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MY THOUGHT 14011
QUESTION 5311: FATHERS DAY: IF YOU ARE STILL ANGRY AT YOUR FATHER OR MOTHER, HAS YOUR ANGER HELPED YOU OR HINDERED YOU? IF SO, CAN YOU GET PAST YOUR ANGRY SO THAT THOSE IN THE PRESENT CAN HAVE YOUR FULL ATTENTION? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14012
QUESTION 5312: FATHERS DAY: WAS YOUR FATHER TRULY PLEASED TODAY, DID HE SAY HE WAS PLEASED TO MAKE YOU HAPPY? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14013
FATHERS DAY: EVERY FATHER SHOULD TEACH AND MENTOR HIS CHILD/CHILDREN TO BE SUFFICIENTLY INDEPENDENT SO THAT THEY CAN STAND ON THEIR OWN SO THAT THE FATHER CAN BE CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO LEAVE HIS BODY PEACEFULLY WHEN THE TIME COMES TO RETURN HOME. EmilKoval©2018

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FATHERS DAY: FATHERS, AS WELL AS MOTHERS, SHOULD ALLOW THEIR ADULT CHILDREN TO LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES. IF YOU AS A FATHER HAS TAUGHT THEM WELL, THIS SHOULD BE EASY TO DO. THEY WILL LIVE THEIR LIVES ACCORDING TO THEIR NEEDS WITH THE LESSONS YOU, AS A FATHER, HAVE TAUGHT THEM. WHEN YOU DO THIS AND LIVE YOUR LIVES AS HAPPY LIBERATED PARENTS, YOU WILL BECOME THE ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR CHILDREN ON HOW TO LIVE IN THEIR LATER YEARS. YOU WILL ALSO BECOME THEIR SPIRITUAL OASIS TO TURN TO WHEN THEIR SPIRITUAL THIRST NEEDS TO BE QUENCHED OR WHEN THEY BEGIN TO LOSE THEIR WAY IN THE JUNGLE OF MODERN LIFE. YOU CAN BE THEIR TOUCHSTONE OF SPIRITUAL AND MORAL SECURITY. YOU AND THEY WILL GROW TOGETHER IN A SPECIAL WAY THAT CAN NEVER BE EXPRESSED IN WORDS. THIS IS MUCH MORE REWARDING THAN TRYING TO CONTROL EVERY ASPECT OF THEIR LIVES. EmilKoval©2018

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FATHERS DAY CONTEMPLATION: ALTHOUGH FATHERS NEVER FORGET THEIR CHILDREN, SOME CHILDREN TEND TO FORGET THEIR FATHERS. IT SEEMS THAT BIRTHDAYS AND FATHER’S DAYS HAVE BECOME DAYS OF JUST A ‘FREE MEAL’ FOR SOME FATHERS AND ‘THE PRESENCE’ OF THEIR CHILDREN FOR TWO OR THREE HOURS. THEY START OUT WITH THE TRADITIONAL ‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY’ OR ‘HAPPY FATHERS DAY’ WHICH IS FOLLOWED BY ‘HOW ARE YOU DOING?’. THEN THE KIDS FOCUS ON EACH OTHER AND TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES TO EACH OTHER AS THOSE FATHERS QUIETLY MUNCH ON THEIR ‘FREE MEALS’. NOBODY SEEMS TO BE INTERESTED IN WHAT THOSE FATHERS ARE FEELING, HOW THOSE FATHERS ARE FEELING, AND WHY THOSE FATHERS FEEL THE WAY THEY DO! SO AS ONE OF THOSE FATHERS, IN THE FUTURE, I WILL CANCEL ALL BIRTHDAYS AND FATHER’S DAYS CONCERNING MYSELF. A LOT OF THIS IS A RESULT OF WORKING FIFTEEN-HOUR-DAYS FOR THIRTY-SEVEN YEARS IN ORDER TO SUPPORT MY BIOLOGICAL FAMILY AND MY STEP-FAMILY. IT IS INTERESTING THAT WHEN I TRIED TO EXPLAIN MY SITUATION, EVERYONE WANTS TO AVOID MY HEART FELT FEELINGS. AFTER A TWO-HOUR LUNCH OR A THREE-HOUR DINNER, THEY ALWAYS SEEM TO HAVE SOMEPLACE ELSE TO GO. ADULT CHILDREN HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR OWN LIVES AND THEIR OWN DECISIONS. THERE COMES A TIME WHEN PARENTS HAVE TO LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES AND BE FAR ENOUGH AWAY TO LET THEIR CHILDREN LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES, WHILE BEING CLOSE ENOUGH TO BE OF HELP “IF THOSE PARENTS’ WISDOM IS NEEDED”. EmilKoval©2018

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