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QUESTION 5433: DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT TELLING YOUR PARTNER OF YOUR BETRAYALS IS TRULY LOVING HER/HIM? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5434: DO YOU BELIEVE BECOMING A BETTER PARTNER IN ANY RELATIONSHIP IT’S MUCH BETTER THAN SHARING YOUR ‘PERSONAL GUILT’ OF YOUR BETRAYALS OF THAT RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5435: ARE YOU COGNIZANT OF THE FACT THAT ‘YOUR GUILT’ IS YOUR GUILT; NOT YOUR PARTNER’S GUILT? WHY BURDEN YOUR PARTNER WITH YOUR GUILT? WHY NOT BECOME A MORE CARING AND LOVING PARTNER? EmilKoval©2018

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SUGGESTION: RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU HAVE VIOLATED A TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER, IS IT NOT BETTER TO BECOME A BETTER PARTNER IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN TO CONFESS ‘YOUR WRONGDOING’. IF YOU CONFESS YOUR VIOLATION YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO YOUR PARTNER, YOU MAY CREATE A WOUND THAT MAY TAKE A VERY LONG TIME TO HEAL AND DESTROYED THE TRUST IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2018

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RELATIONSHIP: IF YOU HAVE VIOLATED A RECENT RELATIONSHIP, YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH YOUR GUILT PRIVATELY. SHARING YOUR GUILT WITH YOUR PARTNER WILL ONLY SPREAD YOUR PAIN TO THAT PARTNER AND MAY CAUSE MORE DAMAGE THAN YOU REALIZE. CORRECT THE FLAWS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BECOME A MINDFULLY CARING AND LOVING PARTNER, AND KEEP YOUR GUILT TO YOURSELF. YOUR GUILT IS ‘YOUR PUNISHMENT’; NOT YOUR PARTNER’S PUNISHMENT. THAT IS THE WAY TO TRULY LOVE THE PERSON THAT YOU HAVE BETRAYED IN SOME WAY. EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5430: EVERYONE HAS HEARD THE EXPRESSION ‘FORGIVE AND FORGET’. FORGIVING IS EASY; HOWEVER, DO YOU REALLY BELIEVED THAT YOU CAN COMPLETELY FORGET A TRANSGRESSION AGAINST YOU? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5431: ARE YOU WILLING TO TURN THOSE TRANSGRESSIONS AGAINST YOU INTO POSITIVE LEARNING TOOLS TO BE USED ON YOU LIFE’S PATH? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5432: ARE YOU AWARE THAT FRIENDSHIPS COME EASILY AND THAT TRUST SHOULD TAKE MORE TIME? EmilKoval©2018

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RETRIBUTION: IF YOU STRIKE BACK AT YOUR DETRACTORS, THEY OR THEIR ALLIES STRIKE BACK, TOO. IT IS LIKE WATCHING A SWORD FIGHT: A LOT OF NOISE AND NO RESULTS. YOU MAY PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE TEMPORARILY; BUT THEY WILL EVENTUALLY STRIKE BACK. THEN, IT STARTS ALL OVER AGAIN. IF YOU JUST DON’T LET YOURSELF BECOME A VICTIM OF THEIR NEGATIVE ACTIONS, YOU HAVE WON AND WILL HAVE INNER PEACE. THEY WILL HAVE NO EXCUSE TO STRIKE BACK AND MAY/WILL LOOK FOR ANOTHER VICTIM. WE ARE NOT GOD’S POLICEMAN. YOU CAN WARN OTHERS, THOUGH. IF THEY DON’T HEED YOUR ADVICE, THEN THEY HAVE A COSMIC LESSON TO LEARN. IT IS THEIR LESSON, NOT YOURS. EmilKoval©2018

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LESSONS: YOU CAN NOT PROTECT OTHERS; YOU CAN ONLY ADVISE THEM. THEY WILL HAVE TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS BASED ON THE INFORMATION THEY HAVE. IF THEY GET HURT, THAT IS THEIR LESSON TO BE LEARNED. WE CAN NOT INTERFERE WITH THE LESSONS THAT PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN. WE CAN ONLY ADVISE THEM OF THE SITUATION THEY MAY/WILL FACE. LOOK AT RESPONSIBILITY IN TODAY’S WORLD. WE HAVE PROTECTED/PREVENTED OUR CHILDREN FROM THE LESSONS THAT WE HAD TO LEARN. IT IS NOT BETTER YO ALLOW FRIENDS TO FALL AND BE THEIR TO HELP THEM UP. THAT IS ACCEPTABLE. YOU HAVE YOUR KARMA TO DEAL WITH. DO NOT TAKE ON OTHER PEOPLES KARMA. THEIR LESSONS ARE THEIRS, NOT YOURS. HOW WE HANDLE THESE LESSON IS HOW WE FEEL INSIDE. MOTHER TERESA WAS ASK TO JOIN AN ANTI-WAR RALLY. SHE SAID, ‘NO’, BUT IF YOU HAVE PRO-PEACE RALLY, SHE WOULD BE THEIR. NEGATIVES ONLY CREATE MORE NEGATIVES. EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5427: ARE YOU WILLING TO FORGIVER YOUR DETRACTORS WHILE MAINTAINING A COMFORTABLE DISTANCE? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5428: DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN TRULY FORGIVE AND TRULY FORGET? EmilKoval©2018

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QUESTION 5429: ARE YOU AWARE THAT TO FORGIVE IS FOR YOUR BENEFIT, AND THAT TO FORGET IS TO YOUR DETRIMENT? EmilKoval©2018

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REMEMBER THAT: REMEMBER THAT TO FORGIVE SOMEONE IS SPIRITUALLY THE RIGHT PATH. HOWEVER, FORGETTING THE TRANSGRESSION COMPLETELY IS SPIRITUALLY INCORRECT ON THIS LEVEL. FORGIVENESS SHOULD NOT MEAN THAT THE TRANSGRESSION NEVER HAPPENED. FORGIVENESS MEANS THAT YOU DISSOLVE YOUR NEGATIVE REACTION TOWARDS SOMEONE WHO HAS INJURED YOU IN SOME WAY. HOWEVER, IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN TRUST THE SOMEONE AGAIN. YOU MAY RESTORE THE RELATIONSHIP, BUT YOU CANNOT RESTORE THE TRUST. EmilKoval©2018

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CONTEMPLATION: PEOPLE WHO HAVE DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS WILL HAVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT. IT IS FOR GOD, THE STATE, OR COMMUNITY TO DEAL WITH. ALL WE CAN DO AS INDIVIDUALS IS PROTECT OURSELVES FROM THEIR DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS. WE DO THAT BY NOT TAKING RETRIBUTION AND BY FORGIVING THEM FOR THE HURT THEY GAVE US. ALSO, FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR ALLOWING THE HURT. FORGIVING IS NOT FOR THEIR BENEFIT BECAUSE THEY DON’T REALLY CARE. IT IS TO YOUR BENEFIT TO LET GO OF THE ANGER YOU HAVE WHICH HURTS YOU IN REALITY. LIKE PAC-MAN YOUR ANGER EATS YOU UP LITTLE BY LITTLE DESTROYING YOUR HEALTH. YOUR DETRACTORS CAN BASICALLY SIT BACK AND WATCH YOU SELF-DESTRUCT. EmilKoval©2018

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