THOUGHTS 3765 TO 3768

MY THOUGHTS 3765
NEGATIVES: WHENEVER YOU ARE FACED WITH ANY FORM OF NEGATIVITY, YOUR FIRST THOUGHT SHOULD BE ‘WHAT IS THE LESSON I AM TO LEARN FROM THIS SITUATION’. REMEMBER THAT NEGATIVE SITUATIONS AND NEGATIVE FRIENDS HAVE HELPED YOU TO UNDERSTAND YOU BETTER. MOVE ON WITHOUT BITTERNESS AND WITH JOY FOR THE LESSONS THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED. ALSO KEEP IN MIND THAT IF YOU REFUSE TO RECOGNIZE SIMPLE LESSONS SENTS SENT TO YOU, THEN HARD NEGATIVES LESSONS WILL BE SENT TO OPEN YOUR CLOSED MIND. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3766
TRUTH: MANY TIMES OUR EXPECTATIONS AND ANTICIPATIONS KEEP US FROM SEEING THE TRUTH, EVEN WHEN IT IS PRESENTED DIRECTLY TO US. IT IS OUR PERCEPTION OF TRUTH THAT MIGHT HIDE THE REAL TRUTH FROM US. IT IS ALSO WHAT WE WANT THE TRUTH TO BE THAT PREVENTS US FROM SEEING THE REAL TRUTH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3767
GROWTH: WHEN YOU FACE A POSITIVE AND A NEGATIVE IN ANY SITUATION, USE THE POSITIVE TO HELP YOU TURN THE NEGATIVE INTO A POSITIVE TOOL. REMEMBER THAT POSITIVES GIVE YOU ASSURANCES AND NEGATIVES GIVE YOU OPPORTUNITIES TO FACE CHALLENGES AND GROW BEYOND THE PRESENT YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3768
MEDITATION: AT FIRST, WHEN YOU TRY TO SIT QUIETLY TO STILL YOUR MIND, INNER VOICES WILL APPEAR MAKING EXCUSES FOR EVERY DECISION THAT YOU HVE MADE IN YOUR LIFE. DO NOT DENY THOSE VOICES, LISTEN TO THEM CONSCIOUSLY WHILE ASKING YOURSELF WHETHER EACH EXCUSE IS REALLY TRUE. IT MAY BE A LONG, BUT REWARDING, PROCESS. WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO ACCEPT THOSE EVENTS WITHOUT MAKING EXCUSES FOR THEM, YOU WILL BE READY FOR THE NEXT STEP, WHICH IS AN INNER MEDITATIVE JOURNEY WITHOUT OBSTACLES. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3761 TO 3764

MY THOUGHTS 3761
FORGIVENESS: FORGIVENESS IS THE BEST KARMIC CHOICE IN ANY NEGATIVE SITUATION; HOWEVER, THERE WILL BE A FEELING OF DISTRUST TOWARDS THE PERSON FORGIVEN. REMEMBER TO ALWAYS FORGIVE. IF YOU WISH TO CONTINUE A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS BEEN VIOLATED, THAT IS A PERSONAL CHOICE. REMEMBER THAT THE PAIN AND BETRAYAL ARE THE KARMIC LESSONS OF BOTH PARTIES. THERE IS ALSO ANOTHER LESSON HERE: FOOL ME ONCE, SHAME ON YOU; FOOL ME TWICE, SHAME ON ME. IF STAYING IN THE RELATIONSHIP CONTINUES TO BRING WARINESS TO YOU, IT IS THE WARNING WHISPERS OF THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3762
SEPARATION: IF YOU LEAVE A NEGATIVE RELATIONSHIP, ALWAYS FORGIVE AND MOVE ON WITH LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING IN YOUR HEART WHILE THANKING THE COSMOS FOR THE LESSONS THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED. REMEMBER THAT SOME PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO STAY, AND SOME PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE TO PRESENT YOU WITH CHOICES AND THEN LEAVE. THOSE CHOICES BECOME NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE CHOICES BASED ON ‘YOUR’ DECISIONS BASED ON ‘YOUR’ AWARENESS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3763
LANGUAGES: WHEN YOU STUDY ANY LANGUAGE, BE SURE TO UNDERSTAND THE VALUES, THE CUSTOMS, AND THE LITERATURE OF THE PEOPLES WHO SPEAK THAT LANGUAGE. LEARNING JUST THE GRAMMAR IS LIKE LOOKING AT THE COVER OF A BOOK AND NOT READING IT. WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THE THINKING PROCESS OF THE NATIVE SPEAKERS, IT WILL BE LIKE READING AND UNDERSTANDING THE CONCEPTS OF THE PEOPLES THAT LIVE AND BREATHE THAT LANGUAGE. THE PSYCHES OF THOSE PEOPLES ARE EXPRESSED BY ‘WORDS’ USED IN THE CONTEXT OF THEIR GRAMMAR. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3764
MENTORS: A TRUE MENTOR WILL GIVE ADVICE WHEN ASKED QUESTIONS, OR THE MENTOR MAY STIMULATE YOUR THOUGHTS BY POSING QUESTIONS IN RESPONSE TO YOUR QUESTIONS. A TRUE MENTOR SHOULD NEVER CONTROL SOMEONE’S THOUGHTS; HE/SHE SHOULD ACT AS A GUIDE ON HOW TO THINK AND HOW TO REACT IN ALL SITUATIONS. A TRUE MENTOR WILL SHARE WHAT HE/SHE HAS LEARNED SO FAR IN LIFE. IT IS VERY IMPORT TO UNDERSTAND THAT A MENTOR IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR LIFE. YOU ALONE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE PATH THAT YOU ARE TO WALK IN THIS LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3757 TO 3760

MY THOUGHTS 3757
REJECTIONS: SOME PEOPLE HAVE A NEGATIVE REACTION TO REJECTIONS, SOME PEOPLE SOME JUST ACCEPT THEM, AND SOME PEOPLE LEARN FROM THEM AND THEN MOVE ON. REACTIONS TO REJECTIONS VARY BASED ON HOW A REJECTION IS DONE. WHEN YOU REJECT SOMEONE, YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE AND RESPECT HIS/HER DEMONSTRATIONS OF AFFECTION TOWARDS YOU. YOUR REJECTION SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL OF HER/HIS FEELINGS WHILE COMPASSIONATELY AND HONESTLY EXPLAIN WHY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3758
REJECTIONS: WHEN A REJECTION IS GIVEN AND SOMEONE PERSISTS OVER AND OVER AGAIN TO IGNORE THAT REJECTION, THAT PERSISTENCE CAN TURN A SIMPLE REJECTION INTO A LONG TERM RESENTMENT. WHEN THE REJECTED INDIVIDUAL INSISTS ON DISCUSSING THE RELATIONSHIP AFTER IT IS OVER, IT MAKES THE REJECTOR WANT TO GET FURTHER AWAY FROM THAT PERSON. KEEP IN MIND THAT A REJECTION IS ONE’S OPPORTUNITY TO FIND SOMEONE MORE ACCEPTABLE TO ‘WHOM YOU ARE’ AFTER YOU HAVE GONE INWARD TO EVALUATE THE REJECTION AND ITS AFFECT ON YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3759
SEPARATIONS: WHEN A RELATIONSHIP ENDS THERE IS A TENDENCY TO KEEP SOME TYPE OF CONNECTION TO A FORMER MATE. IN REALITY, IF YOU WISH TO HAVE A FRIENDLY CONNECTION WITH A FORMER MATE, IT IS BEST TO CUT OFF ALL COMMUNICATIONS FOR A MINIMUM OF SIX MONTHS; A YEAR IS PREFERABLE. THIS ALLOWS EACH PARTNER TO RE-ADJUST FULLY TO THEIR NEW LIVES AND CAN FREELY RE-ESTABLISH A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FORMER PARTNER ON A LEVEL THAT THEY BOTH CAN BE COMFORTABLE WITH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3760
SEPARATIONS: WHEN THE ENDING OF A RELATION INVOLVES CHILDREN, IT BECOMES A REAL TEST OF YOUR SPIRITUALITY. THE CONFLICT SHOULD ONLY BE BETWEEN THE PARTNERS, AND THE CHILDREN SHOULD NEVER BE PAWNS IN THE CHESS GAME OF SEPARATION. CHILDREN SHOULD BE INFORMED THAT BOTH PATENTS LOVE THEM DEEPLY, AND THAT THE SEPARATION IS NOT ABOUT THEM. BOTH PARENTS SHOULD BE ROLE MODELS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS NO LONGER VIABLE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3753 TO 3756

MY THOUGHTS 3753
MEDITATION: WHEN YOU ARE IN A FOREST, WOODS, OR A PARK, CLOSE YOUR EYES AND LISTEN AS THE TREES GUIDE THE BREEZES THROUGH ITS LEAVES CREATING NATURES SACRED MUSIC TO SOOTHE YOUR BODY, MIND, AND SOUL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3754
LANGUAGES: WHEN YOU LEARN ANY LANGUAGE YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THE THOUGHTS, VALUES, AND LITERATURE OF THE PEOPLE WHO USE THAT LANGUAGE. LANGUAGE IS NOT JUST THE USE OF WORDS TO COMMUNICATE WITH OTHERS; IT IS THE USE OF WORDS TO EXPRESS THE SOULS OF THE NATIVE SPEAKERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3755
NEGATIVES: WHENEVER YOU ARE FACED WITH ANY FORM OF NEGATIVITY, YOUR FIRST THOUGHT SHOULD BE THAT THAT IS A LESSON TO BE LEARNED ‘NOW’, AND IT IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE GOOD KARMIC CHOICES. THOSE NEGATIVES ARE COSMIC LESSONS CREATED TO HELP YOU SEE ‘YOU’ AND OTHERS MORE CLEARLY BECAUSE YOU MAY HAVE BLINDED TEMPORARILY BY POSITIVE MATERIAL EVENTS WHICH MAY HAVE CAUSED YOU TO STRAY FROM YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3756
DECEPTIONS: ALWAYS BE WHO YOU ARE. WHEN YOU PUT UP FACADES TO ATTRACT SOMEONE, YOU ARE PRESENTING A FALSE PICTURE OF YOU. WHEN THAT FAÇADE IS EXPOSED, THE PERSON(S) YOU HAVE ATTRACTED MAY SOON DISAPPEAR. WHEN YOU ATTRACT SOMEONE BY BEING WHO YOU REALLY ARE, THAT RELATIONSHIP CAN SURVIVE THE STORMS OF LIFE. BASICALLY, IF THERE ARE NO DECEPTIONS, THERE ARE NO DISAPPOINTS. YOU MAY NEED FACADES IN DAILY SOCIAL LIFE TO SURVIVE; HOWEVER, IN YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, HONESTY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN DECEPTIONS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3749 TO 3752

MY THOUGHTS 3749
SEPARATION: WHEN ONE TRULY BELIEVES IN THE AFTER LIFE AND THAT ALL WILL BE TOGETHER IN THE COSMIC REALM, THERE SHOULD BE NO SORROW WITH A SEPARATION FROM A LOVED-ONE BECAUSE IT IS A TEMPORARY SEPARATION. IF YOUR PARTNER GOES BEFORE YOU, IT MEANS THAT HIS/HER LESSONS HAVE BEEN COMPLETED AND THAT SHE/HE WILL BE WAITING FOR YOU TO COMPLETE YOUR LESSONS. IF YOU CANNOT ACCEPT THIS, THEN IT MAY BE A QUESTION OF YOUR FAITH AND YOUR ATTACHMENT TO THIS MATERIAL WORLD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3750
CHALLENGES: WHEN YOU ARE WILLING TO FACE THE CHALLENGES OF THE EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL, AND EMOTIONAL STORMS WITHIN YOUR INNER SELVES AND YOUR OUTER SELVES, YOU CAN DISCOVER YOUR TRUE LIFE’S PATH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3751
CHALLENGES: WHEN YOU ALLOW YOUR MIND, YOUR THOUGHTS, AND YOUR EMOTIONS TO GO BEYOND YOUR PHYSICAL LIMITS, THE ‘PHYSICAL YOU’ WILL SOON FOLLOW BEYOND ITS ‘SUPPOSED’ LIMITS. THEN A COMPLETE YOU ‘YOU’ CAN MEET ANY PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, AND SPIRITUAL CHALLENGES THAT COME YOUR WAY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3752
COURAGE: TRUE COURAGE COMES AT THE END OF A PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL STORM WHEN YOU ARE WILLING TO GET UP AND TRY AGAIN TO MASTER THE NEXT PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, OR SPIRITUAL STORM. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3745 TO 3748

MY THOUGHTS 3745
BALANCE: THE UNIVERSE MAINTAINS THE HARMONIOUS BALANCE OF THE YIN AND YANG OF ALL ASPECTS OF EXISTENCES. IT BALANCES THE CREATIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE FORCES OF ALL EXISTENCE. WHEN WORLDS IMPLODE OR EXPLODE, NEW WORLDS ARE CREATED. IT IS NOT A DESTROYER OF WHAT IT DOES NOT LIKE. IT ALLOWS THE EBB AND FLOW OF EXISTENCE. WHEN VACUUMS ARE CREATED, IT FILLS THOSE VACUUMS WITH NEW LIGHT. IT DOES NOT INTENTIONALLY DESTROY ONE LIGHT TO REPLACE IT WITH ANOTHER PREFERRED LIGHT. ALL FAITHS SHOULD LEARN THIS LESSON FROM THE COSMOS. THEY SHOULD NOT CREATE VACUUMS SO THEY COULD FILL THOSE VACUUMS WITH THEIR PREFERENCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3746
TOLERANCE: INSTITUTIONALIZED FAITHS AND CULTURE-BASED FAITHS HAVE BOTH NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE ASPECTS. ALL FAITHS HAVE THE BASIC PRECEPTS OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND CHARITY FOR ITS MEMBERS. ALL FAITHS SHOULD EXPAND THOSE PRECEPTS TO ALL FAITHS, ALL PEOPLES, AND ALL LIVING ENTITIES ON THIS PLANET. ALL FAITHS SHOULD HONOR THE POSITIVE ASPECTS OF ANY FAITH THAT PRODUCES LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR ALL ITS BELIEVERS. ALSO, ALL FAITHS SHOULD AVOID THE NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF ANY FAITH THAT DEMEANS OTHERS, DESTROYS OTHERS, OR CRITICIZES OTHERS WHO DO NOT BELIEVE IN THEIR INTERPRETATION OF GOD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3747
SEPARATION: SEPARATION FROM THINGS AND PEOPLE IS A TASK THAT FEW ARE PREPARED TO FACE. ONE’S FAITH IS SUPPOSED TO BE ONE’S GUIDE AND PROTECTOR IN THESE SITUATIONS. ONE SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT EACH CHANGE IN RELATIONSHIPS IS A PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, AND SPIRITUAL LESSON TO BE LEARNED. IT IS EASIER WHEN YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY PREPARED TO MEET THE CHALLENGES PRESENTED TO YOU. HOW YOU HANDLE A SEPARATION FROM MATERIAL THINGS IS A SPIRITUAL STEP FORWARD OR SPIRITUAL STAGNATION. A SEPARATION FROM A LOVED ONE ALSO CAN BE SPIRITUAL STEP FORWARD WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH OF YOU WILL EVENTUALLY BE REUNITED IN THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3748
YANINA AND MILAN: TWO SPIRITUAL EXPLORERS, YANINA AND MILAN, ENTERED A VALLEY WHERE THE PEOPLE WERE LIVING A LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, HARMONIOUS LIFE. AFTER A WHILE THEY NOTICED THAT THE PEOPLE WERE OF ONE FAITH AND THE NEWLY ELECTED LEADER WAS OF A DIFFERENT FAITH. THEIR CURIOSITY PEAKED, SO THEY ASK SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHY THAT WAS SO. THEY ALL ANSWERED AT DIFFERENT TIMES, “WE ASK ANY POTENTIAL LEADER TWO BASIC QUESTION: DO YOU BELIEVE IN GOD?, AND DO YOU BELIEVE IN FAMILY? HAVING GOOD LEADERSHIP SKILLS, HAVING FAITH, AND BELIEVING IN FAMILY MAKES A TRUSTWORTHY LEADER. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3741 TO 3744

MY THOUGHTS 3741
YOUR PHILOSOPHY IS WHAT YOU SHARE WITH OTHERS WHO INQUIRE ABOUT HOW YOU LIVE YOUR EVERY DAY LIFE. MANY MAY INQUIRE AND SAY “VERY NICE IDEAS” AND DO NOTHING WITH YOUR PHILOSOPHY. OTHERS MAY THANK YOU FOR AN ANSWER THAT THEY WERE LOOKING FOR. YOUR PERSONAL PHILOSOPHY SHOULD BE BASED ON YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF LIFE, NOT ON THE ACCEPTANCE OF OTHERS. HOWEVER, ALWAYS BE OPEN TO OTHER PHILOSOPHIES THAT MAY ENLIGHTEN YOUR PATH. REMEMBER TO BE CONTENT WITH WHO YOU ARE AND ALWAYS SEEK TO BE BETTER TOMORROW THAN YOU ARE TODAY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3742
QUESTION 391: DID YOU HAVE OR ARE YOU HAVING CHILDREN TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER, OR DID YOU HAVE OR ARE YOU HAVING CHILDREN TO CREATE A BETTER FUTURE FOR THEM AND FOR ALL OF HUMANITY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3743
QUESTION 392: WILL YOUR FEARS OF REJECTION LEAD TO LIES AND DECEPTIONS TO AVOID ANY REJECTIONS? ARE YOU AWARE OF THE CONSEQUENCES OF THOSE LIES AND THOSE DECEPTIONS WHEN THEY ARE DISCOVERED? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3744
SPIRITUALITY: ONE OF THE FIRST STEPS IN POISONING YOUR SPIRITUALITY IS BEING ANGRY AT, CRITICIZING, OR DESTROYING HOW SOMEONE ELSE BELIEVES IN GOD. ONE MUST NEVER CRITICIZE THE ‘SPIRITUAL ASPECTS’ OF ANYONE’S FAITH. ONE SHOULD ALWAYS SEEK TO FIND THE COMMONALITIES OF LOVE, COMPASSION, AND UNDERSTANDING IN ALL FAITHS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3737 TO 3740

MY THOUGHTS 3737
RELATIONSHIPS: PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS HAVE TO BE REMINDED REGULARLY THAT THE QUALITY OF TIME YOU SPEND WITH A LOVED ONE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE QUANTITY OF TIME YOU SPEND WITH THAT LOVED ONE. THIS INCLUDES DINNERS WITHOUT ELECTRONIC DEVICES OF ANY KIND AND TIME ALONE WITH CHILDREN AND TIME ALONE WITHOUT CHILDREN. YOUR MAIN KARMIC CHOICE IS BETWEEN HUMAN TO HUMAN INTERACTIONS AND SLAVERY TO ELECTRONIC DEVICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3738
QUESTION 389: ARE YOU RAISING YOUR CHILDREN TO BE SERVANTS OF OTHERS, OR ARE YOU RAISING YOUR CHILDREN TO BE SPIRITUAL REPRESENTATIONS OF YOU? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3739
QUESTION 390: DID YOU /ARE YOU HAVING CHILDREN TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER, OR DID YOU/ARE YOU HAVING CHILDREN TO CREATE A BETTER FUTURE FOR THEM AND FOR ALL OF HUMANITY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3740
FREEDOM: MONKEYS ARE CAPTURED WHEN THEY REACH FOR THE MATERIAL THINGS IN A CAGE AND REFUSE TO LET GO OF THE OBJECT. THEIR FREEDOM DEPENDS UPON LETTING GO OF THAT MATERIAL OBJECT WHICH THEY REFUSE TO DO BECAUSE OF THEIR GREED. SO IT IS WITH HUMAN BEINGS WHO WISH TO BE SPIRITUALLY FREE BUT CANNOT BE BECAUSE THEY WANT TO CLING ON TO THE MATERIAL THINGS THAT THEY HAVE ACCUMULATED. THE KEY TO PERSONAL FREEDOM AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH IS TO LET GO OF MATERIAL THINGS THAT IMPRISON YOUR PSYCHE AND BY LETTING GO OF PAST RELATIONSHIPS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3733 TO 3736

MY THOUGHTS 3733
QUESTION 387: WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU LOST YOUR PARTNER, WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU LOST YOUR HOME IN A DISASTER, AND WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU LOST YOUR JOB? ARE YOU PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY PREPARED TO DEAL WITH THOSE CHALLENGES? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3734
QUESTION 388: ARE YOU TEACHING YOUR CHILDREN TO BE AN ASSET TO THE FUTURE OF HUMANITY OR A DEFICIT TO THE FUTURE OF HUMANITY? ARE YOU CREATING SELF-RELIANT SPIRITUAL BEINGS OR ARE YOU CREATING LIVING PARASITES? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3735
LISTENING: WHEN YOU ARE HAVING DISCUSSIONS WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR LISTENING IN ON THEIR CONVERSATIONS, YOU WILL DISCOVER THAT RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE BASED ON TRUST AND INTEGRITY ARE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. LISTEN WELL TO THE WORDS OF THOSE AROUND YOU, AND YOU WILL LEARN WHETHER THEY ARE TRUSTWORTHY PEOPLE AND WHETHER THEY HAVE/DON’T HAVE INTEGRITY. MINDFULLY LISTENING IS YOUR MOST VALUABLE TOOL IN LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3736
INTEGRITY: TELLING SMALL LIES TO AVOID PAINFUL SITUATIONS WILL EVENTUALLY LEAD TO BIGGER LIES, BIGGER DECEPTIONS, AND A TOTAL LOSS OF INTEGRITY AS THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU WILL NO LONGER BELIEVE IN YOU NOR TRUST IN YOU. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3729 TO 3732

MY THOUGHTS 3729
TEACHERS: REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU GO TO CLASSES YOU ARE THERE TO LEARN WHAT THE TEACHER KNOWS AND THEN TAKE THAT KNOWLEDGE AND ENHANCE YOUR OWN KNOWLEDGE. THE SAME APPLIES TO YOUR PARENTS AND ANY MENTORS YOU MAY HAVE IN LIFE. YOU ARE TO ABSORB THEIR KNOWLEDGE AND THEN BUILD UPON THAT FROM YOUR EXPERIENCES. REMEMBER THAT TEACHERS ARE SENT YOU AT DIFFERENT TIMES IN YOUR LIFE TO HELP YOU TO GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE AT THAT MOMENT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3730
STUDENTS: REMEMBER THAT AS A STUDENT OF YOUR TEACHERS OR MENTORS YOU ARE ALSO THERE TO STRENGTHEN THEIR KNOWLEDGE BY ASKING CHALLENGING QUESTIONS. BY ASKING CHALLENGING QUESTIONS, YOU KEEP THEM STRONG AND YOU HELP THEM GROW BEYOND WHAT THEY ARE AT THAT MOMENT. WHEN AND IF YOU GROW BEYOND WHAT THEY CAN TEACH YOU, YOU ARE TO REMEMBER THAT THEY BROUGHT YOU TO ‘YOUR’ NEXT STEP; THEREFORE, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS HAVE LOVING COMPASSIONATE FEELINGS TOWARDS THEM FOR WHERE THEY HAD BROUGHT YOU TO. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3731
STUDENTS: WHEN YOU HAVE ABSORBED THE KNOWLEDGE OF YOUR TEACHERS AND MENTORS, THEN IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON BEYOND THEM TO SEEK MORE KNOWLEDGE. HOWEVER, BE SURE TO DO THIS WITH LOVING RESPECT FOR THEM FOR WHAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3732
QUESTION 386: IF YOU WERE TO DIE TODAY, HOW WOULD YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR RELATIONS REACT? IF YOUR PARTNER WERE TO DIE TODAY, HOW WOULD YOU REACT? ARE BOTH OF YOU PREPARED TO DEAL WITH THAT POSSIBILITY, OR ARE YOU LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3725 TO 3728

MY THOUGHTS 3725
BALANCE: REMEMBER TO KEEP THE YOUR BALANCE BETWEEN THE POSITIVE SIDE AND THE NEGATIVE SIDE OF THE YIN AND YANG. WHEN YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF POSITIVES YOU MAY HAVE A TENDENCY TO BE LESS VIGILANT AND TO STRAY FROM YOUR PATH; THEREFORE, NEGATIVITIES ARE SENT TO OPEN YOUR EYES AND TO GET YOU BACK ON THE PATH TO MAINTAINING THAT BALANCE. YOUR CHOICE IS TO HEED THOSE MESSAGES OR IGNORE THEM. IT IS YOUR KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3726
SEPARATION: ALWAYS BE KIND AND LOVING TO THOSE AROUND YOU, FOR THE TIME WILL COME WHEN YOU CAN NO LONGER BE WITH THEM, OR THEY CAN NO LONGER BE WITH YOU. BE LOVING, CARING, AND UNDERSTANDING ALWAYS. ALWAYS SHARE YOUR JOY AND LIGHT WITH THEM. HOWEVER, DO NOT BECOME DEPENDENT UPON THEM TO BE THERE FOR YOU ALWAYS. THE COSMOS DECIDES THE TIMELINE FOR EVERYONE. MANY WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE, AND MANY WILL LEAVE YOU LIFE. YOU, AND/OR THEY, MUST BE APPRECIATIVE OF THE TIMES THAT YOU HAVE TOGETHER IN ‘THE NOW’ BECAUSE THERE IS NO GUARANTEE OF A FUTURE OF TOGETHERNESS. WHEN YOU OR THEY LEAVE, THERE SHOULD BE POSITIVE MEMORIES OF A SHARED LIFE TOGETHER; NOT MEMORIES OF REGRETS FOR WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN DONE. NOW IS THE TIME TO BEGIN IF YOU HAVEN’T ALREADY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3727
PHYSICAL DEATH: YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU ARE DEVASTATED IF SOMEONE LEAVES YOU AND YOU SHOULD NOT ALLOW A RELATIONSHIP TO EXIST THAT SOMEBODY WILL BE DEVASTATED WHEN YOU LEAVE THEM. WHEN YOU SEPARATE FROM THEM OR THEY A SEPARATE FROM YOU, THERE SHOULD BE FEELINGS OF GRATITUDE, LOVE, AND ACCEPTANCE, AS WELL AS THE APPRECIATION FOR THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE HAD UP TO THAT POINT. WHEN YOU LEAVE, OR THEY LEAVE, THIS LIFE; YOU OR THEY SHOULD CELEBRATE THE LIFE THAT YOU, OR THEY, HAD HAD. YOU/THEY SHOULD NOT BE MOURNING THEIR/YOUR LOSS. INSTEAD, YOU/THEY SHOULD BE CELEBRATING YOUR/THEIR RE-UNION WITH THE COSMOS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3728
SEPARATION: THE ONLY TRUE SEPARATION ON THIS LEVEL IS A PHYSICAL SEPARATION. YOU MAY TRY TO DENY THE EMOTIONAL, THE PSYCHOLOGICAL, AND THE SPIRITUAL CONNECTION YOU HAVE WITH OTHERS; HOWEVER, THAT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO DO. IT IS BEST TO DEAL WITH THOSE ISSUES INTERNALLY AND PRIVATELY. OPENLY ACCEPT THOSE CONNECTIONS WHILE TURNING THE NEGATIVE OF THOSE CONNECTIONS INTO POSITIVE TOOLS IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3721 TO 3724

MY THOUGHTS 3721
SECOND-HAND: REMEMBER THAT WHEN YOU BUY ANY USED PRODUCT LIKE A VEHICLE, COMPUTER, HOME, ETC., YOU ARE REALLY BUYING SOMEONE ELSE’S PROBLEM. LIKEWISE, IF YOU MARRY A DIVORCEE WHO HAS NOT DEALTH WITH HER/HIS PERSONAL ISSUES FULLY, YOU WILL HAVE MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE’S PROBLEM. THE FIRST GROUP IS ABOUT GREEDY DEALS. THE SECOND IS A PROBLEM OF BLIND PASSION AND THE VICTIM/RESCUER SYNDROME. MINDFUL THINKING IS ALWAYS ESSENTIAL IN MAKING THESE CHOICES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3722
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN YOU ARE READY TO BEGIN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO CAME OUT OF A FORMER RELATIONSHIP YOU MUST THINK ABOUT TWO POSSIBILITIES: 1) THAT THEY HAVE LEARNED THEIR LESSONS AND TURN OUT TO BE A BETTER PARTNER, OR 2) THEY COME TO YOU WITH A LOT OF NEGATIVE BAGGAGE THAT THEY HAVEN’T DEALT WITH YET. THUS, BRINGING POTENTIAL TURMOIL TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT PERSON. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3723
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOU ARE READY TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE WHO IS STILL BITTER ABOUT A PAST RELATIONSHIP IT IS TIME TO TURN AROUND AND WALK AWAY OR RUN LIKE HELL. YOU MAY BE THE PERFECT MATE FOR THAT PERSON; HOWEVER WHEN THEY COME WITH UNRESOLVED BITTERNESS FROM A FORMER RELATIONSHIP, THAT BITTERNESS WILL BE TRANSFERRED TO YOU EVENTUALLY AND WILL BE VERY PAINFUL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3724
INTEGRITY: WHEN YOU WANT TO SELL SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE THAT YOU NO LONGER WANT, IT IS BEST TO BE TOTALLY HONEST AND TELL THE BUYER WHAT YOU THINK MAY BE THE FAULTS WITH THAT PRODUCT, YOUR CONSCIENCE WILL BE CLEAR AND THAT PERSON WILL KNOW WHETHER THEY WOULD LIKE TO HANDLE THOSE PROBLEMS OR NOT. IF YOU DO NOT, YOU MAY GAIN SOME MATERIAL WEALTH WHILE CREATING A POTENTIAL ADVERSARY. YOU WILL HAVE ALSO DIMMED YOUR INNER LIGHT BY SUCH A BAD KARMIC CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3717 TO 3720

MY THOUGHTS 3717
DECEPTION: ANY DECEPTION CREATED BY ANYONE TOWARD ANOTHER WILL CREATE TWO MOST LIKELY DIRE RESULTS: 1), THE LOSS OF YOUR INTEGRITY WITH THAT PERSON, AND 2), THE POSSIBLE THE LOSS OF THAT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. IF THAT PERSON DOES NOT LEAVE YOU, THAT PERSON WILL AT LEAST DISTANCE HER/HIMSELF FROM YOU IN SOMEWAY. IF THAT PERSON IS A PARTNER, PARENT, OR CHILD, THERE MAY NOT BE A PHYSICAL SEPARATION; HOWEVER, THERE WILL BE A SPIRITUAL SEPARATION ON DIFFERENT LEVELS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3718
QUESTION 385: IF YOU ARE IN ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WITH ANYONE, IS IT NOT BETTER TO BE HONEST AND TELL THEM THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT WORKING AND THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE? EVEN IF IT IS PAINFUL, IS IT NOT BETTER TO LEAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR INTEGRITY INTACT? CAN YOU DO THIS IN A LOVING AND COMPASSIONATE WAY WITHOUT ANY BITTERNESS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3719
INTEGRITY: THE ONLY TRUE TREASURES THAT YOU HAVE IN ‘YOUR LIFE’ IS ‘YOUR INTEGRITY’ AND ‘YOUR TRUST’. IF YOU HAVE VIOLATED YOUR TRUST AND LOST YOUR INTEGRITY THROUGH DECEPTION, IT IS BEST TO REPAIR THAT TRUST AND INTEGRITY WITH A SINCERE APOLOGY AND A TRUE RE-EVALUATION OF WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU ARE, AND WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO BE. IT MAY TAKE A LONG TIME TO PREPARE YOUR INTEGRITY AND TO GAIN TRUST AGAIN, BUT IT WILL BE WORTH IT IF YOU TRULY TRY THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS NOT JUST YOUR WORDS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3720
INTEGRITY: POTENTIAL PARTNERS SHOULD BE COMPLETELY OPEN AND HONEST WITH EACH OTHER AS TO THEIR WANTS, DESIRES, LIKES, AND NEEDS, AS WELL AS TO WHAT THEY EXPECT IN A RELATIONSHIP. OF COURSE, AS A RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPS YOU WILL RE-EVALUATE AND RE-FOCUS YOUR RELATIONSHIP. AS LONG AS YOU MAINTAIN TRUST AND INTEGRITY BETWEEN THE BOTH OF YOU, YOUR RELATION WILL GROW SPIRITUALLY, MENTALLY, AND PHYSICALLY. ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT STARTS OUT WITH LIES AND DECEPTIONS TOWARD EACH OTHER IN ORDER TO BE TOGETHER WILL EVENTUALLY BE DOOMED TO FAILURE AND EVENTUAL THE DISSOLUTION OF THE RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3709 TO 3712

MY THOUGHTS 3709
DIFFERENCES: WHEN YOU TRY TO CONVINCE OTHERS THAT YOU ARE RIGHT AND THEY ARE WRONG, YOU WILL ONLY MEET EVENTUAL RESISTANCE. YOU MAY WIN AN ARGUMENT TEMPORARILY BY BEING PERSISTENT; HOWEVER, YOU WILL ALSO LOSE A FRIEND, OR THEY WILL BEGIN TO DISTANCE THEMSELVES FROM YOU. THE ONLY WAY TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR IDEAS IS TO LIVE YOUR IDEAS. THEST CASE FOR YOUR IDEAS IS TO DEMONSTRATE THEM OS A LIVING EXAMPLE OF THEM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3710
CHOICES: IF YOU BELIEVE THAT THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE, THEN YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND WHY IT LOOKS GREENER TO YOU AND WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES IT MAY PROVIDE FOR YOU. THEN YOU SHOULD CREATE THOSE ADVANTAGE ON YOUR SIDE OF THE FENCE. IF THOSE ADVANTAGES CANNOT BE INCORPORATED ON YOUR SIDE OF THE FENCE, THEN YOU MUST CONSCIOUSLY DECIDE WHETHER YOU WANT TO STAY ON YOUR SIDE THE FENCE OR GO TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. IF YOU DO, MUST DO IT WITHOUT BITTERNESS AND BE READY TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3711
UNDERSTANDING: DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS BY HOW THEY LIVE THEIR LIVES. THEY DO HAVE DIFFERENT LESSONS TO LEARN THAN YOU DO. YOU CAN ONLY DECIDE WHETHER TO PARTICIPATE IN THEIR LIVES FULLY, PARTIALLY, OR DIS-ENGAGE FROM THEM. REMEMBER THAT THESE ARE PREFERENCES, NOT EXPECTATIONS OR DEMAND. IF YOU DECIDE TO DISENGAGE FROM THEIR LIVES, THEN MOVE ON WITH LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSION BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DIFFERENT PATH THAN THEY ARE. WISH THEM WELL IN THEIR LESSONS AND CONTINUE TO LEARN YOURS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3712
LOVE: REMEMBER THAT TRUE LOVE CAN ONLY BE GIVEN FREELY. IT CANNOT BE FORCED, IT CANNOT BE BARTERED, AND IT CANNOT BE PLEADED FOR. IT IS EITHER THERE OR IT IS NOT. IF YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE, AND IT IS NOT ACCEPTED, THEN MOVE ON WITHOUT ANY BITTERNESS OR NEGATIVITY. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3705 TO 3708

MY THOUGHTS 3705
QUESTION 383: DO YOU DO THINGS BECAUSE THAT’S THE WAY THEY ARE ALWAYS DONE, OR DO YOU ASK YOURSELF WHY THINGS ARE DONE IN ANY PARTICULAR WAY? DO YOU CONSIDER DOING THE THINGS THAT YOU DO IN A BETTER WAY TO BENEFIT YOU AND OTHERS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3706
CAUSES: MANY SUPPORT WONDERFUL CAUSES TO HELP THOSE IN NEED. HOWEVER, THE BEST WAY TO GET SUPPORT FOR THEIR CAUSES IS TO LIVE THEIR CAUSES BY PERSONAL EXAMPLE. WHEN IT COMES FROM THEM WITH THEIR WHOLE HEART, THOSE WHO ARE READY TO WILL JOIN THEM AND HELP THEM IN THEIR CAUSES. THEY MAY TRY TO FORCE OR EMBARRASS SOMEONE TO JOIN THEIR CAUSES; HOWEVER, THAT PERSON MAY ONLY JOIN TEMPORARILY, AND THEN AVOID THEM BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO BE EMBARRASSED. IT IS ALWAYS BEST TO LIVE AND LEAD BY EXAMPLE. IF THEY FOLLOW THE EXAMPLE OF MOTHER TERESA, THEY WILL REAP THE SUPPORT THEY SEEK. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3707
CAUSES: IF YOU WISH OTHERS TO BELIEVE IN THE CAUSES THAT YOU DO, YOU CAN TRULY ONLY ACCOMPLISH THAT BY BEING THE EXAMPLE OF HOW TO SUPPORT THE CAUSES THAT YOU BELIEVE IN. IF YOU TRY TO FORCE OR INTIMIDATE ANYONE INTO BELIEVING WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN, YOU WILL ONLY CAUSE RESENTMENT, AND THEY MAY EVENTUALLY WORK AGAINST YOUR CAUSES. ALWAYS LEAD BY EXAMPLE AND WALK THE TALK.
EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3708
OPENNESS: ONE MUST ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT PEOPLE ARE HERE ON DIFFERENT LEVELS TO LEARN DIFFERENT LESSONS, AND THAT NOT EVERYONE WILL BE ON THE SAME PATH THAT YOU ARE. YOU CAN ONLY DEMONSTRATE YOUR PATH BY LIVING YOUR PATH WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART, A CLEAR MIND, AND A SOULFUL PURPOSE. BE THE EXAMPLE TO EVERYONE ON HOW TO LIVE ONE’S LIFE AND WALK ONE’S PATH. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3701 TO 3704

MY THOUGHTS 3701
EDUCATION: THE MOST IMPORTANT GOAL IN ANY EDUCATION IS NOT THE ACCUMULATION OF KNOWLEDGE BUT THE OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN HOW TO THINK, HOW TO EVALUATE THINGS. HOW TO PROCESS INFORMATION, AND HOW TO EVALUATE THINGS. THE MOST IMPORTANT PART ABOUT EDUCATION IS LEARNING TO BE AN INNOVATOR NOT AN AUTOMATON. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3702
INTELLIGENCE VS WISDOM: DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING INTELLIGENT AND BEING WISE? INTELLIGENCE IS THE ACCUMULATION AND STORAGE OF KNOWLEDGE, WHERE AS, BEING WISE IS KNOWING HOW YOU USE THAT KNOWLEDGE TO MAKE LIFE BETTER FOR YOU AND OTHERS IN YOUR SPHERE OF INFLUENCE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3703
FAMOUS VS INFAMOUS: MANY PEOPLE WANT TO BE REMEMBERED AFTER THEY HAVE PASSED ON. THEY MAY WELL BE WELL REMEMBERED; HOWEVER, THE REAL POINT IS THAT ARE THEY REMEMBERED ‘FAMOUSLY’ OR ‘INFAMOUSLY.’ EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3704
FAMOUS VS INFAMOUS: BEING FAMOUS AND BEING INFAMOUS HAVE THE SAME ROOT OF BEING WELL KNOWN. EVERYONE REMEMBERS YOU WELL. HOWEVER, IF THEY REMEMBER YOU IN A POSITIVE WAY, YOU ARE FAMOUS. IF THEY REMEMBER YOU IN A NEGATIVE WAY, YOU ARE INFAMOUS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3697 TO 3700

MY THOUGHTS 3697
QUESTION 382: DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, AND COMMITMENT? DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT LOVE MEANS TO YOU, WHAT FRIENDSHIP MEANS TO YOU, AND WHAT COMMITMENT MEANS TO YOU? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3698
PAST: YOUR PAST IS YOUR PAST. YOUR PAST CAN ONLY BE IN YOUR PRESENT IF YOU HAVE NOT FULLY DEALT WITH THE NEGATIVE ISSUES THAT HAD OCCURRED IN YOUR PAST. WHEN YOU HAVE DEALTH WITH THOSE NEGATIVES ISSUES FULLY, THEN, YOU RETURN YOUR NEGATIVE PAST TO THE REFERENCE LIBRARY IN YOUR MIND TO THE SECTION LABELED “NEGATIVES TURNED INTO POSITIVE TOOLS.” PLACE IS NEXT TO THE SECTION CALLED “POSITIVE LESSONS OF ENCOURAGEMENT.” EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3699
GROWTH: OUR LIVES ARE BASED ON A SERIES OF PERSONAL GROWTHS AND ADJUSTMENTS, OUR INTERACTIONS WITHIN OUR COMMUNITIES, AND OUR RELATIONSHIP AND CONNECTION TO OUR FAITHS. ALL OF THESE ARE BASED ON THE NUMEROUS KARMIC CHOICES THAT WE HAVE TO MAKE DURING OUR LIFE TIME. REMEMBER THAT WE ALL HAVE TO GROW AND ADJUST ALL OUR LIVES, EVEN WITHIN OUR OWN COMMUNITIES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3700
TRANSFORMATION: ONE OF THE INTERESTING CHALLENGES IN ANYONE’S LIFE IS TO ENTER INTO AND BECOME A PART OF OTHER WORLDS OF DIFFERENT CULTURES AND BELIEFS. PEOPLE SHOULD NOT EXPECT THEIR ADOPTED WORLD TO CHANGE FOR THEM; THEY MUST ADJUST TO THE ADOPTED WORLD THAT THEY WISH TO BE PART OF. THAT ADOPTED WORLD SHOULD ALSO BE TOLERANT OF PEOPLE MAKING ADJUSTMENTS TO THEIR OWN WORLD. THESE ENCOUNTERS SHOULD BE FULL OF POSITIVE EXCHANGES OF IDEAS, BELIEFS, AND CULTURES. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3693 TO 3696

MY THOUGHTS 3693
REFLECTIONS: TO UNDERSTAND YOU, YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT WHAT YOU SEE IN OTHERS. WHAT YOU SEE IN OTHERS IS A REFLECTION OF YOU. APPRECIATE THE MIRRORS THAT SURROUND YOU, AND BEGIN TO LOOK INWARDS AT YOUR INNER YOU AND MAKE POSITIVE ADJUSTMENTS IF NECESSARY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3694
DISASTERS: GLOBAL AND PERSONAL TRAGEDIES ARE COSMIC REMINDERS THAT EVEN THOUGH WE ARE ONLY DIFFERENT IN PHYSICAL FORMS, WE ARE ALL OF THE SAME ESSENCE. IF WE RESPECT OUR INDIVIDUALITIES AND OUR COMMONALITIES AT THE SAME TIME, WE COULD LIVE IN A MORE JOYOUS AND HARMONIOUS WORLD. IT IS OUR CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3695
FAILURES: EVERY MISTAKE, EVERY FAILURE, EVERY DISAPPOINTMENT IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN. FAILURES CAN EITHER TEACH YOU OR DEPRESS YOU. LET THEM BE YOUR TEACHERS NOT YOUR CRITICS. IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO REJOICE IN THE LESSONS LEARNED OR TO WALLOW IN SELF PITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3696
FAILURES: REMEMBER THAT ANY FAILURE IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO RE-EVALUATE, RE-SET, RE-FOCUS, AND RENEW. ONE SHOULD ALWAYS WORK TO TURN NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVE TOOLS. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3689 TO 3692

MY THOUGHTS 3689
MOTIVATION: WHAT IS YOUR MOTIVATION FOR TODAY? IS IT FOR SPIRITUAL GROWTH OR MATERIAL GROWTH? WILL YOUR ACTIONS CAUSE YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH OR YOUR SPIRITUAL DEMISE/STAGNATION? WILL YOUR ACTIONS LEAD TO A BRIGHTER FUTURE FOR YOU AND THOSE AROUND YOU? DO YOU UNDERSTAND HOW SIGNIFICANT YOUR CHOICES ARE? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3690
ANGER: ANGER IS THE EXPRESSION OF YOUR PAIN, AND IT ONLY HURTS YOU. WHEN YOU FORGIVE, YOU RELEASE THE PAIN WITHIN YOU. HOWEVER, YOU SHOULD NOT FORGET THE LESSONS LEARNED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3691
RETRIBUTION: DO NOT KEEP FEELINGS OF RETRIBUTION OR ANGER WITHIN YOU BECAUSE THEY WILL DESTROY ‘YOU’ PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, AND SPIRITUALLY. ACCEPT THE LESSONS LEARNED WITH GRACE AND MOVE ON WITH PEACE IN YOUR HEART. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3692
FORGIVENESS: FORGIVENESS IS FOR YOU TO DISSOLVE YOUR ANGER BECAUSE YOUR ANGER IS DETRIMENTAL TO YOU. THE OFFENDER DOES NOT NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU FORGAVE HIM/HER AND MAY NOT EVEN CARE. IF THE OFFENDER ASKS FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS, THEN YOU SHOULD GIVE IT. YOUR FORGIVENESS DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU SHOULD TRUST HER/HIM AGAIN. IT JUST MEANS THE YOU HAVE TURN THAT ANGER INTO A POSITIVE LESSON AND A POSITIVE TOOL IN YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3685 TO THOUGHTS 3688

MY THOUGHTS 3685
RETRIBUTION: PEOPLE WHO HAVE DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS WILL HAVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT. IT IS FOR GOD, THE STATE, OR THE COMMUNITY TO DEAL WITH. ALL WE CAN DO AS INDIVIDUALS IS TO PROTECT OURSELVES FROM THEIR DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS. WE DO THAT BY NOT TAKING PERSONAL RETRIBUTION AND BY FORGIVING THEM FOR THE HURT THEY HAVE GIVEN US. WE DO THIS BY GOING INWARD AND USE OUR LIGHT TO TURN THEIR NEGATIVES INTO POSITIVES FOR US. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3686
COMMUNITY: TO BUILD A BETTER COMMUNITY, YOU MUST FIRST FIND YOUR TRUE SELF, AND THEN FIND OTHERS WHO HAVE DONE THE SAME. TOGETHER YOU CAN FOCUS INWARD SO THAT YOU CAN EXPAND YOUR INNER LIGHT OUTWARD TO BRING POSITIVE LIGHT TO YOUR COMMUNITY. EmilKoval©2012

THOUGHTS 3687
CHALLENGES: CHALLENGES ARE COSMIC TESTS TO TEST YOUR DETERMINATION. IT IS A IF THE COSMOS IS SAYING TO YOU, “ TO SEE HOW MUCH YOU REALLY WANT THIS GOAL, I WILL TEST YOUR DESIRE IS TO COMPLETE THIS GOAL.” THEN THE FIRST OF SEVERAL OBSTACLES WILL BE PUT IN PLACE FOR YOU TO OVERCOME. YOUR WHOLE LIFE WILL BE FILLED WITH THESE CHALLENGES. CHOOSE YOUR GOALS CAREFULLY AND BE PREPARED TO FACE BOTH SUCCESS AND FAILURES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3688
CONSEQUENCES: REMEMBER THAT BOTH SUCCESSES AND FAILURES CAN HAVE NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE CONSEQUENCES. IT IS HOW YOU REACT TO SUCCESS THAT CAN HAVE NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE CONSEQUENCES. SUCCESS CAN BE A CHALLENGE TO YOUR SPIRITUALITY. IT IS ALSO TRUE THAT FAILURE CAN HAVE POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES DEPENDING ON HOW YOU VIEW YOUR FAILURE. EmilKoval©2012

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