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QUESTION 1526: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT ‘BELIEVING WITH ACTION’ CREATES A POSITIVE FUTURE, AND THAT ‘BELIEVING WITHOUT ACTION’ CREATES AN EMPTY FUTURE? EmilKoval©2014
MY THOUGHT 7132
QUESTION 1527: CAN YOU USE THE ‘CRITICISMS OF YOU’ AS A TOOL FOR YOUR PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL, AND FINANCIAL GROWTH? CAN YOU ACCEPT THOSE CRITICISMS OF YOU WITHOUT NEGATIVE REACTIONS? EmilKoval©2014
MY THOUGHT 7133
RELATIONSHIPS: IT IS SAID THAT THE ‘YOUNG’ THINK THAT THEY ARE INDESTRUCTIBLE: THEREFORE, THEY DO DANGEROUS THINGS. HOWEVER, THERE ARE THOSE IN THEIR LATE 40s AND IN THEIR 50s WHO ALSO THINK THAT THEY ARE INDESTRUCTIBLE BECAUSE THEY HAVE HAD A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND THEY ARE AT THE PEAK OF THEIR PERFORMANCE. THIS IS THE TIME THAT IS MOST DANGEROUS FOR THOSE PERSONS AND FOR ANY RELATIONSHIPS THAT THEY MAY BE IN. BECAUSE OVERCONFIDENCE AND OVER INFLATED EGOS WILL MAKE THEM FEEL THAT THEY ARE INVINCIBLE, THEY TEND TO BECOME CARELESS AND MINDLESSLY DO THINGS THAT WOULD JEOPARDIZE THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR PARTNERS, THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR CHILDREN, AND WEAKEN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITHIN THEIR SOCIETIES. EmilKoval©2014
MY THOUGHT 7134
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOUR PARTNER HAS A PROBLEM AND YOU WORK WITH YOUR PARTNER TO SOLVE THAT PROBLEM, YOU ARE IN A PROPER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER. WHEN YOU GET TO THE POINT WHERE YOU REFER TO YOUR PARTNER’S PROBLEM AS HIS/HER FAMILY’S PROBLEM, THIS IS OPENING THE DOOR TO THE BEGINNING OF THE DECLINE OF THE RELATIONSHIP. THIS ATTITUDE MUST BE CORRECTED IMMEDIATELY. IT IS NOT YOUR PARTNER’S FAMILY’S PROBLEM, IT IS ‘YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AS A FAMILY PROBLEM.’ IT IS HOW YOU AND YOUR PARTNER INTERACT WITH EACH OTHER THAT CAUSES YOU AND YOUR PARTNER TO HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP THAT IS EITHER POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE AT EACH PARTICULAR MOMENT. EmilKoval©2014
MY THOUGHT 7135
RELATIONSHIPS: ANY PROBLEM YOU HAVE WITH YOUR PARTNER IS YOURS AND YOUR PARTNER’S PROBLEM. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH EACH OTHER’S FAMILY. ESPECIALLY, AFTER YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR SEVERAL YEARS. IF EITHER PARTNER REFERS TO EACH OTHER’S FAMILY IN THE DISPARAGINGLY WAY, IT IS THE BEGINNING OF THE DETERIORATION OF THAT RELATIONSHIP FAMILY. EmilKoval©2014
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