. RELEASE THEM BY DEALING WITH THEM FULLY IN YOUR MIND AND TURNING THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS SO THAT YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5509
QUESTION 755: DO YOU AS A PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP UNDERSTAND THE LIMITATIONS OF YOUR PARTNER PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND FINANCIALLY? DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE LIMITATIONS THAT YOU HAVE PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY, AND FINANCIAL? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5510
QUESTION 756: IS THE FOUNDATION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER BASED ON COOPERATIVE FINANCIAL ABILITIES, PHYSICAL ABILITIES, MENTAL ABILITIES, EMOTIONAL ABILITIES, AND MUTUAL SPIRITUAL VALUES? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5501 TO 5505

MY THOUGHTS 5501
LESSONS: WHEN SOMEONE WALKS INTO YOUR LIFE WITH LOVE, YOU MAY FEEL THAT YOUR LIFE IS COMPLETE. HOWEVER, THAT IS ONLY THE BEGINNING OF THE LESSONS THAT YOU NEED TO LEARN AT THAT TIME. HOW YOU RESPOND TO EACH OTHER AS TEACHERS AND STUDENTS OF LIFE ON YOUR LIFE’S JOURNEY WILL DETERMINE WHETHER YOU WILL BE TOGETHER FOR THE REST OF THIS LIFETIME. IF LESSONS ARE RESISTED OR NOT LEARNED, THEN SOMEONE NEW MAY COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO HELP YOU COMPLETE THOSE LESSONS THIS TIME AROUND. YOU MAY EVEN HAVE TO COMPLETE YOUR JOURNEY ALONE IN ORDER TO LEARN THE LESSONS THAT YOU ARE RELUCTANT TO OR REFUSE TO LEARN. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5502
CHANGE: EVERY MONTH YOU SHOULD DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER YOUR ‘AGREED TO’ SHORT TERM GOALS AND WHETHER ANY ADJUSTMENTS HAVE TO BE MADE IN THOSE GOALS. THOSE DISCUSSIONS WILL ALSO LEAD TO POSSIBLE ADJUSTMENTS IN LONG TERM GOALS. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DO THIS ON A REGULAR BASIS SO THAT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER CAN KEEP IN STEP WITH EACH OTHER AND DEAL WITH THE CHANGES THAT ARE HAPPENING WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, WITHIN YOUR COMMUNITY, WITHIN YOUR FAMILY, AND WITHIN YOUR ECONOMIC SITUATIONS. REMEMBER THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR COMMUNITY, YOUR FAMILY, AND YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATIONS ARE ALWAYS SUBJECT TO CHANGE. IT IS HOW YOU DEAL WITH THOSE CHANGES THAT WILL AFFECT YOUR FUTURE, YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5503
SUGGESTION: EVERY TWO OR THREE MONTHS SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER AND DISCUSS THE DYNAMICS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND WHETHER YOU BOTH ARE SATISFIED WITH THINGS AS THEY PRESENTLY ARE. DISCUSS WHETHER YOU BOTH ARE WILLING TO MODIFY SOME AGREEMENTS AND MAKE CERTAIN ADJUSTMENTS IN YOUR ROLES AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5504
QUESTION 753: ARE YOU MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY PREPARED TO HANDLE ANY FAILURES YOU MAY HAVE TO FACE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5505
QUESTION 754: DO YOU HAVE A CLEAR VISION OF WHO, WHAT, WHY, AND HOW YOU ARE, OR IS YOUR VISION OF YOU DETERMINED BY OTHERS PERCEPTIONS OF YOU? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5496 TO 5500

MY THOUGHTS 5496
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD MAKE A LIST OF THE MUSIC THAT EACH ONE LIKES. EACH PARTNER SHOULD DISCUSS HIS/HER SELECTIONS WITH HER/HIS PARTNER BY EXPLAINING TO EACH OTHER WHY YOU LIKE EACH PIECE OF MUSIC AND HOW THAT MUSIC HAS AFFECTED YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ALSO MAKE A LIST OF THE MOVIES THAT YOU HAVE SEEN AND DICUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER HOW EACH MOVIE HAS AFFECTED YOUR LIFE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. REVISITING THESE MEMORIES IS A WONDERFUL WAY TO REKINDLE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BY UNDERSTANDING WHY YOU ARE TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5497
MISTAKES: PAST MISTAKES ARE LEARNING TOOLS THAT SHOULD BE MADE INTO PERSONAL PROTECTIVE GUARDIANS, UNLESS YOU WISH TO CONTINUE TO REPEAT THE SAME MISTAKES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5498
TEACHERS: MANY PEOPLE FOLLOW TEACHERS BECAUSE THEY BELIEVE THOSE TEACHERS WILL SAVE THEM FROM THEMSELVES. HOWEVER NO TEACHER CAN SAVE YOU FROM YOURSELF. THOSE TEACHERS ONLY CAN STIMULATE YOUR THINKING SO THAT YOU CAN GO INWARD AND DISCOVER WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU ARE YOU. FOLLOWING ANY TEACHER BLINDLY WILL NOT GIVE YOU ENLIGHTENMENT. FOLLOWING A TEACHER MINDFULLY CAN BRING YOU YOUR OWN ENLIGHTENMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5499
QUESTION 751: ARE YOU SPIRITUALLY PREPARED FOR A CHANGE IN FORTUNE, A CHANGE IN RELATIONSHIPS, AND A CHANGE IN THE SOCIAL ORDER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5500
QUESTION 752: IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP FAILS COMPLETELY, ARE YOU PREPARED TO STAND ON YOUR OWN PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND FINANCIALLY? IF NOT, WHY NOT? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5491 TO 5495

MY THOUGHTS 5491
QUESTION 749: DO YOU LET YOUR CHARACTER AND PERSONALITY DEFINE YOU, OR DO YOU LET THE THINGS YOU HAVE AND THE THINGS YOU WANT DEFINE YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5492
QUESTION 750: DO YOU PONDER AFTER EVERY MISTAKE WHY YOU MADE THAT MISTAKE? IF SO, WHAT ARE YOU DOING DIFFERENTLY NOW TO PREVENT THOSE MISTAKES FROM HAPPENING AGAIN? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5493
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOU HAVE HAD MULTIPLE RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE AND SOMEONE ASK YOU WHICH WAS THE BEST! YOU CAN REPLY BY SAYING THAT EACH RELATIONSHIP WAS THE BEST AT THAT MOMENT IN MY LIFE. MISTAKES HAVE BEEN MADE ON BOTH SIDES, WHICH EVENTUALLY CAUSED THE DEMISE OF THOSE RELATIONSHIPS. SOME RELATIONS HAVE BEEN BALANCE PHYSICALLY, BUT WERE NOT BALANCED MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY; THEREFORE,THEY ALSO ENDED. SOME RELATIONSHIPS WERE COSMIC LESSONS TO HELP ME GROW MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY. I ALSO REPLIED THAT THE PRESENT RELATIONSHIP IS THE BEST RELATIONSHIP FOR ME AT THIS TIME IN MY LIFE BECAUSE OF WHAT I HAVE LEARNED FROM THE PAST RELATIONSHIPS AND WHAT MISTAKES THAT I DO NOT WISH TO REPEAT. REMIND THAT PERSON THAT YOUR PAST MISTAKES IN OTHER RELATIONSHIPS HAVE MADE THIS PRESENT RELATIONSHIP POSSIBLE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5494
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT SINGULARITIES. RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALWAYS DUALITIES. HOW WELL YOU UNDERSTAND THAT WILL DETERMINE THE QUALITY OF ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU WILL HAVE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5495
SUGGESTION. QUIETLY SIT IN A CALMING PLACE FOR YOU AND MAKE A LIST OF YOUR FAVORITE RELATIVES. CONTEMPLATE WHY THEY ARE YOUR FAVORITE RELATIVES AND HOW THEY HAVE AFFECTED YOUR LIFE. IF YOUR PARTNER DOES THIS ALSO, IT WOULD TO BE GOOD IDEA TO SHARE YOUR LIST AND HAVE IMPORTANT DISCUSSIONS ABOUT THOSE WHO HAVE INFLUENCED YOUR LIVES. THIS ALSO WILL LEAD TO BETTER COMMUNICATIONS AND A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW, WHO, WHAT, AND WHY YOU BOTH ARE IN THE NOW AND WHY YOU BOTH FEEL THE WAY YOU DO. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5486 TO 5490

MY THOUGHTS 5486
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER BOTH WRITE DOWN WHAT YOU FEEL ARE THE MOST SIGNIFICANT EVENTS IN YOUR CHILDHOOD. TAKE TURNS DISCUSSING THEM ONE AT A TIME AND WHY THOSE EVENTS WERE IMPORTANT TO YOU. THIS EXERCISE CAN LEAD TO A GREATER UNDERSTANDING OF YOUR FEELINGS OF WHO, WHY, HOW, AND WHAT YOU ARE AND ALSO WHY YOU ARE TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5487
QUESTION 747: ARE YOU AFRAID OF MAKING CHANGES, OR ARE YOU RELUCTANT TO MAKE CHANGES? IF SO, WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5488
QUESTION 748: WHAT ILLUSIONS DO YOU THINK YOU WILL LOSE IF DISCOVER WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU REALLY ARE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5489
RELATIONSHIPS: REMEMBER THAT ALL YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE LED UP TO YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. SO WHETHER THEY WERE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS IN THE PAST, APPRECIATE THEM FOR BRINGING YOU TO YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5490
RELATIONSHIPS: IT IS IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT WAS TRUE IN YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS MAY NOT BE TRUE IN YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT CLOUD YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP WITH RESENTMENTS FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5481 TO 5485

MY THOUGHTS 5481
CHOICES: REMEMBER THAT THE PAINS, RESENTMENTS, FRUSTRATIONS, AND ANGER THAT YOU FEEL BECAUSE OF YOUR PAST ARE THERE ONLY BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOT DEALT WITH THEM COMPLETELY. WHEN YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THEM. RE-EVALUATE THEM, AND PROCESS THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS; ONLY THEN YOU ARE READY FOR A POSITIVE PRESENT AND A POSITIVE FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5482
CHOICES: ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO YOU IN YOUR PAST, YOU WILL BE ABLE TO CREATE A BETTER NOW AND MAKE A BETTER FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5483
SUGGESTION: WHEN ONE BEGINS TO FEEL A LITTLE EMPTINESS IN THE RELATIONSHIP, BOTH PARTNERS SHOULD CREATE A PHOTO BOOK OF THE HISTORY OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP FROM THE TIME THAT THEY STARTED DATING TO THEIR ENGAGEMENT TO THE MARRIAGE AND SO FORTH. THIS WILL BE A GREAT WAY TO REVIEW THEIR LIFE TOGETHER AND WHAT HAS HAPPENED UP TO NOW AS WELL AS TO UNDERSTAND WHETHER THEY HAVE LOST TRACK OF WHY THEY ARE TOGETHER. THIS IS AN EXERCISE THAT SHOULD BE DONE BY BOTH PARTNERS EVERY SO OFTEN TO REVIEW THEIR TOGETHERNESS, THEIR CHILDREN, THEIR DATING, AND WHATEVER ELSE KEEPS THEM TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5484
QUESTION 745: ARE YOU THE MAIN ROADBLOCK IN YOUR PROGRESS THROUGH LIFE? IF SO, WHY? IF YOU ARE AFRAID TO PROGRESS, WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5485
QUESTION 746: ARE YOU AFRAID TO GO INWARD AND DISCOVER WHO YOU REALLY ARE? IF SO, WHY? IF YOU ARE FREE TO DO SO, WHY NOT? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5476 TO 5480

MY THOUGHTS 5476
PARENTING: YOUR PARENTAL ROLE AS A ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR CHILDREN IS TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR PERSONAL, INTERPERSONAL, AND SOCIAL BEHAVIORS AS YOU FACE THE POSITIVES AND THE NEGATIVES IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR CHILDREN’S OBSERVATIONS OF YOUR REACTIONS TO THOSE POSITIVES AND NEGATIVES OF LIFE WILL AFFECT HOW THE WILL REACT TO THE WORLD AROUND THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5477
QUESTION 743: DO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOUR CHILDREN WILL WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR PARTNERS JUST AS YOU HAVE WITH YOUR PARTNER? HAVE YOU BEEN A GOOD ROLE MODEL OF WHAT RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE LIKE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5478
SUGGESTION: BOTH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD SIT DOWN WITH SEPARATE PIECES OF PAPER AND WRITE DOWN THE THREE BEST MEMORIES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND THE THREE NOT SO GOOD MEMORIES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. FIRST DISCUSS THE GOOD ONES ONE BY ONE. THEN DISCUSS THE NEGATIVE ONES ONE BY ONE. EXAMINE WHY THEY WERE NEGATIVE. REMEMBER, NO BLAMING. JUST ‘DISCUSS’ THE CIRCUMSTANCES AROUND HOW THE NEGATIVES HAPPENED. IF ONE OR BOTH OF YOU START TO GET UPSET WHEN DISCUSSING THE NEGATIVES, THEN IT IS TIME TO STOP AND WAIT UNTIL COOLER HEADS PREVAIL. THESE TOPICS MUST BE DISCUSSED WITHOUT PLACING BLAME. JUST DISCUSS THE CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU WILL HAVE A GREATER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW BOTH OF YOU FEEL ABOUT THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES. THIS IS A GREAT TOOL TO BRING GREATER UNDERSTANDING AND GREATER HARMONY INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. IT DOES REQUIRE STRENGTH OF CHARACTER AND BELIEF IN THE RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5479
RELATIONSHIP: REMEMBER THAT NO RELATIONSHIP IS A ONE-STREET. ALL VIABLE RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUSY INTERACTIVE TWO-WAY STREETS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5480
QUESTION 744: ARE YOU ABLE TO CHERISH AND RESPECT THE GOOD THAT IS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WHILE TURNING THE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP GROWS? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5471 TO 5475

MY THOUGHTS 5471
QUESTION 740: ARE YOU PREPARED TO LEAVE YOUR PARENTING ROLE ONCE YOUR CHILDREN HAVE LEFT THE NEST? ARE YOU WILLING TO CHANGE THAT PARENTING ROLE INTO AN ADVISORY ROLE WHEN CALLED UPON? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5472
QUESTION 741: WHEN YOUR CHILDREN LEAVE THE NEST, ARE YOU READY TO RESUME THE FULL ROLE AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND THE FULL ROLE AS A PARTNER IN A LOVING CARING RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5473
QUESTION 742: DO YOU PUNISH YOUR PARTNER FOR YOUR CHILDREN’S FAILINGS, DO YOU BLAME YOUR PARTNER FOR YOUR CHILDREN’S FAILINGS, OR DO YOU ACCEPT THEIR FAILINGS AS SOMETHING THAT THEY NEED TO LEARN INTERNALLY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5434
FORGIVENESS: WHEN YOU MEET PEOPLE FROM YOUR PAST AND THOSE IN THE PRESENT WHO HAVE CAUSED YOU PAIN, DO NOT REACT IN ANGER OR WITH NEGATIVE THINKING. WHEN YOU ENCOUNTER THOSE WHO HAVE HURT YOU, THANK THEM FOR THE LESSONS THAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU WHILE SENDING THEM LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. IF YOU CANNOT DO THAT VERBAL, THEN DO IT MENTALLY WHILE MOVING ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5475
LESSONS: YOUR PAST SHOULD BE YOUR REFERENCE LIBRARY OF HOW AND WHY YOU HAD FACE YOUR PAST EVENTS WHETHER THEY WERE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE. IF YOU HAVE TURNED THE PAST NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES TOOLS FOR THE PRESENT AND FUTURE YOU WILL HAVE ACCOMPLISHED THIS. DO NOT LET YOUR PAST BE A NEGATIVE PIT OF CHAOS AND ANGER. MAKE YOUR PAST A REFERENCE LIBRARY WHERE YOU CAN SEEK THE WISDOM THAT YOU HAD LEARN FROM YOUR PAST EXPERIENCES WHETHER THEY WERE NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE. MY THOUGHTS 5471 TO 5475EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5466 TO 5470

MY THOUGHTS 5466
CHARITY: ALWAYS BE KIND AND GENEROUS TOWARDS OTHERS. HOW YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY IS RECEIVED IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM. HOW ARE YOUR GENEROSITY AND KINDNESS IS RECEIVED IS THE PROBLEM OF THE RECEIVER. YOU JUST HAVE TO GIVE OPENLY AND FREELY WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5467
CHARITY: IF YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY IS NOT RECEIVED WELL BY SOME, THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS TO REDIRECT YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY. YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO DIMINISH YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5468
CHARITY: IF HOW YOUR GENEROSITY AND KINDNESS IS RECEIVED IS VERY IMPORTANT TO YOU THEN IS IMPORTANT TO GO INSIDE AND UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARE BEING KIND AND WHY YOU ARE BEING GENEROUS. YOU WILL HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTION OF WHETHER YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY IS COMING FROM YOUR HEART, OR IS YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY IS CONDITIONALLY BASED. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5469
CHARITY: ALWAYS CHOOSE KINDNESS WHETHER IS RECEIVED WELL OR NOT. IF IT IS RECEIVED WELL YOU WILL HAVE SPIRITUAL GROWTH. IF IT IS NOT RECEIVED WELL YOU WILL HAVE SPIRITUAL GROWTH. SO BE KIND ALWAYS NEW MATTER HOW IT IS RECEIVED. HOW YOUR KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY IS RECEIVED IS ALWAYS A BLESSING IN SOME FORM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5470
QUESTION 739: WHEN YOU FINALLY RETURNED TO THE COSMOS AND LEAVE YOUR EARTHLY BODY BEHIND, WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE YOUR EPITAPH TO BE? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5456 TO 5460

MY THOUGHTS 5456
LESSONS: REMEMBER THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT JUST YOUR ‘STUDENTS’ IN LIFE; YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE ALSO YOUR ‘TEACHERS’ IN LIFE. THEY DO HELP YOU TO LEARN A LOT ABOUT WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU ARE, WHY YOU ARE, AND HOW YOU ARE. THEY GIVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO OBSERVE HOW YOU HAVE TALKED TO THEM, HOW YOU HAVE TRAINED AND MENTORED THEM, AND HOW YOU HAVE COMMUNICATED WITH THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5457
GROWTH: IF YOU DO NOT ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO EXPERIENCE LIFE WITHOUT YOUR SPECIFIC ‘GUIDELINES’, YOU WILL CREATE A CHILD WHO IS NOT PREPARED FOR THE FUTURE, AND THAT CHILD MAY BECOME ONE OF YOUR GREATEST ANTAGONISTS IN LIFE BECAUSE THEY WERE NOT ALLOWED TO GROW AND MATURE NATURALLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5458
LESSONS: PARENTS MUST REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE NOT ONLY PARENTS; THEY ARE ALSO INDIVIDUALS THAT REQUIRE PERSONAL ATTENTION, AS WELL AS, A COUPLE THAT REQUIRES PRIVATE AND PUBLIC COUPLE ATTENTION. EACH PARENT MUST MAINTAIN THEIR INDIVIDUALITY, THEIR TOGETHERNESS, AND THE ROLE OF BEING A PARENT THROUGHOUT THEIR CHILDREN’S DEVELOPMENTAL YEARS. IF YOU DO SO, AND THE CHILDREN LEAVE THE NEST, YOU WILL BOTH BE PREPARED FOR THEIR ABSENCE AND FOR YOUR FUTURE GROWTH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5459
GROWTH: WHEN YOU ALLOW CHILDREN TO MAKE THEIR OWN MISTAKES, THEN YOU CAN HELP THEM TO UNDERSTAND WHY THEY MADE THEIR MISTAKES. DO NOT TELL THEM THAT YOU TOLD THEM SO. THROUGH YOUR LOVING, COMPASSIONATE MENTORING, YOU WILL CREATE MORE COOPERATIVE, LOVING, AND UNDERSTANDING CHILDREN WHO WILL APPRECIATE THOSE OPPORTUNITIES THAT YOU HAVE ALLOWED THEM TO LEARN FROM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5460
QUESTION 736: HAVE YOU RAISED YOUR CHILDREN TO RESPECT YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL? HAVE YOU RAISED YOUR CHILDREN TO RESPECT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER’S RELATIONSHIP? DO YOU CHILDREN RESPECT BOTH OF YOU AND WISH TO MIMIC YOUR RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5451 TO 5455

MY THOUGHTS 5451
GROWTH: ONE OF THE GREATEST GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR CHILDREN IS TO ALLOW THEM TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS AND TO MAKE THEIR OWN MISTAKES WHILE OBSERVING FROM A UN-INTRUSIVE DISTANCE. BY DOING THIS, YOU CAN CREATE OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOU TO DISCOVER WHAT THEY REALLY NEED TO LEARN IN LIFE. YOU WILL NOT ONLY LEARN MORE ABOUT YOU AND YOUR PERCEPTIONS OF THEM, YOU WILL ALSO LEARN HOW THEY INTERACT WITH OTHERS. YOU WILL OBSERVE WHAT LESSONS THEY NEED TO LEARN ABOUT THEMSELVES AND WHAT LESSONS YOU NEED TO LEARN ABOUT YOURSELVES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5452
QUESTION 734: ARE YOU THE KIND OF PARENT THAT LEARNS ABOUT ONESELF, ABOUT ONE’S PARTNER, AND ABOUT ONE’S CHILDREN BY OBSERVING THEM IN SILENCE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5453
GROWTH: REMEMBER THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT JUST YOUR ‘STUDENTS’ IN LIFE; YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE ALSO YOUR ‘TEACHERS’ IN LIFE. THEY DO HELP YOU TO LEARN A LOT ABOUT WHOM YOU ARE, WHAT YOU ARE, WHY YOU ARE, AND HOW YOU ARE. THEY GIVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO OBSERVE HOW YOU HAVE TALKED TO THEM, HOW YOU HAVE TRAINED AND MENTORED THEM, AND HOW YOU HAVE COMMUNICATED WITH THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5454
QUESTION 735: ARE YOU THE KIND OF PARENT THAT IS SO OVER-PROTECTIVE OF YOUR CHILDREN THAT THEY LEARN NOTHING ABOUT LIFE NOR ABOUT THEMSELVES? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5455
LESSONS: INSTEAD OF REACTING TO THE LESSONS THAT YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT TO OR ARE EXPERIENCING, IS IT NOT BETTER TO OBSERVE HOW THEY EXPERIENCE THEIR ‘ADVENTURES’ SO THAT YOU CAN REFLECT BACK ON WHAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM, HOW YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM, WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED FROM YOU, AND WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED FROM OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5446 TO 5450

MY THOUGHTS 5446
LESSONS: DEPENDING ON YOUR LEVEL OF SPIRITUALITY, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO LIKE EVERYONE THAT YOU MEET. HOWEVER, YOU SHOULD BE KIND TO EVERYONE YOU MEET WHETHER YOU LIKE THEM OR NOT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5447
LESSONS: IF YOU ARE TRULY ON A HIGH SPIRITUAL LEVEL, YOU WILL APPRECIATE AND LIKE EVERYONE TO MEET BECAUSE OF THE OPPORTUNITIES FOR SPIRITUAL ASSURANCE AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH THAT THEY BRING TO YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5448
LESSONS: BE GRATEFUL FOR ALL INTERACTIONS THAT YOU HAVE WHETHER THEY BE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE. THE POSITIVE INTERACTIONS WILL GIVE YOU POSITIVE ASSURANCES. THE NEGATIVE INTERACTIONS WILL GIVE YOU OPPORTUNITIES FOR GROWTH AND SELF RE-EVALUATION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5449
QUESTION 732: IF YOU HAVE ONLY ONE CHILD AND THE CHILD IS LOST IN A DISASTER, HOW DO YOU THINK THAT WOULD AFFECT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER AND THOSE AROUND? WOULD YOUR GRIEVE BE SO SEVERE THAT YOU WOULD DEVASTATE EVERYBODY AROUND YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5450
QUESTION 733: IF YOU HAVE MORE THAN ONE CHILD AND YOU HAVE LOST YOUR FAVORITE OF THEM, WOULD YOU IGNORE THE NEEDS OF YOUR OTHER CHILDREN OR PUNISH YOUR OTHER LOVE ONES BECAUSE OF THE GRIEF YOU HAVE FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR FAVORITE CHILD? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5441 TO 5445

MY THOUGHTS 5441
QUESTION 729: DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT CONTROLLING SOMEONE’S ACTIONS AND POSSESSING THEM PHYSICALLY IS REALLY AN EXPRESSION OF LOVE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5442
QUESTION 730: IS YOUR NEED TO CONTROL SOMEONE OR POSSESS SOMEONE REALLY AN EXPRESSION OF YOUR INADEQUACIES AND YOUR NEEDS AND YOUR LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM? DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT CONTROLLING SOMEONE AND SOMEONE’S EVERY ACTION BY ‘POSSESSING’ THEM IS CREATING LOVE WITHIN THEM FOR YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5443
QUESTION 731: WHICH DO YOU THINK YOUR POSSESSIVE AND CONTROLLING LOVE WILL CREATE WITHIN YOUR PARTNER: LOVE, HATE, OR RESENTMENT? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5444
THE NOW: IN THE NOW, YOU MUST DECIDE WHETHER YOU WISH TO BE A SELFISH PERSON, A SELFLESS PERSON, OR A SELF-FULLED PERSON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5445
THE NOW: REMEMBER THAT EACH FUTURE POINT THAT YOU ARE PROJECTING TO ACHIEVE WILL BECOME THE NEW ‘NOW’. FOCUS ON THE PRESENT ‘NOW’ SO THAT YOU CAN PREPARE YOURSELF FOR ANY FUTURE NOWS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5436 TO 5440

MY THOUGHTS 5436
LOVE: LOVE IS LIKE A COSMIC DANCE WITH VARIOUS FORMS OF DANCES THAT BOTH PARTNERS CAN DANCE TOGETHER TO. THERE ARE THE PHYSICAL DANCES, THE MENTAL DANCES, THE EMOTIONAL DANCES, THE SOCIAL DANCES, AND THE SPIRITUAL DANCES. THE REAL TEST OF LOVE IS WHEN ONE OR MORE OF THOSE DANCES CAN NO LONGER BE PERFORMED, AND HOW YOU RELATE TO YOUR PARTNER WHEN THAT HAPPENS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5437
LOVE: WE USE THE WORD LOVE TO EXPRESS OUR ATTRACTION TOWARDS SOMEONE. WHAT ONE MUST UNDERSTAND IS WHAT IS THAT ATTRACTION THAT ONE HAS TOWARD ANOTHER. ONE MUST ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRONG ATTRACTION THAT ONE HAS TOWARDS SOMEONE MAY NOT BE RECIPROCATED AND THAT THAT NON-RECIPROCATION SHOULD BE ACCEPTED WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5438
LOVE: SINCE THE EXPRESSION OF LOVE TOWARDS SOMEONE CAN OFTEN BE ONE-WAY STREET, THE USE OF THE WORD ‘LOVE’ IS A GREAT WAY TO GO INWARD AND UNDERSTAND WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU ARE. IT IS AN EXCELLENT WAY TO FIND OUT HOW, WHY, AND WHAT ARE YOUR FEELINGS. WHEN YOU SAY I LOVE MY PARTNER, I LOVE MY PETS, I LOVE MY COMPUTER, I LOVE MY CHILDREN, I LOVE MY NEW CAR, I LOVE MY NEW HOUSE, I LOVE_____: WHAT DOES THAT WORD ‘LOVE’ MEAN TO YOU IN ALL OF THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5439
QUESTION 727: HOW DEEP IS YOUR SO-CALLED ‘SOUL FELT OCEAN OF LOVE’ TOWARDS SOMEONE? IS IT PHYSICALLY DEEP, MENTALLY DEEP, EMOTIONALLY DEEP, OR SPIRITUALLY DEEP? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5440
QUESTION 728: IF YOUR PARTNER CAN NO LONGER PERFORM PHYSICALLY FOR YOU, WILL YOU STILL LOVE THAT PERSON? IF YOUR PARTNER CAN NO LONGER PERFORM MENTALLY FOR YOU OR EMOTIONALLY FOR YOU, HOW DEEP WILL YOUR LOVE BE? IF YOUR PARTNERS MORALITY AND SPIRITUALITY DECLINES DEEPLY, HOW DEEP WILL YOUR LOVE BE? EmilKoval©2013

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