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Archive for October 19th, 2013

THOUGHTS 5451 TO 5455

MY THOUGHTS 5451
GROWTH: ONE OF THE GREATEST GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE YOUR CHILDREN IS TO ALLOW THEM TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS AND TO MAKE THEIR OWN MISTAKES WHILE OBSERVING FROM A UN-INTRUSIVE DISTANCE. BY DOING THIS, YOU CAN CREATE OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOU TO DISCOVER WHAT THEY REALLY NEED TO LEARN IN LIFE. YOU WILL NOT ONLY LEARN MORE ABOUT YOU AND YOUR PERCEPTIONS OF THEM, YOU WILL ALSO LEARN HOW THEY INTERACT WITH OTHERS. YOU WILL OBSERVE WHAT LESSONS THEY NEED TO LEARN ABOUT THEMSELVES AND WHAT LESSONS YOU NEED TO LEARN ABOUT YOURSELVES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5452
QUESTION 734: ARE YOU THE KIND OF PARENT THAT LEARNS ABOUT ONESELF, ABOUT ONE’S PARTNER, AND ABOUT ONE’S CHILDREN BY OBSERVING THEM IN SILENCE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5453
GROWTH: REMEMBER THAT YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT JUST YOUR ‘STUDENTS’ IN LIFE; YOU MUST REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE ALSO YOUR ‘TEACHERS’ IN LIFE. THEY DO HELP YOU TO LEARN A LOT ABOUT WHOM YOU ARE, WHAT YOU ARE, WHY YOU ARE, AND HOW YOU ARE. THEY GIVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO OBSERVE HOW YOU HAVE TALKED TO THEM, HOW YOU HAVE TRAINED AND MENTORED THEM, AND HOW YOU HAVE COMMUNICATED WITH THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5454
QUESTION 735: ARE YOU THE KIND OF PARENT THAT IS SO OVER-PROTECTIVE OF YOUR CHILDREN THAT THEY LEARN NOTHING ABOUT LIFE NOR ABOUT THEMSELVES? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5455
LESSONS: INSTEAD OF REACTING TO THE LESSONS THAT YOUR CHILDREN ABOUT TO OR ARE EXPERIENCING, IS IT NOT BETTER TO OBSERVE HOW THEY EXPERIENCE THEIR ‘ADVENTURES’ SO THAT YOU CAN REFLECT BACK ON WHAT YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM, HOW YOU HAVE TAUGHT THEM, WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED FROM YOU, AND WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED FROM OTHERS. EmilKoval©2013

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