MY THOUGHTS 3709
DIFFERENCES: WHEN YOU TRY TO CONVINCE OTHERS THAT YOU ARE RIGHT AND THEY ARE WRONG, YOU WILL ONLY MEET EVENTUAL RESISTANCE. YOU MAY WIN AN ARGUMENT TEMPORARILY BY BEING PERSISTENT; HOWEVER, YOU WILL ALSO LOSE A FRIEND, OR THEY WILL BEGIN TO DISTANCE THEMSELVES FROM YOU. THE ONLY WAY TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR IDEAS IS TO LIVE YOUR IDEAS. THEST CASE FOR YOUR IDEAS IS TO DEMONSTRATE THEM OS A LIVING EXAMPLE OF THEM. EmilKoval©2012
MY THOUGHTS 3710
CHOICES: IF YOU BELIEVE THAT THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE, THEN YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND WHY IT LOOKS GREENER TO YOU AND WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES IT MAY PROVIDE FOR YOU. THEN YOU SHOULD CREATE THOSE ADVANTAGE ON YOUR SIDE OF THE FENCE. IF THOSE ADVANTAGES CANNOT BE INCORPORATED ON YOUR SIDE OF THE FENCE, THEN YOU MUST CONSCIOUSLY DECIDE WHETHER YOU WANT TO STAY ON YOUR SIDE THE FENCE OR GO TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FENCE. IF YOU DO, MUST DO IT WITHOUT BITTERNESS AND BE READY TO ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES. EmilKoval©2012
MY THOUGHTS 3711
UNDERSTANDING: DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS BY HOW THEY LIVE THEIR LIVES. THEY DO HAVE DIFFERENT LESSONS TO LEARN THAN YOU DO. YOU CAN ONLY DECIDE WHETHER TO PARTICIPATE IN THEIR LIVES FULLY, PARTIALLY, OR DIS-ENGAGE FROM THEM. REMEMBER THAT THESE ARE PREFERENCES, NOT EXPECTATIONS OR DEMAND. IF YOU DECIDE TO DISENGAGE FROM THEIR LIVES, THEN MOVE ON WITH LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSION BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DIFFERENT PATH THAN THEY ARE. WISH THEM WELL IN THEIR LESSONS AND CONTINUE TO LEARN YOURS. EmilKoval©2012
MY THOUGHTS 3712
LOVE: REMEMBER THAT TRUE LOVE CAN ONLY BE GIVEN FREELY. IT CANNOT BE FORCED, IT CANNOT BE BARTERED, AND IT CANNOT BE PLEADED FOR. IT IS EITHER THERE OR IT IS NOT. IF YOU EXPRESS YOUR LOVE, AND IT IS NOT ACCEPTED, THEN MOVE ON WITHOUT ANY BITTERNESS OR NEGATIVITY. EmilKoval©2012
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