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MY THOUGHT 13741
QUESTION 5180: ARE YOU WILLING TO LEARN AND UNDERSTAND FROM YOUR PERSONAL NEGATIVES?EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 13742
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU FEEL THE NEED TO CONTROL THE OTHER PERSON, YOU ARE NOT IN A TRUE RELATIONSHIP. THE NEED TO CONTROL MEANS YOU TO BECOME A PRISONER OF THAT NEED AND YOUR SO CALLED PARTNER BECOMES A PRISONER OF YOUR CONTROL. NEITHER IS FREE TO TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER. BOTH WILL BE REACTING OUT OF FEAR NOT LOVE. BOTH SHOULD GO INWARD AND UNDERSTAND WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP THEY REALLY WANT WIYH ANOTHER PERSON. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 13743
FAITH: THE PROCESS SEEMS TO BE THE SAME THROUGHOUT HISTORY. A SPIRITUAL LEADER COMES AND PRESENTS PURE SIMPLE THOUGHTS FOR PEOPLE TO FOLLOW. WHEN THE SPIRITUAL LEADER RETURNS TO THE COSMOS, MANY FOLLOWERS BEGAN THEIR PERSONAL INTERPRETATIONS OF THE WORDS OF THE SPIRITUAL LEADER. MANY FOLLOWERS ALSO DO NOT WANT TO MAKE INTERPRETATIONS AND BEGIN TO DEPEND ON OTHERS TO DEFINE THE TEACHINGS OF THE SPIRITUAL LEADER. THEREFORE, PEOPLE SEEKING LEADERSHIP ROLES BEGIN TO ORGANIZE THE TEACHINGS INTO CODES AND SET UP A SYSTEM OF RITUALS THAT ARE CONTROLLED BY LEADERSHIP. TO PROTECT THEIR REINTERPRETATIONS OF THOSE THOUGHTS, THEY CREATE DOGMA AND CREATE CONFLICTS WITH OTHER SIMILAR THINKERS, OTHER CULTURES, AND OTHER PHILOSOPHY. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 13744
REFLECTIONS 020: WHEN I WAS AROUND NINE YEARS OLD, MY FATHER MOVED TO A COUNTRY TOWN. I WAS OF A DIFFERENT FAITH AND A CITY BOY. I HAD TO PHYSICALLY FIGHT EVERY DAY FOR ALMOST 3 YEARS. A GUY IN A BAR SAW ME FACE A LINE OF KIDS TO FIGHT. HE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID, “HEY KID, ANY FOOL CAN START A FIGHT, BUT IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO WALK AWAY.” I WALKED AWAY AND AFTER A WHILE, BECAUSE I DID NOT HEEDS THEIR TAUNTS, THE CHALLENGES DISAPPEARED. ONE DAY ONE OF THEM GOT THE WIND KNOCKED OUT OF HIM AND COULDN’T BREATHE. NO ONE KNEW WHAT TO DO. A VOICE TOLD ME WHAT TO DO. I STEPPED IN AND LOOSENED HIS BELT AND TOOK STEPS TO GET HIM BREATHING AGAIN. THEY WERE ALL AMAZED AND ALL NEGATIVITY STOPPED. WHEN I WAS TEACHER, THOSE WHO WERE JEALOUS OF MY PROGRESS CHANGED AFTER I SHOWED THEM TECHNIQUE THAT MAY WORK FOR THEM. FOCUS ON WHO YOU ARE; NOT ON WHAT OTHERS PERCEIVE YOU ARE. THEIR PERCEPTION OF YOU ARE FOR YOU TO REFLECT ON, NOT NECESSARILY ACCEPT THEIR PERCEPTION OF YOU. YOU MUST LIVE ‘YOUR’ LIFE; NOT THEIRS. SORRY FOR THE RAMBLING. EmilKoval©2018

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REFLECTION 021: I DO KNOW OF ONE PERSON WHOSE PAIN IS MORE IMPORTANT TO HER THAN A HARMONIOUS LIFE WITH OTHERS. IT HAS COST HER TWO MARRIAGES, OTHER LOST RELATIONSHIPS, AND HAS CAUSED CONFLICT IN HER CHILDREN. THIS IS HER LEARNING PROCESS. I WILL ALWAYS SEND HER LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING; HOWEVER, I WILL ALWAYS MAINTAIN A HARMONIOUS DISTANCE. HER PAIN, WHICH BEGAN WHEN SHE WAS A CHILD, STILL RULES HER LIFE. EmilKoval©2018

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