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THOUGHTS 5626 TO 5630

MY THOUGHTS 5626
QUESTION 793: WHERE WILL YOU GO AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE, WHAT WILL YOU DO AFTER THE LOSS OD A LOVED ONE, AND HOW WILL YOU GROW AFTER THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5627
QUESTION 794: WHEN YOU LOSE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE, THERE ARE SEVERAL QUESTIONS YOU MUST ASK YOURSELF: WHY WERE THEY MEANINGFUL TO YOU? WHY DO THOSE LOSSES AFFECT YOU SO MUCH? WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM THOSE INDIVIDUALS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5628
LESSON: YOU CANNOT SAVE SOMEONE FROM THE PAST THAT THEY REFUSED DEAL WITH. YOU WILL JUST BECOME A TEMPORARY PATCH OVER THAT OPEN WOUND WHICH WILL NEVER HEAL UNTIL THEY DEAL WITH IT, SO YOUR LOVE FOR THEM MAY BE A WASTED LOVE. IF YOU WISH TO BE THAT PATCH OVER THAT OPEN WOUND FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, THEN ENJOY DOING SO. BUT DON’T BLAME SOMEBODY ELSE FOR YOUR CHOICE TO DEAL WITH THAT OPEN WOUND FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5629
PARABLES: MILAN MET AN OLD FRIEND ON ONE OF HIS TRAVELS. THE OLD FRIEND ASK HIM WHY HE LOOKS SO HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH LIFE WITH ALL THE DIFFICULTIES THAT HE HAD HAD WITH SOME PARTNERS. MILAN SMILE CONTENTLY AND SAID THAT HE HAS DEALT WITH ALL THOSE ISSUES, HE APPRECIATES THE LESSONS THAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT ME, AND SAID THAT HE WAS A BETTER PERSON BECAUSE OF THEM. HE JUST TRANSFORMED THOSE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS FOR HIS PRESENT AND FUTURE JOURNEYS. HE ALSO STATED THAT HE IS HAPPY THAT HIS FORMER PARTNERS HAVE FOUND NEW PARTNERS TO SHARE THEIR LIVES WITH. HOWEVER, MILAN FELT SORRY FOR THE NEW PARTNER BECAUSE WHEN THINGS GET DIFFICULT, MILAN SEEMS DOMINATE THE CENTER OF HIS FORMER PARTNERS MINDS, NOT THE SO-CALLED TRUE LOVES THAT THEY HAVE FOUND. MILAN IS CONTENT WITH WHOM HE IS, WHAT HE IS, AND HOW HE IS BECAUSE HE LIVES WITH NO EXCEPTIONS. MILAN FEELS SORRY FOR SOME OF HIS EX-PARTNERS WHO HAVE NOT MOVED ON, AND HE FEELS SORRY FOR THEIR NEWFOUND LOVES BECAUSE THEY ARE LIVING IN DECEPTIVE RELATIONSHIPS. HOWEVER, THAT IS THEIR KARMA, NOT HIS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5630
ANGER: REMEMBER THAT SOMEONE’S ANGER TOWARDS SOMEONE MAY NOT BE TRUE ANGER BUT A GREAT DISAPPOINTMENT OF A LOVE THAT HAS BEEN LOST. THERE IS A FINE LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE. WHEN LOVE THAT IS FELT DEEPLY IS REJECTED, MANY WILL FALL INTO THE CATEGORY OF HATE BECAUSE THEIR LOVE WAS REJECTED. MINDFULLY DEAL WITH THAT REJECTION, APPRECIATE THE REJECTION, LEARN FROM THE REJECTION, AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE SO THAT YOU CAN FIND A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS TRULY LOVING, CARING, AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5621 TO 5625

MY THOUGHTS 5621
LESSONS: IF YOU ARE A PERSON WHO ALWAYS GOING TO OTHERS FOR SECURITY, AND YOUR KARMIC LESSON IS TO LEARN TO BE INDEPENDENT. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5622
LESSONS: IF YOU ARE A PERSON WHO ALWAYS FEEL THAT YOU ARE IN A DESPERATE SITUATION, THEN YOUR KARMIC LESSON IS TO WORK WITH ISSUES OF MATURITY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5623
LESSONS: IF YOUR PERSON WHO HAS DEEP INSECURITIES, THEN YOUR KARMIC LESSON IS TO WORK ON YOUR SELF-ESTEEM. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5624
QUESTION 791: IF YOU COULD BE A MUSICAL INSTRUMENT, WHICH INSTRUMENT WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO BE? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5625
QUESTION 792: HOW MUCH MONEY WOULD YOU NEED TO FEEL FULFILLED? HOW MANY FRIENDS WOULD YOU NEED TO FEEL FULFILLED? HOW MUCH POWER WOULD YOU NEED TO FEEL FULFILLED? AND WHY TO EACH QUESTION? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5616 TO 5620

MY THOUGHTS 5616
RELATIONSHIP: THERE COMES A TIME WHEN YOU MUST GIVE YOUR PARTNER A CHOICE TO LIVE WITH YOU IN THE PRESENT OR TO LEAVE YOU AND CONTINUE LIVING IN HIS/HER PAST. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5617
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOU ENTER A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND YOUR PARTNER KEEPS ON TALKING ABOUT A PAST RELATIONSHIP’S HURTS, YOU ARE THE LOSER AND HE/SHE FROM THE PAST IS THE WINNER. WHY? BECAUSE YOUR PARTNER’S FORMER PARTNER IS STILL IN THE CENTER OF HER/HIS MIND, WHILE YOU ARE JUST A BAND-AID OVER THAT WOUND. SOMEDAY THAT BAND-AID WILL FALL OFF AND ALL THE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE GIVEN TO HEAL THIS PERSON WILL HAVE BEEN WASTED BECAUSE THE FORMER PARTNER IS STILL LIVING IN YOUR PRESENT PARTNER’S MIND. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5618
LESSONS: IF YOU CANNOT LET GO OF PAST TRANSGRESSIONS, THEN YOU HAVE NOT DEALT WITH THEM MINDFULLY. IT IS BAD KARMA TO START A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH OLD TRANSGRESSIONS STILL DOMINATING YOUR MIND. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5619
QUESTION 789: WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU DISCOVER THAT YOU NEWFOUND PERFECT LOVE IS STILL IN LOVE WITH HER/HIS PAST PARTNER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5620
QUESTION 790: WHICH ROLE DO YOU PLAY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP: THE ROLE OF A RESPONSIBLE PARTNER, THE ROLE OF A MARTYR, OR THE ROLE OF THE SAVIOR? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5611 TO 5615

MY THOUGHTS 5611
QUESTION 787: IS YOUR INNER CHILD STILL AN ACTIVE PART OF YOUR BEING, OR HAVE YOU SHUT DOWN YOUR INNER CHILD TO COMPLY WITH YOUR PARTNER’S NEEDS OR YOUR SOCIAL NEEDS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5612
QUESTION 788: CAN YOU BE SPONTANEOUS, IMAGINATIVE, PLAYFUL, AND EXPRESSIVE WITH YOUR FEELINGS WITH YOUR PARTNER? CAN YOUR PARTNER BE SPONTANEOUS, IMAGINATIVE, PLAYFUL, AND EXPRESSIVE OF HIS/HER FEELINGS WITH YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5613
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOUR PARTNER IS ALWAYS ANGRY ABOUT A PAST RELATIONSHIP, IT IS IMPORTANT ‘FOOD FOR THOUGHT’ FOR YOU. INSTEAD OF BASKING IN THE LOVE OF YOUR PRESENCE, HE OR SHE IS STILL BASKING IN THE ANGER OF THE PAST. YOU COULD BE JUST A SALVE FOR THE OPEN WOUND THAT SHE/HE WILL NOT LET HEAL. IT IS TIME TO RE-EVALUATE THAT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5614
RELATIONSHIP: MANY LIVE IN RELATIONSHIPS IN WHICH ONE PARTNER, OR BOTH PARTNERS, CONTINUES TO COMPLAIN ABOUT A PAST PARTNER. THE QUESTION THAT YOU SHOULD ASK YOUR PARTNER WHO IS STILL LIVING IN THE PAST, IS WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM OR HER IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO HEAL THE WOUND OF THAT PAST RELATIONSHIP, AND WHY SHE OR HE IS LIVING THIS PRESENT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE AN ESCAPE MECHANISM FROM THE PAST; YOU ARE THE LOVE THAT SAVES HER OR HIM FROM HIS OR HER PAST. MINDFULLY CONTEMPLATION SERIOUSLY NEEDED HERE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5615
RELATIONSHIP: REMEMBER THAT IF YOU ARE BEING USED AS A SALVE TO COVER UP THE PAIN OF THE PAST WOUNDS OF YOUR PRESENT PARTNER, SOMEWHERE IN THE FUTURE THIS RELATIONSHIP WILL FALL APART BECAUSE THE GHOST FROM YOUR PARTNER’S THE PAST IS STILL THE CENTER OF HER/HIS MIND. IF THE GHOST FROM YOUR PARTNER’S PAST FINALLY DISAPPEARS, YOU WILL NO LONGER BE ESSENTIAL TO THAT RELATIONSHIP. THAT RELATIONSHIP WILL END AS SOON AS THE ‘RIGHT PARTNER’ COMES ALONG. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5606 TO 5610

MY THOUGHTS 5606
QUESTION 785: ARE YOUR PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL PATTERN IN SYNC WITH YOUR PARTNERS PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL PATTERNS? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5607
QUESTION 786: HOW MANY OF YOUR LIFE’S PATTERNS ARE IN COMPETITION WITH YOUR PARTNER OR IN COOPERATION WITH YOUR PARTNER PATTERN? ARE THEY WORKING FOR YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5608
SUGGESTION: WE ALL HAVE PATTERNS IN OUR LIVES. IT IS IMPORTANT TO BE AWARE OF WHAT THOSE PATTERNS ARE AND HOW THEY FUNCTION. TAKE TIME TO SIT DOWN AND CONTEMPLATE ALL THE PATTERNS AND THE VARIOUS ASPECTS OF YOUR LIFE. UNDERSTAND HOW, WHY, WHEN, AND WHAT TO DO WITHIN THOSE PATTERNS. ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND THIS YOU CAN MAKE THE CHANGES THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO MAKE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5609
CHOICES: PREFERENCES ARE BETTER THAN EXPECTATIONS. SOMETIMES EXPECTATIONS BECOME DEMANDS. THEY BECOME THE SOURCE OF MOST OF OUR PAIN. LIVE THE MOMENT WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WITH NO EXPECTATIONS. IF THINGS HAPPEN, WONDERFUL. IF NOT, MOVE ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5610
GROWTH: YOUR MENTAL THINKING ON THIS LEVEL IS YOUR PHYSICAL THINKING WHICH HELPS YOU TO SURVIVE ON THIS LEVEL. AS YOU MATURE IN LIFE, YOU BEGIN TO DEVELOP YOUR SPIRITUAL THINKING WHICH IS YOUR CONNECTION TO NATURE, TO ALL LIFE FORMS, AND TO THE COSMOS. YOUR MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL THINKING MAY BE IN CONFLICT WITH EACH OTHER THROUGH PARTS OF YOUR LIFE. WHEN YOU CAN BALANCE THEM, YOU ARE ON A SPIRITUAL PATH. AS YOU MATURE, ONE OR THE OTHER MAY DOMINATE YOUR LIFE FOR PERIODS OF TIME WHICH WILL DETERMINE YOUR DEPTH OF SPIRITUALITY. NEITHER CHOICE IS NEGATIVE NOR POSITIVE. IT IS JUST WHERE YOU ARE. WHEN YOUR MENTAL AND SPIRITUAL THINKING BECOME ONE, YOU ARE ON AN ENLIGHTENED PATH. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5601 TO 5605

MY THOUGHTS 5601
SUGGESTION: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WITH SEPARATE SHEETS OF PAPER WRITE DOWN FIVE ADJECTIVES THAT DESCRIBE YOUR PARTNER AND FIVE ADJECTIVES THAT DESCRIBE YOU. COMPARE AND DISCUSS YOUR ADJECTIVE DESCRIPTIONS OF YOUR CELL AND OF EACH OTHER. WHEN YOU HAVE COMPLETED THAT CAN DO THE SAME THING WITH NO THAT’S A SCRAPE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER. HAVE TO YOU HAVE TO DISCUSS THOSE POINTS THEN WRITE DOWN FIVE HERBS THAT DESCRIBE YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER. THESE EXERCISES CAN BE DONE OVER A PERIOD OF TIME AND BE INTERESTING CONVERSATIONAL DISCUSSION BETWEEN PARTNERS TO HELP ENHANCE THEIR RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5602
SUGGESTION: TO START YOURSELF DISCOVERY MAKE A LIST OF THREE ITEMS THAT SHOWS HOW MUCH OF YOUR FATHER IS YOU AND HOW MUCH OF YOUR MOTHER IS YOU. ALSO MAKE A LIST OF THREE ITEMS THAT IS NEITHER YOUR FATHER NOR YOUR MOTHER BUT YOU. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5603
QUESTION 783? IF YOU ARE MARRIED WITH YOU RATHER BE SINGLE? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5604
QUESTION 784? IF YOU ARE SINGLE, WOULD YOU RATHER BE MARRIED? WHY? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5605
CHILDREN: SOME PEOPLE SAY THE CHILDREN DO NOT COME WITH INSTRUCTION BOOKS. HOWEVER, THERE IS AN INSTRUCTION BOOK THAT MOST PEOPLE IGNORE. THAT INSTRUCTION BOOK INCLUDES YOUR EXTENDED FAMILY AND ALL THE EXPERIENCES THAT THEY HAVE HAD RAISING CHILDREN. YOU ARE GIVEN CHOICES OF DIFFERENT METHODS TO USE AND VISUAL EVIDENCE OF THE RESULTS. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5596 TO 5600

MY THOUGHTS 5596
FAMILY: PARENTS SHOULD FIND THEIR JOY WITHIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP. THAT JOY WILL RADIATE OUT TO THEIR CHILDREN AND TO OTHER LOVED ONES. REMEMBER THAT AS PARENTS YOU ARE THE ROLE MODELS ON HOW TO LIVE ONE’S LIFE. IF YOU FIND JOY WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR CHILDREN WILL FIND JOY WITHIN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS. IF YOU NEED TO GO OUTSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP TO FIND JOY WITH OTHER PEOPLE AND OTHER THINGS, YOUR CHILDREN WILL MIMIC YOUR ACTIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5597
FAMILY: WHEN CHILDREN HAVE A TRULY LOVING ENVIRONMENT WITHIN THEIR FAMILY, THEY DON’T NEED DISTRACTIVE MATERIAL THING IS TO BE HAPPY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5598
JOY: ONE WAY TO SAVE MONEY IN THESE DIRE ECONOMIC TIMES IS TO FIND JOY WITHIN EACH OTHER, WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP, AND WITHIN THE FAMILY UNITY. THEN THERE WILL BE NO NEED FOR EXTERNAL EXPENSIVE ITEMS TO BRING YOU MOMENTS OF JOY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5599
QUESTION 781: CAN YOU BE CHILD LIKE AROUND YOUR PARTNER AND STILL BE ACCEPTED BY YOUR PARTNER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5600
QUESTION 782: ARE YOU AFRAID TO SHOW LOVE? IF SO, WHY? EmilKoval©2013

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