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QUESTION 10741: Do you still believe in having good manners, respecting your elders, and helping others when you can? EmilKoval©2023
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QUESTION 10742: Are you willing to teach your sons that cooking and cleaning are basic life skills; not gender roles? EmilKoval©2023
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QUESTION 10743: No matter how educated, talented, rich or cool you believe you are, are you aware that how you treat people ultimately tells all about you? EmilKoval©2023
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QUESTION 10744: If you see someone without a smile, are will to give that someone one of yours? EmilKoval©2023
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QUESTION 10745: Are you aware that a true friend is someone who understands your past. believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are? EmilKoval©2023
UNIVERSAL TRUTHS: SEPT 19, 2023.
Universal Truth 706: Do not care about whose DNA has recombined with whose. When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching are your true family. — Universal Truth
Universal Truth 706: No one in this world is pure and perfect. If you avoid people for their mistakes, you will always be alone. So judge less and love more. — Universal Truth
Universal Truth 706: Some people get mature early in life because life shows them the worst side of the world at the early stage of their lives. — Universal Truth
Universal Truth 706: Hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea, but do you have any idea how deep that stone can GO. — Universal Truth
Universal Truth 706: Nobody is perfect.
We make mistakes.
We say wrong things.
We do wrong things.
We fall. We get up.
We learn. We grow.
We move one. We live. — Universal Truth
CONTEMPLATION NOTES 029:
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING
Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, “If i were any better, I would be twins!”
He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, “I don’t get it! You can’t be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?”
Jerry replied, “Each morning I wake up and say to myself, ‘Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood, or you can choose to be in a bad mood.’ I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim, or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining, or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.”
“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested.
“Yes, it is,” Jerry said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.”
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: He left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him.
Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.
I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “If I were any better, I’d be twins. Wanna see my scars?” I declined to see his wounds. But did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place.
“The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door,” Jerry replied. “Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live.”
“Weren’t you scared? Did you lose consciousness?” I asked.
Jerry continued, “The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, ‘He’s a dead man.’ “I knew i needed to take action.”
“What did you do?” I asked. “Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry.
“She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes,’ I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets!’
Over their laughter, I told them. ‘I am choosing to live. operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.” Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.
Attitude, after all, is everything. (Author Unknown)
Reflective Poem by Emil Koval #979 SEPT 19, 2023
Resting With My Soothing Brew This Monday Morning.
Another Blessed Day Of Clear Skies And No Clouds.
Sharing Food And Things With Some Neighbors
Enjoying My Favorite Sports: Sumo And Bull Riding
Both Respecting Beliefs And Inter-Cultural Members
No Political Protests And No Cultural Propaganda
Sumo And Bull Riding Have Multinationals Compete
Respecting All Participants Who Love The Sports.
All Participants Participate In Human Symbiosis.
Emilkoval©2023
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