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IF YOU HAVE PARENTS, RELATIVES, OR FRIENDS THAT YOU BELIEVE HAVE WRONGED YOU, GO INWARD AND CONTEMPLATE YOUR REACTION TO THE LESSONS THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU. FIRST THANK THEM AND THEN FORGIVE GIVE YOURSELF FOR NOT LEARNING MUCH SOONER. Emil Koval©

WHEN SOMEONE FLASHES HIS ANGER AT YOU, RESPOND WITH TOLERANCE AND COMPASSION. THEN YOU WILL HAVE YOUR INNER PEACE AND GRADUALLY DISSIPATE THE OTHER’S ANGER. Emil Koval©

MEETING ANGER WITH ANGER IS ONLY A CLASHING OF SWORDS WHICH CAN HAVE ONLY NEGATIVE RESULTS. Emil Koval©

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WHEN YOU TRULY PRACTICE LOVE, KINDNESS, AND UNDERSTANDING IN ALL THAT YOU DO, THERE WILL BE NO NEED FOR FORGIVENESS. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU SEEK YOUR OWN ENLIGHTENMENT, YOU MAY IGNITE THE FLAME OF ENLIGHTENMENT IN OTHERS. Emil Koval©

BEFORE YOU CAN TRULY LOVE OTHERS, YOU HAVE TO TRULY LOVE YOU IN A SELF-FULLY WAY. Emil Koval©

EVERYONE, GOOD OR BAD IN YOUR EYES, IS A TEACHER ON YOUR PATH. HONOR THEIR LESSONS ON HOW TO BE AND ON HOW NOT TO BE. Emil Koval©

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TODAY YOU HAVE TWO CHOICES: 1. TO BE BETTER THAN YOU WERE YESTERDAY, OR 2. TO LIVE IN STAGNATION. IT IS YOUR CHOICE. Emil Koval©

IF YOUR SELF-WORTH IS BASED ONLY ON OTHERS’ OPINION OF YOU, THEN YOU HAVE SURRENDER YOUR SOUL TO THEM. Emil Koval©

IF YOU TAKE OTHERS’ OPINION OF YOU WHEN YOU LOOK INWARD, YOU CAN INCREASE YOUR SELF-WORTH. Emil Koval©

WHEN PEOPLE ARE CLOSED TO YOUR ADVICE, DO NOT PUSH THEM. JUST BE A LOVING AND UNDERSTANDING EXAMPLE TO THEM. Emil Koval©

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THE BEST WAY TO TEACH SOMEONE TO BE SELF-UNDERSTANDING IS TO BE A MODEL OF SELF-UNDERSTANDING. THEY WILL LEARN MORE BY WATCHING YOU LIVE IT THAN BY HEARING YOU PROFESS IT. Emil Koval©

TRUE LOVE, IN ANY FORM, IS FELT BY SHARING; NOT CONTROLLING. CONTROLLING MEANS YOU HAVE A FEAR OF LOSING WHAT YOU WANT TO POSSESS. Emil Koval©

TRUE WISDOM COMES FROM THE KNOWING; NOT FROM AN ACADEMIC DOCUMENT. Emil Koval©

DAILY AFFIRMATION: MAY THE KNOWING ALWAYS SHINE THE LIGHT OF WISDOM ON MY LIFE’S PATH. Emil Koval©

TRULY LOVING SOMEONE OR SOMETHING IS GIVING WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS. Emil Koval©

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IN MOST CASES THE BIGGEST OBSTACLE TO GETTING WHAT YOU WANT IS YOU. YOU MUST GET OUT OF THE WAY BY GOING WITH THE FLOW AND BE READY TO ACCEPT YOUR DESIRES UNCONDITIONALLY WHEN THEY COME. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU FEEL THE NEED TO HELP SOMEONE, KINDLY ADVISE THEM. DO NOT PUSH THEM, AS THEY HAVE THERE OWN LESSONS TO LEARN. THE ONLY WAY FOR THEM TO SHORT CUT THEIR LESSONS IS TO GO INWARD TO UNDERSTAND WHO THEY REALLY ARE. Emil Koval©

WITHIN YOU THERE IS A TRINITY: (1) YOU AS A PARENT, (2) YOU AS AN ADULT, AND (3) YOU AS A CHILD.

(1) IN THE PARENT MODE YOU WILL PROTECT, TEACH, OR GUIDE. THE QUESTION IS, “ARE YOU A NURTURING PARENT OR A CRITICAL PARENT?”

(2) IN THE ADULT MODE YOU WILL REFLECT ON YOUR DECISIONS WITH HONESTY AND WITHOUT EMOTIONS OR BIAS.

(3) IN THE CHILD MODE YOU LAUGH, CRY, OR POUT. THE QUESTION IS, “ARE YOU A HAPPY CHILD OR AN UNHAPPY CHILD?”

YOU ARE ALL OF THESE EVERY DAY. LEARN TO HELP LOVINGLY, LEARN NOT TO BE JUDGMENTAL, LEARN TO LAUGH AT THE FOIBLES OF LIFE. Emil Koval©

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WHEN YOUR WORK BECOMES A SANCTUARY FROM HOME, RE-EVALUATE YOUR SITUATION AT HOME. Emil Koval©

I FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE WHO MEASURE THEIR WORTH BY HOW MUCH YOU CAN GIVE FOR THEIR SERVICES AND NOT BY HOW MUCH SERVICE THEY CAN GIVE. Emil Koval©

WE CAN ONLY LOOK FOOLISH WHEN WE TRY TO IMPRESS PEOPLE THAT DO NOT CARE FOR US, OR WHEN WE ACCEPT INAPPROPRIATE KUDOS. Emil Koval©

SETBACKS ARE NOT FAILURES WHEN YOU LEARN FROM THEM. FAILURE CAN ONLY EXIST WHEN YOU GIVE UP TRYING. Emil Koval©

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WHEN YOU LABEL ME, YOU BEGIN THE PROCESS OF NEGATING WHO I TRULY AM. Emil Koval©

IF YOU LIVE SELFISHLY, THEN THOSE AROUND YOU WILL LIVE SELFISHLY. IF YOU LIVE SELF-FULLY, THEN THOSE AROUND YOU WILL ALSO BEGIN TO LIVE SELF-FULLY. Emil Koval©

YOUR HOME SHOULD BE YOUR SANCTUARY FROM LIFE, NOT ANOTHER PURGATORY. Emil Koval©

LIVE IN THE LIGHT OF UNDERSTANDING IN SOMEONE’S EYES BY SHOWING THE UNIVERSALITY IN ALL THINGS. Emil Koval©

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AFTER YOU SHOWER IN YOUR TEARS OF SORROW, THEN BASK IN THE COSMIC LIGHT. Emil Koval©

BATHE YOURSELF IN COSMIC LIGHT TO PURIFY THE NEGATIVITY AROUND YOU. Emil Koval©

ALL PROBLEMS WILL PASS IN TIME. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS WHAT YOU DO OR SAY DURING THE PROBLEM THAT WILL DETERMINE ITS OUTCOME. Emil Koval©

YOU ARE ONLY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR PART OF THE PROBLEM, NOT OTHERS’ INTERPRETATIONS OF IT.
Emil Koval©

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WHEN YOU FALL IN THE MIRE, YOU HAVE TO PICK YOURSELF UP AND WALK OUT OF IT WITH PURE THOUGHTS. Emil Koval©

COINCIDENCES ARE PLANNED TRIGGERS PLANTED BY THE COSMOS. RECOGNIZE THEM, ACCEPT THEM, AND WORK WITH THEM. Emil Koval©

PRESENT YOUR THOUGHTS WITHOUT LABELS. PEOPLE THEN CAN ACCEPT OR REJECT YOU AS YOU TRULY ARE. Emil Koval©

BEFORE YOU CAN RESOLVE A PROBLEM YOU MUST RECOGNIZE YOUR CONTRIBUTION TO IT. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOUR PAST ACTIONS COME BACK TO TORMENT YOU, YOU MUST RE-EVALUATE THOSE ACTIONS TO UNDERSTAND THE MISSED LESSONS. Emil Koval©

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BEFORE YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT THE LESSONS YOU HAVE ALREADY RECEIVED, RE-EXAMINE THEM TO RE-APPRECIATE THEM. IF YOU DO NOT THE COSMOS WILL CREATE NEW LESSONS FOR YOU. Emil Koval©

SEEKING RETRIBUTION FOR THE PAST DENIES YOU THE OPPORTUNITIES OF THE PRESENT AND THE GIFTS OF THE FUTURE. Emil Koval©

IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED FROM PAST LESSONS, RE-VISIT THEM TO RE-EVALUATE THEM. LEARN FROM THEM AND MOVE FROM THE DARK SHADOWS OF THE PAST INTO THE LIGHT OF THE PRESENT. Emil Koval©

YOU CAN ONLY FILL YOUR LIFE WITH INTERNAL SATISFACTION BY UNDERSTANDING YOUR DHARMA AND FULFILLING IT. YOU CAN NOT FULFILL IT WITH THINGS FROM OUTSIDE OF YOU OR OTHER PEOPLE’S VALUES. LOOK AT YOUR PERSONAL VALUES TO FULFILL YOUR DHARMA. NAMASTE. Emil Koval©

BEFORE YOU COMMIT TO A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP, ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION: “AM I IN LUST OR AM I IN LOVE?” Emil Koval©

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THROUGH YOUR INTERNAL PEACE YOU CAN RADIATE YOUR LIGHT OUT TO THOSE WHO ARE READY TO ACCEPT IT. Emil Koval©

YOU SHOULD CONCENTRATE ON YOUR WORK FOR TODAY WITH YOUR HEART AND MIND WHICH WILL MAKE A BETTER TOMORROW. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU HAVE LIFE-STORMS AND TRYING MOMENTS, FOCUS ON THE LESSONS TO BE LEARNED AND TRY TO BALANCE THE IMBALANCE. Emil Koval©

WHEN CHANGES HAPPEN, GOOD OR BAD, REMEMBER THIS:
WHEN THE BAD TIMES HAPPEN, SAY “THIS TOO SHALL PASS,” AND
WHEN THE GOOD TIMES HAPPEN, SAY “THIS TOO SHALL PASS.” Emil Koval©

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MAKE EVERYDAY THE BEST DAY EVER AND THAT DAY’S TOMORROW WILL ALSO BE THE BEST DAY EVER. Emil Koval©

THE MORE THINGS YOU WISH TO CONTROL, THE MORE YOU WILL BE CONTROLLED BY THEM. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND AND MEDITATE ON THE YIN AND YANG, YOU WILL BRING BALANCE TO YOUR LIFE. Emil Koval©

THE CLEARER YOU CAN THINK THE MORE CONTENTMENT YOU CAN HAVE IN LIFE. YOUR PEACE IS IN YOUR HANDS. Emil Koval©

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WHEN YOU LET GO OF WHO YOU WANT YOUR PARTNER, YOUR CHILDREN, AND YOUR FRIENDS TO BE, THEY AND YOU WILL FLOURISH IN THE LIGHT. Emil Koval©

ALL ATTEMPTS TO CONTROL OTHERS PUT OBSTACLES IN YOUR PATH. Emil Koval©

THE FEWER THINGS THAT YOU HAVE TO HAVE, THE CLEARER YOUR MIND CAN THINK. Emil Koval©

RE-EXAMINE YOUR MINDSET.
RE-EVALUATE YOUR THOUGHTS.
RESET YOUR THINKING.
MOVE ON IN THE LIGHT OF THE COSMOS. Emil Koval©

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BEFORE YOU BLAME THE COSMOS FOR YOUR PROBLEMS, LOOK INWARD TO SEE WHO IS REALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR PROBLEMS. Emil Koval©

INSTEAD OF BLAMING THE EXTERNAL WORLD FOR YOU PROBLEMS, LOOK INWARD AND RE-EXAMINE YOUR THOUGHTS AND THE SITUATION. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BLOOM INTERNALLY, YOU WILL ATTRACT THOSE WHO WILL BE BENEFICIAL TO YOUR PATH. Emil Koval©

BE PREPARED FOR THE STORMS OF YOUR LIFE BY CLARIFYING YOUR VALUES AND THOUGHTS. Emil Koval©

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TODAY MANY FATHERS AND MOTHERS FIND BEING A MOTHER OR FATHER INTERFERES WITH THERE INDIVIDUALITY. MANY ARE STILL STRUGGLING TO BALANCE PARTNERSHIP, MOTHERHOOD/FATHERHOOD, AND INDIVIDUALITY. INSTEAD OF BALANCING THEIR YIN AND YANG, MANY WANT TO TEAR IT APART. NATURE OUT OF BALANCE IN ANY FORM LEADS TO DISASTER. MOTHERS AND FATHERS SHOULD STRIVE BE TRUE PARTNERS AND PARENTS. Emil Koval©

YOU CAN ONLY SAVE YOURSELF BY FOCUSING INWARD INTO YOUR BEING. OTHERS CAN ONLY COACH YOU OR ADVISE YOU. ONLY YOU CAN TRULY TEACH YOU.Emil Koval©

REMEMBER THAT IT IS YOUR DECISION TO BE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT ARE GOOD CHOICES AND WHAT ARE BAD CHOICES. Emil Koval©

HAPPINESS IS NEITHER A REWARD OR A DESTINATION; IT IS A CONSEQUENCE OF YOUR METHOD OF LIFE! Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU DO NOT CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS, OR CONSTANT COMPLAINTS ABOUT YOUR UNHAPPINESS, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT YOU ARE HAPPY WITH YOUR UNHAPPINESS. Emil Koval©

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BEING A MOTHER TODAY IS MUCH MORE DIFFICULT THAN IT WAS IN THE PAST BECAUSE OF THE SOCIAL DISCONNECTION DUE TO MEDIA DEVICES AND GAMES. OUTSIDE INTEREST HAVE BECOME MORE IMPORTANT THAN INTERNAL FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS. FOR YOUR MOTHERS, TURN OFF THESE DEVICES AND FOCUS ON YOUR MOMS. MAKE THEM THE TRUE CENTER OF ATTENTION FOR TODAY. Emil Koval©

TO ALL MOTHERS; GREAT-GRANDMOTHERS, GRAND-MOTHERS, MOTHERS, MOTHERS-TO-BE, AND FEMALE CARE-GIVERS; I SEND ALL OF YOU MY DEEPEST RESPECT AND LOVE. KEEP YOUR MOTHERING-LIGHT BURNING BRIGHTLY ALWAYS. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU OFFER YOUR GOOD ADVICE TO SOMEONE, DO NOT BE OFFENDED IF IT IS REJECTED. THEY WERE NOT READY TO RECEIVE IT BECAUSE IT MIGHT INTERFERE WITH THEIR LIFE’S LESSONS. JUST KINDLY MOVE ON. YOU ARE THE BEACON THAT THEY REFUSED TO SEE SINCE IT MAY INTERFERE WITH THEIR KARMA AND DHARMA. Emil Koval©

REMEMBER THAT WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT PATHS TO FOLLOW TO GET TO THE SAME DESTINATION. RESPECT THEIR PATHS SO THEY CAN RESPECT YOURS. Emil Koval©

TO CONTROL OTHERS IS TO BECOME THEIR SLAVE. Emil Koval©

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DO YOUR BEST, NOT SOMEBODY ELSE’S BEST. Emil Koval©

MOTHER’S DAY SHOULD REMIND A MOTHER’S CHILDREN THAT EVERYDAY IS MOTHER’S DAY, AND IT SHOULD REMIND HER PARTNER THAT MOTHER’S DAY IS ALSO PARTNER’S DAY. Emil Koval©

IF YOU REFLECT ON YOUR DAY EACH DAY, THE FOLLOWING DAY WILL BE MORE REWARDING. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU GET UP IN THE MORNING, YOU HAVE TWO CHOICES: ACCEPT THE DAY POSITIVELY OR ACCEPT THE DAY NEGATIVELY. THE DAY WILL BE THE DAY. THE ONLY DIFFERENCE IS YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS IT. YOU ALONE MAKE YOUR DAY. Emil Koval©

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YOU WILL HAVE UP AND DOWN MOMENTS IN YOUR LIFE. IN THE UP MOMENTS YOU WILL HAVE ELATION, IN THE DOWN MOMENTS, YOU WILL HAVE TIME FOR REFLECTION AND RE-EVALUATION. Emil Koval©

YOU CAN ONLY TRULY GIVE TO OTHERS WHAT YOU CAN TRULY GIVE TO YOURSELF. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU GO INWARD DO YOU LISTEN TO YOUR VOICES OF DISAPPROVAL OR YOUR VOICES OF APPROVAL. QUESTION THE VOICES OF DISAPPROVAL, AND THEN CONTEMPLATE ON THE VOICES OF APPROVAL. Emil Koval©

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EMPOWER YOURSELF BY LOOKING INWARD AND FINDING THE REAL YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE DONE THIS, YOU WILL HAVE SELF-EMPOWERMENT. Emil Koval©

GREAT WORKS CAN ONLY BE INTERPRETED BY THOSE WHO READ THEM. MY INTERPRETATION MAY BE DIFFERENT THEN YOURS. THAT IS FINE. SHARING OUR INTERPRETATIONS WITH A TRUE SEARCH OF KNOWLEDGE IS A SHARED BLESSING. SHARING WITH THE INTENT TO CONVINCE OTHERS THAT YOURS IS THE RIGHT ONE IS NOT A BLESSING. IT IS AN ATTEMPT AT THOUGHT CONTROL. Emil Koval©

WITH MINDFULNESS YOU CAN PREDICT WHERE YOU GO AND WHAT YOU DO. THERE ARE NO EXCUSES. WHEN YOU HAVE A BAD EXPERIENCE, ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM IT. THEN MOVE ON. Emil Koval©

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ALWAYS REMEMBER TO BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. IF YOU ARE HAPPY, YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR CHILDREN SHOULD BE HAPPY. Emil Koval©

IF YOU ARE THE ANCHOR OF YOUR FAMILY, YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST; SELF-FULLY, NOT SELFISHLY. Emil Koval©

A SIMPLE LESSON IN LIFE: CHANGE YOUR FOCUS FROM WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR LIFE TO WHAT IS RIGHT WITH YOUR LIFE. Emil Koval©

WHEN YOU FEEL LOST, GO INWARDS AND ASK YOURSELF, “WHO HAVE I GIVEN MY POWER TO?” THEN BEGIN TO TAKE BACK YOUR POWER BY MAKING YOUR OWN DECISIONS. Emil Koval©

CHANGE GIVES YOU A CHANCE TO EVALUATE YOUR ATTITUDES IN LIFE. CHANGE CAN HELP YOU FIND YOUR OWN POWER. YOUR BODY ADAPTS TO CHANGES QUICKLY. YOUR THOUGHTS, HOWEVER, NEED CAREFUL MONITORING. TEACH YOUR MIND TO BE GOOD AT ADAPTING TO CHANGES. Emil Koval©

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