THOUGHTS 3397 TO 3400

MY THOUGHTS 3397
FOR THOSE WHO FEEL THEY ARE SPIRITUALLY READY TO HELP OTHERS, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE THE WATCHERS AND ADVISORS. YOU ARE TEACHERS AND STUDENTS OF PRESENT EVENTS. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHEN TO HELP AND WHEN NOT TO INTERFERE. YOU HAVE THE INTERESTING TASKS IN MAINTAINING THE BALANCING POINT IN THE YIN AND YANG OF THINGS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3398
ENJOY AND LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN. NO PIECE OF KNOWLEDGE IS EVER TRIVIAL. YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN IT MAYBE VITAL TO YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3399
JUST REMEMBER THAT FOR ALL THINGS GOOD OR BAD THE EXPRESSION “THIS TOO SHALL PASS”. IT IS A REMINDER THAT OUR TRUE HAPPINESS IS BASED OUR INNER UNDERSTANDING OF THINGS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3400
IF YOU TRULY WISH TO HAVE INNER PEACE, INSTEAD OF WATCHING TV AND LISTENING TO THE NEWS, SPEND MORE TIME WHERE YOU CAN BE HELPFUL TO OTHERS. ALSO, LISTEN TO GOOD MUSIC, HAVE GOOD THOUGHTS, AND BE AROUND LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE. EmilKoval©2012

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MY THOUGHTS 3393 TO 3396

MY THOUGHTS 3393
ALL INDIVIDUALS HAVE SIMILAR STORIES AND DESIRES IN THEIR LIVES. WE THINK THAT WE ARE DIFFERENT BECAUSE OUR CULTURES, FAITHS, LANGUAGES, AND ETHNICITIES ARE DIFFERENT. HOWEVER, THE HUMAN SPIRIT AND DESIRES ARE THE SAME IN ALL OF US. ONCE WE RECOGNIZE THIS, WE CAN CREATE AND MAINTAIN A MORE HARMONIOUS WORLD DESPITE OUR OTHER DIFFERENCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3394
WHEN YOU ARE TRULY READY, THE RIGHT PARTNER AND THE RIGHT FRIENDS WILL APPEAR IN YOUR LIFE. WHEN YOU ARE FOCUSED ON YOUR GOALS, THE COSMOS WILL SEND OTHERS TO JOIN YOU AND HELP YOU. THAT INCLUDES FRIENDS AND POTENTIAL PARTNERS. PATIENCE IS THE KEY. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE YOU WILL NOT FIND THE RIGHT LOVE. IF YOU FOCUS ON YOU AND YOUR GOALS, YOU WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT PARTNER TO YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3395
FREE-WILL: EVEN THOUGH FREE-WILL GIVES YOU FREEDOM TO MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES, REMEMBER THAT IT ALSO GIVES GREATER RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE. ALL OF THE CHOICES THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO MAKE ARE YOUR ‘KARMIC’ CHOICES WHICH HAVE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES. CHOOSE WELL AND TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR CHOICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3396
AS SPIRITUAL BEINGS IN HUMAN BODIES, YOU ARE TESTED THROUGH HURTS, PAINS, AND IRRITANTS THROUGHOUT YOUR TIME HERE. HOW YOU REACT TO ANY OF THOSE IRRITANTS DETERMINES YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. SO WHY NOT TAKE A LESSON FROM THE OYSTERS WHO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE IRRITATION CAUSE BY SAND PARTICLES THAT GET INSIDE THEIR SHELLS. THEY CONSTANTLY WORK WITH THAT IRRITANT AND, IN TIME, TURN IT INTO A BEAUTIFUL PEARL. REMEMBER THAT TURNING NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES IS PREFERABLE TO WALLOWING IN SELF-PITY. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3389 TO 3392

MY THOUGHTS 3389
OLYMPIC GAMES: ENJOY THE OLYMPIC GAMES THROUGH THE EXHIBITIONS OF ‘HUMAN POTENTIALITY’, NOT THROUGH NATIONAL, ETHNIC, CULTURAL, OR FAITH’S IDENTITIES. NO FLAGS. NO POLITICS. JUST THE MIND, BODY, AND SOUL DEMONSTRATING THE ACHIEVEMENTS THAT THEY CAN EXCEL TO THROUGH THEIR COOPERATIVE EFFORTS. JUST RE-FOCUS HOW YOU VIEW THE GAMES; HUMAN POTENTIALITY OR POLITICAL / CULTURAL / ETHNIC DOMINANCE. IT IS YOUR CHOICE ON HOW YOU SEE THE GAMES. YOUR CHOICE DEFINES YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3390
OLYMPIC GAMES: LET US REMOVE ALL NATIONAL IDENTITIES FROM THE OLYMPIC GAMES AND CELEBRATE THE DEMONSTRATION OF THE MIND, THE BODY, AND THE SOUL WORKING IN HARMONIOUS UNISON. WE SHOULD CELEBRATE THE MANY EXHIBITIONS OF THE HUMAN POTENTIAL THROUGH THE MULTI-CULTURAL, MULTI-FAITH, AND MULTI-ETHNIC PEOPLES’ PHYSICALLY TUNED BODIES, DE-CLUTTERED MINDS FOCUSING ON A GOAL, AND THEIR SPIRITS MEETING ALL THE CHALLENGES REQUIRING COOPERATING MINDS, BODIES, AND SOULS. LET THE OLYMPICS BE A LESSON OF INTER-CULTURAL, INTER-FAITH, AND INTER-ETHNIC COOPERATION FOR ALL PEOPLES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3391
OLYMPIC GAMES: THE OLYMPIC GAMES SHOULD BE ‘GAMES’ WHERE EVERYONE CELEBRATES THE COOPERATIVE ACCOMPLISHMENTS OF THE MIND, BODY, AND SOUL; WHERE ALL PARTICIPANTS ARE HONORED FOR THEIR MIND, BODY, AND SOUL’S FOCUSED ACHIEVEMENTS. THE MEDALISTS SHOULD BE PRAISED FOR DEMONSTRATING HOW MUCH THE MIND, BODY, AND SOUL CAN ACHIEVE WHEN TRULY FOCUSED ON A GOAL. REMEMBER THAT MANY MEDALISTS HAVE WON THEIR MEDALS BY A MERE FRACTION OF A SECOND. ALL ARE WINNERS FOR BEING PARTICIPANTS. LET US REMOVE THE NATIONAL VICTORIES AND EMPHASIZE THE DEMONSTRATION OF HUMAN POTENTIALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3392
QUESTION 334: DO YOU SEE THE OLYMPIC ‘GAMES’ AS A BATTLEFIELD FOR DEMONSTRATING ‘YOUR’ POLITICAL, CULTURAL, AND ETHNIC SUPERIORITY, OR DO YOU SEE THE OLYMPIC GAMES AS ‘SPIRITUAL’ DEMONSTRATION OF THE COOPERATIVE POTENTIALITY OF ALL HUMANKIND? DO THE GAMES, IN YOUR MIND, DEMONSTRATE THE POTENTIAL SPIRITUAL COOPERATION FOR HUMANKIND, OR A DEMONSTRATION OF PERPETUAL COMPETITIVE CONFLICTS BETWEEN ALL ELEMENTS OF HUMANITY. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3385 TO 3388

MY THOUGHTS 3385
PEOPLE WHO DESTROY IMAGES THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO OTHERS DEMONSTRATE THEIR LACK OF HUMAN UNDERSTANDING AND COMPASSION. IS IT NOT BETTER TO DISCUSS SOMEONE’S NEED FOR IMAGERY FOR SPIRITUAL STRENGTH. IF SOMEONE’S IMAGERY IS OFFENSIVE, THEN THERE SHOULD BE NO CHURCHES, MOSQUES, OR TEMPLES ANYWHERE. NO ART, NO WRITINGS, NO POETRY, OR ANY EXPRESSIONS OF SPIRITUAL FEELINGS. IF OTHERS’ EXPRESSION OF SPIRITUALITY OFFENDS YOU, THEN AVOID IT; FOR IF YOU TRY TO DESTROY THEIR SPIRITUAL IMAGERY, THEY MAY, IN TURN, FEEL THE RIGHT TO DESTROY YOURS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3386
THE DESTRUCTION OF HOLY IMAGES OF OTHERS ONLY DEMONSTRATES THE INTOLERANCE OF IGNORANT INDIVIDUALS. THEY MAY DESTROY THE EXTERNAL HOLY IMAGES OF OTHERS, BUT THEY CANNOT DESTROY THE HOLY IMAGES WITHIN THE BELIEVERS’ HEARTS. WHEN YOU DESTROY THE IMAGES OF OTHERS, YOUR ALSO DESTROY THEIR TRUST IN YOU AND CREATE ANIMOSITY TOWARDS YOUR FAITH. IF YOUR GOD DOES NOT LIKE THOSE IMAGES, THEN YOUR GOD PERSONALLY SHOULD DESTROY THEM WITH HIS/HER THOUGHTS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3387
PLANTS AND WEEDS LIVE SIDE BY SIDE AND BECOME SYMBIOTIC FRIENDS IN NATURE. LIONS AND ZEBRA LIVE SIDE BY SIDE IN A SYMBIOTIC RELATIONSHIP. THE LION KILLS ONLY TO EAT AND THEY USUALLY ONLY CATCH THE WEAK AND THE ILL. THIS SAVES THE HERD FROM DESTRUCTION AND GIVES THE LION NOURISHMENT. AT WATERING HOLES ALL ANIMALS TAKE TURNS DRINKING. HUMAN BEINGS HAVE MUCH TO LEARN FROM NATURE. PRIMARILY, TOLERANCE, PATIENCE, AND ACCEPTANCE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3388
PEOPLE OF FAITH WHO HAVE TOLERANCE, PATIENCE, AND ACCEPTANCE CAN SHARE THEIR BELIEFS WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING; AND MAY EVEN GET OTHERS TO WILLING JOIN THEIR FAITH. THOSE WHO LACK THOSE QUALITIES WILL EVENTUALLY BRING HATRED, CONTEMPT, AND DESTRUCTION TO THEIR OWN FAITH. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3381 TO 3384

MY THOUGHTS 3381
FORGIVENESS: TRUE FORGIVENESS IS AN INTERNAL PROCESS. FIND A QUIET PLACE TO GO INWARD AND FEEL YOUR HURTS FULLY. ALLOW YOUR ANGRY EMOTIONS TO VENT FULLY IN YOUR MIND. CRY A RIVER IF YOU MUST. ONCE YOUR EMOTIONS HAVE VENTED ITSELF FULLY, YOU CAN FULLY EXAMINE THE WHYS AND HOWS OF YOUR HURTS. FIRST, ASK YOURSELF WHETHER YOUR EMOTIONAL RESPONSE IS REALLY WHO YOU ARE, AND WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO DO. THEN ASK YOURSELF WHY YOU ALLOWED YOURSELF TO BE HURT IN THAT WAY IN THE FIRST PLACE. UNDERSTAND THE CAUSES OF YOUR REACTIONS, EXAMINE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR OFFENDER, AND SEE HOW CAN YOU TURN THAT NEGATIVE INTO A POSITIVE. REMEMBER THAT THIS IS AN INTERNAL CONFLICT WITHIN YOU. EXTERNAL OPINIONS FROM SOME MAY FAN THE FLAMES OF YOUR HURT. BE CAREFUL! EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3382
FORGIVENESS: WHEN YOU FULLY UNDERSTAND THAT THE HURT YOU FEEL IS ‘YOUR’ INTERNAL PROBLEM, YOU CAN RELEASE THAT HURT TO THE COSMOS THROUGH PURE WHITE COSMIC LIGHT. YOU CAN ALSO ‘FULLY’ EXPRESS YOUR ANGRY, HURT FEELINGS ON PAPER. PUT THAT PAPER AWAY FOR A FEW DAYS AND THEN READ IT AGAIN. IF YOU NO LONGER FEEL SUCH RAGE THAT YOU PUT ON THAT PAPER, THEN YOU SHOULD BURN THOSE THOUGHTS UNTIL THERE IS ONLY ASHES LEFT. THIS IS A GREAT PSYCHOLOGICAL TOOL TO DEAL WITH YOUR PAIN. THEN FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR ALLOWING YOU TO BE HURT BY YOUR EGO AND BY OTHERS. YOU DO NOT NEED TO TELL OTHER THAT YOU FORGIVE THEM. IF YOU ARE ASKED ABOUT YOUR HURT, JUST SAY THAT THAT WAS ME THEN; THIS ME NOW. NO OTHER EXPLANATION IS NECESSARY. REMEMBER THAT ‘YOU’ ARE IN CONTROL OF ‘YOUR’ EMOTIONS. NEVER GIVE THAT CONTROL TO OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3383
SHARING: SHARE FOR THE JOY OF SHARING. IF YOU WISH TO GROW SPIRITUALLY, NEVER SHARE FOR PERSONAL RECOGNITION. WHEN YOU SHARE, SOME WILL LISTEN ATTENTIVELY, SOME WILL HALF-LISTEN, AND SOME WILL HAVE SLEEPY MINDS. JUST PLANT THE SEEDS OF YOUR WISDOM AND LET THEM GROW WHERE THERE IS FERTILE SOIL. WHETHER SOMEONE PRAISES YOUR THOUGHTS OR CRITICIZES YOUR THOUGHTS, JUST THANK THEM FOR THEIR RESPONSE TO YOUR THOUGHTS. REMEMBER THAT ANY RESPONSE MEANS THAT YOU HAVE STIMULATED SOMEONE TO THINK AND EVALUATE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3384
REJECTION: WHETHER SOMEONE REJECTS YOU OR ACCEPTS YOU IS A POSITIVE RESPONSE TO YOU BECAUSE BOTH REACTIONS HAVE GIVEN YOU RECOGNITION AS A VIABLE HUMAN BEING, SO NEVER BE UPSET BY REJECTIONS. REMEMBER THAT EVEN A NEGATIVE REJECTION IS AN ‘RECOGNITION OF THE EXISTENCE OF YOU’. THE ONES THAT TOTALLY DON’T REALLY CARE WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOU SAY DO NOT CARE ENOUGH TO RECOGNIZE YOU AS A VIABLE BEING. YOU DO NOT EXIST TO THEM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3377 TO 3380

MY THOUGHTS 3377
FORGIVENESS: WHEN YOU FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT YOU, IT DOESN’T MATTER WHETHER THEY HEAR YOUR FORGIVENESS OR NOT. ACTUALLY, THEY MAY NOT EVEN CARE FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS. TO FORGIVE THEM IS TO RELEASE YOUR ANGER ABOUT THE PHYSICAL, VERBAL, OR EMOTIONAL HURTS YOU HAVE RECEIVED. FORGIVENESS IS A GIFT TO YOU, NOT TO THEM. WHEN YOU FORGIVE THEM YOU MUST ALSO FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR ALLOWING YOU TO BE HURT BY THEIR ACTIONS OR WORDS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3378
ANGER: REMEMBER THAT YOUR ANGER ABOUT THE HURTS THAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED IS ONLY HURTING YOU AND AFFECTING THOSE WHO ARE CLOSE TO YOU. YOUR ANGER HAS NO AFFECT ON THOSE WHO INTENTIONALLY HURT YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY, OR VERBALLY. THEY JUST DO NOT CARE HOW YOU FEEL AND MAY EVEN TAKE GREAT SATISFACTION IN YOUR TORMENTS. LEARN FROM THOSE NEGATIVITIES, TURN THEM INTO POSITIVES, AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3379
SPIRITUALITY: A TRULY SPIRITUAL PERSON LOOKS FOR THE COMMONALITIES IN ALL THINGS AND PEOPLES. THEY LOOK AT AND UNDERSTAND THE LESSONS THAT INDIVIDUALS NEED TO LEARN THROUGH THEIR FAITHS, THEIR CULTURES, AND THEIR ETHNICITIES WITHOUT PASSING JUDGEMENT ON THEM. THAT SPIRITUAL BEING MAY SHARE HIS OBSERVATIONS, USE QUESTIONS TO STIMULATE THINKING, AND SHOW HIS/HER COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING OF THE TASKS THAT OTHERS MAY FACE IN LIFE. THAT SPIRITUAL PERSON WILL ALSO BE WILLING TO LEARN FROM AND TO IMPROVE HER/HIMSELF BY THOSE OBSERVATIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3380
NOTE TO A FRIEND: I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU, HELP YOU, AND ADVISE YOU AS A FRIEND; HOWEVER, I WILL NEVER BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR IGNORANCE OR BIASES. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3373 TO 3376

MY THOUGHTS 3373
YOUR DAYS OF REST, YOUR MOMENTS OF SILENCE, AND YOUR MOMENTS OF BEING ALONE ARE OPPORTUNITIES TO RE-ENERGIZE, TO RE-FOCUS, AND TO RE-EVALUATE ‘YOU’. THEY ARE MOMENTS TO RE-CREATE YOU. USE THEM WISELY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3374
YOU LIFE RESPONDS TO THE SPIRITUALITY OF YOU AND THE CONDITION OF YOUR PHYSICAL BODY. TREAT AND NURTURE THEM BOTH WELL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3375
YOUR ONLY TRUE REALITY IS THIS VERY MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. YOU CAN CHOOSE TO LIVE IN YOUR PAST MEMORIES, OR YOU CAN CHOOSE TO CREATE BETTER MEMORIES AT THIS MOMENT FOR YOUR FUTURE TIME MEMORIES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3376
WHEN YOU REALIZE THAT YOUR MEMORIES OF YOUR PAST ARE REFLECTIONS OF WHOM YOU WERE AND NOT NECESSARILY OF WHOM YOU ARE TODAY, IT IS TIME TO LET GO OF THEM BECAUSE THEY HAVE BECOME ANCHORS ON YOUR FULL POTENTIAL GROWTH. LIVING AT YOUR FULL POTENTIAL IS BENEFICIAL TO YOU, YOUR PARTNER, AND THOSE WHO DEPEND ON YOU. RECOGNIZE THAT THOSE PAST MEMORIES REPRESENT YOUR PAST TRUTHS, AND THAT YOU ARE NOW FREE TO GROW BEYOND THEM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3369 TO 3372

MY THOUGHTS 3369
WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, THERE IS A NATURAL HUMAN DESIRE TO HAVE ‘POSSESSIONS’ FOR HUMAN GRATIFICATION IN THIS HUMAN WORLD. THOSE THINGS MAY BE IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ACCEPTANCE IN HUMAN SOCIETIES. HAVING THOSE ‘THINGS’ DO CREATE A PROBLEM OF RESPONSIBILITY FOR MAINTAINING AND SECURING THEM. HOWEVER, AS YOU MATURE AND APPROACH YOUR LATER YEARS, YOU WILL FIND THAT THE FEWER ‘THINGS’ YOU HAVE, THE FEWER THE RESPONSIBILITIES YOU WILL HAVE YOU TO MAINTAIN THEM. YOU WILL DISCOVER THAT THE ONLY THING YOU WILL NEED IN ORDER TO HAVE INNER PEACE IS YOUR UNDERSTANDING AND YOUR INNER KNOWLEDGE OF THOSE WHOM YOU LOVE WHEN THEY COME TO ASK FOR ADVICE. EVENTUALLY, HAVING NOTHING WILL GIVE YOU SPIRITUAL PEACE WHEN YOU ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOU CANNOT TAKE ANYTHING WITH YOU WHEN YOU RETURN TO THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3370
WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, YOUR WISH IS TO BE ACCEPTED BY AND BE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR SOCIAL WORLD. AT FIRST, YOU FEEL THE FREEDOM TO GROW WITH PUBLIC RECOGNITION FOR YOUR ACTIONS AND WORDS. TO MAINTAIN THAT ACCEPTANCE, YOU MUST CONFORM TO AND LIMIT YOUR WORDS AND ACTIONS TO THE CENSORSHIP OF YOUR SOCIETY. AT SOME POINT YOU WILL HAVE TO CHOOSE TO LIVE A STAGNATED LIFE OR TO GROW BEYOND YOUR SOCIAL NORMS IN A COMPASSIONATE AND UNDERSTANDING WAY. A TOTAL OR PARTIAL DETACHMENT MAY BE NECESSARY. THAT CHOICE IS YOURS ALONE TO MAKE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3371
THE PROBLEM WITH PUBLIC RECOGNITION FOR THE THINGS THAT YOU DO AND THE THINGS THAT YOU SAY IS THAT YOUR ACTIONS AND THOUGHTS WILL BECOME LIMITED TO THE NEEDS OF YOUR SOCIAL WORLD. YOUR ARE FORCED TO LIMIT YOUR ACTIONS AND THOUGHTS TO WHAT IS CONSIDERED TO BE ACCEPTABLE BY YOUR SOCIETY IN ORDER TO KEEP THEIR RECOGNITION OF YOU. IN ORDER TO GROW TO HIGHER LEVELS OF SPIRITUALITY YOU WILL HAVE FOREGO THAT RECOGNITION AND START ‘YOUR’ PROCESS OF DETACHMENT IN A LOVING AND CARING WAY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3372
QUESTION 334: CAN YOU REMOVE YOUR SELF FROM THE CIRCLE OF BLAME AND TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS AND WHO YOU ARE? ARE YOU WILLING TO MAKE POSITIVE KARMIC CHOICES AND MATURE SPIRITUAL CHOICES? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 2265 TO 3368

MY THOUGHTS 3365
THE ONLY WAY TO SHARE YOUR FAITH IS BY BEING AN EXAMPLE OF THE PRECEPTS OF YOUR FAITH AND A HUMBLE EXPLAINER TO OTHERS OF THEIR PERCEIVED NEGATIVES OF YOUR FAITH. THIS SHOULD ATTRACT OTHERS TO YOU TO HONESTLY INQUIRE ABOUT YOUR FAITH. WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO IMPOSE HIS/HER FAITH THROUGH AGGRESSION OR INTIMIDATION, THEY MAY CREATE BELIEVERS OUT FEAR, BUT THEY NEVER CREATE TRUE BELIEVERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3366
YOU DO NOT NEED A REASON TO FEEL HAPPY OR FEEL PLEASURE FOR DOING GOOD WORKS. YOU CAN BE HAPPY WITH THE PLEASURE YOU GET FROM HELPING OTHERS AND FROM BEING KIND TO ALL OF GOD’S CREATIONS. HOWEVER, YOU DO NEED A REASON FOR YOUR PLEASURE IF YOU SEEK COMPENSATION ON THIS LEVEL FOR THE GOOD WORKS THAT YOU HAVE DONE BEYOND THE PLEASURES THAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED FOR DOING THOSE GOOD WORKS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3367
DOING GOOD WORKS SHOULD ALWAYS GIVE YOU PLEASURE BECAUSE IT COMES FROM YOUR HEART. DOING GOOD WORKS WITH THE IDEA THAT YOU WILL BE REWARDED HAS NO REAL SPIRITUAL VALUE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3368
QUESTION 333: ARE YOU DOING GOOD WORKS SO THAT YOU COULD BE REWARDED FOR THEM, OR ARE YOU DOING GOOD WORKS BECAUSE IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO AND YOU EXPECT NO COMPENSATION WHATSOEVER? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3361 TO 3364

MY THOUGHTS 3361
INTROSPECTION CAN LEAD TO SEVERAL CONCLUSIONS. IT CAN LEAD TO YOUR BECOMING A MORAL PERSON, AN AMORAL PERSON, OR AN IMMORAL PERSON. IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHAT FRAME OF MIND YOU CHOOSE TO GO INWARD WITH TO RE-DISCOVER YOU. ALWAYS BE AWARE OF WHAT FRAME OF MIND YOU ARE IN BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING THAT COULD AFFECT YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3362
INSTEAD OF ASKING EACH INDIVIDUAL YOU MEET WHAT HIS/HER FAITH IS, WOULD IT NOT BE BETTER TO ASK THESE THREE BASIC QUESTIONS: 1) DO YOU BELIEVE IN A GOD, 2) DO YOU BELIEVE IN CHARITY, AND 3) DOYOU BELIEVE IN CHARITY TOWARDS ALL? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3363
AT SOME POINT IN OUR LIVES, WE MAY HAVE TO FOREGO THE PROMISES OF SOCIETY, THE PROMISES OF OUR FAITH, THE PROMISES OF OUR FAMILIES IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE SPIRITUAL GROWTH THROUGH KINDNESS, COMPASSION, AND GOOD WILL TOWARDS ALL FORMS OF LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3364
QUESTION 332: WHEN YOU BEGIN TO QUESTION THE WORDS OF YOUR FAITH, ARE QUESTIONING THE WORDS OF YOUR GOD, OR ARE YOU QUESTIONING THE WORDS OF THE STORYTELLERS AND THE PRESENT DAY INTERPRETERS OF YOUR FAITH? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3357 TO 3360

MY THOUGHTS 3357
WHEN YOU HAVE CHILDREN YOU NEED TO GIVE THEM RELIGIOUS AND MORAL GUIDANCE THROUGH THE FAITH THAT YOU ARE PRACTICING AT THAT TIME. AT HOME, INSTEAD OF TEACHING THE EXCLUSIVITY OF YOUR FAITH, YOU SHOULD TEACH THE INCLUSIVENESS OF YOUR FAITH WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF ALL HUMAN BELIEF SYSTEMS. THAT IS, TEACH THEM ABOUT THE SIMILAR GOALS OF MORALITY, HONESTY, CIVILITY, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING OF EVERY ONE’S RIGHT TO FOLLOW IS OWN PATH IN LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3358
YOUR CHOICES ARE TO LIVE WITH A STAGNATED YOU OR TO GROW BEYOND YOUR PRESENT YOU. TO HELP YOU DO THIS, TALK TO THE SENIORS IN YOUR FAMILY AND AROUND YOU, PRIVATELY, AND ASK THEM WHAT THEY WOULD HAVE DONE DIFFERENTLY IN THEIR LIVES AND WHY. PRIVATELY YOU CAN GET THEIR TRUE FEELINGS, NOT THE ONES THAT NEED TO BE PRESENT PUBLICLY TO BE ACCEPTED BY SOCIETY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3359
YOU ARE GIVEN AN OPPORTUNITY THROUGH THE RELATIONSHIPS YOU CREATE AND BY THE ENDING OF RELATIONSHIPS THAT YOU HAVE CREATED TO GROW BEYOND WHO YOU ARE PRESENTLY AND WHO YOU WERE IN THE PAST. REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE TO GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE NOW; YOU ARE NOT TO HIDE YOURSELF IN ISOLATION FROM THE WORLD AROUND YOU. SPIRITUAL GROWTH COMES THROUGH HOW YOU ENCOUNTER THE CHALLENGES OF THE MANY ASPECTS OF YOUR ENVIRONMENT. STAGNATION CAN BE A TEMPORARY RE-FOCUSING TIME; HOWEVER, YOUR ARE HERE TO MEET CHALLENGES THAT ARE PHYSICAL, SOCIAL, MENTAL, AND SPIRITUAL. YOUR BIRTH FAMILY, YOUR SOCIAL FAMILY, YOUR PARTNERSHIP FAMILY, AND YOUR EXPERIENCE FAMILY ARE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT SPIRITUAL TOOLS. UNDERSTAND THEM WELL, USE THEM WELL, AND LEARN FROM THEM WELL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3360
IT IS TIME TO LOOK AT EVERYBODY ON THIS PLANET AS BROTHERS AND SISTERS COMING FROM DIFFERENT POINTS OF VIEWS. THOSE DIFFERENT POINTS OF VIEW ARE TO HELP YOU TO GROW BEYOND WHO YOU ARE AT PRESENT. BE SURE TO LEARN FROM WHAT’S AROUND, FROM THOSE AROUND YOU, AND FROM THE NATURAL WORLD AROUND YOU SO THAT YOU CAN BE BETTER TODAY THAN YOU WERE YESTERDAY. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3353 TO 3356

MY THOUGHTS 3353
YOU ARE GIVEN THE GIFT OF A PHYSICAL BODY ON THIS LEVEL, AND YOU ARE GIVEN FREE-WILL TO DEAL WITH THE LESSONS YOU NEED TO LEARN. YOU CAN USE THAT FREE-WILL TO GROW SPIRITUALLY, OR YOU CAN USE THAT FREE WILL EXPERIENCE PHYSICAL AND MATERIAL PLEASURES. BOTH WILL EVENTUALLY LEAD TO YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. THE LATTER WILL JUST TAKE YOU A LITTLE LONGER, BUT IT WILL GET YOU THERE EVENTUALLY. BOTH WAYS ARE BASE ON YOUR FREE-WILL AND FREE CHOICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3354
THE ONLY CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE. SO TOO, PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS CHANGING. THEREFORE, PEOPLE NEED TO RE-EVALUATE WHAT THEY HAVE DONE, WHAT THEY ARE DOING, AND WHY AND HOW THEY ARE DOING WHAT THEY ARE DOING. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT ONE HAS TO CHANGE ANYTHING. IT MEANS THAT THEY SHOULD FULLY UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE AT THE PRESENT MOMENT AND WHY YOU ARE THERE SO THAT THEY CAN CREATE A MORE POSITIVE FUTURE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3355
LOOKING AT OTHER REALITIES IS A HELPFUL TOOL TO UNDERSTANDING YOUR OWN REALITY. IT IS TRUE THAT OTHER REALITIES MAY CAUSE YOU TO QUESTION YOUR OWN REALITY WHICH COULD MEAN THAT YOU ARE READY TO GROW BEYOND YOUR OWN FAITH. GROWING BEYOND YOUR OWN FAITH DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU REJECT YOURS TO ACCEPT ANOTHER FAITH. THAT COULD CAUSE SPIRITUAL STAGNATION. TO GROW BEYOND YOUR FAITH MEANS THAT YOU ARE GRATEFUL TO YOUR FAITH FOR GETTING YOU TO YOUR PRESENT BELIEF. IT MEANS THAT YOU RECOGNIZE THAT YOU AND OTHERS ARE PRAYING TO THE SAME GOD IN DIFFERENT WAYS. YOU HAVE MOVED FROM DOGMATIC LIMITING RELIGIOUS BELIEFS TO COMPASSIONATE UNIVERSAL CONSCIOUSNESS WHICH COMES UNDER THE TITLE OF SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3356
UNDERSTANDING OTHER REALITIES DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO GIVE UP YOUR OWN REALITY. UNDERSTANDING OTHER REALITIES GIVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO SEE YOUR REALITY MORE CLEARLY AND TO SEE THAT OTHERS ARE BASICALLY NOT MUCH DIFFERENT THAN YOURS. THEY DEVELOPED IN DIFFERENT ENVIRONMENTAL AND SOCIAL CONDITIONS. HOWEVER, THEY ARE SEEKING THE SAME BASIC ANSWERS TO THE SAME QUESTIONS YOU HAVE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3349 TO 3352

MY THOUGHTS 3349
YOUR FAITH, YOUR ETHNICITY, AND YOUR CULTURE ARE YOUR STARTING POINTS FOR YOUR LESSONS IN THIS LIFETIME. THEY ARE THE STARTING POINTS OF YOUR MORAL, ETHICAL, AND CULTURAL VALUES. YOU ARE TO LEARN THEM WELL UNTIL YOU ARE READY TO GROW BEYOND THEM. THEY ARE NOT LESSONS TO ISOLATE YOU FROM OTHERS; THEY ARE LESSON TO TEACH YOU TO RESPECT THOSE OF YOUR FAITH, ETHNICITY, AND CULTURE, AS WELL AS, THOSE OF OTHER CULTURES, FAITHS, AND ETHNICITIES. YOU HAVE LEARNED WELL WHEN YOU HAVE COME TO SEE THAT EVERYONE ON THIS PLANET IS YOUR HUMAN BROTHER OR YOUR HUMAN SISTER SEEKING THE SAME LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND ACCEPTANCE THAT YOU ARE SEEKING, EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE SEEKING IT THROUGH DIFFERENT FAITHS, ETHNICITIES, AND CULTURES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3350
INSTEAD OF SEEKING EVERYONE TO BE OF THE SAME FAITH, THE SAME CULTURE, AND THE SAME PHILOSOPHY, WHY NOT JUST ACCEPT AND RESPECT THE DIVERSITIES OF ALL FAITHS, ALL CULTURES, AND ALL PHILOSOPHIES. ALL OF THE FAITHS, CULTURES, AND PHILOSOPHIES HAVE DIVIDED INTO FACTIONS OF ONE KIND OR ANOTHER. THIS IS THE ‘NATURAL PROCESS’ OF ALL THINGS. THE EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS IS TO DIVERSIFY IN ORDER TO ADAPT TO ENVIRONMENTAL AND CULTURAL CONDITIONS AND CHANGES. THE GREATER THE UNITY WE SEEK; THE GREATER THE DIVERSIFICATIONS BECOME. IS IT NOT BETTER TO RESPECT ALL FAITHS, ALL CULTURES, AND ALL PHILOSOPHIES WHILE WORKING TOWARD A COMMON GOAL OF HUMAN HEALTH, HUMAN HARMONY, AND HUMAN SHARING. UNITY SHOULD MEAN UNDERSTANDING, ACCEPTING, AND SHARING OUR DIFFERENCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3351
WHICHEVER PATH YOUR ARE ON IS THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU FOR THE PRESENT. YOU ARE TO LEARN FROM IT AND, HOPELY, TO GROW BEYOND IT WITH LOVE AND RESPECT FOR WHAT IT HAS TAUGHT YOU ABOUT YOU. REMEMBER THAT IF YOU LEAVE YOUR ORIGINAL FAITH WITH CONTEMPT FOR IT, THEN YOUR HAVE NOT GROWN SPIRITUALLY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3352
QUESTION 331: DO YOU TRULY UNDERSTAND THAT THE PRESENT MOMENT IS THE ONLY TRUE REALITY? HOW WILL YOU USE THIS MOMENT TO YOUR BENEFIT AND THE BENEFIT OF OTHERS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3345 TO 3348

MY THOUGHTS 3345
BE CAREFUL WHEN A LOVED ONE OR POTENTIAL LOVED ONE FREQUENTLY TALKS NEGATIVELY ABOUT A PAST RELATIONSHIP. HIS/HER MESSAGE TO YOU IS THAT SHE/HE HAS NOT WORKED THROUGH THAT NEGATIVITY COMPLETELY AND THAT YOUR LOVED ONE MOST LIKELY IS ANGRY BECAUSE SHE/HE STILL LOVES HIS/HER FORMER PARTNER. MANY TRY TO COVER-UP THEIR NEGATIVE FEELINGS BY ENTERING A NEW RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS AT FIRST HAPPY, LOVING, AND PHYSICAL. HOWEVER, WHEN THERE IS A PROBLEM OR CONFLICT WITH YOUR ‘LOVED ONE’ AND THEY BRING UP THE NEGATIVITY OF THE FORMER RELATIONSHIP, YOU SHOULD REALIZE THAT YOU ARE NOT A PRIORITY IN THAT ‘LOVED ONE’S LIFE.’ IT IS A WARNING THAT YOUR ‘LOVING’ RELATIONSHIP IS ON THE DECLINE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3346
IF ‘YOUR LOVED ONE’ IS TRULY HAPPY AND IN LOVE WITH YOU, THERE WILL BE NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS TO YOUR ‘LOVED’ ONE’S FORMER RELATIONSHIP. IN OTHER WORDS, YOUR ‘LOVED ONE’ SHOULD HAVE POSITIVE MEMORIES OF YOU THAT DIMINISHES THE NEGATIVITIES OF THE PAST RELATIONSHIP. IF YOUR LOVED ONE’S MEMORIES OF HIS/HER PAST RELATIONSHIP DOMINATES HER/HIS THOUGHTS, IT MEANS THAT SHE/HE STILL LOVES THAT PERSON VERY MUCH AND MASKS THAT LOVE WITH ANGER AND HATE. IT IS SAD THAT SO MANY PEOPLE USE GOOD PEOPLE WHO TRULY LOVE THEM TO COVER UP HIS/HER REJECTION FROM A FORMER PARTNER. IN THE PROCESS HE/SHE WILL DESTROY A POTENTIALLY GOOD RELATIONSHIP AS WELL AS THE PERSON WHO TRULY LOVES AND ACCEPTS HER/HIM FOR WHAT HE/SHE IS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3347
TRUST IS ESSENTIAL IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP AND YOU MUST BE VIGILANT IN MAINTAINING THAT TRUST WITH YOUR PARTNER. NEVER SAY THAT YOU LOVE SOMEONE, THEREFORE, YOU TRUST HIM/HER. YOU SHOULD ONLY TRUST SOMEONE BECAUSE SHE/HE IS TRUSTWORTHY. IF YOU LOSE TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP, IT IS THE BEGINNING OF THE END OF THE TRUE RELATIONSHIP. REMEMBER THAT FORGIVENESS DOES NOT RESTORE TRUST. FORGIVENESS ONLY RELEASES YOUR ANGER TOWARDS THAT PARTICULAR VIOLATION OF YOUR TRUST. WHEN TRUST BECOMES MISTRUST, IT CANNOT TRULY BE RESTORED. TRUST CAN BE A BASIS FOR LOVE. LOVE IS NEVER A BASIS FOR TRUST. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3348
REMEMBER THAT FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO WORK BOTH OF YOU MUST BE FLEXIBLE IN HOW YOU REACT TO EACH OTHER. IN A LOVING RELATIONSHIP, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A GIVE AND TAKE FROM BOTH PARTNERS. A WILLINGNESS TO COMPROMISE IS ESSENTIAL IN MAINTAINING A LOVING CARING RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3341 TO 3344

MY THOUGHTS 3341
QUESTION 330: HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR RELATIONSHIP TODAY? HOW WOULD YOU CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP TODAY AND ARE YOU WILLING TO CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP? WHAT ARE THREE WORDS YOU WOULD USE TO DESCRIBE YOUR PRESENT RELATIONSHIP, AND WHAT ARE THREE WORDS YOU WOULD USE TO DESCRIBE THE DESIRED RELATIONSHIP YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3342
BEFORE YOU START SETTING REAL GOALS AND LOOKING FOR A CONSTANT COMPANION FOR YOUR LIFE’S PATH, YOU SHOULD GO INWARD UNDERSTAND THE FOLLOWING THINGS ABOUT YOU: 1) YOU MUST UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR REAL WANTS, NEEDS, AND DESIRES ARES. 2) YOU MUST UNDERSTAND HOW YOU DEAL WITH YOUR FEELING, YOUR STRESSFUL MOMENTS, AND YOUR WEAKNESSES. 3) YOU MUST KNOW WHAT REALLY MOTIVATES YOU, AND WHAT ARE THE VITAL ASPECTS OF YOUR PERSONALITY. THEN YOU CAN SET REALISTIC GOALS AND FIND A COMPANION WHO WILL BE A TRUE PARTNER IN LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3343
REMEMBER THAT PEAK PHYSICAL ATTRACTION IS NOT A LIFE-LONG ATTRACTION BECAUSE OUR BODIES, HABITS, AND DESIRES ARE ALWAYS CHANGING. THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF ANY RELATIONSHIP ARE SHARED GOALS, VALUES, BELIEFS, AND DESIRES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3344
A TRUE REFLECTION OF EQUALITY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP IS WHEN YOU RECOGNIZE EACH OTHER’S UNIQUENESS AND RESPECT EACH OTHER’S DIFFERENCES. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3337 TO 3340

MY THOUGHTS 3337
IF YOU EVER START TO HAVE A WONDERING EYE AWAY FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIP, REMEMBER THAT YOUR PRESENT PARTNER IS THE ONLY ONE WHO TRULY KNOWS YOUR SOUNDS, YOUR QUIRKS, AND YOUR NEGATIVITIES AND STILL ACCEPTS YOU DESPITE THEM. THE PERSON WHO HAS CAUGHT YOUR EYE DOES NOT KNOW THESE THINGS ABOUT YOU. ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE A CHANCE WHETHER THAT PERSON WILL ACCEPT THE TOTAL YOU OR NOT? ARE YOU REALLY WILLING TO TAKE SUCH A GAMBLE? WOULD IT NOT BE BETTER TO WORK ON AND REPAIR YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO LIVES WITH AND ACCEPTS YOUR GOOD POINTS AND BAD POINTS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3338
QUESTION 327: FOOD FOR THOUGHT: IF YOU HAD THE OPPORTUNITY, WOULD YOU MARRY YOUR SPOUSE AGAIN? WHY OR WHY NOY? WOULD YOUR SPOUSE BE WILLING TO MARRY YOU AGAIN? WHY OR WHY NOT? THESE QUESTIONS SHOULD ONLY ANSWERED INTERNALLY OR PRIVATELY TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3339
QUESTION 328: TOTAL EQUALITY IS NOT TRULY POSSIBLE WITHOUT LOSING EACH OTHER’S UNIQUENESS WHICH BROUGHT YOU BOTH TOGETHER. CAN YOU ACCEPT YOUR PARTNER’S UNIQUENESS WITHOUT BECOMING RESENTFUL? CAN YOU ACCEPT AND USE EACH OTHER’S UNIQUE STRENGTHS TO DEAL WITH DIFFERENT PROBLEMS THAT YOU WILL MEET IN YOUR LIVES? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3340
QUESTION 329: CAN YOU BECOME ASSERTIVE WITHOUT BECOMING AGGRESSIVE? CAN YOU BE COMPETITIVE WITHOUT BEING DESTRUCTIVE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3333 TO 3336

MY THOUGHTS 3333
FAITH: BEFORE ANYONE DECIDES TO CHANGE HIS FAITH, THAT PERSON MUST FIRST UNDERSTAND HIS/HER FAITH COMPLETELY. YOU WERE BORN INTO THAT FAITH TO LEARN CERTAIN SPIRITUAL LESSONS. WHEN YOUR FAITH CAN NO LONGER ANSWER YOUR SPIRITUAL QUESTIONS OR YOU HAVE GROWN BEYOND YOUR FAITH, THEN YOU CAN GO OUTSIDE YOUR FAITH TO FIND THE ANSWERS YOU SEEK. REMEMBER THAT THIS SHOULD BE DONE WITH RESPECT FOR THE ANSWERS YOUR FAITH HAD GIVEN YOU SO FAR. WHEN YOU LEAVE YOUR FAITH WITH NEGATIVE THOUGHTS TOWARD IT, YOU WILL START TO WALK A NEGATIVE PATH THAT WILL HAVE LITTLE OR NO SPIRITUAL VALUE TO YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3334
THEIR IS NO PROBLEM IN HAVING YOUR PERSONAL FAITH PREFERENCES, CULTURAL OR ETHNIC PREFERENCES, OR PHILOSOPHICAL PREFERENCES. PROBLEMS COME WHEN YOU TRY TO IMPOSE YOUR BELIEFS ON OTHERS WHO PEFER THEIR OWN WAY OF LIFE. WHEN YOU ALLOW OTHERS TO BELIEVE AND ACT DIFFERENTLY ACCORDING TO THEIR BELIEFS, YOU WILL RESPECT THIER RIGHT TO EXIST AND MAKE A GREAT LEAP FORWARD TOWARD WORLD PEACE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3335
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOUR PARTNER MAKES AN INCORRECT STATEMENT IN PUBLIC, BE SURE TO CORRECT HIM/HER IN A PRIVATE SETTING. IF YOU CORRECT HER/HIM IN A PUBLIC SETTING, YOU ARE REVEALING A CONFLICT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. TO CORRECT YOUR PARTNER PUBLICLY, INDICATES A RESENTMENT TOWARDS HIM/HER OR A PERSONAL NEED TO BE PUBLICLY NOTICED AT HER/HIS EMBARRASSMENT. YOU MAY BE ACCURATE IN YOUR CORRECTION; HOWEVER, EMBARRASSING YOUR PARTNER IN PUBLIC IS A PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT OF A TROUBLED RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3336
QUESTION 326: WHY DO YOU HIDE THE TRUE BEAUTY WITHIN YOU BY KEEP ON BRINGING UP THE ANGER YOU FEEL TOWARDS PAST EVENTS ON YOUR LIFE? WHY DON’T YOU TURN THOSE ANGRY THOUGHTS INTO POSITIVE TOOLS FOR THE PRESENT SO THAT YOUR TRUE BEAUTY CAN SHINE THROUGH YOU AND ATTRACT SOMEONE WHO REALLY DESERVES YOU? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3329 TO 3332

MY THOUGHTS 3329
GENOCIDE: AS SPIRITUAL BEINGS IN HUMAN BODIES, WE MUST PROTEST ALL FORMS GENOCIDE, MASSACRES, AND HOLOCAUSTS TO ANY PEOPLES ON THIS PLANET. INSTEAD OF TALKING ABOUT THE GENOCIDE OF ONE PEOPLE, WE SHOULD DISCUSS THE GENOCIDE OF ALL PEOPLES. IF THE GENOCIDE OF THE PEOPLE OF YOUR FAITH, YOUR ETHNICITY, OF YOUR CULTURE, OR YOUR PHILOSOPHY BOTHERS YOU; THEN YOU SHOULD OBJECT TO THE SAME GENOCIDE HAPPENING TO OTHER PEOPLES, EVEN THOSE DONE BY YOUR PEOPLE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3330
GENOCIDE: GENOCIDE AND MASS KILLINGS OF ANY KIND ARE PART OF THE NEGATIVE SIDE OF HUMANITY THAT NEEDS TO BE SERIOUSLY AND OPENLY DISCUSSED WITHOUT A TORRENT OF EMOTIONS. ALL PEOPLES AT SOME TIME IN THEIR HISTORY ARE GUILTY OF SOME FORM OF HUMAN DESTRUCTION ON A MASS SCALE. WE MUST LEARN TO RESPECT OTHER PEOPLES OF OTHER FAITHS, OTHER ETHNICITIES, AND OTHER PHILOSOPHIES. NO ONE SHOULD BE KILLED BECAUSE THEY DIFFER FROM YOU. NO ONE SHOULD BE KILLED IN THE NAME OF ANY GOD. IF A GOD CANNOT DO HIS/HER OWN KILLING, SHE/HE CANNOT BE MUCH OF A GOD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3331
GENOCIDE: THE KEY TO STOPPING ANY GENOCIDES AND ANY MASS KILLINGS IS TO LEARN TO RESPECT EVERY ONE AS AN INDIVIDUAL, EVERY CULTURE AND ETHIC GROUP FOR ITS UNIQUENESS, AND EVERY FAITH AS A VALID FAITH FOR THE PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE IN IT. YOU MAY DEMONSTRATE YOUR WAY THROUGH GOOD EXAMPLES, BUT NOT THROUGH FORCE OR VIOLENCE. WHEN YOU TRY TO FORCE YOUR WAY ON OTHERS, YOU WILL CREATE FALSE BELIEVERS AND CREATE VIOLENT REACTION TO YOUR ATTEMPTS IN THE NAME OF SELF-PRESERVATION. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3332
TO AVOID HUMAN MURDEROUS CATASTROPHES, DO NOT FORCE OR PRESSURE OTHERS TO ACCEPT YOUR FAITH, YOUR, CULTURE, YOUR PHILOSOPHY, OR TO EXPRESS THE SUPERIORITY OF YOUR ETHNICITY. JUST HONOR THEIR RIGHT TO EXIST IN THEIR OWN WAY AND YOU WILL ELIMINATE MOST OF THE VIOLENCE IN THE WORLD. YOU MAY SHARE YOUR WAY THROUGH PEACEFUL, HARMONIOUS ACTIVE THAT MAY ATTRACT OTHERS WHO WOULD LIKE TO BE LIKE YOU. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3325 TO 3328

MY THOUGHTS 3325
WHEN YOU FIRST GOT TOGETHER WITH YOUR PARTNER YOU MADE ‘EMOTIONAL’ COMMITMENTS TO EACH OTHER. IT IS IMPORTANT TO SIT DOWN PERIODICALLY AND DISCUSS YOUR COMMITMENT TO EACH OTHER ON A MORE REALISTIC BASIS. WHEN YOU REVIEW YOUR COMMITMENTS, YOU CAN AGREE TO LEAVE THEM AS THEY ARE OR MAKE MORE REALISTIC COMMITMENTS THAT YOU BOTH CAN AGREE TO. REMEMBER THAT AS YOU BOTH MATURE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP GROWS YOUR MAY HAVE TO MAKE CHANGES IN YOUR COMMITMENT TO MAINTAIN A BALANCED, COOPERATIVE, LOVING RELATIONSHIP. NEVER LET YOUR RELATIONSHIP STAGNATE, AND REMEMBER THAT THE REVIEWS OF YOUR COMMITMENTS ARE MAINLY TO HELP STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP; NOT TO DIMINISH IT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3326
REMEMBER THAT NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON ROMANTIC LOVE. EVERY RELATIONSHIP ALSO HAS AN ECONOMIC BASIS, A PHYSICAL BASIS, A FAITH BASIS, AS WELL AS A GOAL ORIENTED BASIS. PERIODIC REVIEWS AND ADJUSTMENTS TO ALL THESE FACTORS ARE ESSENTIAL TO HAVING A LOVING, CARING, UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIP THAT MAY CONTINUE FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFETIME. THESE REVIEWS ARE A ROLE-MODEL FOR YOUR CHILDREN ON HOW TO HAVE A LOVING COOPERATIVE RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3327
REMEMBER THAT OUTSIDE EVENTS COULD HAVE A CRITICAL OR DEVASTATING AFFECT ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IT IS ESSENTIAL TO MAINTAIN A LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIP SO THAT WHEN OUTSIDE EVENTS CHALLENGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP; YOU AND YOUR PARTNER CAN STAND TOGETHER AND FACE THOSE CHALLENGES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3328
YOU CAN MAKE PROMISES TO HONOR, TO RESPECT, TO HAVE FIDELITY, AND TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP. HOWEVER, THE PROMISE TO LOVE FOREVER IS AN EMOTIONAL PROMISE THAT CAN ONLY BE KEPT BY CONSTANT VIGILANCE. LOVE IS AN ACTIVE EMOTION THAT CAN BE CONTROLLED BUT NOT PROMISED. YOU CAN WORK TOWARDS MAINTAINING THAT LOVE IN ONE DIRECTION. HOWEVER, IF YOUR PARTNER IS NOT WHOLEY RECEPTIVE TO IT, YOUR ‘LOVE’ WILL EVENTUALLY SEEK ANOTHER RECEPTIVE PERSON. IT IS ESSENTIAL TO MAINTAIN A LOVING ACTIVE ROLE WITH YOUR PARTNER BY HELPING EACH OTHER AND DOING THINGS TOGETHER. LOVE HAS TO BE MONITORED CONSTANTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT IT STAYS WHERE IT IS SUPPOSED TO. YOU DO THIS BY MAINTAINING A LOVING UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM, YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD DEAL WITH IT WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU START TO SEEK EXTERNAL COMFORT FOR YOUR PROBLEMS, IT WILL BE THE BEGINNING OF THE END OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

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