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THOUGHTS 5206 TO 5210

MY THOUGHTS 5206
LOVE: A MARRIAGE OF LOVE DOES NOT EXIST ON THE LEGAL DOCUMENT. IT EXISTS ONLY IN CONFINES OF MUTUALLY COOPERATIVE, LOVING, AND UNDERSTANDING HEARTS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5207
QUESTION 645: WHY DOES SOMEONE HAVE TO LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU LOVE THEM? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5208
LOVE: WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE THEM THERE ARE THREE POSSIBLE RESPONSES: 1) ACCEPTANCE, 2) INDIFFERENCE, OR 3) REJECTION. IF THE FIRST RESPONSE IS GIVEN, YOU WILL HAVE GREAT JOY IN YOUR HEART. IF THE LATTER TWO RESPONSES ARE GIVEN, THEN YOU SHOULD ACCEPT THE NEGATIVE RESPONSES AND MOVE ON. IF YOU TRY TO CONVINCE SOMEBODY TO LOVE YOU BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM, THE PROBLEM LIES WITH YOU, NOT WITH HIM/HER. JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE SOMEBODY DOES NOT MEAN THAT THEY HAVE TO LOVE YOU BACK. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5209
LOVE: IF YOU HAVE TO CONVINCE SOMEBODY TO LOVE YOU BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM/HER, YOU ARE TAKING THE WRONG PATH. YOU MAY, LIKE A SALES PERSON WITH A GREAT SALES PITCH, CONVINCE HER/HIM TO ACCEPT YOUR LOVE FOR NOW. HOWEVER, IN THE LONG RUN, IT WILL LEAD TO A TOTAL DISASTER BECAUSE IT REALLY WASN’T HIS/HER FREE WILL CHOICE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5210
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOU INSISTS ON STARTING A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MINDSET THAT ‘ALL MEN ARE …’ OR ‘ALL WOMEN ARE…’, THEN YOU SHOULD NOT TRY TO HAVE A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE OF THAT SEX. IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT ‘ALL (MEN/WOMEN) ARE….’ WHEN BEGINNING A RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU ARE BEGINNING THAT RELATIONSHIP ON A NEGATIVE NOTE AND WILL PUT YOUR POTENTIAL ‘LOVING’ PARTNER IN A DEFENSIVE STANCE IMMEDIATELY. THAT DEFENSIVE STANCE WILL NOT LEAD TO A HARMONIOUS UNION; IT WILL, EVENTUALLY, LEAD TO A RELATIONSHIP FILLED WITH CONFLICT AND DISUNION. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5201 TO 5205

MY THOUGHTS 5201
OPPORTUNITIES: DO NOT TURN AWAY FROM YOUR OPPORTUNITIES OR CHALLENGES, FOR THEY ARE YOUR GIFTS FROM THE COSMOS TO HELP YOU GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AT THE PRESENT TIME. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5202
OPPORTUNITIES: ALWAYS FACE THE OPPORTUNITIES AND CHALLENGES THAT YOU ARE FACING ‘WITH A YOU’ THAT IS BALANCED SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND INTELLECTUALLY. WHY, BECAUSE SOME OF THOSE OPPORTUNITIES AND CHALLENGES MAY HAVE A HIDDEN NEGATIVE WITHIN THEM. ALWAYS BE READY TO FACE THOSE NEGATIVES AND TO TURN THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS ON YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5203
ACHIEVEMENT: THE TRULY GREATEST CONQUEST IN YOUR LIFE IS THE CONQUEST OF WHO, HOW, WHY, AND WHAT YOU ARE IN ESSENCE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5204
GROWTH: IF YOU HAVE LIVED AN EGO CENTRIC LIFE AND HAVE ATTAINED YOUR MATERIAL AND SOCIAL GOALS AND STILL FEEL EMPTY INSIDE, THEN, IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO FOCUS ON SHARING WITH OTHERS BY FOCUSING ON THOSE AROUND YOU WHO NEED YOUR HELP IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5205
QUESTION 644: IS YOUR FAITH THE BONDING WITH PHYSICAL AND MATERIAL THINGS, OR IS YOUR FAITH A BONDING WITH THE SPIRITUAL? DOES YOUR FAITH CREATE SPIRITUAL BONDING, OR DOES YOUR FAITH CREATE PHYSICAL AND MATERIAL BONDING? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5196 TO 5200

MY THOUGHTS 5196
ACCEPTANCE: WHEN YOU TOLERATE SOMETHING, IT IS A TEMPORARY NEGATIVE ACCEPTANCE OF THAT SOMETHING THAT YOU DO NOT TOTALLY COMPREHEND. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCES, IT MEANS THAT YOU HAVE ACCEPTED THOSE DIFFERENCES AS A POSITIVE TO HELP EACH OTHER GROW. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5197
QUESTION 641: DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TOLERATING YOUR DIFFERENCES WITH OTHERS AND UNDERSTANDING YOUR DIFFERENCES WITH OTHER? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5198
QUESTION 642: CAN YOU GIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS? CAN YOU GIVE WITHOUT PREFERENCES? CAN YOU GIVE JUST TO BE GIVING? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5199
QUESTION 643: IS YOUR SUCCESS BASED ON NEGATIVE ACTIONS TOWARDS OTHERS? IS YOUR SUCCESS BASED ON POSITIVE INTENTIONS TOWARD OTHERS? DOES YOUR SUCCESS HAVE BOTH ASPECTS, AND IF SO, WHY AND HOW? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5200
GIVING: TRUE GIVING DOESN’T REQUIRE FINANCIAL ABILITIES. TRUE GIVING JUST REQUIRES A HEART THAT IS FILLED WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. THE GIFT OF GIVING CAN BE AS SIMPLE AS GIVING A SMILE, TRULY LISTENING, HOLDING SOMEONE’S HAND, ACKNOWLEDGING SOMEONE’S DIFFICULTIES, AND VOLUNTEERING. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5191 TO 5195

MY THOUGHTS 5191
LISTENING: TRAIN YOUR BRAIN TO LISTEN. YOU CAN DO THIS BY MAKING A LIST OF YOUR NEGATIVES, FOR EXAMPLE. LOOK AT YOUR LIST AND SEE IF EACH ITEM IS A TRUE OR PERCEIVED NEGATIVE OF YOU. LISTEN TO YOUR INTERNAL VOICES AND MINDFULLY LISTEN TO THOSE AROUND YOU WHO EXPRESS OPINIONS ABOUT YOU. IF THEY ARE PERCEIVED NEGATIVES, THEN CHANGE YOURS AND THEIR PERCEPTIONS. IF THOSE NEGATIVES ARE TRUE NEGATIVES, THEN YOU SHOULD START THE PROCESS OF CHANGING THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOL IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5192
CHALLENGES: DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR DREAMS ARE AND WHAT THE PROBLEMS ARE THAT YOU HAVE ATTAINING THEM? WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THOSE PROBLEMS, TURN YOU CAN THEM INTO POSITIVE TOOLS TO HELP YOU ATTAIN YOUR DREAMS SO THAT THEY WILL NO LONGER INTERFERE IN YOUR DREAMS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5193
FOCUS: ALWAYS BE RELAXED AND AWARE IN YOUR PRESENT MOMENT. WHEN MOMENTS OF FEAR AND CRISIS INTERRUPT YOUR PEACE OF MIND, CALM DOWN BY BEING IN THE PRESENT AND MINDFULLY DEAL WITH THOSE FEARS AND CRISES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5194
QUESTION 640: ARE YOU AWARE OF WHY YOU DO THE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT YOU DO TO YOU? ARE YOU WILLING TO ADDRESS THOSE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT YOU DO THINGS TO YOU? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5195
ANGER: ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT LOGIC IS THE FIRST CASUALTY OF ANGER. EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5186 TO 5190

MY THOUGHTS 5186
PARABLES: MILAN RAN INTO AN OLD FRIEND ONE DAY WHO WAS BROADLY SMILING. MILAN ASKED HIM WHY WAS HE SO CONTENT. HE SAID THAT MANY SENIORS AT HIS LOCAL CENTER HAD ASKED HIM TO PICK UP CERTAIN ITEMS FROM DISTANT STORE FOR THEM, WHICH HE DID AND RECEIVED HIS PAYMENT. HOWEVER, ONE ELDERLY KIND LADY SAID THAT SHE HAD TO WAIT TILL SHE HAD RECEIVED HER SOCIAL SECURITY CHECK IN THREE WEEKS. FINALLY, SHE SAID SHE WAS READY TO PAY FOR THE ITEM. HE GAVE THE ITEM TO HER AND RECEIVED THE PAYMENT OF $20. HE LOOKED INTO HER EYES AND PUT THE PAYMENT BACK INTO HER HAND. HE TOLD HER THAT SHE SHOULD TAKE THAT MONEY AND EMPHASIZED THAT SHE SHOULD BUY SOMETHING SPECIAL JUST FOR HERSELF. SHE WAS SO SURPRISED, AS THE TEARS WELLED IN YOUR EYES, BECAUSE SOMEONE HAD THOUGHT ABOUT HER HAPPINESS FIRST. HE MET AGAIN THE NEXT DAY. SHE HAD DONE WHAT HE HAD SUGGESTED. HER FACE WAS RADIANT WITH JOY, WHICH BROUGHT JOY TO MILAN S FRIEND S HEART. THE LADY HAD FULFILLED HER OBLIGATION BY MAKING THE PAYMENT, AND THE GENTLEMAN HAD FULFILL HIS OBLIGATION OF GENEROSITY BY RETURNING THAT PAYMENT AND REQUIRING HER TO BUY SOMETHING ONLY FOR HERSELF. IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO DO THE SAME? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5187
GROWTH: TO BEGIN TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, YOU MUST MINDFULLY THINK BEFORE YOU ACT OR SPEAK. DO NOT REACT; ACT OR RESPOND MINDFULLY. YOU MUST UNDERSTAND WHO YOU ARE IN THE NOW. WHO YOU ARE NOW IS NOT CAST IN STONE. YOU CAN MOLD YOURSELF INTO TO ANY FORM YOU WISH TO TAKE; HOWEVER, DO IT MINDFULLY. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5188
APOLOGIES: APOLOGIES FOR NEGLECT OR FOR INATTENTION ARE NOT VALID UNLESS THEY ARE FOLLOWED BY ACTIONS OF NON-NEGLECT AND ATTENTION. WORDS ARE EASY TO SAY: HOWEVER, ACTIONS REQUIRE TRUE INTENTIONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5189
QUESTION 368: HAS YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECOME ONE OF BOTH BONDING AND BONDAGE IN DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF THAT RELATIONSHIP? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5190
QUESTION 369: WHAT IS YOUR PERCEPTION OF LIVING A RICH LIFE? WHAT IS YOUR PERCEPTION OF LIVING A REWARDED LIFE? WHAT IS YOUR PERCEPTION OF LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5181 TO 5185

MY THOUGHTS 5181
QUESTION 636: IS YOUR PERSONAL IDENTITY BUILT AROUND YOUR SPIRITUALITY, OR YOUR INTELLIGENCE, OR YOUR MATERIAL WEALTH? IS YOUR PERSONAL IDENTITY BASED ON THE COMBINATION OF ALL THREE? EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5182
SKEPTICS: BE GRATEFUL TO SKEPTICS BECAUSE THEY GIVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO STRENGTHEN YOUR BELIEFS OR TO RE-EVALUATE YOUR BELIEFS. DO NOT ARGUE WITH THE SKEPTICS, JUST THANK THEM FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO RE-EVALUATE AND STRENGTHENING YOUR BELIEFS. THIS GIVES YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE READY FOR THE NEXT TIME YOU ENCOUNTER SKEPTICS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5183
ENERGY VAMPIRES: YOU WILL ENCOUNTER MANY TYPES OF PEOPLE ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN THOSE WHO BRING YOU ENERGY AND THOSE WHO ARE ENERGY VAMPIRES. THOSE WHO ARE ENERGY VAMPIRES WILL BASICALLY DRAIN YOU OF YOUR ENERGY. WHEN YOU FEEL TOTALLY DRAINED OF ENERGY WHEN TALKING WITH SOMEONE, YOU HAVE ENCOUNTERED AN ENERGY VAMPIRE. YOU MUST LEARN TO WALK AWAY FROM THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE. IF YOU DO NOT, THEY WILL LEAVE YOU DRAINED OF YOU ENERGY WITH EVERY ENCOUNTER. JUST THANK THEM FOR THEIR INPUT AND MOVE ON. IF SOMETHING REALLY BOTHERS YOU ABOUT WHAT THEY HAD SAID, RE-EVALUATE WHAT YOU BELIEVE AND WHAT THEY HAD SAID THAT DISTURBS YOU. IF YOU GET INTO ARGUMENTS WITH ENERGY VAMPIRES, THEY WILL ONLY DEPLETE YOUR ENERGY. REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE SPECIAL KARMIC TESTS FOR YOU ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. LEARN FROM THEM AND THEN MOVE ON. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5184
CHOICES: ONE MUST KEEP IN MIND THAT KARMA IS NOT A PUNISHMENT. KARMIC CHOICES ARE OPPORTUNITIES GIVEN TO YOU BY THE COSMOS TO HELP YOU TO KEEP YOUR LIFE IN BALANCE. THE CHOICES YOU MAKE ARE IMPORTANT. SO MINDFULLY CONTEMPLATE YOUR KARMIC CHOICES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5185
QUESTIONS: DO YOU LOOK AT THE OPPORTUNITIES THAT COME YOUR WAY AS OPPORTUNITIES PRESENTED TO YOU SO THAT YOU CAN GROW SPIRITUALLY, INTELLECTUALLY, AND EMOTIONALLY, OR DO YOU LOOK FOR WHATEVER PERSONAL GAINS, BOTH SOCIALLY AND OR ECONOMICALLY, THAT YOU CAN ACHIEVE REGARDLESS OF CONSEQUENCES TO OTHERS? EmilKoval©2013

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THOUGHTS 5176 TO 5180

MY THOUGHTS 5176
SUGGESTION: INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON AND DEBATING ABOUT OUR DIFFERENCES, WE SHOULD BE FOCUSING ON OUR SIMILARITIES AND BE DISCUSSING THE WHY AND HOW OF ARE DIFFERENCES. THIS IS THE PATH TO INNER PEACE AND TRUE EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING. WE SHOULD RESPECT AND LEARN FROM OUR DIFFERENCES, AND WE SHOULD CELEBRATE OUR COMMONALITIES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5177
TEACHING: WHEN WE FOCUS ON TEACHING ABOUT WARS AND CONQUESTS IN OUR SCHOOLS, WE ARE AVOIDING TEACHING ABOUT OUR SPIRITUAL ESSENCE. IF WE WOULD FOCUS ON TEACHING ABOUT THE PROGRESSION OF THOUGHTS, PHILOSOPHIES, AND IDEAS, THERE WOULD BE MORE HARMONY AND LESS CONFLICT IN THIS WORLD. TEACHERS SHOULD BE TEACHING THE PROGRESSION OF THOUGHTS AND LOGIC THAT OCCURRED BETWEEN WARS AND HOW THEY HAVE LEAD TO THOSE WARS. MANY TEACHERS, TODAY, ARE USING THEIR CAPTIVE STUDENTS TO PROSELYTIZE THEIR POLITICAL BELIEFS. INSTEAD OF TEACHING THE PROGRESSION OF THE THOUGHTS AND THE IDEAS THAT HAVE CREATED THE WORLD WE ARE PRESENTLY LIVING IN. INSTEAD OF CREATING STUDENTS WHO CAN THINK FOR THEMSELVES, THE ARE CREATING POLITICAL AUTOMATONS. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5178
TEACHING: TEACHERS SHOULD BE TEACHING THEIR STUDENTS HOW TO EVALUATE THE DIFFERENCES AND THE COMMONALITIES OF ALL PEOPLES AND ALL CULTURES THROUGH VARIOUS SCHOOL SUBJECTS. THE SCIENCES SHOULD BE TAUGHT IN WAY THAT STRESSES THE UNIVERSALITY OF MATHEMATICAL, PHYSICAL, AND BIOLOGICAL TRUTHS. THIS ALSO APPLIES TO MUSIC APPRECIATION BY DEMONSTRATING THE UNIVERSAL AFFECT OF MUSIC AND HOW DIFFERENT CULTURAL INTERPRETATIONS OF RHYTHMS CREATE WONDROUS VARIETIES THAT EVERYONE CAN ENJOY. THE SOCIAL SCIENCES SHOULD BE TAUGHT TO HELP THE STUDENTS SEE THE COMMONALITIES IN CULTURES AS WELL AS TO UNDERSTAND WHY AND HOW OF THE DIFFERENCES IN CULTURES. EDUCATION SHOULD BE THE MAIN TOOL TO CREATING HARMONY THROUGH OUR SIMILARITIES AND CREATING PROGRESSIVE POSITIVE GROWTH THROUGH OUR DIFFERENCES. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5179
TEACHING: TRUE SPIRITUAL TEACHERS NEVER TEACH DOGMA. TRUE SPIRITUAL TEACHERS WILL ONLY GUIDE YOU ON HOW YOU MIGHT PROCEED ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. SPIRITUAL TEACHERS ARE ‘GUIDES’ TO ‘SUGGEST’ HOW YOU MAY PROCEED ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. THEY ARE NOT DICTATORS OF HOW YOU SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR DHARMIC PATH. EmilKoval©2013

MY THOUGHTS 5180
QUESTION 635: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP A RELATIONSHIP THAT LEADS TO PHYSICAL, SPIRITUAL, MENTAL, AND EMOTIONAL BONDING, OR IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP A RELATIONSHIP THAT LEADS TO PHYSICAL, SPIRITUAL, MENTAL, AND EMOTIONAL BONDAGE? EmilKoval©2013

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