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Archive for October 24th, 2013

THOUGHTS 5476 TO 5480

MY THOUGHTS 5476
PARENTING: YOUR PARENTAL ROLE AS A ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR CHILDREN IS TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR PERSONAL, INTERPERSONAL, AND SOCIAL BEHAVIORS AS YOU FACE THE POSITIVES AND THE NEGATIVES IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR CHILDREN’S OBSERVATIONS OF YOUR REACTIONS TO THOSE POSITIVES AND NEGATIVES OF LIFE WILL AFFECT HOW THE WILL REACT TO THE WORLD AROUND THEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5477
QUESTION 743: DO YOU BELIEVE THAT YOUR CHILDREN WILL WANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR PARTNERS JUST AS YOU HAVE WITH YOUR PARTNER? HAVE YOU BEEN A GOOD ROLE MODEL OF WHAT RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD BE LIKE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5478
SUGGESTION: BOTH YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD SIT DOWN WITH SEPARATE PIECES OF PAPER AND WRITE DOWN THE THREE BEST MEMORIES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND THE THREE NOT SO GOOD MEMORIES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. FIRST DISCUSS THE GOOD ONES ONE BY ONE. THEN DISCUSS THE NEGATIVE ONES ONE BY ONE. EXAMINE WHY THEY WERE NEGATIVE. REMEMBER, NO BLAMING. JUST ‘DISCUSS’ THE CIRCUMSTANCES AROUND HOW THE NEGATIVES HAPPENED. IF ONE OR BOTH OF YOU START TO GET UPSET WHEN DISCUSSING THE NEGATIVES, THEN IT IS TIME TO STOP AND WAIT UNTIL COOLER HEADS PREVAIL. THESE TOPICS MUST BE DISCUSSED WITHOUT PLACING BLAME. JUST DISCUSS THE CIRCUMSTANCES. YOU WILL HAVE A GREATER UNDERSTANDING OF HOW BOTH OF YOU FEEL ABOUT THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES. THIS IS A GREAT TOOL TO BRING GREATER UNDERSTANDING AND GREATER HARMONY INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. IT DOES REQUIRE STRENGTH OF CHARACTER AND BELIEF IN THE RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5479
RELATIONSHIP: REMEMBER THAT NO RELATIONSHIP IS A ONE-STREET. ALL VIABLE RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUSY INTERACTIVE TWO-WAY STREETS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5480
QUESTION 744: ARE YOU ABLE TO CHERISH AND RESPECT THE GOOD THAT IS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WHILE TURNING THE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES AS YOUR RELATIONSHIP GROWS? EmilKoval©2013

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