THOUGHTS 3033 TO 3036

MY THOUGHTS 3033
SUGGESTION 042: TEACH YOUR CHILDREN, BOTH MALE AND FEMALE, HOW TO PREPARE AT LEAST 10 SURVIVAL MEALS TO BE USED IN TIMES OF EMERGENCIES. BE SURE TO TEACH THEM ANY BASIC HANDYMAN SKILLS AND HOME CARE SKILLS BEFORE THEY GO OUT INTO THE WORLD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3034
YOUR SELF-REALIZATION IS AN INWARD JOURNEY. YOUR TRUE NATURAL SELF WILL RADIATE THROUGH YOU. DOGMA IS JUST THE WRITTEN HISTORY OF THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE IN SPIRITUAL THOUGHT. IT IS NEITHER NEGATIVE NOR POSITIVE. IT IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW HOW AND WHY CHANGES IN THE DOGMA HAPPEN THROUGH TIME. THE PRESENT DOGMA IS ALWAYS MUCH DIFFERENT THAN THE ORIGINAL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3034
WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO FORCEFULLY SHARE OR IMPOSE THEIR “ENLIGHTENMENT ON OTHERS, CONFLICTS WILL ARISE. BE ‘YOU’ ALWAYS INTERNALLY. DEPENDING ON THE SOCIETY THAT YOU LIVE IN, YOU CAN EXPRESS THAT PUBLICLY AND/OR PRIVATELY. REMEMBER THAT THE DOGMA OF THE FAITH THAT YOU WERE BORN INTO IS NOT YOUR ENEMY. IT IS A GENERAL GUIDE TO FOLLOW. THE PROBLEM IS WITH THE PRESENT DAY LEADERS’ INTERPRETATIONS OF THAT DOGMA. YOUR SPIRITUAL JOURNEY IS A PRIVATE JOURNEY. MOTHER TERESA’S JOURNEY WAS A PRIVATE ONE DONE IN A PUBLIC WAY. SHE WORKED WITH THE SYSTEM AND OVERCAME MANY BARRIERS. WE CAN ALL DO THIS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3036
WHEN PARTNER’S SEPARATE, IT MAY BE THAT EMOTIONAL TRAUMA THAT LEADS TO THE SPIRITUAL AWAKENING OF THE SELF. EACH PARTNER IS FREE TO FOLLOW HIS/HER INNER DESIRES WHETHER THEY BE MATERIAL OR SPIRITUAL. BOTH MATERIALISM AND SPIRITUALITY CAN BE POSITIVE FORCES IN EACH INDIVIDUAL’S LIFE. BOTH PARTNERS ARE FREE TO WALK THEIR SEPARATE PATHS WITH LOVE AND COMPASSION TOWARDS HER/HIS FORMERLY SUPPRESSED DREAMS. WISH EACH OTHER WELL AND HOLD NO ANIMOSITY TOWARDS EACH OTHER. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3025 TO 3028

MY THOUGHTS 3025
WHEN SOMEONE PRESENTS HIS/HER PHILOSOPHY TO YOU, IT IS GOOD TO LISTEN RESPECTFULLY TO THEIR IDEAS. HOWEVER, ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE WHETHER TO ACCEPT OR REJECT THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3026
WHEN SOMEONE INSISTS OR DEMAND THAT YOU ACCEPT HIS/HER PHILOSOPHY, IT BECOMES A MILD FORM OF TERRORISM. IF SOMEONE INSISTS THAT YOU WILL BE PUNISHED BY GOD AND SENT TO DAMNATION IF YOU DO NOT ACCEPT HER/HIS DOGMA, IT BECOMES A FULL ACT OF TERRORISM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3027
YOU HAVE COME INTO THIS LIFETIME TO FULFILL YOUR ASSIGNMENTS WHICH YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO ACCOMPLISH ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. YOUR KARMIC CHOICES ARE YOUR MEANS TO FULFILLING THOSE ASSIGNMENTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3028
QUESTION 288: DO YOU LOSE WHO YOU ARE IN SOMEONE’S LOVE, OR DOES THAT SOMEONE’S LOVE GIVE YOU THE FREEDOM TO BE A COMPLETE YOU? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3021 TO 3024

MY THOUGHTS 3021
NEVER BE EMBARRASSED TO ASK FOR THE ASSISTANCE OF OTHERS BECAUSE WHEN YOU DO, YOU ALLOW THEM TO SHOW ACTS OF LOVE TOWARDS YOU AND OTHERS. YOU ALSO ALLOW OTHERS TO MAKE NECESSARY KARMIC CHOICES THAT MAY BE IMPORTANT CHOICES ON THEIR PATHS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3022
WHEN YOU ASK OTHERS FOR HELP, YOU ARE ASKING FOR PHYSICAL ASSISTANCE, SOCIAL BACKUP, OR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT. REMEMBER THAT ONLY YOU CAN TRULY HELP YOURSELF THROUGH YOUR CHALLENGES. OTHERS CAN ONLY ASSIST YOU IN THOSE CHALLENGES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3023
WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE AND WISH TO CREATE A RELATIONSHIP, YOU MUST BE READY TO ACCEPT ALL THREE OF HIS/HER BASIC CHARACTERISTICS: THE PARENT-SIDE, THE ADULT-SIDE, AND THE CHILD-SIDE OF HER/HIS PERSONALITY. THE PARENT-SIDE IS THE SIDE THAT WISHES TO HELP OR TEACH OTHERS. THE KEY QUESTION IS: IS HE/SHE A NURTURING PARENT OR A CRITICAL PARENT? THE CHILD SIDE IS THE PLAYFUL OR TEASING SIDE. THE KEY QUESTION IS: IS SHE/HE A HAPPY CHILD OR AN ANGRY CHILD? THE ADULT SIDE REPRESENTS HER/HIS ABILITY TO MAKE CLEAR AND UNEMOTIONAL DECISIONS ABOUT SERIOUS ISSUES. THIS ALSO APPLIES TO YOU AS WELL AS TO YOUR POTENTIAL PARTNER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3024
QUESTION 287: CAN YOU GET BEYOND THE LOSE OF THE PHYSICAL PRESENCE OF YOUR SPIRITUAL GURU AND START TO FOCUS ON YOUR SPIRITUAL GURU’S SPIRITUAL PRESENCE WITHIN YOU? CAN YOU FOLLOW AND LIVE UP TO YOUR SPIRITUAL GURU’S TEACHINGS WITHOUT HIS/HER PHYSICAL PRESENCE? EmilKoval©2012

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HMMMM 327

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THOUGHTS 3017 TO 3020

MY THOUGHTS 3017
QUESTION 286: FOR WHICH OF THESE FOUR REASONS ARE YOU COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR ELDERLY PARENTS NOW? 1) YOU LOVE THEM AND HONOR THE SACRIFICES THEY MADE FOR YOU, 2) YOU FEEL GUILTY BECAUSE YOU HAVE IGNORED THEM FOR YEARS, 3) YOU WISH TO BE INCLUDED IN THEIR WILL, OR 5) YOU FEAR THE RETRIBUTION OF YOUR GOD. IS THERE A COMBINATION OF REASONS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3018
SUGGESTION O41: WHEN SOMEONE WANTS TO CHALLENGE YOUR BELIEFS; LISTEN ATTENTIVELY WITHOUT DEBATE, THANK HIM/HER FOR HER/HIS PERSPECTIVE ON HIS/HER BELIEFS, WISH THEM WELL ON THEIR PATH, AND THEN CONTINUE ON ‘YOUR’ PATH WITH/WITHOUT ANY CHANGES MADE DURING THE ENCOUNTER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3019
REMEMBER THAT THOSE WHO WISH TO CONVINCE YOU THAT THEIR WAY OF BELIEF IS THE ONLY CORRECT WAY TO BELIEVE ARE MOST LIKELY TRYING TO REASSURE THEMSELVES THAT THEIR PATH IS THE CORRECT ONE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3020
WHEN YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE IN PEACE AND HARMONY, YOU MAY ATTRACT THOSE WHO WISH TO SHARE IN YOUR PEACE AND HARMONY. SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS AND LET THEM DECIDE FOR THEMSELVES. IF THEY WISH TO SHARE YOUR PATH, ACCEPT THEIR COMPANIONSHIP WITH LOVE, JOY. AND COMPASSION. IF THEY DO NOT WISH TO SHARE YOUR PATH, WISH THEM LOVE, HARMONY, AND COMPASSION WHILE YOU CONTINUE ON YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3013 TO 3016

MY THOUGHTS 3013
QUESTION 284: ARE YOU AWARE OF YOUR PARTNER’S PRESENT VISION OF LIFE IS, AND ARE YOU FULLY AWARE OF WHAT YOUR PRESENT VISION OF LIFE IS? ARE YOU WILLING SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER AND DISCUSS EACH OTHER’S PERSONAL VISION OF LIFE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3014
YOUR SPIRITUAL JOURNEY IS YOUR JOURNEY TO YOUR ENLIGHTENMENT. GO INWARD AND SEEK THE ANSWERS THAT SATISFY YOUR QUESTS. YOU WILL COME A POINT WHERE REALIZATION CANNOT BE EXPRESSED IN WORDS. IT CAN ONLY BE FELT OR SENSED. YOU CAN SHARE WHAT YOU CAN IN WORDS. HOWEVER, WORDS CAN ONLY GUIDE OTHERS. THEY CANNOT TEACH OTHERS, BUT THEY CAN OPEN DOORS FOR OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3015
YOU CAN ONLY GO INWARD AND FIND YOUR ANSWERS TO ‘YOUR’ SEARCHING QUESTIONS. YOU ARE WHERE YOU ARE. SEEK NO FOLLOWERS, SEEK NO RECOGNITION, AND SHARE WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED WHICH MAY BE HELPFUL TO SOME AND MAY NOT BE ACCEPTABLE TO OTHERS. YOUR PATH IS ‘YOUR’ PATH; NO ONE CAN WALK IT FOR YOU. YOU CAN, HOWEVER, SHARE YOUR HARMONY AND COMPASSION WITH OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3016
QUESTION 285: DO YOU END EACH DAY BY TELLING YOUR PARTNER HOW MUCH LOVE AND APPRECIATE HIS/HER PRESENCE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3005 TO 3008

MY THOUGHTS 3005
EVERYDAY YOU ARE GIVEN A GIFT OF 1440 MINUTES FOR YOU TO LIVE YOUR LIFE. YOU CAN USE THEM WISELY OR YOU CAN USE THEM FOOLISHLY. IT IS YOUR PERSONAL CHOICE. CHOOSE WELL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3006
ACCIDENTS: KEEP IN MIND THAT ACCIDENTS CAN BE REMINDERS FROM THE COSMOS OF THE LESSONS THAT YOU AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU STILL NEED TO LEARN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3007
ACCIDENTS: ACCIDENTS AND NEGATIVE SITUATIONS ARE COSMIC TOOLS TO TEACH LESSONS TO SOME PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOT LEARNED OR WHO HAVE REFUSED TO LEARN THE EASY WAY. THE RESULTS OF THOSE LESSONS ARE BASED THE WILLINGNESS OF EACH PERSON TO COMPREHEND HIS/HER LESSON, THE WILLINGNESS OF THE OBSERVERS TO LEARN FROM THAT LESSON, AND THE INVOLVED INDIVIDUALS TO UNDERSTAND THEIR PARTICIPATION. THE PRAYERS SENT CAN ONLY HELP TO OPEN THE MINDS OF THE WITNESSES AND PARTICIPANTS AND TO SPEED UP HEALING FOR THOSE INJURED EMOTIONALLY OR PHYSICALLY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3008
QUESTION 282: YOU ARE GIVEN 525,600 MINUTES EVERY YEAR OF YOUR LIFE TO USE AS YOU WISH. WILL YOU USE THEM FOR GOOD OR WILL YOU USE THEM FOR BAD? WILL YOU USE THEM FOR POSITIVE CHOICES OR WILL YOU USED THEM FOR NEGATIVE CHOICES? WILL YOU USE THEM SELFISHLY, SELFLESSLY, OR SELF-FULLY? ILL YOU USE THEM WISELY OR WILL YOU SQUANDER THEM? ARE YOUR CHOICES PERSONAL CHOICES, SOCIAL CHOICES, AND/OR SPIRITUAL CHOICES? ARE YOU AWARE THAT IN A LEAP YEAR YOU ARE GIVEN 527,014 MINUTES TO USE OR WASTE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3001 TO 3004

MY THOUGHTS 3001
IF YOU SEND PRAYERS TO PREVENT SOMEONE FROM FACING A KARMIC LESSON, THAT LESSON BECOMES YOUR LESSON, TOO. PRAYERS SHOULD BE SENT TO HELP THEM TO BE COMPLETELY OPEN TO THEIR LESSONS AND TO UNDERSTAND THEM COMPLETELY SO THAT THEY CAN PROGRESS ON THEIR DHARMIC PATH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3002
SUGGESTION 040: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD EACH MAKE A LIST OF YOUR PERSONAL EMOTIONAL HABITS AND WHAT YOU PERCEIVE YOUR PARTNER’S EMOTIONAL HABIT TO BE. WHEN THE BOTH OF YOU ARE IN POSITIVE MODS, SIT DOWN AND DISCUSS YOUR EMOTIONAL HABITS ONE AT A TIME. IF ONE OF YOU GETS DEFENSIVE, STOP AND CONTINUES WHEN THE BOTH OF YOU ARE OPEN AGAIN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3003
QUESTION 281: ARE YOU WILLING TO SIT DOWN WITH YOUR PARTNER AND DISCUSS EACH OTHER’S EMOTIONAL HABITS AND HOW THEY EFFECT EACH OTHER? CAN YOU DO THIS WITHOUT GETTING INTO AN ARGUMENT? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3004
ACCIDENTS: REMEMBER THAT ACCIDENTS ARE LESSONS FOR YOU AND OTHERS TO LEARN FROM. HOW YOU SURVIVE THE ACCIDENT IS BASED ON WHAT LESSONS YOU ARE READY TO LEARN AND THE STRENGTH OF THE PRAYERS YOU WERE SENT. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2997 TO 3000

MY THOUGHTS 2997
QUESTION 277: ARE YOU AT ODDS WITH YOUR FEELINGS, OR ARE YOU IN HARMONY WITH YOUR FEELINGS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2998
QUESTION 278: DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO EXPRESS YOUR INNER FEELINGS IN ACTS OF KINDNESS, AND DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO SUPPRESS YOUR INNER FEELINGS TO ENACT KINDNESS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2999
QUESTION 279: DO YOU SUPPRESS YOUR INNER FEELINGS BECAUSE OF LOW-SELF ESTEEM, OR DO YOU SUPPRESS YOUR INNER FEELINGS TO BE KIND TOWARDS OTHERS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3000
QUESTION 280: DO YOU ALWAYS DO THINGS THE WAY THEY HAVE ALWAYS BEEN DONE, OR ARE YOU WILLING TO BE CREATIVE AND TO THE SAME THINGS IN A DIFFERENT WAY? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2993 TO 2996

MY THOUGHTS 2993
ALWAYS FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE. WHEN YOU MEET THE NEGATIVE, TURN IT INTO A POSITIVE FOR YOU. WHEN THE BUDDHA IN HIS LIFETIME BEFORE THE LAST INCARNATION TRAVELED THROUGH A FOREST AND CONFRONTED THE FOREST MONSTER. THE MONSTER WAS PHYSICALLY MORE POWERFUL AND WON ALL PHYSICAL CONFRONTATIONS. WHEN THE BUDDHA CONFRONTED THE MONSTER WITH SPIRITUAL TRUTH, HE DEFEATED THE MONSTER. INSTEAD OF KILLING THE MONSTER, HE TURNED THE MONSTER IN THE PROTECTOR OF THE FOREST. TURN NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS. DESTRUCTION ONLY CREATES MORE DESTRUCTION. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2994
WE ARE BLESSED WITH FOUR GREAT EXAMPLES OF SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP TODAY. THE DALAI LAMA WHO LOST HIS BUDDHIST SANCTUARY IN TIBET AND LIVES HIS LIFE TO THE FULLEST IN BUDDHIST TRUTH, POPE JOHN PAUL II WHO LIVED HIS CHRISTIAN FAITH TO FULLEST DESPITE ALL THE CONTROVERSIES SURROUNDING HIS FAITH. MOTHER THERESA WHO TRULLY LIVED HER LIFE AND FAITH TO THE FULLEST, AND SAI BABA WHO LIVED HIS FAITH TO THE FULLEST. HE HEALED MANY OF AFFLICTIONS AND GAVE SPIRITUAL HOPE TO MANY. HE ALSO KNEW WHEN NOT TO INTERFERE IN OTHERS’ KARMIC LESSONS. HE HAD SUCH GREAT COMPASSION THAT HE REFUSED TO INTERFERE IN OTHERS’ LESSONS THAT WERE ESSENTIAL TO THEIR LESSONS THIS TIME AROUND. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2995
SCRIPTURES ARE IMPORTANT REMINDERS OF THE SPIRITUAL WISDOM HANDED DOWN THROUGH TIME. YOU ARE TO LIVE THEM IN A COMPASSIONATE, LOVING, AND GENEROUS WAY. HOWEVER, SOME WILL QUOTE THEM FOR THEIR OWN BENEFIT. SOME WILL QUOTE THEM TO CREATE PEACE AND HARMONY, SOME WILL QUOTE TO ESTABLISH THEIR POWER BASE, AND SOME WILL QUOTE THEM TO CONQUER AND DESTROY. ALL SACRED SCRIPTURES HAVE BEEN USED CONTRARY TO THEIR FOUNDERS’ ORIGINAL INTENT. BE CAREFUL OF THE SPEAKER’S INTENTIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2996
QUESTION 276: WOULD YOU RATHER HONOR YOUR PARTNER WITH YOUR PRESENCE OR WITH PRESENTS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2989 TO 2992

MY THOUGHTS 2989
SUGGESTION 039: LISTEN TO THE COSMIC WHISPERS IN YOUR MOMENTS OF SILENCE. GRADUALLY YOU WILL CREATE YOUR OWN COSMIC BOND TO HELP YOU WALK YOUR DHARMIC PATH. DO POSITIVE ACTIONS WITHOUT SEEKING REWARDS. RECOGNIZE THE SPIRITUAL PRESENCE AROUND YOU AND BE OPEN TO COMMUNICATING WITH THEM. YOUR ROLE IS TO MAKE SURE YOUR ACTIONS ARE POSITIVE. IT WILL TAKE TIME. BE WHO YOU ARE AND THE SHIFTS WILL HAPPEN WHEN IT IS TIME TO SHIFT. FEEL YOUR EMOTIONS (PRIVATELY) FULLY. EVEN IF THEY ARE NEGATIVE, ACT THEN OUT IN YOUR MIND AND THEN ASK YOUR SELF WHETHER THEY ARE THE ACTIONS YOU REALLY WISH TO TAKE. DENIAL CREATES RESISTANCE. ACCEPTANCE ALLOWS TRUE JUDGEMENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2990
TEACHING: MANY SPIRITUAL TEACHERS ASSIGN THEIR DISCIPLES TO TEACH ENTRY LEVEL SEEKERS WHILE THEY TEACH THEIR HIGHER LEVEL DISCIPLES WITH PARABLES OR SIMPLE QUESTIONS THAT REQUIRE DEEP THOUGHT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2991
TEACHING: A SPIRITUAL TEACHER’S MAIN RESPONSIBILITY IS THE HELP HIS/HER STUDENTS TO SEEK SELF-REALIZATION, NOT TO BE PROFESSORS OF DOGMA. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2992
QUESTION 275: WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE EXPENSIVE JEWELRY OR EXPENSIVE TECH TOYS, OR WOULD YOU RATHER USE THAT MONEY FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER TO SHARE WONDERFUL EXPERIENCES TOGETHER ON VACATIONS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2985 TO 2988

MY THOUGHTS 2985
QUESTION 274: ARE YOU WILLING TO ACCEPT AND SUPPORT YOUR PARTNER’S PERSONAL GROWTH, OR DO YOU WISH FOR YOUR PARTNER TO STAGNATE FOR THE DURATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2986
SILENCE: LISTEN TO THE SILENCE BETWEEN YOUR THOUGHTS, FOR WITHIN THAT SILENCE ARE THE WHISPERS OF THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2987
SILENCE: THE GREATER THE SILENCE, THE GREATER THE AWARENESS. THE MORE VERBOSE THE WORDAGE, THE GREATER THE UNAWARENESS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2988
SILENCE: SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY IN AS FEW WORDS AS POSSIBLE. IF THE LISTENER DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THE SIMPLE EXPLANATION THAT IS CLEAR TO YOU, THEN THE LISTENER MAY NEED ANOTHER TEACHER BECAUSE HE/SHE MAY NOT BE READY FOR YOUR LEVEL OF THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHT 2981 TO 2984

MY THOUGHTS 2981
HURT: WHEN WE HAVE GREAT PAINS IN YOUR LIFE, THEY CAN BE LIKE LABOR PAINS WHICH ARE SOON FORGOTTEN AFTER GIVING BIRTH TO A NEW LIFE OR A NEW YOU. FEEL YOUR PAIN, EMBRACE YOUR, PAIN, AND TURN IT INTO A POSITIVE IN YOUR PERSONAL RESURRECTION OF YOU. YOU CAN HAVE A GREAT FUTURE BASED ON HOW YOU HANDLE YOUR PERSONAL PAINS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2982
HURT: WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOUR LIFE IS SHATTERED, FEEL IT COMPLETELY AND UNDERSTAND WHY IT HAPPENED SO THAT YOU CAN START TO REBUILD A STRONGER YOU BY FOCUSING ON YOUR GOALS. YOUR TREE OF LIFE WILL GROW STRONG IF YOU KEEP YOUR FOCUS ON ‘YOUR’ GOALS. EACH JUNCTION IN YOUR LIFE WILL CREATE MANY STRONG BRANCHES ON YOUR TREE OF LIFE. EACH LESSON IN LIFE WILL EITHER STRENGTHEN YOU OR WEAKEN YOU. LET THOSE LESSONS STRENGTHEN YOU. IN THE FUTURE YOU WILL BE GRATEFUL TO ALL THOSE PAINFUL AND SOMETIMES DEVASTATING LESSONS THAT YOU HAD BEEN THROUGH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2983
SUGGESTION 037: ACT OUT, IN YOUR MIND ONLY, THE NEGATIVES THOUGHTS YOU FEEL; THEN JUDGE THOSE ACTIONS THAT YOU HAD TAKEN IN YOUR THOUGHTS. DECIDE WHETHER THEY ARE THE ACTIONS YOU REALLY WANT TO TAKE. IF YOU JUDGE THOSE ACTIONS TAKEN WRONG, THEN THOSE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS WILL EVENTUALLY DIMINISH AND DISAPPEAR BECAUSE YOU HAVE MADE CONSCIOUS CHOICES NOT TO ACCEPT THEM. DENIAL ONLY HIDES THE NEGATIVES WHICH MAY POP UP AT AN INOPPORTUNE MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2984
QUESTION 273: ARE YOU COMFORTABLE IN A STAGNANT RELATIONSHIP, OR ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO MUTUAL GROWTH IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2977 TO 2980

MY THOUGHTS 2977
QUESTION 272: WOULD YOU RATHER HOLD ON TO YOUR HURT UNTIL IT BECOMES ANGER, OR WOULD YOU RATHER EMBRACE IT, UNDERSTAND IT FULLY, AND TURN TO INTO A POSITIVE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2978
HURT: YOU CANNOT ERASE A NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE BY DENYING THAT IT EVER HAPPENED. YOU CAN, HOWEVER, LEARN FROM IT AND GROW FROM IT. WHEN YOU TRY TO DENY A HURT, IT WILL SLEEP IN YOUR MIND AND FESTER. IT MAY EVEN AWAKEN AT THE MOST INOPPORTUNE TIME FOR YOU. FEEL IT FULLY, EMBRACE IT FULLY, LEARN FROM IT FULLY, AND THEN TURN IT INTO A POSITIVE IN YOUR LIFE. YOUR CHOICE IS TO BE BETTER OR BITTER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2979
HURT: YOU CANNOT FORGIVE A HURT IF YOU DENY IT EVERY HAPPENED. DENIAL IS ALLOWING THAT HURT TO GROW DEEP WITHIN YOU AND ERUPT LIKE A VOLCANO AT AN INCONVENIENT TIME. DENIAL OF HURT IS NOT A GOOD THING FOR YOUR PHYSICAL HEALTH NOR YOUR MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL HEALTH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2980
NEVER LET YOUR FLAME OF CREATION GO OUT. WHEN YOU TURN THE NEGATIVES IN YOUR LIFE INTO POSITIVES, THEY BECOME NEW KINDLING THAT RE-ENERGIZE YOUR CREATIVE FLAME TO GREATER HEIGHTS. THE NEGATIVES GIVE YOU TIME TO REFLECT, LEARN, RE-EVALUATE, AND GROW BEYOND NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES. IN CALIFORNIA, THERE ARE PLANTS AND TREES WHOSE SEEDS CAN ONLY BE OPENED WHEN THE BIG FIRES OCCUR. THE FIRE CLEANS OUT THE DEAD AND WEAK AND MAKES ROOM FOR THE AWAKENING OF NEW BIRTH IN NATURE. LIFE MAY SEND YOU MANY FIRES AND CLEANED OUT THE CLUTTER IN YOUR LIFE. THIS WILL ALLOW YOU TO GROW BEYOND WHO YOU WERE TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON, NOT A BITTER PERSON. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2973 TO 2976

MY THOUGHTS 2973
EACH DAY IS A BLESSING AND A REMINDER THAT THERE ARE STILL LESSONS TO LEARN AND THAT THERE IS STILL NEED FOR THE SERVICE YOU CAN PROVIDE TO THOSE IN NEED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2974
QUESTION 271: WOULD YOU RATHER PUT IN OVERTIME AT WORK, OR WOULD YOU RATHER PUT IN OVERTIME AT HOME WITH YOUR PARTNER? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2975
THERE ARE THOSE WHO ARE DOGMIC AND THOSE WHO WISH TO GO BEYOND DOGMA. THEY REPRESENT THE TWO EXTREMES OF ANY SOCIETY: THE CONSERVATIVE AND THE PROGRESSIVE. FOR A SOCIETY TO SUCCEED IT MUST FIND A COOPERATIVE BALANCE BETWEEN THE YIN AND YANG OF SOCIETY. THE DOGMATIC SIDE ATTEMPTS TO MAINTAIN STABILITY WHILE THE PROGRESSIVE SIDE ATTEMPTS TO MAKE IMPROVEMENTS. COOPERATIVE EFFORTS CREATE SOCIAL EVOLUTION. FAILURE TO COOPERATE CREATES REVOLUTION. IT IS A SOCIETY’S CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2976
WHEN A PARTNER YOU HAD IS LOST TO YOU AND YOU DO NOT ATTEMPT TO REVIVE THAT RELATIONSHIP, THEY WILL WALK A NEW PATH THAT WILL CREATE A GREATER DISTANCE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR EX-PARTNER. WHY WOULD AN EX-PARTNER RETURN TO AN UNCOMFORTABLE RELATIONSHIP WHEN HE/SHE CAN GROW AS SHE/HE DESIRES WITHIN HIS/HER NEW FREEDOM. YOU SHOULD WISH HER/HIM WELL SO THAT IN THE FUTURE A MUTUAL FRIENDSHIP CAN BE ESTABLISHED. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2969 TO 2972

MY THOUGHTS 2969
WHEN YOU LEAVE THIS WORLD, THERE ARE FIVE POSSIBLE RESULTS: 1) YOU TO GO A HEAVEN, 2) YOU GO TO A HELL, 3) YOU RE-INCARNATE, 4) YOU JOIN YOUR ANCESTORS, 5) OR YOU JUST NO LONGER EXIST. THE ONLY THING YOU CAN BE SURE OF IS HOW YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED. YOU CAN LEAVE POSITIVE MEMORIES OR NEGATIVE MEMORIES. IT IS YOUR CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2970
YOUR DHARMIC PATH IS THE TEACHING PATH YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO WALK THIS TIME AROUND. YOUR KARMIC CHOICES ARE YOUR DECISION TESTS THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO MAKE ALONG YOUR PATH. THOSE CHOICES WILL HAVE TWO BASIC RESULTS THAT HAVE EITHER A POSITIVE EFFECT OR A NEGATIVE EFFECT ON YOUR PATH. MAKE YOUR CHOICES WITH YOUR CHOSEN SPIRITUAL LEADERS INSPIRATIONS IN YOUR HEART. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2971
WHAT YOU DO THIS TIME AROUND IS BASED ON YOUR FREE-WILL KARMIC CHOICES THAT YOU MADE THE LAST TIME AROUND. SOME VIEW KARMA AS A NEGATIVE AND A PUNISHMENT FOR PAST DECISIONS. SOME VIEW KARMA AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE BETTER KARMIC CHOICES ON THE PRESENT DHARMIC PATH THAN THOSE MADE THE LAST TIME AROUND. THE BUDDHA, THE CHRIST, AND MOHAMMED UNDERSTOOD THIS. THEY QUESTIONED THE DEFINITIONS OF THEIR TIME. BUDDHA MEDITATED IN THE FOREST, THE CHRIST MEDITATED IN THE WILDERNESS, AND MOHAMMED MEDITATED IN THE CAVE. THEIR KARMIC CHOICES CHANGE THE WORLDS AROUND THEM. KEEP YOUR IMAGE OF GOD AS THE BEACON OF LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS OF THE NIGHT AND THE BEACON OF HOPE AND LOVE IN THE LIGHT. YOUR SENSE OF MORALITY IS YOUR KEY TO THE KARMIC CHOICES YOU MAKE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2972
SUGGESTION: MAKE A LIST OF WHAT YOU CONSIDER EACH OTHER’S GOOD HABITS AND EACH OTHER’S BAD HABITS. THEN SIT DOWN TOGETHER AND DISCUSS HOW YOU BOTH CAN IMPROVE EACH OTHER’S GOOD HABITS AND HOW YOU CAN IMPROVE OR WORK WITH EACH OTHER’S BAD HABITS. THIS PROJECT CAN A GREAT TOGETHERNESS TOOL. HOWEVER, REMEMBER THAT IF ONE OF YOU IS GETTING IRRITATED, STOP AND CONTINUE WHEN YOU ARE BOTH IN POSITIVE MOODS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2965 TO 2968

MY THOUGHTS 2965
QUESTION 270: ARE YOU THE KIND OF PERSON WHO FALLS IN LOVE, OR ARE YOU THE KIND OF PERSON WHO GROWS IN LOVE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2966
MARRIAGE: THE BEAUTY OF A GOOD MARRIAGE IS THAT YOU CAN GO CO-OPERATIVELY TOGETHER AS FAR AS YOU CAN BEFORE THAT FINAL SOLO SPIRITUAL JOURNEY BEGINS. A GOOD MARRIAGE HELPS EACH OTHER GROW SPIRITUALLY IN OUR PERSONAL WAY WITH EACH OTHER’S ASSISTANCE. WHEN THE SOLO JOURNEY BEGINS, THE SEPARATION IS FULL OF LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2967
SUGGESTION 036: DO YOU WHAT YOU CAN WITHIN THE RESTRICTIONS OF YOUR SOCIETY, YOUR FAITH, AND YOUR ECONOMIC CONDITIONS. KEEP SPIRITUAL YOUR LEADER’S INSPIRATION AT YOUR SIDE. TURN THE NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES. REMEMBER THAT YOUR ARE GIVEN THESE KARMIC CHOICES TO MAKE. ALWAYS TURN NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2968
YOUR DHARMIC PATH IS THE TEACHING PATH YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO WALK THIS TIME AROUND. YOUR KARMIC CHOICES ARE YOUR DECISION TESTS THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO MAKE ALONG YOUR PATH. THOSE CHOICES WILL HAVE TWO BASIC RESULTS THAT HAVE EITHER A POSITIVE EFFECT OR A NEGATIVE EFFECT ON YOUR PATH. MAKE YOUR CHOICES WITH YOUR CHOSEN SPIRITUAL LEADERS INSPIRATIONS IN YOUR HEART. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2961 TO 2964

MY THOUGHTS 2961
QUESTION 269: ARE YOU IN HARMONY WITH YOUR ESSENCE? DO YOUR OUTER ACTIONS MATCH WITH YOUR INNER FEELINGS? IF NOT, ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE THE TIME TO GO INWARD AND HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH YOURSELF? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2962
WE ARE BORN INTO DIFFERENT CULTURES TO LEARN DIFFERENT LESSONS, SO NO ONE SHOULD JUDGE ANY DIFFERENT CULTURE BY HIS/HER OWN STANDARDS. WE MAY NOT AGREE WITH THE STANDARDS OF ANOTHER CULTURE, BUT THOSE ARE THE STANDARDS ADAPTED BY THOSE CULTURES THROUGH THEIR CULTURAL EVOLUTION. IF THEY WISH TO ALTER THEIR STANDARDS, THAT IS THEIR CHOICE TO DO SO. OUR CHOICE IS WHETHER TO INTERACT OR NOT INTERACT WITH THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2963
MARRIAGE:IN MANY WESTERN CULTURES THERE IS AN EVOLVING BELIEF THAT MARRIAGE IS A SOCIAL CONTRACT FOR TWO PEOPLE TO GO THROUGH LIFE TOGETHER AS A TEAM WHILE RESPECTING EACH OTHER’S SENSE OF SELF. WHEN THE PARTNERSHIP SUPPRESSES THE SELF OF ONE PARTNER, THE RELATIONSHIP CAN BE LEGALLY TERMINATED. NO PARTNER IS TO BE TREATED BADLY NOR HIS/HER INDIVIDUALITY BE SUPPRESSED. THE EASTERN AND WESTERN VIEWS OF MARRIAGE ARE ALL VALID AND SHOULD BE RESPECTED. EVERYONE HAS TO WALK HIS PATH IN HIS WAY AND FACE THE KARMIC CHOICES ON THAT PATH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2964
WE ARE BORN INTO OUR SOCIETIES FOR THE LESSONS WE NEED TO LEARN. WE ARE PREPARED FOR THOSE LESSONS BY OUR FAMILIES AND THE SOCIETIES WE LIVE IN. WHAT YOU ARE AS AN ADULT IS WHAT YOU MUST EVALUATE LATER IN LIFE AS YOU EXPERIENCE YOUR LIFE IN THE FULLNESS OF SOCIETY AND BY RAISING YOUR OWN FAMILY. THERE WILL COME A TIME WHEN YOU MAY WANT TO GROW BEYOND YOUR MATERIAL WORLD TO A MORE SPIRITUAL WORLD. THAT IS, YOU GROWING BEYOND THE NORMS OF YOUR SOCIAL CONDITION; NOT BEYOND YOUR FORMER LIFE. AS YOU EXPERIENCE LIFE, YOU CAN EITHER SHED THE LAYERS OF SOCIAL CONTROLS OR YOU CAN INCREASE THE STRENGTH OF THOSE LAYERS SO THAT NOTHING CHANGES THROUGH YOUR KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2957 TO 2960

MY THOUGHTS 2957
QUESTION 268: IS YOUR INNER JOURNEY AN ATTEMPT TO ESCAPE FROM THE REALITY OF THIS WORLD THAT YOU HAVE COME TO LEARN IN, OR IS YOUR INNER JOURNEY SUPPOSED TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND THE LESSONS THAT YOU ARE LEARNING HERE AND TO HELP YOU WALK YOUR PATH WITH CLARITY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2958
WHEN YOU CAN SEE ‘YOU’ IN THE SCHEME OF ALL THAT IS, YOU BEGIN TO UNDERSTAND WHO YOU ARE AND WHY YOU ARE HERE. YOU CAN BEGIN TO UNDERSTAND YOUR DHARMIC PATH AND ITS RELATIONSHIP WITH THE WORLD AROUND YOU AND ITS CONNECTION TO COSMOS. THE COSMOS, YOUR SPIRITUALITY, AND THE LESSONS YOU HAVE TO LEARN ON THE PATH THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO WALK ARE PART OF THE ONENESS OF ALL. TO UNDERSTAND YOUR INNER JOURNEY FULLY, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND YOUR OUTER JOURNEY AS WELL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2959
WHEN NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ENTER YOUR THOUGHTS, LISTEN TO THEIR SHOUTS AND PLEAS. THEY REPRESENT YOUR INNER FRUSTRATIONS, SO LET THEM ACT OUT IN YOUR MIND SO THAT YOU CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR INNER FRUSTRATIONS. EMBRACE THEM, CALM THEM DOWN, AND TURN THEM INTO A EFFECTIVE POSITIVE TOOL IN YOUR LIFE. IF YOU DENY THEIR EXISTENCE, THEY WILL BECOME LOUDER AND LOUDER UNTIL YOU DO RECOGNIZE THAT PART OF YOUR EXISTENCE. IT DEMANDS THAT YOU FIND YOUR HARMONY IN THE BALANCE OF THE YIN AND YANG OF YOUR FEELINGS. WHEN YOU DO NEED EXPRESS THEM, THEY WILL THERE TO BE OF POSITIVE ASSISTANCE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 2960
MEDITATION: MEDITATION IS A TOOL TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR PLACE IN THE WORLD AROUND YOU AND WITH THE COSMOS. IT IS A PEACEFUL STATE TO HELP YOU IN THE ACTIONS THAT YOU MUST TAKE ON YOUR PATH. NEVER LET MEDITATION BE ‘ONLY’ AN ESCAPE FROM THIS LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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