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THOUGHTS 7161 TO 7165

MY THOUGHT 7161
QUESTION 1543: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE TO SUFFER? DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE HERE TO LEARN AND GROW? DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT SUFFERING COMES FROM NOT LEARNING AND GROWING BEYOND WHOM YOU ARE AT ANY MOMENT? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7162
QUESTION 1544: DO YOU REALIZE THAT YOUR FAMILY IS YOUR PRIMARY TEACHER, AND THAT YOUR SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT IS YOUR SECONDARY TEACHER? DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR FINAL TEACHERS ARE YOUR PERCEPTION, THE COSMOS, AND NATURE? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7163
QUESTION 1545: WHICH IS MOST IMPORTANT AT THIS STAGE IN YOUR LIFE: YOUR MATERIAL THINGS OR THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU? ARE YOU SURE? IF NOT, WHY? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7164
LESSONS: BE WARY OF PEOPLE WHO COMPLAIN ABOUT EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME. LEARN WHAT YOU CAN ABOUT THEM AND ABOUT YOURSELF WITHOUT LETTING THEIR NEGATIVITY OVERPOWER YOU. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7165
PASSION: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A PASSIONATE PERSON. WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS HOW YOU DIRECT THAT PASSION. REMEMBER THAT YOUR PASSION, IN WHATEVER FORM, IS YOUR GROWTH TOOL. YOU SHOULD MANAGE IT WELL. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7156 TO 7160

MY THOUGHT 7156
QUESTION 1540: WHEN A LOVED-ONE LEAVES HIS/HER PHYSICAL BODY, DO YOU MOURN YOUR LOSS, OR DO YOU CELEBRATE THE LIFE THAT SHE/HE HAD HAD ON THIS LEVEL, AND THE GIFTS THAT HE/SHE HAS GIVEN TO YOU AND TO OTHERS? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7157
QUESTION 1541: DO YOU LIVE WITH YOU LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING; OR DO YOU LIVE WITH HATE, CONTEMPT, AND RESENTMENT? HOW DOES IT FEEL? HOW IS IT WORKING FOR YOU? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7158
QUESTION 1542: DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO WALK AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE AND NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7159
LESSONS: YOU DIDN’T COME HERE TO SUFFER; YOU CAME HERE TO LEARN. SOME LESSONS MAY CAUSE YOU PAIN; HOWEVER, THEY ARE THE LESSONS THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO LEARN. THE SOONER YOU LEARN THEM. THE SOONER THE HURT WILL END. WHEN YOU CAN TURN THE NEGATIVES IN YOUR LIFE INTO POSITIVES TOOLS TO BE USED ON THIS LIFE’S JOURNEY, THE POSITIVE LEARNING WILL EXCELERATE. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7160
LESSONS: WHEN YOU SOLVE ONE PROBLEM, A NEW DOOR WILL OPEN TO ANOTHER VENTURE. THAT VENTURE CAN BE ANOTHER PROBLEM OR JUST ANOTHER INTERESTING LESSON TO LEARN OR ANOTHER OBSTACLE TO OVERCOME. THESE LESSONS WILL CONTINUE UNTIL YOUR LIFE’S JOURNEY HAS RUN ITS COURSE. WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT IS HOW ‘YOU’ VIEW WHAT IS BEHIND EACH NEWLY OPENED DOOR. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7151 TO 7155

MY THOUGHT 7151
QUESTION 1537: DO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS BETTER TO FACE A SITUATION RATHER THEN TO RUN AWAY FROM A SITUATION? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7152
QUESTION 1538: CAN YOU TRULY CHERISH AND LOVE A NEW LOVING PARTNER IF YOU ARE STILL HATEFUL AND RESENTFUL TOWARDS A FORMER PARTNER? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7153
QUESTION 1539: YOUR ABILITY TO LOVE IS YOUR TRUE LIFE’S TREASURE, SO WHY YOU SQUANDER IT ON SOMEONE WHO IS UNAPPRECIATIVE OF THAT LOVE?
EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7154
BEAUTY: THE OUTER BEAUTY IS ENTICING; HOWEVER, ALWAYS PROTECT THE INNER BEAUTY ABOVE ALL. THAT INTERNAL BEAUTY CAN BE ETERNAL WITH IT IS NURTURED. THE EXTERNAL BEAUTY IS CONSTANTLY EXPOSED TO SOCIAL, PHYSICAL, AND EMOTIONAL HAZARDS. KEEP YOUR INNER LIGHT SHINING FROM YOUR ESSENCE. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7155
EXCUSES: EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT WITH DIFFERENT INNER STRENGTHS. THE WEAKER ONES WILL USE EXCUSES UNTIL THEY REALIZE THAT EXCUSES ONLY STAGNATE THEIR DEVELOPMENT. IN TIME, THEY WILL NO LONGER USE EXCUSES AND BEGIN TO RAISE THEIR CONSCIOUSNESS. ONE SHOULD NOT JUDGE THEM. ONE SHOULD VIEW THEM WITH LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING AS THEY CONTINUE THEIR LIFE’S JOURNEY AS ONE CONTINUE ONE’S OWN JOURNEY. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7146 TO 7150

MY THOUGHT 7146
QUESTION 1534: IF YOU ARE BECOMING GREEDY, UNKIND, AND UNLOVING; DOES THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR CHOICE TO BE GREEDY, UNKIND, AND UNLOVING, COME FROM YOU OR FROM EXTERNAL INFLUENCES? WHICHEVER WAY, WHY BE THAT WAY? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7147
QUESTION 1535: CAN YOU MOVE FORWARD AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS WITHOUT BEING SELFISH? CAN YOU BE SELF-FULLED AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7148
QUESTION 1536: WHAT IS YOUR MODE OF COMPETITIVENESS? DO YOU PREFER COOPERATIVE COMPETITIVENESS, OR DO YOU PREFER COMBATATIVE COMPETITIVENESS? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7149
LESSONS: A TRULY WISE MAN LEARNS FROM THE MISTAKES OF OTHERS; WHILE A TRULY FOOLISH PERSON REPEATS THE SAME MISTAKES BECAUSE HE/SHE REFUSES TO LEARN HER/HIS OWN LESSONS. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7150
HEALING: WHEN YOU ARE DEEPLY HURT, BECOME ONE WITH YOUR PAIN TO COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND IT. WHEN YOU COMPLETELY AND HONESTLY UNDERSTAND YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO THAT HURT, YOU WILL EMERGE NOT AS A VICTIM BUT AS THE VICTOR. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7141 TO 7145

MY THOUGHT 7141
QUESTION 1531: DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE SO THAT EVERYONE IS PROUD OF YOU, OR DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE IN A WAY THAT EVERYONE FEEL SORRY FOR YOU?
EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7142
QUESTION 1532: ARE YOU A LIGHT GIVER, OR ARE YOU A PSYCHIC VAMPIRE? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7143
QUESTION 1533: HOW CAN YOU RISE TO A HIGHER LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS IF YOU’RE HELD DOWN BY BY THE NEGATIVE ANCHORS OF THOSE THAT YOU ARE CONNECTED TO ON THIS LEVEL? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7144
GROWTH: WHEN YOU RELEASE THE ANCHORS OF MATERIALS AND THE ANCHORS OF NEGATIVE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE, YOU CAN RIDE TO HIGHER LEVELS OF CONSCIOUSNESS. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7145
NEGATIVITY: WHEN A STORM OF NEGATIVITY BLOWS YOUR WAY, BE LIKE THE BAMBOO AND BE FLEXIBLE AND BEND WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL STRENGTH AS YOUR ANCHOR. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7136 TO 7140

MY THOUGHT 7136
QUESTION 1528: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE LONG TERM AFFECTS OF THE EXCUSES THAT YOU MAKE? IF NOT, WHY NOT? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7137
QUESTION 1529: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE LONG TERM AFFECTS OF THE CHOICES THAT YOU MAKE? IF NOT, WHY NOT? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7138
QUESTION 1530: CAN YOU FORGIVE WITHOUT DENY THAT THE TRANSGRESSION EVER HAPPENED? CAN YOU FORGIVE WHILE COMPREHENDING THE LESSONED LEARNED? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7139
HEALING: ALLOW THE TEARS OF YOUR HURTS TO CLEANSE YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS. AND ALLOW YOUR SPIRITUALITY TO HEAL THOSE WOUNDS. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7140
HEALING: WHEN YOU SUFFER GREAT EMOTIONAL HURTS, BE AS THE CATAPILLAR AND CREATE YOUR OWN PERSONAL COCOON TO PROCESS THOSE HURTS SO THAT YOU CAN EMERGE LIKE A BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLY. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7131 TO 7135

MY THOUGHT 7131
QUESTION 1526: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT ‘BELIEVING WITH ACTION’ CREATES A POSITIVE FUTURE, AND THAT ‘BELIEVING WITHOUT ACTION’ CREATES AN EMPTY FUTURE? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7132
QUESTION 1527: CAN YOU USE THE ‘CRITICISMS OF YOU’ AS A TOOL FOR YOUR PHYSICAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL, AND FINANCIAL GROWTH? CAN YOU ACCEPT THOSE CRITICISMS OF YOU WITHOUT NEGATIVE REACTIONS? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7133
RELATIONSHIPS: IT IS SAID THAT THE ‘YOUNG’ THINK THAT THEY ARE INDESTRUCTIBLE: THEREFORE, THEY DO DANGEROUS THINGS. HOWEVER, THERE ARE THOSE IN THEIR LATE 40s AND IN THEIR 50s WHO ALSO THINK THAT THEY ARE INDESTRUCTIBLE BECAUSE THEY HAVE HAD A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND THEY ARE AT THE PEAK OF THEIR PERFORMANCE. THIS IS THE TIME THAT IS MOST DANGEROUS FOR THOSE PERSONS AND FOR ANY RELATIONSHIPS THAT THEY MAY BE IN. BECAUSE OVERCONFIDENCE AND OVER INFLATED EGOS WILL MAKE THEM FEEL THAT THEY ARE INVINCIBLE, THEY TEND TO BECOME CARELESS AND MINDLESSLY DO THINGS THAT WOULD JEOPARDIZE THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR PARTNERS, THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR CHILDREN, AND WEAKEN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITHIN THEIR SOCIETIES. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7134
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOUR PARTNER HAS A PROBLEM AND YOU WORK WITH YOUR PARTNER TO SOLVE THAT PROBLEM, YOU ARE IN A PROPER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER. WHEN YOU GET TO THE POINT WHERE YOU REFER TO YOUR PARTNER’S PROBLEM AS HIS/HER FAMILY’S PROBLEM, THIS IS OPENING THE DOOR TO THE BEGINNING OF THE DECLINE OF THE RELATIONSHIP. THIS ATTITUDE MUST BE CORRECTED IMMEDIATELY. IT IS NOT YOUR PARTNER’S FAMILY’S PROBLEM, IT IS ‘YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AS A FAMILY PROBLEM.’ IT IS HOW YOU AND YOUR PARTNER INTERACT WITH EACH OTHER THAT CAUSES YOU AND YOUR PARTNER TO HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP THAT IS EITHER POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE AT EACH PARTICULAR MOMENT. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7135
RELATIONSHIPS: ANY PROBLEM YOU HAVE WITH YOUR PARTNER IS YOURS AND YOUR PARTNER’S PROBLEM. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH EACH OTHER’S FAMILY. ESPECIALLY, AFTER YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR SEVERAL YEARS. IF EITHER PARTNER REFERS TO EACH OTHER’S FAMILY IN THE DISPARAGINGLY WAY, IT IS THE BEGINNING OF THE DETERIORATION OF THAT RELATIONSHIP FAMILY. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7126 TO 7130

MY THOUGHT 7126
QUESTION 1525: ARE YOU DOING THINGS THAT YOU ‘HAVE TO DO’, OR ARE YOU DOING THINGS THAT YOU ‘LOVE TO DO’? CAN YOU DO THE THINGS THAT YOU ‘HAVE TO DO’ WITH A POSITIVE ATTITUDE? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7127
COMMUNICATION: BE CAREFUL OF SPONTANEOUS ACTIONS AND SPEECH ON YOUR PART, FOR THEY MAY CREATE REGRETTABLE SITUATIONS FOR YOU. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7128
RELATIONSHIPS: YOU AND YOUR PARTNER COME FROM TWO DIFFERENT FAMILIES. ANY APPROACH TO ANY DISAGREEMENTS SHOULD BE WITHIN YOUR NEW FAMILY. WHEN YOU START REFERRING TO WHAT YOU CONSIDER A FAULT IN YOUR PARTNER’S FAMILY WHEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOUR PARTNER, YOU WILL HAVE STARTED TO FRACTURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ANY FURTHER REFERRALS TO EACH OTHER’S FAMILY’S PROBLEMS PERCEIVED BY YOU WILL ONLY DEEPEN THE FRACTURE. YOU MAY BECOME THE FIRST VICTIM OF YOUR NON-MINDFUL THINKING, WHILE THE UNINTENDED VICTIM WILL BE THE CHILD OR CHILDREN THAT YOU HAVE. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7129
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN YOU START MAKING SUBTLE DISPARAGING REMARKS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER’S FAMILY, IT COULD BE THE START OF THE BREAKDOWN IN THE RELATIONSHIP, AND THE FIRST UNINTENDED VICTIM WILL BE YOUR CHILD OR YOUR CHILDREN IF YOU HAVE ANY; OTHERWISE THE FIRST VICTIM WILL BE YOU BECAUSE YOU WILL LOSE WHAT WAS ONCE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE POISONED WITH YOUR NEGATIVITY. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7130
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN ONE PARTNER OR BOTH PARTNERS START, EVEN JOKINGLY, CRITICIZING EACH OTHER’S FAMILY, A CRACK WILL HAVE BEEN CREATED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND SHOULD BE MENDED DILIGENTLY. IF NOT THOSE DISPARAGING REMARKS WILL FESTER AND EVENTUALLY DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND YOUR FAMILY. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7121 TO 7125

MY THOUGHT 7121
QUESTION 1522: WHICH IS MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU AT THIS TIME IN YOUR LIFE: YOUR BLOOD CONNECTIONS,
YOUR FINANCIAL CONNECTIONS, OR YOUR SPIRITUAL CONNECTIONS WITH OTHERS? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7122
QUESTION 1523: WHICH IS MOST IMPORTANT IN YOUR RELATIONS: YOU, YOUR PARTNER, YOUR CHILDREN, OR YOUR FRIENDS? WHY? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7123
QUESTION 1524: IF YOU HAVE IGNORED YOUR PARTNER FOR YOUR CHILDREN, WHO WILL YOU TURN TO WHEN YOUR CHILDREN HAVE LEFT THE NEST? REALLY, IN TODAY’S MATERIALISTIC WORLD? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7124
DECISIONS: MINDFULLY SEEK ADVICE; HOWEVER, REMEMBER THAT THE FINAL DECISION IS YOURS. THEREFORE, DO NOT BLAME THE ADVICE GIVER IF IT DOESN’T WORK OUT FOR YOU. REMEMBER THAT THE ADVICE GIVERS ARE GIVING YOU THEIR SOLUTIONS TO A PROBLEM. YOUR SOLUTION TO YOUR SITUATION SHOULD BE BASED ON YOUR DECISIONS NOT SOMEONE ELSE’S.
EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7125
DECISIONS: REMEMBER THAT ADVICE IS JUST ADVICE. HOW YOU UNDERSTAND THAT ADVICE AND HOW YOU USE IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. EmilKoval©2014

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THOUGHTS 7116 TO 7120

MY THOUGHT 7116
QUESTION 1519: WHAT IS “YOUR” DEFINITION OF “BEING LUCKY”? WHAT ARE YOUR COLLEAGUES DEFINITIONS OF “BEING LUCKY”? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7117
QUESTION 1520: DO YOU FULLY UNDERSTAND THE PARAMETERS OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7118
QUESTION 1521: CAN YOU GROW BEYOND YOUR COMFORT ZONE? ARE YOU AFRAID TO GROW BEYOND YOUR COMFORT ZONE? EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7119
SUGGESTION: AFTER YOU HAVE RAISED YOUR CHILDREN, LIVE YOUR LIFE AS A ROLE MODEL AS TO HOW ONE SHOULD LIVE ONE’S LIFE IN ONE’S LATER YEARS. THAT IS YOUR GREATEST GIFT TO YOUR CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2014

MY THOUGHT 7120
MESSAGE TO THE YOUNG: REMEMBER THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE ONCE LIKE YOU. THEY DID THE SAME THINGS THAT YOU ARE DOING, MADE THE SAME TYPES OF MISTAKES THAT YOU ARE MAKING, AND HAVE THE SAME PASSION AND LOVE THAT YOU DO NOW. THE ONLY TRUE DIFFERENCE ARE THE TOOLS AND DEVICES THAT EACH GENERATION USES. YOUR ELDERS DID NOT BECOME BORING OR FOOLISH; THEY BECAME WISER. IF YOU REFUSE TO LEARN SOMETHING FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES THEN YOU WILL BE CONDEMNED TO LEARN THE HARD WAY. EmilKoval©2014

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