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QUESTION 5433: DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT TELLING YOUR PARTNER OF YOUR BETRAYALS IS TRULY LOVING HER/HIM? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5434: DO YOU BELIEVE BECOMING A BETTER PARTNER IN ANY RELATIONSHIP IT’S MUCH BETTER THAN SHARING YOUR ‘PERSONAL GUILT’ OF YOUR BETRAYALS OF THAT RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5435: ARE YOU COGNIZANT OF THE FACT THAT ‘YOUR GUILT’ IS YOUR GUILT; NOT YOUR PARTNER’S GUILT? WHY BURDEN YOUR PARTNER WITH YOUR GUILT? WHY NOT BECOME A MORE CARING AND LOVING PARTNER? EmilKoval©2018

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SUGGESTION: RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU HAVE VIOLATED A TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER, IS IT NOT BETTER TO BECOME A BETTER PARTNER IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN TO CONFESS ‘YOUR WRONGDOING’. IF YOU CONFESS YOUR VIOLATION YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO YOUR PARTNER, YOU MAY CREATE A WOUND THAT MAY TAKE A VERY LONG TIME TO HEAL AND DESTROYED THE TRUST IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2018

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RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU HAVE VIOLATED A RECENT RELATIONSHIP, YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH YOUR GUILT PRIVATELY. SHARING YOUR GUILT WITH YOUR PARTNER WILL ONLY SPREAD YOUR PAIN TO THAT PARTNER AND MAY CAUSE MORE DAMAGE THAN YOU REALIZE. CORRECT THE FLAWS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BECOME A MINDFULLY CARING AND LOVING PARTNER, AND KEEP YOUR GUILT TO YOURSELF. YOUR GUILT IS ‘YOUR PUNISHMENT’; NOT YOUR PARTNER’S PUNISHMENT. THAT IS THE WAY TO TRULY LOVE THE PERSON THAT YOU HAVE BETRAYED IN SOME WAY. EmilKoval©2018

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