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QUESTION 5240: IF YOUR PARTNER IS WRONG ABOUT SOMETHING, WOULD YOU PREFER TO CORRECT YOUR PARTNER PUBLICLY OR PRIVATELY? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5241: ARE YOU AWARE THAT CORRECTING YOUR PARTNER PUBLICLY CAN CREATE CRACKS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT CAN GRADUALLY, IF NOT IMMEDIATELY, MANIFEST PROBLEMS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5242: HAVE YOU ALLOWED YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER TO STAGNATE OR ARE YOU WORKING TO KEEP IT AN ACTIVE HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2018

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REFLEXIONS 014: SINCE 1960, I HAD STUDIED AT FOUR INSTITUTIONS OF HIGHER LEARNING IN CALIFORNIA, AS WELL AS, AT THE TWO TOP PRIVATE UNIVERSITIES IN JAPAN. MY FIRST WIFE OF TWENTY-TWO YEARS WAS JAPANESE. TWELVE YEARS INTO THAT BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP, RELIGIOUS FANATICISM STARTED THE PROCESS OF DESTROYING THAT RELATIONSHIP. WE REMAINED FRIENDS UNTIL SHE REJOINED THE COSMOS IN 2010. JAPAN ENTERED MY LIFE AT A CRUCIAL STAGE. I AM GRATEFUL FOR THAT. I WILL ALWAYS RESPECT ITS POSITIVES AND ITS NEGATIVES. THAT IS, THE YIN AND YANG OF JAPAN WHICH MAKES IT UNIQUE. THIS APPLIES TO ALL CULTURES AND NATIONS. EmilKoval©2018

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REFLECTIONS 015: A GREAT TEACHER ONCE SAID TO THOSE WHO SOUGHT HIS ADVICE. I CAN GIVE YOU SUGGESTIONS AS TO HOW I HANDLE MY OWN PROBLEMS; HOWEVER, ONLY YOU CAN GO INWARD AND DISCOVERED THE SOLUTIONS TO YOUR OWN PROBLEMS. WHEN YOU DEPEND ON OTHERS TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS, THEY BECOME YOUR CONTROLLERS. WHEN YOU SEEK THE ADVICE OF OTHERS, AND THEN, GO INWARD TO SOLVE ‘YOUR PROBLEMS’, YOU BECOME THE CONTROLLER OF ‘YOUR LIFE’. EmilKoval©2018

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