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Archive for September 17th, 2018

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THOUGHTS 14471 TO 14475 SEP 17 2018

MY THOUGHT 14471
QUESTION 5581: ARE YOU A GIVER OF ENERGY, YOU A TAKER OF ENERGY, ORVA MUTUAL SHARER OF ENERGY? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14472
QUESTION 5582: DO YOU SEEK BALANCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, OR DO YOU PREFER TO DOMINATE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14473
QUESTION 5583: ARE YOU BALANCING YOUR PERSONAL NEEDS AND YOUR SOCIAL NEEDS? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14474
BALANCE: THE JAPANESE HAVE AN EXPRESSION CALLED ‘ON GIRI’. IT MEANS BALANCING THE DUALITY OF ONE’S PERSONAL NEEDS AND ONE’S SOCIAL NEEDS. ALL SOCIETIES HAVE THIS TO DIFFERENT DEGREES OF INTENSITY. IN JAPAN, THE SOCIAL NEEDS HAVE PRECEDENCE OVER PERSONAL NEEDS. IN THE USA, THE PERSONAL NEEDS SEEM HAVE PRECEDENCE OVER SOCIAL NEEDS. NEITHER IS ‘THE CORRECT PATH’ TO FOLLOW. EACH SOCIETY HAS TO FIND ITS OWN BALANCE BETWEEN THE ONs AND GIRIs OF THEIR WORLD. EACH RELATIONSHIP MUST ALSO FIND ITS BALANCE THE FEMININE AND MASCULINE ASPECTS OF THE RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS BY HOW THEY BALANCE THEIR INDIVIDUAL AND SOCIAL NEEDS. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14475
BALANCE: DEPENDING ON THE NEEDS OF INDIVIDUALS IN A RELATIONSHIP, THE BALANCE OF THE CHARACTERS AND THE PERSONALITIES IS THE CHOICE OF THE PARTNERS INVOLVED. DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS BECAUSE THEIR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT AS ‘PERFECT AS YOURS IS’. EmilKoval©2018

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