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Archive for November, 2013

THOUGHTS 5664 TO 5669

MY THOUGHTS 5664
QUESTION 808: DO YOU BLAME OTHERS FOR YOUR PROBLEM? IF YOU DO, WHOM DO YOU BLAME FOR YOUR PROBLEMS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5665
QUESTION 809: DO YOU BLAME OTHERS FOR YOUR PROBLEM? IF YOU DO, WHOM DO YOU BLAME FOR YOUR PROBLEMS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5666
PARENTING: PARENTS, YOU MAY BE RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT YOU TEACH YOUR CHILDREN, HOWEVER, YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW THEY USE THOSE TEACHINGS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5667
PARENTING: PARENTS, YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT THE CAUSE OF YOUR PROBLEMS. IT IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS RAISING THEM AND TRYING TO PLEASE THEM THAT MAY BE THE CAUSE OF YOUR PROBLEMS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5668
LESSONS: EVERYONE YOU MEET HAS KARMIC LESSONS TO LEARN AND A DHARMIC PATH TO FOLLOW. THEREFORE, THERE WILL BE A VAST VARIETY OF EXPERIENCES THAT YOU WILL HAVE DURING YOUR LIFETIME. YOUR PROBLEMS IN LIFE ARE NOT CAUSED BY THOSE EXPERIENCES: YOUR PROBLEMS ARE CAUSED BY YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARDS THE LESSONS THAT THEY HAVE BROUGHT TO YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5669
PROBLEMS: ALL SOCIETIES HAVE THEIR RULES AND CUSTOMS OF WHICH THEIR MEMBERS ARE EXPECTED TO FOLLOW. YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO FOLLOW THOSE RULES AND CUSTOMS DILIGENTLY, LOOSELY, OR REBELLIOUSLY. THEREFORE, THE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE IN ANY SOCIETY ARE ‘YOUR’ PROBLEMS. DO NOT BLAME SOCIETY FOR ‘YOUR’ PROBLEMS. YOU CAN ONLY BLAME YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARDS SOCIETY AND YOUR WILLINGNESS TO ADJUST TO SOCIETY, AS THE SOURCE OF ‘YOUR PROBLEMS’ WITHIN ANY SOCIETY. YOU MUST FIND THE BALANCE BETWEEN YOUR INDIVIDUALITY AND YOUR NEED TO BE A PART OF SOCIETY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5657 TO 5663

MY THOUGHTS 5658
QUESTION 805: THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: WAS YOUR THANKSGIVING DAY A ONE DAY EVENT FOR FAMILY UNITY? ARE THE SALES WITH DEEP DISCOUNTS MORE IMPORTANT THAN FAMILY TOGETHERNESS? HAVE YOU TRANSFORMED FROM A LOVING, CARING FAMILY MEMBER TO A GREEDY MATERIALISTIC BARGAIN HUNTER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5659
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: BLACK FRIDAY IS THE DAY WHEN A SPIRITUAL GROWTH DAY BECOMES A MATERIAL GROWTH DAY FOR MANY. IT IS AN IMPORTANT DAY FOR KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5660
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: BLACK FRIDAY IS THE DAY AFTER THANKSGIVING THAT BUSINESSES SET UP TO START THE SALES FOR CHRISTMAS. HOWEVER, THIS YEAR, THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING HAS BECOME ‘BLACK WEEK’. INSTEAD OF ALLOWING THANKSGIVING TO BE EXCLUSIVELY A ‘FAMILY RE-UNION DAY’, THE SALES FOR BLACK FRIDAY ARE BEGINNING THURSDAY EVENING AND DISRUPTING THE DAY SET ASIDE FOR FAMILY UNITY. IT IS A COSMIC LESSON TO SEE WHO IS TRULY FAMILY ORIENTED, AND TO SEE WHO IS MATERIALLY ORIENTED. THE CHOICES ARE KARMIC LESSONS IN FULL BLOOM FOR EVERYONE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5661
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: THANKSGIVING DAY IS BEING TURNED INTO A MATERIALISTIC GREED DAY; JUST AS CHRISTMAS HAS BECOME A COMMERCIAL DAY, INSTEAD OF A SPIRITUAL DAY OF HOPE FOR HUMANITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5662
QUESTION 806: THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: WITH ALL THE CASH AND CREDIT AVAILABLE ON BLACK FRIDAY FOR ‘THINGS”, WHY ISN’T THERE CASH AND CREDIT AVAILABLE TO HELP OUR EARTHLY BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN NEED? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5663
QUESTION 807: THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: CAN YOU SET ASIDE TEN PER CENT OF YOUR MATERIAL GREED MONEY TO BUY CLOTHES, SHOES, AND FOOD FOR THOSE IN DIRE NEED? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5652 TO 5657

MY THOUGHTS 5652
THANKSGIVING DAY: QUESTION 803: HOW DID YOUR SPIRITUALITY HOLDUP BY SPENDING SEVERAL HOURS WITH YOUR FAMILY? DID YOU HAVE TO COMPROMISE YOUR SPIRITUALITY AT SOME POINTS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5653
POST THANKSGIVING DAY QUESTION 804: WILL YOU SAVE THE LEFTOVERS FOR LUNCHES FOR THE NEXT WEEK SO YOU DO NOT HAVE TO PREPARE ANY MEALS, OR WILL YOU DIVIDE THE LEFTOVERS AND DISTRIBUTE THEM TO PEOPLE WHO ARE HOMELESS, PEOPLE WHO ARE SHUT INS, OR TAKE THEM TO A HOMELESS SHELTER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5654
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: WHEN YOU FIND SOME ALONE TIME. CONTEMPLATE ON HOW YOU SPENT THAT DAY, HOW YOU REACTED TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE AT THE THANKSGIVING GATHERING, AND HOW YOU DEMONSTRATED YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5655
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU ON BLACK FRIDAY, CONTINUED COMMUNION WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY, OR GETTING OUT TO THOSE SPECIALS AND SPENDING MONEY YOU MAY NOT EVEN HAVE TO SPEND? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5656
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: THE REAL TEST OF YOUR SPIRITUAL MATURITY IS ‘BLACK FRIDAY.’ IT COULD BE A DAY OF MATERIAL ENHANCEMENT OR SPIRITUAL ENHANCEMENT. IT COULD BE A DAY OF FEEDING YOUR GREED, OR A DAY OF GIVING GENEROUSLY. IT COULD BE A MATERIALISTIC DAY OR A SOCIAL ENHANCEMENT DAY. WHICHEVER YOU CHOOSE IS A KARMIC LESSON FOR YOU. ONLY YOU CAN JUDGE YOUR DECISIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5657
THANKSGIVING DAY AFTER MATH: IF YOU ARE ALONE, THEN IT IS TIME TO CONTEMPLATE ON YOUR EMOTIONAL, SOCIAL, AND SPIRITUAL PERCEPTIONS OF THE WORLD AROUND YOU. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5646 TO 5651

MY THOUGHTS 5646
THANKSGIVING DAY: THANKSGIVING DAY IS THE TIME OF THE YEAR TO COME TOGETHER WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND SHARE THE BLESSINGS THAT ALL OF YOU HAVE RECEIVED THROUGHOUT THE YEAR. YOU MAY HAVE THE TRADITIONAL TURKEY, CRANBERRIES, AND APPLE AND PUMPKIN PIES; HOWEVER, YOU CAN INCLUDE ALL THE ETHNIC DISHES OF YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. THUS, CREATING A WONDERFUL SHARING OF GREAT CULTURAL CUISINES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5647
THANKSGIVING DAY SUGGESTION: MAKING A LIST OF FIVE THINGS AND FIVE PEOPLE THAT YOU ARE MOST GRATEFUL TO FOR THIS PAST YEAR. ASK YOUR LOVE ONES TO DO THE SAME. THEN ON THANKSGIVING DAY SHARE YOUR LIST. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5648
THANKSGIVING DAY QUESTION 801: WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO BE THANKFUL FOR THIS PAST YEAR? ARE YOU WILLING TO SHARE THAT GRATITUDE WITH YOUR FAMILY ON THANKSGIVING DAY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5649
THANKSGIVING DAY QUESTION 802: THIS THANKSGIVING DAY ARE YOU LOOK FORWARD TO CELEBRATING THE TOGETHERNESS OF YOUR FAMILY, OR ON THIS THANKSGIVING DAY ARE YOU CELEBRATING MATERIALISM BY STANDING IN LONG LINES AWAITING THE ‘BLACK FRIDAY SALE’? IS THIS A FAMILY CELEBRATION DAY, OR IS THIS A DAY TO SPEND MONEY THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE YET? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5650
THANKSGIVING DAY: THE FIRST AMERICAN COLONIAL THANKSGIVING WAS A CELEBRATION OF THE COOPERATIVE EFFORTS OF TWO VERY DIFFERENT CULTURES. THANKSGIVING DAY SHOULD ALWAYS BE THE CELEBRATION OF FAMILY UNITY, THE COOPERATION BETWEEN VARIOUS CULTURES, THE BONDING OF DIFFERENT ETHNICITIES, AND DEMONSTRATING A COSMIC UNITY OF THE DIVERSIFIED FAITHS AROUND US. WE SHOULD WORK TOWARDS MAKING THE THANKSGIVING DAY CELEBRATION A DAY OF CELEBRATING THE DIFFERENCES AND THE SIMILARITIES BETWEEN ALL PEOPLES ON THE PLANET, AS WELL AS, THE BREAKING OF BREAD TOGETHER AS A SYMBOL OF UNIVERSAL BROTHERHOOD AND SISTERHOOD. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5651
THANKSGIVING DAY 2013: ON THIS DAY, TWO CELEBRATIONS OF RESTORATION WILL OCCUR. HANUKKAH IS THE CELEBRATION OF THE RESTORATION AND THE PURIFICATION OF THE TEMPLE. THANKSGIVING DAY IS THE DAY TO CELEBRATE THE RESTORATION OF THE UNITY OF THE EXTENDED FAMILY. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5641 TO 5645

MY THOUGHTS 5641
LESSONS: LOSS: THE LOSS OF MATERIAL THINGS IN YOUR LIFE GIVES YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO RE-EVALUATE HOW IMPORTANT MATERIAL THINGS ARE IN YOUR LIFE, THE OPPORTUNITY TO COMPARE WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU: PEOPLE OR THINGS, AND WHETHER YOU ARE/WERE A PRISONER OF THOSE MATERIALS THINGS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5642
GROWTH: BEFORE YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR OTHERS, IT IS BEST TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5643
DENIAL: DENIAL IS NOT THE PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT. DENIAL IS NOT ACCEPTING THE REALITIES OF THE NOW. THE PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT IS FILLED WITH FACING THE ENCOUNTERS, EXPERIENCING THE ENCOUNTERS, AND ACCEPTING THE LESSONS OF THE ENCOUNTERS WHETHER THEY ARE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5644
QUESTION 799: WHEN YOU FINALLY LEAVE YOUR BODY, HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED? HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED BY YOUR PARTNER? HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED BY YOUR CHILDREN? HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED BY YOUR FRIENDS? HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED BY YOUR ANTAGONIST? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5645
QUESTION 800: WHEN YOU HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH YOUR PARTNER, DO YOU HAVE THAT CONVERSATION FACE-TO-FACE OR SIDE-BY-SIDE? WHEN YOU HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH YOUR FRIENDS, DO YOU HAVE THAT CONVERSATION FACE-TO-FACE OR SIDE-BY-SIDE? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5636 TO 5640

MY THOUGHTS 5636
GROWTH: CELEBRATIONS ARE AN IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR LIFE. YOU CELEBRATE BEGINNINGS, YOU CELEBRATE SUCCESS, AND YOU CELEBRATE ENDINGS. REMEMBER THAT ENDINGS CREATE AN OPENNESS FOR NEW BEGINNINGS. THEREFORE, CELEBRATE THE END OF THE RELATIONSHIP, CELEBRATE A DIVORCE, CELEBRATE THE LOSS OF A JOB BECAUSE THEY ARE NEW OPPORTUNITIES THAT ARE GIVEN TO YOU TO GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE NOW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5637
RELATIONSHIP ENDINGS: WHEN A RELATIONSHIP HAS ENDED THERE ARE TWO BASIC THINGS TO CELEBRATE: 1) CELEBRATE THE LESSONS LEARNED, AND 2) CELEBRATE THE OPPORTUNITY TO GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AT THE PRESENT MOMENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5638
LESSONS: LOSS: WHEN YOU LOSE MATERIAL THINGS, YOU MUST REALLY EXAMINE WHAT IT IS THAT YOU HAVE LOST. IT IS IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND WHY THOSE THINGS WERE SO IMPORTANT TO YOU, AS WELL AS, WHETHER THEY WERE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5639
QUESTION 797: HAVE YOU EVER DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER HOW OFTEN YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE SEX AND HOW OFTEN YOUR PARTNER WOULD LIKE TO HAVE SEX? IS IT A GUESSING GAME? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5640
QUESTION 798: WHAT DO YOU FEEL YOUR BEST QUALITIES ARE? WHAT DO YOU FEEL YOUR PARTNER’S BEST QUALITIES IS? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5631 TO 5635

MY THOUGHTS 5631
QUESTION 795: IF YOU COULD CHOOSE TO BE ANY ANIMAL, WHICH ANIMAL WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO BE? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5632
QUESTION 796: DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HAVING SEX AND MAKING LOVE? DOES YOUR PARTNER KNOWS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HAVING SEX AND MAKING LOVE? DO YOU DO BOTH FROM TIME TO TIME? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5633
BLAME: IT IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR SOME TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR PROBLEMS. IT IS ALWAYS EASY TO BLAME OTHERS OR SITUATIONS FOR ONE’S PROBLEMS. THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE ‘YOUR PROBLEMS’ IS NOT TO BLAME ANYBODY, ANYTHING, NOR YOURSELF FOR THE PROBLEMS. BUT TO FACE YOUR PROBLEMS FULLY, UNDERSTAND YOUR PROBLEMS MINDFULLY, AND TO DIGEST YOUR PROBLEMS COMPLETELY SO THAT YOU CAN TURN THEM IN LESSONS AND TOOLS FOR THE NOW AND THE FUTURE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5634
BLAME: WHEN YOU BLAME THINGS, SITUATIONS, AND OTHERS FOR YOUR PROBLEMS, YOU ARE MAKING EXCUSES FOR DELAYING OR NOT DEALING WITH THOSE ISSUES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5635
BLAME: IF YOU INSIST ON BLAMING OTHERS OR SITUATIONS FOR YOUR DIFFICULTIES IN LIFE, THEN IT IS TIME TOTURN THAT BLAME INTO EXPRESSION OF GRATITUDES FOR THE THINGS YOU HAVE HAD TO LEARN. REMEMBER THAT YOUR ARE HERE TO LEARN AND GROW SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY, AND EMOTIONALLY; THEREFORE, YOUR PERCEIVED ANTAGONISTS ARE SPECIAL TEACHERS SENT TO HELP YOU LEARN LESSONS THAT YOU MAY BE UNWILLING TO LEARN. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5626 TO 5630

MY THOUGHTS 5626
QUESTION 793: WHERE WILL YOU GO AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE, WHAT WILL YOU DO AFTER THE LOSS OD A LOVED ONE, AND HOW WILL YOU GROW AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5627
QUESTION 794: WHEN YOU LOSE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE, THERE ARE SEVERAL QUESTIONS YOU MUST ASK YOURSELF: WHY WERE THEY MEANINGFUL TO YOU? WHY DO THOSE LOSSES AFFECT YOU SO MUCH? WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM THOSE INDIVIDUALS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5628
LESSON: YOU CANNOT SAVE SOMEONE FROM THE PAST THAT THEY REFUSED DEAL WITH. YOU WILL JUST BECOME A TEMPORARY PATCH OVER THAT OPEN WOUND WHICH WILL NEVER HEAL UNTIL THEY DEAL WITH IT, SO YOUR LOVE FOR THEM MAY BE A WASTED LOVE. IF YOU WISH TO BE THAT PATCH OVER THAT OPEN WOUND FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, THEN ENJOY DOING SO. BUT DON’T BLAME SOMEBODY ELSE FOR YOUR CHOICE TO DEAL WITH THAT OPEN WOUND FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5629
PARABLES: MILAN MET AN OLD FRIEND ON ONE OF HIS TRAVELS. THE OLD FRIEND ASK HIM WHY HE LOOKS SO HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH LIFE WITH ALL THE DIFFICULTIES THAT HE HAD HAD WITH SOME PARTNERS. MILAN SMILE CONTENTLY AND SAID THAT HE HAS DEALT WITH ALL THOSE ISSUES, HE APPRECIATES THE LESSONS THAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT ME, AND SAID THAT HE WAS A BETTER PERSON BECAUSE OF THEM. HE JUST TRANSFORMED THOSE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS FOR HIS PRESENT AND FUTURE JOURNEYS. HE ALSO STATED THAT HE IS HAPPY THAT HIS FORMER PARTNERS HAVE FOUND NEW PARTNERS TO SHARE THEIR LIVES WITH. HOWEVER, MILAN FELT SORRY FOR THE NEW PARTNER BECAUSE WHEN THINGS GET DIFFICULT, MILAN SEEMS DOMINATE THE CENTER OF HIS FORMER PARTNERS MINDS, NOT THE SO-CALLED TRUE LOVES THAT THEY HAVE FOUND. MILAN IS CONTENT WITH WHOM HE IS, WHAT HE IS, AND HOW HE IS BECAUSE HE LIVES WITH NO EXCEPTIONS. MILAN FEELS SORRY FOR SOME OF HIS EX-PARTNERS WHO HAVE NOT MOVED ON, AND HE FEELS SORRY FOR THEIR NEWFOUND LOVES BECAUSE THEY ARE LIVING IN DECEPTIVE RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER, THAT IS THEIR KARMA, NOT HIS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5630
ANGER: REMEMBER THAT SOMEONE’S ANGER TOWARDS SOMEONE MAY NOT BE TRUE ANGER BUT A GREAT DISAPPOINTMENT OF A LOVE THAT HAS BEEN LOST. THERE IS A FINE LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE. WHEN LOVE THAT IS FELT DEEPLY IS REJECTED, MANY WILL FALL INTO THE CATEGORY OF HATE BECAUSE THEIR LOVE WAS REJECTED. MINDFULLY DEAL WITH THAT REJECTION, APPRECIATE THE REJECTION, LEARN FROM THE REJECTION, AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE SO THAT YOU CAN FIND A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS TRULY LOVING, CARING, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5621 TO 5625

MY THOUGHTS 5621
LESSONS: IF YOU ARE A PERSON WHO ALWAYS GOING TO OTHERS FOR SECURITY, AND YOUR KARMIC LESSON IS TO LEARN TO BE INDEPENDENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5622
LESSONS: IF YOU ARE A PERSON WHO ALWAYS FEEL THAT YOU ARE IN A DESPERATE SITUATION, THEN YOUR KARMIC LESSON IS TO WORK WITH ISSUES OF MATURITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5623
LESSONS: IF YOUR PERSON WHO HAS DEEP INSECURITIES, THEN YOUR KARMIC LESSON IS TO WORK ON YOUR SELF-ESTEEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5624
QUESTION 791: IF YOU COULD BE A MUSICAL INSTRUMENT, WHICH INSTRUMENT WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO BE? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5625
QUESTION 792: HOW MUCH MONEY WOULD YOU NEED TO FEEL FULFILLED? HOW MANY FRIENDS WOULD YOU NEED TO FEEL FULFILLED? HOW MUCH POWER WOULD YOU NEED TO FEEL FULFILLED? AND WHY TO EACH QUESTION? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5616 TO 5620

MY THOUGHTS 5616
RELATIONSHIP: THERE COMES A TIME WHEN YOU MUST GIVE YOUR PARTNER A CHOICE TO LIVE WITH YOU IN THE PRESENT OR TO LEAVE YOU AND CONTINUE LIVING IN HIS/HER PAST. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5617
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOU ENTER A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND YOUR PARTNER KEEPS ON TALKING ABOUT A PAST RELATIONSHIP’S HURTS, YOU ARE THE LOSER AND HE/SHE FROM THE PAST IS THE WINNER. WHY? BECAUSE YOUR PARTNER’S FORMER PARTNER IS STILL IN THE CENTER OF HER/HIS MIND, WHILE YOU ARE JUST A BAND-AID OVER THAT WOUND. SOMEDAY THAT BAND-AID WILL FALL OFF AND ALL THE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN TO HEAL THIS PERSON WILL HAVE BEEN WASTED BECAUSE THE FORMER PARTNER IS STILL LIVING IN YOUR PRESENT PARTNER’S MIND. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5618
LESSONS: IF YOU CANNOT LET GO OF PAST TRANSGRESSIONS, THEN YOU HAVE NOT DEALT WITH THEM MINDFULLY. IT IS BAD KARMA TO START A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH OLD TRANSGRESSIONS STILL DOMINATING YOUR MIND. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5619
QUESTION 789: WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU DISCOVER THAT YOU NEWFOUND PERFECT LOVE IS STILL IN LOVE WITH HER/HIS PAST PARTNER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5620
QUESTION 790: WHICH ROLE DO YOU PLAY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP: THE ROLE OF A RESPONSIBLE PARTNER, THE ROLE OF A MARTYR, OR THE ROLE OF THE SAVIOR? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5611 TO 5615

MY THOUGHTS 5611
QUESTION 787: IS YOUR INNER CHILD STILL AN ACTIVE PART OF YOUR BEING, OR HAVE YOU SHUT DOWN YOUR INNER CHILD TO COMPLY WITH YOUR PARTNER’S NEEDS OR YOUR SOCIAL NEEDS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5612
QUESTION 788: CAN YOU BE SPONTANEOUS, IMAGINATIVE, PLAYFUL, AND EXPRESSIVE WITH YOUR FEELINGS WITH YOUR PARTNER? CAN YOUR PARTNER BE SPONTANEOUS, IMAGINATIVE, PLAYFUL, AND EXPRESSIVE OF HIS/HER FEELINGS WITH YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5613
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOUR PARTNER IS ALWAYS ANGRY ABOUT A PAST RELATIONSHIP, IT IS IMPORTANT ‘FOOD FOR THOUGHT’ FOR YOU. INSTEAD OF BASKING IN THE LOVE OF YOUR PRESENCE, HE OR SHE IS STILL BASKING IN THE ANGER OF THE PAST. YOU COULD BE JUST A SALVE FOR THE OPEN WOUND THAT SHE/HE WILL NOT LET HEAL. IT IS TIME TO RE-EVALUATE THAT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5614
RELATIONSHIP: MANY LIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS IN WHICH ONE PARTNER, OR BOTH PARTNERS, CONTINUES TO COMPLAIN ABOUT A PAST PARTNER. THE QUESTION THAT YOU SHOULD ASK YOUR PARTNER WHO IS STILL LIVING IN THE PAST, IS WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM OR HER IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO HEAL THE WOUND OF THAT PAST RELATIONSHIP, AND WHY SHE OR HE IS LIVING THIS PRESENT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE AN ESCAPE MECHANISM FROM THE PAST; YOU ARE THE LOVE THAT SAVES HER OR HIM FROM HIS OR HER PAST. MINDFULLY CONTEMPLATION SERIOUSLY NEEDED HERE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5615
RELATIONSHIP: REMEMBER THAT IF YOU ARE BEING USED AS A SALVE TO COVER UP THE PAIN OF THE PAST WOUNDS OF YOUR PRESENT PARTNER, SOMEWHERE IN THE FUTURE THIS RELATIONSHIP WILL FALL APART BECAUSE THE GHOST FROM YOUR PARTNER’S THE PAST IS STILL THE CENTER OF HER/HIS MIND. IF THE GHOST FROM YOUR PARTNER’S PAST FINALLY DISAPPEARS, YOU WILL NO LONGER BE ESSENTIAL TO THAT RELATIONSHIP. THAT RELATIONSHIP WILL END AS SOON AS THE ‘RIGHT PARTNER’ COMES ALONG. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5606 TO 5610

MY THOUGHTS 5606
QUESTION 785: ARE YOUR PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL PATTERN IN SYNC WITH YOUR PARTNERS PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL PATTERNS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5607
QUESTION 786: HOW MANY OF YOUR LIFE’S PATTERNS ARE IN COMPETITION WITH YOUR PARTNER OR IN COOPERATION WITH YOUR PARTNER PATTERN? ARE THEY WORKING FOR YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5608
SUGGESTION: WE ALL HAVE PATTERNS IN OUR LIVES. IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF WHAT THOSE PATTERNS ARE AND HOW THEY FUNCTION. TAKE TIME TO SIT DOWN AND CONTEMPLATE ALL THE PATTERNS AND THE VARIOUS ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE. UNDERSTAND HOW, WHY, WHEN, AND WHAT TO DO WITHIN THOSE PATTERNS. ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND THIS YOU CAN MAKE THE CHANGES THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO MAKE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5609
CHOICES: PREFERENCES ARE BETTER THAN EXPECTATIONS. SOMETIMES EXPECTATIONS BECOME DEMANDS. THEY BECOME THE SOURCE OF MOST OF OUR PAIN. LIVE THE MOMENT WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WITH NO EXPECTATIONS. IF THINGS HAPPEN, WONDERFUL. IF NOT, MOVE ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5610
GROWTH: YOUR MENTAL THINKING ON THIS LEVEL IS YOUR PHYSICAL THINKING WHICH HELPS YOU TO SURVIVE ON THIS LEVEL. AS YOU MATURE IN LIFE, YOU BEGIN TO DEVELOP YOUR SPIRITUAL THINKING WHICH IS YOUR CONNECTION TO NATURE, TO ALL LIFE FORMS, AND TO THE COSMOS. YOUR MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL THINKING MAY BE IN CONFLICT WITH EACH OTHER THROUGH PARTS OF YOUR LIFE. WHEN YOU CAN BALANCE THEM, YOU ARE ON A SPIRITUAL PATH. AS YOU MATURE, ONE OR THE OTHER MAY DOMINATE YOUR LIFE FOR PERIODS OF TIME WHICH WILL DETERMINE YOUR DEPTH OF SPIRITUALITY. NEITHER CHOICE IS NEGATIVE NOR POSITIVE. IT IS JUST WHERE YOU ARE. WHEN YOUR MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL THINKING BECOME ONE, YOU ARE ON AN ENLIGHTENED PATH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5601 TO 5605

MY THOUGHTS 5601
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WITH SEPARATE SHEETS OF PAPER WRITE DOWN FIVE ADJECTIVES THAT DESCRIBE YOUR PARTNER AND FIVE ADJECTIVES THAT DESCRIBE YOU. COMPARE AND DISCUSS YOUR ADJECTIVE DESCRIPTIONS OF YOUR CELL AND OF EACH OTHER. WHEN YOU HAVE COMPLETED THAT CAN DO THE SAME THING WITH NO THAT’S A SCRAPE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER. HAVE TO YOU HAVE TO DISCUSS THOSE POINTS THEN WRITE DOWN FIVE HERBS THAT DESCRIBE YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER. THESE EXERCISES CAN BE DONE OVER A PERIOD OF TIME AND BE INTERESTING CONVERSATIONAL DISCUSSION BETWEEN PARTNERS TO HELP ENHANCE THEIR RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5602
SUGGESTION: TO START YOURSELF DISCOVERY MAKE A LIST OF THREE ITEMS THAT SHOWS HOW MUCH OF YOUR FATHER IS YOU AND HOW MUCH OF YOUR MOTHER IS YOU. ALSO MAKE A LIST OF THREE ITEMS THAT IS NEITHER YOUR FATHER NOR YOUR MOTHER BUT YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5603
QUESTION 783? IF YOU ARE MARRIED WITH YOU RATHER BE SINGLE? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5604
QUESTION 784? IF YOU ARE SINGLE, WOULD YOU RATHER BE MARRIED? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5605
CHILDREN: SOME PEOPLE SAY THE CHILDREN DO NOT COME WITH INSTRUCTION BOOKS. HOWEVER, THERE IS AN INSTRUCTION BOOK THAT MOST PEOPLE IGNORE. THAT INSTRUCTION BOOK INCLUDES YOUR EXTENDED FAMILY AND ALL THE EXPERIENCES THAT THEY HAVE HAD RAISING CHILDREN. YOU ARE GIVEN CHOICES OF DIFFERENT METHODS TO USE AND VISUAL EVIDENCE OF THE RESULTS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5596 TO 5600

MY THOUGHTS 5596
FAMILY: PARENTS SHOULD FIND THEIR JOY WITHIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP. THAT JOY WILL RADIATE OUT TO THEIR CHILDREN AND TO OTHER LOVED ONES. REMEMBER THAT AS PARENTS YOU ARE THE ROLE MODELS ON HOW TO LIVE ONE’S LIFE. IF YOU FIND JOY WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR CHILDREN WILL FIND JOY WITHIN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS. IF YOU NEED TO GO OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP TO FIND JOY WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND OTHER THINGS, YOUR CHILDREN WILL MIMIC YOUR ACTIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5597
FAMILY: WHEN CHILDREN HAVE A TRULY LOVING ENVIRONMENT WITHIN THEIR FAMILY, THEY DON’T NEED DISTRACTIVE MATERIAL THING IS TO BE HAPPY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5598
JOY: ONE WAY TO SAVE MONEY IN THESE DIRE ECONOMIC TIMES IS TO FIND JOY WITHIN EACH OTHER, WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP, AND WITHIN THE FAMILY UNITY. THEN THERE WILL BE NO NEED FOR EXTERNAL EXPENSIVE ITEMS TO BRING YOU MOMENTS OF JOY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5599
QUESTION 781: CAN YOU BE CHILD LIKE AROUND YOUR PARTNER AND STILL BE ACCEPTED BY YOUR PARTNER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5600
QUESTION 782: ARE YOU AFRAID TO SHOW LOVE? IF SO, WHY? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 4491 TO 5595

MY THOUGHTS 5591
SENIORS: TODAY, THE ELDERLY HAVE TO BEOME MORE INDEPENDENT AND SELF-SUFFICIENT BECAUSE THE YOUNGER GENERATION HAS BECOME MORE MATERIALISTIC AND LOOK AT SENIORS AS ECONOMIC BURDENS. SENIORS NEED TO BE CLOSE ENOUGH TO HELP THEIR LOVED ONES AND FAR ENOUGH TO FULFILL THEIR DHARMIC PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5592
SENIORS: TODAY, MANY SENIORS OF MANY CULTURAL AND ETHNIC BACKGROUNDS ARE BEING TREATED LIKE ATM MACHINES BY THE YOUNGER GENERATIONS.. WHEN THEIR MONEY RUNS OUT, THE YOUNGER GENERATIONS SEEM TO PULL BACK PROM THEM LEAVING THEM UNLOVED AND ALONE. YES, THERE ARE SOME YOUNGER GENERATION INDIVIDUALS WHO REALY SEEM TO CARE FOR THE ELDERLY. HOWEVER, THEY ARE DIMINISHING GREATLY IN NUMBERS AS MATERIALISM AND PERSONAL DEBTS INCREASE. SO, WHENEVER POSSIBLE, THE ELDERLY SHOULD WORK ON THEIR OWN SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND BE CLOSE ENOUGH TO HELP THE YOUNGER GENERATION WHENEVER THEIR HELP IS ASKED FOR. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5593
SUGGESTION: WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOU HAVE MISSED OUT IN SOMETHING IN YOUR LIFE. REMEMBER THAT WHAT YOU HAVE NOW IS MOST IMPORTANT. WHAT YOU DID NOT HAVE IN THE PAST WAS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE. ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE AND MAKE IT WORK FOR YOU. BEING UNHAPPY ABOUT WHAT YOU DIDN’T HAVE WILL ONLY HURT YOU. YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE NOW FOR A COSMIC REASON. ENJOY YOU IN THE NOW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5594
SUGGESTION: IF YOU NO LONGER HAVE A FAMILY AND YOU DESPERATELY NEED A FAMILY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP. THEN YOU MUST TO CREATE YOUR OWN NEW FAMILY IN THE PRESENT WITH THOSE WHOM YOU LOVE, TRUST, AND RESPECT. HOWEVER, REMEMBER THAT EVEN THOUGH A FAMILY MAY BRING YOU MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND PHYSICAL SATISFACTION, IT MAY ALSO BRING YOU SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND PHYSICAL LIMITATIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5595
THE NOW: THE PAST CANNOT BE RE-LIVED. IT CAN ONLY BE LEARNED FROM. YOUR HAPPINESS DEPENDS ON WHAT YOU DO IN THE PRESENT; NOT IN THE ILLUSIONS OF THE PAST. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5586 TO 5590

MY THOUGHTS 5586
QUESTION 778: CAN YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY WITH YOUR PARTNER? CAN YOU HELP YOUR PARTNER GROW BEYOND YOUR LEVEL OF SPIRITUALITY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5587
QUESTION 779: EVERY CHOICE YOU MAKE WILL ATTRACT SPECIFIC CHALLENGES. ARE YOU PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY READY TO FACES THE CHALLENGES YOU WILL MEET ON YOUR PATH? IF NOT, WHY NOT? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5588
LESSONS: IF YOU STILL HAVE SAD MEMORIES OF A LOST LOVED-ONE, IT IS A SIGN THAT YOU STILL HAVE LESSONS TO LEARN FROM THAT LOST-LOVED ONE. IT IS TIME TO GO INWARD AND DISCOVER WHAT THOSE LESSONS ARE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5589
LESSONS: IF, IN THE NOW, YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEMS, YOU SHOULD IMMEDIATELY START TO MINDFULLY TAKE CARE OF THOSE PROBLEMS IN YOUR LIFE. THEN, WHEN YOU SAY THAT TIME WILL HEAL ALL THINGS, THAT IS VALID STATEMENT. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM AND DO NOT TAKE CARE OF IT IN THE PRESENT AND SAY THAT TIME WILL HEAL EVERYTHING, THAT STATEMENT IS AN ILLUSION. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5590
RELATIONSHIPS: FRIENDSHIP: WHEN YOU ARE SEARCHING TO MAKE FRIENDS OR TO COLLECT FRIENDS, YOU BEGIN TO LOSE A SENSE OF WHO ‘YOU’ REALLY ARE. YOU BEGIN TO COMPROMISE YOURSELF TO ATTAIN THAT FRIENDSHIP. WHEN YOU BEGIN TO SACRIFICE PARTS OF WHOM ‘YOU’ ARE TO ATTRACT CERTAIN FRIENDS, YOU WILL FIND ONLY CONDITIONAL FRIENDS OR PART-TIME FRIENDS. WHEN YOU MAKE CHANGES TO BETTER THAN YOU WERE, IT IS A GOOD CHOICE. WHEN YOU MAKE CHANGES TO GET SOMEONE TO ACCEPT YOUR FRIENDSHIP, YOU HAVE MADE A NEGATIVE CHOICE. YOU CANNOT BE EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE. WHEN YOU ARE TRUE TO YOU. THE RIGHT FRIENDS AND COMPANIONS WILL APPEAR.
EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5576 TO 5580

MY THOUGHTS 5576
DEFINITIONS: SHAME, GUILT, AND EMBARRASSMENT: TODAY, MANY PEOPLE BLEND THE DEFINITIONS OF WORDS WHICH CAUSES CONFUSION IN THEIR MEANINGS. SOME CLARIFICATION IS REQUIRED.

SHAMEIS ASSOCIATED WITH A PERSONAL FEELING OF DISGRACE, DISHONOR, OR SOCIAL CONDEMNATION
WHEN ONE’S NEGATIVITIES ARE EXPOSED.

GUILT IS THE PERSONAL FEELING OF BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR OR HAVING FEELINGS OF REMORSE FOR A MORAL OR SOCIAL VIOLATION THAT IS CONTRARY TO ONE’S PERSONAL VALUES.

EMBARRASSMENT IS THE STATE OF FEELING FOOLISH OR UNCOMFORTABLE IN FRONT OF OTHERS FOR MISTAKES THAT ONE HAS MADE OR FOR BEHAVIOR THAT IS SOCIALLY UNACCEPTABLE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5577
QUESTION 776: CAN YOU LIVE ALONE WITH YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5578
FRIENDSHIP: DO NOT SEEK LOVE FROM OTHERS. SEEK COMMUNION WITH LIKE-MINDED BEINGS. YOU MUST BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY. THEN, YOU CAN ATTRACT LIKE-MINDED FRIENDS. YOU HAVE TO BE WISE ENOUGH TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN ANTAGONISTS, ACQUAINTANCES, FAIR-WEATHER FRIENDS, GOOD FRIENDS, AND BROTHERS AND SISTERS. REMEMBER THAT IT IS IMPORTANT TO SHOW LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING TOWARDS EVERYONE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5579
FRIENDSHIP: PEOPLE WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE AS SEEKERS, TEACHERS, TESTERS, GIVERS, AND TAKERS. WHEN THEIR NEEDS HAVE BEEN MET, SOME WILL STAY AND OTHERS WILL MOVE ON. ALL ARE BLESSINGS IN SOME FORM. ALWAYS SHOWER THEM WITH YOUR OWN BLESSINGS. BE ACCEPTING OF THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS TO STAY, TO LINGER FOR A WHILE, OR TO MOVE ON.
EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5580
LESSONS: EVERY POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE HAS A LESSON TO BE LEARNED. THOSE LESSONS, IF MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY ABSORBED, WILL PREPARE YOU FOR FURTHER SITUATIONS AND RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5571 TO 5575

MY THOUGHTS 5571
FRIENDS: SOME PEOPLE COME IN TO YOUR LIFE TO TEACH YOU OR TO LEARN FROM YOU. SOME PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO TEST YOUR HUMANITY, YOUR SPIRITUALITY, AND YOUR SENSE OF MORALITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5572
CHOICES: ONE OF THE BIGGEST CHALLENGES IN YOUR LIFE IS TO KNOW WHEN TO BE A JOINER AND WHEN TO BE INDEPENDENT. KNOWING THIS CAN CREATE A MORE BALANCED AND HARMONIOUS LIFE FOR YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5573
QUESTION 775: HOW MUCH TIME DO YOU SPEND TOGETHER WITH YOUR PARTNER, HOW MUCH TIME DO YOU SPEND TOGETHER WITH ‘YOU’, AND HOW MUCH TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER WITH YOUR CHILDREN? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5574
QUESTION 776: HOW DO YOU DIVIDE YOUR TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY? DO YOU ALLOW TIME EXCLUSIVELY FOR YOU? DO YOU ALLOW TIME THAT IS JUST EXCLUSIVE TO YOU AND YOUR PARTNER? DO YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ALLOW EXCLUSIVE TIME FOR YOUR CHILDREN? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5575
GROWTH: WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, YOU LEARN TO LIVE FOR YOU BY DEPENDING ON OTHERS. WHEN YOU ARE AN ADULT YOU LEARN TO LIVE FOR YOU BY COOPERATING WITH OTHERS. WHEN YOU ARE ELDERLY, YOU LEARN TO LIVE FOR YOU BY DETACHING FROM OTHERS WHENEVER POSSIBLE. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5566 TO 5570

MY THOUGHT 5566
FRIENDS: THE BEST WAY TO SEEK FRIENDS IS TO BE THE BEST ‘YOU’ THAT YOU CAN BE IN THE NOW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5567
FRIENDS: WHEN YOU FOCUS ON WHO, WHAT, WHERE, WHY, AND HOW YOU ARE, YOU WILL BEGIN TO ATTRACT LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE TO YOU. YOU MUST DECIDE WHICH ARE TRULY WORTHY OF A RELATIONSHIP OR FRIENDSHIP WITH YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5568
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOU HAVE FOUND A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND YOU ARE STILL CARRYING GREAT NEGATIVITY TOWARDS A FORMER RELATIONSHIP, THEN SOMETHING IS NOT COMPLETE IN THE NEW RELATIONSHIP. THE NEGATIVITY OF THE PAST RELATIONSHIP WILL EVENTUALLY CORRODE THE NEW RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5569
QUESTION 773: WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TODAY THAT YOU ARE PROUD OF? WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TODAY THAT YOU ARE NOT PROUD OF? WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO CORRECT THAT? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5570
QUESTION 774: DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SHAME, GUILT, AND EMBARRASSMENT? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5561 TO 5565

MY THOUGHT 5561
VETERANS DAY 039: WE PRAISED THE SERVICEMEN AS THEY GO OFF IN HARMS WAY. HOWEVER, WE TEND TO IGNORE THEM WHEN THEY ARE HOME PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY DAMAGED BECAUSE THEY ARE ISOLATED IN HOSPITALS, INSTITUTIONS OR IN THEIR OWN HOMES AFRAID TO GO OUT INTO THE PUBLIC. THOSE WHO CAN WALK THE STREETS AND INTERACT PUBLICLY RECEIVE YOUR PRAISES. ON VETERANS DAY TAKE THE TIME TO VISIT THOSE WHO CANNOT BE IN PUBLIC. YOUR VISIT CAN MEAN THE WORLD TO THEM AND MAY HAVE A POSITIVE EFFECT ON YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5562
VETERANS DAY 040: REMEMBER THAT THE VETERANS ARE STILL HERE IN MANY ROLES, AND THAT THEY HAVE A LOT TO SHARE WITH YOU IF YOU’RE OPEN TO THEIR WISDOM. REMEMBER THAT TRUE VETERANS WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED COMBAT WILL NEVER GLORIFY IT. IF ANYTHING, THEY WILL REMIND YOU THAT OR IS HELL AND THAT IT SHOULD ONLY BE A TOOL OF LAST RESORT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5563
VETERANS DAY 041: FOR THOSE WHO FEEL THAT WAR OR COMBAT IS A GLORIOUS ADVENTURE, VISIT THE VETERANS HOSPITALS, THE INSTITUTIONS THAT MANY ARE CONFINED IN, AND THOSE HOMELESS IN THE STREETS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5564
VETERANS DAY 042: FOR THOSE WHO WISH TO MAKE A LIFE PARTNER OUT OF A SERVICEMAN, A FIREMAN, PEACE OFFICER, OR A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL, REMEMBER THAT YOU MUST BE PREPARED TO BE ALONE FOR LONG STRETCHES OF TIME, INTIMATE MOMENTS BEING INTERRUPTED BY EMERGENCIES, AND THE POSSIBILITY THAT THEY MAY NOT RETURN FROM THEIR MISSIONS. IF YOU ARE NOT STRONG ENOUGH, IF YOU ARE NEEDY, IF YOU CANNOT STAND ON YOUR OWN, IF YOU CANNOT DEAL WITH LOSSES, LEAVE THESE SOCIAL HEROES FOR PARTNERS WHO ARE STRONG, INDEPENDENT, AND NOT NEEDY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHT 5565
VETERANS DAY 043: VETERANS FROM ALL AROUND THE WORLD. WHETHER THEY ARE ON THE OPPOSITE SIDES OR NOT, ARE IN A BROTHERHOOD THAT IS ONLY UNDERSTOOD BY THEM. MANY AMERICAN VETERANS RETURNED TO OLD BATTLE SITES AND MET THEIR SURVIVING COUNTER PARTS. AT FIRST ANGRY MEMORIES, THEN SHARED MEMORIES, THEN BROTHERHOOD. MANY AMERICAN VIETNAM VETERANS WENT TO RUSSIA TO WORK WITH RUSSIAN AFGHAN VETERANS. JUST AS EVERY FARMER AROUND THE WORLD UNDERSTANDS EACH OTHERS PROBLEMS, SO DO VETERANS UNDERSTAND THE EXTERNAL AND INTERNAL PROBLEMS THAT EVERY VETERAN FACES AROUND THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2013

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