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THOUGHTS 7931 TO 7935

MY THOUGHT 7931
QUESTION 1993: CAN YOU GET BEYOND THE MATING DANCE TO UNDERSTAND MORE CLEARLY THE PERSON THAT YOU WISH TO SHARE YOUR FUTURE WITH? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7932
QUESTION 1994: CAN YOU SAY TO YOUR POTENTIAL OR PERMANENT PARTNER, “HERE IS WHERE I AM, AND HERE IS WHERE YOU ARE; WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE?” EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7933
QUESTION 1995: CAN YOU BE VULNERABLE WITH YOUR PARTNER, OR DO YOU HAVE TO KEEP YOUR GUARD UP EVEN IN YOUR SO-CALLED HAVEN CALLED ‘HOME’? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7934
REMEMBER THAT: REMEMBER THAT HOW YOU SEE OTHERS IS A REFLECTION OF YOU. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7935
OPPORTUNITIES: IF YOU HAVE OPENED THE DOOR TO OPPORTUNITIES FOR ANYONE, AND SHE/HE DOES NOT WALK THROUGH THAT DOOR; IT IS HIS/HER FAILURE, NOT YOURS. IT IS NOT A FAILURE ON YOUR PART; IT IS FAILURE ON THEIR PART. JUST MOVE ON WISHING THEM LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING WHILE CONTINUING TO OPEN DOORS OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR OTHERS TO WALK THROUGH. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7926 TO 7930

MY THOUGHT 7926
QUESTION 1990: HAS YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECOME A STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN, HAS YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECOME A GATEWAY TO STAGNATION, OR HAS YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECOME AN ESCALATOR TO HELL? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7927
QUESTION 1991: DO YOU LIVE FULLY IN EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP, OR DO YOU FOCUS ON OTHER PRIORITIES NOW THAT YOU HAVE CONTRACTED RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7928
QUESTION 1992: DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ‘DO LIKE’ AND DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ‘DO NOT LIKE’ IN A RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU BLINDED BY YOUR EMOTIONAL NEEDS? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7929
LOVE: EVEN IN THE WORST SITUATIONS, LOVE CAN/MAY/WILL GROW. NATURE DEMONSTRATES THAT THROUGH THE GROWTH AND THE BLOSSOMING OF THE LOTUS FLOWER IN THE MURKIEST OF WATERS. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7930
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE ‘AUTHENTIC’ IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, THERE IS NO NEED FOR ATTACHMENTS. LIVING AUTHENTICALLY IN THE NOW OF THE RELATIONSHIP AUTOMATICALLY NOURISHES THAT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7921 TO 7925

MY THOUGHT 7921
QUESTION 1987: DO THE CONFLICTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP CAUSE GREATER UNDERSTANDING OR GREATER RESENTMENTS? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7922
QUESTION 1988: DOES YOUR PARTNER INCREASE YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH, OR DOES YOUR PARTNER DECREASE/LIMIT YOUR PERSONAL GROWTH? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7923
QUESTION 1989: IF YOU ARE HAVING ISSUES WITH YOUR LOVED-ONES, ARE YOU WILLING TO DISCUSS THOSE ISSUES WITH THEM, OR ARE YOU WILLING TO CONFRONT THEM WITH THOSE ISSUES? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7924
LOVE: IF YOU THINK THAT YOU HAD FOUND THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE, AND THEN THAT DESIRED LOVE REJECTED YOU; REMEMBER THAT WAS JUST A TUNE-UP TO GET YOU READY FOR A REAL TRUE LOVE. THAT IS, IF YOU HAD LEARNED THE LESSONS OF REJECTION AS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR PERSONAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7925
LOVE: REMEMBER THAT LOVE DOES NOT GROW IN STAGNATION; IT GROWS THROUGH LOVING, CARING, AND UNDERSTANDING ACTIONS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP.
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THOUGHTS 7916 TO 7920

MY THOUGHT 7916
QUESTION 1984: ARE YOU EMPOWERING YOUR PARTNER, OR ARE YOU DISEMPOWERING YOUR PARTNER? IF THE LATTER IS TRUE, WHY? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7917
QUESTION 1985: DID YOU CONSCIOUSLY OR EMOTIONALLY SEPARATE FROM YOUR PARTNER? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7918
QUESTION 1986: HAS YOUR SUPPORT FOR YOUR PARTNER INCREASED OR DECREASED AFTER YOU GOT MARRIAGE? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7919
LOVE: KEEPING A LOVE IS HARDER THAN FINDING LOVE. THEREFORE, MINDFULLY AND CAREFULLY SEEK LOVE. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7920
LOVE: FALLING IN LOVE AND FALLING OUT OF LOVE CAN BE QUICK AND EASY; HOWEVER, IT IS THE SEPARATION OR REJECTION THAT IS PAINFUL AND DIFFICULT. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7911 TO 7915

MY THOUGHT 7911
QUESTION 1981: ANGER, RESENTMENT, CONTEMPT, AND THE NEED FOR RETRIBUTION ARE TOXINS THAT ARE SELF INJECTED. IF YOU INSIST ON KEEPING THOSE TOXIC THOUGHTS, HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE COMMITTING A SLOW MOTION SUICIDE? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7912
QUESTION 1982: WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO FOREGO IN ORDER TO STAY IN ‘YOUR TRUTH’? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7913
QUESTION 1983: CAN YOU SEE THE TURMOIL IN THE PERSON WHO IS GIVING YOU DESTRUCTIVE CRITICISM? CAN YOU ACCEPT THAT INSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR THAT PERSONS INTERNAL CONFLICTS? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7914
CHANGE: REMEMBER THAT YOU CANNOT TRULY CHANGE YOUR PARTNER. YOU CAN ONLY TRULY CHANGE YOURSELF! EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7915
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN A RELATIONSHIP ENDS THROUGH DEATH OR SEPARATION, A PERIOD OF TIME IS NEEDED FOR A RE-EVALUATION OF THAT RELATIONSHIP AND THE EVALUATION OF THE LESSONS LEARNED FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP. ONLY THEN, WILL YOU BE READY FOR ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7906 TO 7910

MY THOUGHT 7906
QUESTION 1978: HOW WELL DO YOU APPRECIATE CRITICISM? CAN YOU DISTINGUISH BETWEEN CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM AND DESCRIPTIVE CRITICISM? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7907
QUESTION 1979: HOW DO YOU PERSONALLY REACT TO CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7908
QUESTION 1980: HOW DO YOU PERSONALLY REACT TO DESTRUCTIVE CRITICISM? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7909
RELATIONSHIPS: NEVER REGRET ANY FORMER RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE THEY WERE COSMIC LEARNING TOOLS TO BRING YOU TO WHERE YOU ARE TODAY. IF YOU’RE NOT HAPPY WITH WHO YOU ARE TODAY, THEN IT IS TIME FOR AN INWARD JOURNEY TO DISCOVER THE WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY OF YOU IN THE NOW. WHEN YOU CAN EMERGE FROM THAT INWARD JOURNEY WITHOUT ANY RESENTMENTS AND WITH APPRECIATION FOR THE LESSONS THAT YOU HAD LEARNED FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS, YOU WILL BE ON A POSITIVE KARMIC PATH. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7910
RELATIONSHIPS: NO RELATIONSHIP FAILS ON A SPIRITUAL LEVEL. THE SO-CALLED ‘FAILED RELATIONSHIPS’ HAVE PLAYED OUT THEIR KARMIC INTENTIONS BY PRESENTING YOU WITH LESSONS FOR YOUR FUTURE AND FURTHER GROWTH. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7901 TO 7905

MY THOUGHT 7901
QUESTION 1975: WHAT ARE YOUR FEELINGS, IN GENERAL, AROUND YOUR DREAMS? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7902
QUESTION 1976: WHAT ARE YOUR FIRST FEELINGS AROUND YOUR DREAM UPON AWAKENING? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7903
QUESTION 1977: WHAT THEME, OBJECTS, AND PEOPLE DO YOU RECOGNIZE IN YOUR DREAMS? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7904
REACTIONS: REMEMBER THAT IF SOMEONE REACTS NEGATIVELY TO YOUR MINDFUL WORDS AND MINDFUL ACTIONS, IT IS HIS/HER PROBLEM, NOT YOURS. BE MINDFUL THAT HER/HIS REACTIONS ARE HIS/HER OWN PROBLEM. DO NOT TAKE ON HER/HIS NEGATIVITY!!!! EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7905
OBSTACLES: WHEN YOU FACE OBSTACLES ON YOUR PATH, YOU CAN/WILL/MAY REACT NEGATIVELY TOWARDS THOSE OBSTACLES, OR YOU CAN/MAY SEE THEM AS OPPORTUNITIES FOR GROWTH. THE CHOSE IS YOURS; THEREFORE, MINDFULLY CHOOSE WELL. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7896 TO 7900

MY THOUGHT 7896
QUESTION 1973: DO YOU STILL JUDGE OTHERS THROUGH YOUR PERCEPTIONS, OR DO YOU TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE PICTURE? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7897
QUESTION 1974: DO YOU REALIZE THAT YOUR ANTAGONIST IS SOMEONE WHO PUSHES YOUR BUTTONS TO HELP YOU LEARN MORE ABOUT WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU ARE YOU? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7898
STUPIDITY: IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE AND ATTEMPT TO CORRECT THAT MISTAKE, THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU STUPID. EVEN THOUGH SOME MAY CALL YOU ’STUPID’, IT IS ONLY A REFLECTION OF THEIR OWN ‘STUPIDITY’. REMEMBER THAT ‘STUPIDITY’ IS ONLY VALID WHEN SOMEONE REPEATS THE SAME MISTAKE OVER AND OVER AGAIN. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7899
CHOICES: THERE ARE ALWAYS CHOICES IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR MOST IMPORTANT CHOICES ARE MADE BY HOW YOU REACT TO NEGATIVE SITUATIONS. YOU CAN REACT EXPLOSIVELY, YOU CAN REACT WITH A TEMPERED RESPONSE, OR YOU CAN OBSERVE AND LEARN. YOUR REACTIONS ARE ALWAYS ‘YOUR CHOICES’; THEREFORE, CHOOSE WELL. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7800
ANGER: YOUR ANGRY RESPONSES MAY GIVE YOU MOMENTARY GRATIFICATIONS AND SATISFACTION; HOWEVER, THEY CAN ALSO GIVE YOU LONG TERM REGRET AND LONG TERM NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES. EmilKoval©2015

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THOUGHTS 7891 TO 7895

MY THOUGHT 7891
QUESTION 1970: EVEN THOUGH YOU SEND LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING TO OTHERS, ARE YOU ALSO SENDING LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING TO YOURSELF? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7892
QUESTION 1971: ARE YOU A WEAK WILLED PERSON, OR ARE YOU A STRONG WILLED PERSON? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7893
QUESTION 1972: ARE YOU WILLING TO LET OTHERS FOLLOW THEIRS, OR DO OTHERS HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR PATH? IF SO, WHY DO YOU WISH TO IMPOSE ‘YOUR TRUTH’ ON OTHERS WHO HAVE THEIR OWN TRUTHS TO FOLLOW?
EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7894
PARABLES: MILAN MET A GROUP OF MEDITATORS WHO WERE SEEKING INNER CONTENTMENT. HE AGREED THAT MEDITATION CAN LEAD TO MOMENTS OF CONTENTMENT. MILAN ALSO SUGGESTED THAT LONG TERM CONTENTMENT IS FOUND BY SEEING THE WORLD FOR WHAT IT IS THROUGH ITS DUALITIES. ONCE YOU CAN COMPREHEND THE WHO, WHAT, HOW, AND WHY YOU ARE YOU; YOU CAN FACE THOSE DUALITIES AS GREAT LEARNING TOOLS TO HELP YOU GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AT EVERY MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. WHEN YOU CAN ACCEPT THE LESSONS PRESENTED BY THOSE CHALLENGES AS POSITIVE OPPORTUNITIES TO YOUR PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT, YOU CAN FEEL CONTENTMENT IN THOSE CHALLENGES. KNOWING AND UNDERSTANDING THAT AFTER EVERY STORM, THE SUN WILL SHINE, AND THAT DURING THE CALMS IN THE OCEAN OF LIFE, THE STORMS WILL ARISE; YOU WILL BE CONTENT AND PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE ROLLER COASTER RIDES DURING YOUR STAY HERE. WHEN YOU CAN ACCEPT THOSE LESSONS AND MEET THOSE CHALLENGES MINDFULLY, YOU WILL FEEL TRUE LONG LASTING CONTENTMENT. GOOD ROLE-MODELS TO MIMIC ARE MOTHER TERESA, THE DALI LAMA, RUMI, THE CHRIST, THE BABAS, AND MANY OTHERS. THEIR LIVES WERE CONTENT MEDITATIVE LIVES FILLED WITH THE DUALITIES OF LIFE. FOR NOW, MEDITATE TO FIND YOUR MOMENTARY INNER CONTENTMENT. DO THIS UNTIL YOU CAN EXPAND THAT INNER CONTENTMENT TO YOUR WHOLE BEING AND YOUR LIFE’S PATH. WHEN YOU CAN SEE THE COSMOS IN EVERY YIN AND YANG SITUATION, YOU WILL FIND A TRUE CONTENTMENT. MILAN SMILED AND BOWED AS HE CONTINUED ON HIS JOURNEY. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7895
SUGGESTION: DO NOT SUBMIT TO THE DELUSIONS OF OTHERS ABOUT YOU. USE THOSE THEIR DELUSIONS OF YOU TO EVALUATE HOW YOU PROJECT YOURSELF TO OTHERS. MAKE ADJUSTMENTS OR CHANGES OF HOW YOU PROJECT YOURSELF TO OTHERS. HOWEVER, ALWAYS LIVE ‘YOUR TRUTH’. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7886 TO 7890

MY THOUGHT 7886
QUESTION 1967: WHAT DISTRACTIONS PREVENT YOU FROM LOVING YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR LOVED ONES COMPLETELY? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7887
QUESTION 1968: WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO TO GET ATTENTION? WHAT ARE YOU NOT WILLING TO DO TO GET ATTENTION? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7888
QUESTION 1969: HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO TO GET ATTENTION? WHY? EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7889
LOVE: ALWAYS TREAT THE WORD ‘LOVE’ AS A VERB, NOT A NOUN. LOVE IS NOT A THING; LOVE CAN ONLY BE EXPRESSED THROUGH ACTIONS. EmilKoval©2015

MY THOUGHT 7890
PARABLE: ONE DAY, MILAN CAME ACROSS A YOUNG MASTER WHO HAD MANY MANY STUDENTS. THAT YOUNG MASTER WAS SO PROUD OF THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE THAT WILLING TO FOLLOW HIM. THAT YOUNG MASTER TURN TO MILAN AND ASKED: “IF YOU ARE SUCH A WISE MAN, WHERE ARE ALL YOUR FOLLOWERS?” MILAN REPLIED, “AFTER I HAVE TAUGHT THEM WHAT I KNOW, I ASKED THEM TO GO AND PRACTICE WHAT THEY HAVE LEARNED. THEY NO LONGER NEED TO FOLLOW ME. THEY NEED TO LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES SO THAT THEY CAN GROW BEYOND ME AND BEYOND THEMSELVES. THEREFORE, I TRAVEL THE WORLD TO LEARN, UNDERSTAND, TO SERVE, AND TO COUNSEL. I CHOSE NOT TO BE AN ANCHOR THAT LIMITS THEIR GROWTH. I PREFER THAT THEY TAKE MY TEACHINGS AS A GUIDE FOR THEM TO GROW BEYOND WHERE THEY ARE AT EVERY MOMENT IN THEIR LIVES. THUS, THOSE WHO HAVE COME TO ME TO UNDERSTAND MY UNDERSTANDING OF THE WORLD, ARE FREE TO GROW BEYOND WHERE THEY ARE AT EVERY MOMENT OF THEIR LIVES. THOSE MASTERS WHO BOAST OF THE NUMBER OF FOLLOWERS THAT THEY HAVE ARE LIKE ACTORS MAINTAINING A CAPTIVE AUDIENCE. THE STUDENTS BECOME IMPRISONED BY THE TEACHER; AS THE TEACHER BECOMES IMPRISONED BY THE STUDENTS: THEREFORE, BOTH HAVE STUNTED THEIR GROWTH PROGRESS BY NOT EXPERIENCING THE DUALITIES OF THIS WORLD. BOTH TEACHERS AND STUDENTS HIDE BEHIND EACH OTHER AVOIDING OR TRYING TO ESCAPE THE REALITIES OF THE WORLD AROUND THEM. EVERY TEACHER/MASTER SHOULD BECOME A SHARER OF THEIR WISDOM; NOT A TEACHER OF THEIR WISDOM. A SHARER OF WISDOM DOES NOT LIMIT HIM/HERSELF NOR THOSE THAT HE/SHE SHARES HER/HIS WISDOM WITH. I AM FREE TO CONTINUE MY DHARMIC PATH. HOW FREE ARE YOU, A SO-CALLED MASTER, AND YOUR STUDENTS, SO-CALLED SEEKERS, TO FOLLOW YOUR OWN DHARMIC PATHS.” MILAN SMILED AS HE TURNED TO CONTINUE ON HIS SOLO JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE. EmilKoval©2015

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