THOUGHTS 3966 TO 3970

MY THOUGHTS 3966
DE-CLUTTERING: IF YOU WISH TO DE-CLUTTER YOUR LIFE, START BY PICKING A TIME FRAME TO START FROM: ONE YEAR, TWO YEARS, THREE YEARS, FOUR YEARS, OR FIVE YEARS. FOR EXAMPLE, IF YOU HAVEN’T USED SOMETHING IN FIVE YEAR, THEN YOU WILL PROBABLY NEVER USE IT AGAIN. GIVE IT AWAY TO SOMEONE WHO TRULY NEEDS IT. PRACTICE THIS UNTIL YOU CAN REACH A POINT WHERE IF YOU HAVE NOT USED SOMETHING IN ONE YEAR, THEN YOU WILL GIVE IT AWAY TO SOMEONE WHO CAN TRULY USE IT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3967
DE-CLUTTERING: WHEN YOU START TO DE-CLUTTER YOURSELF OF THINGS AND EVEN SOME PEOPLE, IT IS AN IMPORTANT STEP IN DEVELOPING SPIRITUAL MATURITY. DE-CLUTTERING THINGS MEANS THAT YOU GET RID OF THE THINGS YOU NO LONGER HAVE NEED FOR. DE-CLUTTERING PEOPLE MEANS THAT YOU KINDLY, GRACIOUSLY, AND COMPASSIONATELY SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT WALKING THE SAME SPIRITUAL PATH. DE-CLUTTERING PEOPLE CAN ALSO MEAN JUST A POLITE, LOVING, COMPASSIONATE DISTANCING OF YOURSELF FROM THOSE WHO AFFECT YOUR LIFE NEGATIVELY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3968
COMPROMISE: COMPROMISES BETWEEN BUSINESSES, SOCIETIES, FAITHS, AND PHILOSOPHIES ARE VERY BENEFICIAL TO EVERYONE ON THIS PLANET. HOWEVER YOU CANNOT COMPROMISE ON YOUR SPIRITUALITY, YOUR LOVE, AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A HUMAN BEING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3969
PATIENCE: IF SOMETHING DOESN’T MAKE SENSE TO YOU, BE PATIENT, BECAUSE IN TIME IT ‘WILL’ MAKE SENSE TO YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3970
QUESTION 434: ARE YOUR HOLIDAYS DAYS OF GIVING AND SHARING, OR HAVE THEY BECOME DAYS OF RECEIVING AND GREED? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3941 TO 3945

MY THOUGHTS 3941
SELF-FULLED: ONE SHOULD LIVE ONE’S LIFE TO BE SELF-FULLED. THAT IS, DO NOT BE SELFISH OR SELFLESS. BE ALL THE YOU CAN BE WITH COMPASSION, LOVE, AND UNDERSTANDING FOR ALL. LIVE YOUR LIFE TO ITS FULLEST AND SHARE YOUR WONDERS WITH THOSE WHO ARE READY TO LISTEN. GIVE ADVICE ONLY WHEN ASKED AND SHARE WHAT YOU HAVE WITHOUT BEING ASKED TO. GIVE ADVICE WITHOUT BEING ASKED IN NEGATIVE SITUATIONS TO HELP PREVENT A TRAGEDY. ONLY IMPOSE WHEN THERE IS DANGER TO CHILDREN. WORK WITHIN THE PARAMETERS OF YOUR ENVIRONMENT. BE A POSITIVE, NOT A NEGATIVE, FORCE, IN YOUR LIFE AND THE LIVES OF OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3942
BALANCE: THERE IS NO ABSOLUTE GOOD OR BAD. JUST A BALANCING OF THE YIN AND THE YANG OF YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND YOU AS A MEMBER OF YOUR SOCIETY. WHAT DETERMINES ‘GOOD BEHAVIOR’ OR ‘BAD BEHAVIOR’ IS DETERMINED BY YOUR SOCIETY AND YOUR CONSCIENCE. YOUR SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT WILL DECIDE WHAT IS SOCIALLY RIGHT AND WHAT SOCIALLY IS WRONG. YOUR INNER CONSCIENCE WILL DETERMINE FOR YOU WHAT IS RIGHT AND WRONG IN YOUR HEART. THIS MAY CAUSE CONFLICTS BETWEEN THE ‘ESSENCE OF YOU AND THE DEMANDS OF YOUR SOCIETY. YOU MAY HAVE TO ACT IN CERTAIN WAYS TO BE ACCEPTED PUBLICLY; HOWEVER, YOUR TRUE PEACE COMES FROM WITHIN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3943
TEACHERS: YOUR TRUE SPIRITUAL TEACHER IS YOUR INNER-SELF WHEN IT IS IN BALANCE WITH THE COSMOS AND NATURE. OUTSIDE OF YOU, THERE ARE MANY SPIRITUAL LEADERS WHO CAN HELP GUIDE YOU ON YOUR PATH IN A POSITIVE, LOVING, AND COMPASSIONATE WAY. AT CERTAIN STAGES IN YOUR SPIRITUAL MATURITY, YOU WILL GROW BEYOND THEM WITH LOVE AND APPRECIATION FOR WHAT THEY HAVE TAUGHT YOU. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3944
TEACHERS: TEACHERS WHO CLAIMS TO HAVE THE ONLY PATHS, WHO ARE EXTREMISTS IN DOGMA, WHO DEMAND FINANCIAL COMPENSATION FOR THEIR ADVICE, AND WHO DEMAND STRICT CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND THOUGHTS ARE NOT TRUE SPIRITUAL LEADERS; THEY ARE POWER MANIPULATORS. A TRUE SPIRITUAL LEADER WILL POSE QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR INNER TEACHER, TO HELP YOU MAKE GOOD KARMIC CHOICES, AND TO HELP GUIDE YOU ON YOUR DHARMIC PATH. A GOOD SPIRITUAL GUIDE WILL STIMULATE YOUR THINKING; WILL NOT DEMAND STRICT OBEDIENCE, WILL NOT DEMAND FINANCIAL COMPENSATION, AND WILL NOT CONTROL YOUR QUESTIONING OF HIS/HER OWN SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3945
QUESTION 430: IN CULTURAL ANTHROPOLOGY, YOU WILL DISCOVER THAT ‘MANY GROUPS’ CONSIDER THEMSELVES THE CHOSEN PEOPLE OF THEIR GOD. THE QUESTION IS WHAT ARE THEY CHOSEN TO DO? ARE THOSE CHOSEN GROUPS SELECTED TO DOMINATE ALL GROUPS AMONG THEIR CULTURAL BACKGROUNDS, OR ARE THEY TO BECOME SHARERS THEIR WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE? ARE THEY CHOSEN TO BE SEPARATED FROM ALL GROUPS WITH NO MIXING ON ANY LEVEL, OR ARE THEY CHOSEN TO MINGLE AMONG OTHER SOCIETIES AND ‘SHARE’ THEIR WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3936 TO 3940

MY THOUGHTS 3936
IMMORTALITY: IF YOU WISH TO BE IMMORTAL, MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE LIVES OF THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU. YOU WILL LIVE IN THEIR THOUGHTS AND MAYBE THE THOUGHTS OF THEIR DESCENDANTS. THE ONLY REAL QUESTION IS: WILL YOU BE REMEMBERED FAMOUSLY OR INFAMOUSLY. IT IS ALWAYS YOUR CHOICE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3937
LESSONS: COMING INTO THIS LIFE IS NOT A VACATION FROM THE COSMOS. IT IS A SELF-CHOSEN JOURNEY BY EACH INDIVIDUAL TO TEST ONE’S OWN SPIRITUALITY. THAT MEANS FACING THE POSITIVES AND THE NEGATIVES ON YOUR LIFE’S PATH. HOW YOU CHOOSE TO FACE THEM IS BASED ON ‘YOUR’ KARMIC CHOICES. THE BUDDHA STARTED OUT WITH THE SAME CHOICES. IT TOOK HIM A FEW YEARS TO UNDERSTAND THAT HIS INNER PEACE WAS BASED ON HIS OWN INNER THOUGHTS AND HOW HE PERCEIVED THE WORLD AROUND HIM. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3938
LESSONS: WE ARE HERE TO LEARN HOW TO BE AT ONE WITH ALL THAT EXISTS WHILE MAINTAINING OUR INDIVIDUALITY TO LEARN ‘OUR’ LIFE’S LESSONS. THIS LIFE IS A TRANSITIONAL EXISTENCE. HOW YOU FACE AND HOW YOU REACT RE-ACT TO THE SUFFERING AROUND YOU IS YOUR KARMIC CHOICE. MOTHER TERESA AND THE DALAI LAMA ARE TWO EXCELLENT EXAMPLES TO LEARN FROM TODAY. BOTH ARE NEITHER SELFISH NOR SELFLESS. THEY ARE/WERE SELF-FULLED BEINGS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3939
QUESTIONS 428: ARE YOU IN COMPETITION WITH YOUR NEIGHBORS, OR ARE YOU IN A COMMUNAL CO-OPERATIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR NEIGHBORS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3940
QUESTION 429: ARE YOUR LEADERS PEOPLE OF INTEGRITY, WISDOM, AND COMPASSION, OR ARE THEY PEOPLE WITH SMILEY FACES COVERING UP THE GREED AND DECEPTIONS THEY PULL ON THE MEMBERS OF YOUR SOCIETY? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3931 TO 3935

MY THOUGHTS 3931
LISTENING: WHEN YOU IGNORE THE COSMIC WHISPERS IN YOUR MOMENTS OF SILENCE, THE LESSONS NEEDED TO BE LEARNED THROUGH THOSE WHISPERS WILL GET MORE INTENSE AND MORE CHALLENGING UNTIL THOSE WHISPERS GET YOUR ATTENTION. WHEN YOU LEARN TO GO WITH THE COSMIC FLOW, THE LESSONS WILL BE MUCH EASIER TO LEARN. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3932
RECOGNITION: THERE IS NO NEED FOR RECOGNITION OR HONORS ON YOUR PATH TO ENLIGHTENMENT. WHEN YOU WALK YOUR ENLIGHTENED PATH WITHOUT FANFARE, YOUR PATH WILL BE MUCH SMOOTHER AND MORE ENLIGHTENING. WHEN SEEK RECOGNITION BY OTHERS OF YOUR ‘ENLIGHTENED STATUS’, YOUR PATH IS NEITHER TRUE NOR ENLIGHTENED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3933
MARRIAGE: YOU ARE BORN INTO A SPECIFIC CULTURE AND MORALITY THAT IS TO HELP YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY. YOUR DHARMIC PATH IS THE METHOD THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO LEARN THOSE LESSONS. ON THAT PATH YOU WILL MEET OTHER SOULS WHO WILL AFFECT YOUR KARMIC CHOICES. HOW, WHO, AND WHY YOU MARRY IS A KARMIC CHOICE WHICH REQUIRES SERIOUS MINDFUL THINKING. SOME GET MARRIED FOR LOVE, SOME GET MARRIED THROUGH LUST, AND SOME GET MARRIED FOR PROFIT. ALL ARE KARMIC CHOICES TO BE MEASURED IN THE EYES OF YOUR VISION OF YOUR DEITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3934
MARRIAGE: WHOM YOU MARRY IS YOUR PERSONAL CHOICE. DO NOT JUDGE OTHERS ON THEIR CHOICES, FOR THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LESSONS TO LEARN. YOU WILL MEET PEOPLE THAT YOU FEEL THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO SPEND YOUR LIFE WITH. EACH ONE WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON. THEY MAY COME FOR A SHORT LESSON OR AS AN EXAMPLE TO YOU. THEY MAY STAY FOR A WHILE, OR THEY MAY STAY FOR A LIFE TIME. MINDFULLY, FIND SOMEONE WHO, AS A PARTNER, WILL HELP YOU GROW SPIRITUALLY AND WALK YOUR PATH WITH YOU. CHOOSE WISELY, NOT PHYSICALLY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3935
QUESTION 427: DO THE TEACHERS IN YOUR COMMUNITY TEACH THEIR STUDENTS HOW TO BE A COMPASSIONATE COMMUNAL PERSON WHILE TEACHING THEIR STUDENTS TO EXPRESS THEIR OWN INDIVIDUALITY? OR DO THE TEACHERS IN YOUR COMMUNITY TEACH THEIR STUDENTS ON HOW TO BE SELF-GRATIFYING, AND HOW TO CHALLENGE THEIR FAMILIES IN THE NAME OF EQUALITY? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3926 TO3930

MY THOUGHTS 3926
HEALING: BE AWARE THAT SOME WOUNDS WILL NEVER HEAL UNTIL YOU MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. THOSE UNHEALED WOUNDS ARE KARMIC TESTS ABOUT WHETHER YOU UNDERSTAND THAT IT IS TIME FOR YOU TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT STAGE IN YOUR LIFE. SOME WOUNDS ‘CAN ONLY HEAL’ WHEN YOU ‘DO’ MOVE ON. REMEMBER THAT THOSE WOUNDS THAT ARE NOT HEALING ARE COSMIC REMINDERS FOR YOU TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT STAGE IN YOUR EARTHLY ADVENTURES. WHEN TO DO MOVE ON, THE HEALING OF THOSE WOUNDS CAN TAKE PLACE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3927
TEMPLES: MANKIND WASTES A LOT OF RESOURCES TO BUILD MATERIAL TEMPLES TO THE COSMOS WHICH CAUSE MANY PEOPLE TO SUFFER THROUGH TAXATION AND/OR LABOR IN THE PROCESS. THESE TEMPLES WILL EVENTUALLY, IN TIME, GO BACK TO DUST OR RUIN EITHER THROUGH CONQUEST OR DETERIORATION THROUGH TIME. THEY ARE NOT TRUE MONUMENTS TO THE COSMOS. THE TRUE TEMPLE OR MONUMENT TO THE COSMOS IS WITHIN YOU AND NATURE THAT SURROUNDS YOU. THE DAILY RITUALS OF YOUR TEMPLE SHOULD BE LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND CHARITABLE RITUALS THAT BENEFIT ALL OF THE COSMOS’S CREATIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3928
LESSONS: YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF LESSONS THAT YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO LEARN THROUGH THE FRIENDS YOU HAVE CHOSEN, THE FAMILY THAT YOU DECIDED TO BE PART OF, AND THE STRANGERS THAT THE COSMOS HAS CHOSEN TO SEND TO YOU TO TEACH YOU OR FOR YOU TO LEARN FROM THEM. AT SOME POINT YOU WILL USE THOSE LESSONS TO LIGHT THE WAY FOR OTHERS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3929
GROWTH: WHEN YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN YOU, YOU DO NOT NEED RECOGNITION, PRAISE, REWARDS, OR AWARDS. YOU WILL BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE WILL BECOME A BEACON FOR MANY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3930
QUESTION 426: IS YOUR LIFE FULFILLED BY GIVING AND HELPING OTHERS, OR IS YOUR LIFE BASED ON GETTING, RECEIVING, AND TAKING FROM OTHERS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3921 TO 3925

MY THOUGHTS 3921
STUDENT/TEACHER: THE OLD MODEL OF A DOMINANT TEACHER AND SUBMISSIVE STUDENTS SHOULD GIVE WAY TO AN ALTERNATIVE MODEL, IN MANY SITUATIONS, BECAUSE THE STUDENT / TEACHER MODEL CAN BECOME RIGID AND STOP BOTH THE GROWTH OF THE TEACHER AS WELL AS THE STUDENT. THE ALTERNATIVE MODEL, SEEING EVERY STUDENT / TEACHER RELATIONSHIPS AS SHARERS AS IDEAS, OFFERS OPEN GROWTH FOR BOTH THE TEACHERS AND THE STUDENTS. THE TEACHER OPENLY BECOMES BOTH A STUDENT AND TEACHER, AND THE STUDENT ALSO BECOMES A TEACHER THROUGH HIS/HER QUESTIONS. THEY LEARN FROM EACH OTHER AND THEY TEACH EACH OTHER. WE ARE ALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN THE QUEST FOR UNIVERSAL UNDERSTANDING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3922
HARMONY: ALL POWER SEEKERS USE THEIR FAITHS TO TRY TO CONQUER THE MINDS AND MATERIAL WEALTH OF OTHER PEOPLES OF OTHER BELIEF SYSTEMS ALL AROUND THEIR KNOWN WORLDS. IT IS TIME TO START A PERIOD OF MUTUAL COOPERATION AMONGST ALL CULTURES, FAITHS, AND ETHNICITIES BY RESPECTING OUR DIFFERENCES AND SIMILARITIES. THIS INCLUDES NATURE WORSHIPPERS AND WICCANS. THE DESIRE TO CONTROL OTHERS’ MINDS AND THEIR MATERIAL WEALTH WILL LEAD ONLY TO DISASTERS AND CHAOS FOR EVERYONE. SEEK NO RETRIBUTION FOR THE PAST AND START A PERIOD OF RESPECT, HARMONY, AND COOPERATION FOR ALL COSMIC CREATIONS ON THIS PLANET. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3923
LOVE: MANY PEOPLE ENTERTAIN THE IDEA OF A ‘FANTASY LOVE.’ FANTASY LOVES CAN BE A DREAM LOVE OR AN INDICATOR OF A FLAWED RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU HAVE A FANTASY LOVE AND ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, THEN IT IS TIME TO QUESTION WHAT IS MISSING FROM YOUR OWN PRESENT RELATIONSHIP THAT REQUIRES YOU TO HAVE A FANTASY LOVE. IF YOU HAVE A FANTASY LOVE AND ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, THEN IT IS JUST A FANTASY, A HOPE, A DESIRE, OR A WISH. IF YOU HAVE A FANTASY LOVE AND YOU ARE IN A CONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP, THEN HAVING A FANTASY LOVE IS UNDERSTOOD. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3924
QUESTION 424: ARE YOU SEEKING A WORLD OF KINDNESS, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPASSION? IF SO, ARE YOU LIVING A LIFE FULL OF KINDNESS, FULL OF UNDERSTANDING, AND FULL OF COMPASSION? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3925
QUESTION 425: CAN YOU BREAK THROUGH THE CONDITIONAL LOVE THAT WAS INCULCATED IN YOU AS YOU WERE GROWING UP, AND CAN YOU OPEN UP TO AN UNCONDITIONAL UNIVERSAL LOVE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3916 TO 3920

MY THOUGHTS 3916
MEDITATION: MEDITATION IS A TOOL TO USE TO QUIET YOUR MIND SO THAT YOU CAN SEE ‘YOU’ IN YOUR TRUE ESSENCE. YOU SHOULD MAKE MEDITATION A DAILY ROUTINE, PREFERABLY IN THE MORNING TO HELP START YOUR DAY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3917
GROWTH: WHEN YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM STOPS YOU FROM EXPLORING NEW IDEAS AND NEW CONCEPTS OF SPIRITUALITY, THAT BELIEF SYSTEM WILL BECOME A PSYCHIC PENITENTIARY. THE ONLY ACCEPTABLE LIMITATION TO YOUR ACTIONS IS YOUR INNER SENSE OF MORALITY AND YOUR SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3918
GROWTH: WHEN YOU EXPLORE OTHER CULTURES, OTHER FAITHS, AND OTHER ETHNICITIES, THERE WILL BE VARIOUS OUTCOMES: 1) YOU CAN DISCOVER THINGS AND IDEAS THAT MAY BE BROUGHT BACK TO ENHANCE YOUR OWN CULTURE, FAITH, AND ETHNICITY; 2) YOU MAY GROW BEYOND YOUR CULTURE, FAITH, AND ETHNICITY TO A MORE UNIVERSAL UNION WITH ALL PEOPLES; OR 3) YOU MAY RETURN TO YOUR CULTURE, FAITH, AND ETHNICITY IN A MORE ISOLATIONIST MANNER. ALL ARE BASED ON THE CHOICES YOU MAKE THROUGH YOUR LEVEL OF SPIRITUALITY. THERE ARE NO JUDGEMENTS; JUST THE REALIZATION OF WHERE YOU ARE AT THIS MOMENT ON YOUR PATH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3919
FAITHS: THE GREAT FAITHS BEGIN TO SHOW MANY VARIATIONS IN THEIR BELIEFS AS THEY SPREAD TO VARIOUS CULTURES AROUND THE WORLD. MANY OF THOSE CULTURES START TO CORRUPT THE PURITY OF THE ORIGINAL PRECEPTS OF THOSE FAITHS THROUGH THEIR OWN CULTURAL BIASES. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3920
QUESTION 423: DO YOU KNOW AT WHAT POINT IN HISTORY THAT THE POWER SEEKERS HAD/HAVE HIJACKED THE PURITY, THE LOVE, THE SPIRITUALITY, AND THE COMPASSION OF ALL FAITHS AND TURNED THEM INTO POWER TOOLS TO CONTROL THE MINDS AND BODIES OF THE PEOPLES OF THOSE FAITHS? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3911 TO 2915

MY THOUGHTS 3911
RELATIONSHIP: WHEN YOU HAVE A TRULY LOVING RELATIONSHIP; IT WILL HAVE A BALANCE THAT INVOLVES A SPIRITUAL CONNECTION, A PHYSICAL CONNECTION, A MENTAL CONNECTION, AND AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3912
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN A RELATIONSHIP ENDS, REMEMBER THAT YOU HAVE JUST BEEN THROUGH A GREAT LESSON ON RELATIONSHIPS AND HOW THINGS SHOULD WORK IN A RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT BE CONCERNED ABOUT THE LOSS OF A PARTNER; BUT BE MORE CONCERNED ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT YOU, WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON, AND ALSO WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT WHAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE, AS WELL AS WHAT A RELATIONSHIP NEEDS TO STAY TOGETHER. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3913
RELATIONSHIPS: WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG YOU MAY GO THROUGH MANY RELATIONSHIPS WHICH SHOULD BE VIEWED AS LESSONS IN PREPARATION FOR A LIFE-LONG SPIRITUAL, PHYSICAL, AND EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP. THE JOYS AND THE PAINS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP SHOULD HELP YOU LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR EMOTIONS AND THE EMOTIONS OF OTHERS. THE UPS AND DOWNS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WILL CERTAINLY TEACH YOU HOW YOUR EMOTIONS WORK, HOW YOUR PARTNERS EMOTIONS WORK, AND HOW THEY WORK TOGETHER WHEN THEY ARE IN HARMONY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3914
BETRAYAL: ANY BETRAYAL IN ANY RELATIONSHIP MAY BE VERY PAINFUL, BUT THAT BETRAYAL WILL BE ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSONS THAT WILL HELP YOU LEARN ABOUT YOU, YOUR RELATIONSHIP, AND THE PEOPLE INVOLVED IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. HOW YOU LEARN THOSE LESSONS IS ESSENTIAL TO HOW SUCCESSFUL THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP WILL BE. IF YOU MAINTAIN BITTERNESS AND ANGER FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME YOU WILL NOT ONLY POISON ALL FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS, BUT YOU WILL ALSO NEGATIVELY AFFECT YOUR SPIRITUAL GROWTH. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3915
QUESTION 422: WHEN YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, ARE YOU WILLING TO SHARE YOUR TRUE SELF WITH YOUR PARTNER TO YOUR PARTNER’S BENEFIT AND YOUR BENEFIT, OR YOU ARE THERE JUST FOR WHAT YOUR PARTNER CAN DO FOR YOU? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3906 TO 3910

MY THOUGHTS 3906
LOVE: PURE LOVE IS A SPIRITUALLY BASED LOVE; CONDITIONAL LOVE IS EGO-BASED LOVE. SPIRITUAL LOVE IS A SACRED CONNECTION, WITHOUT CONDITIONS, TO ALL LIVING THINGS; WHILE CONDITIONAL LOVE IS BASED ON MATERIAL, EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL, OR SOCIAL NEEDS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3907
LOVE: THE TERM LOVE IS EXPRESSED DIFFERENTLY THROUGH THE PRECEPTS LAID DOWN BY EACH CULTURE, EACH FAITH, EACH ETHNICITY, AND EACH PHILOSOPHY THROUGH THE LANGUAGE AN INDIVIDUAL WAS BORN INTO. HOWEVER, IN GENERAL, LOVE IS ALWAYS EXPRESSED THROUGH KINDNESS, EMPATHY, OPENNESS, AND CONNECTIVITY TOWARDS THE MEMBERS OF EACH GROUP AND TO MEMBERS OUTSIDE EACH GROUP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3908
COMPROMISE: WITHIN SOCIAL ORDERS YOU MAY HAVE TO COMPROMISE ON VARIOUS LEVELS. HOWEVER, IN ANY SOCIETY YOU SHOULD NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR FEELINGS OF COMPASSION FOR OTHERS. SOCIETIES ARE LIMITING UNITS THAT TRY TO PRESERVE THEIR PRECEPTS OF PEACE, HAPPINESS, AND HARMONY WITHIN THEIR SOCIETIES. HOWEVER, THEY DO LIMIT YOUR THINKING, YOUR SPEECH, AND CONTROL YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH OTHERS. YOU MUST NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR COMPASSION, YOU UNDERSTANDING, AND YOUR CREATIVITY THROUGH THE LIMITS OF YOUR SOCIETY. YOU MAY HAVE TO TRANSCEND THAT SOCIETY AND GROW BEYOND IT. IT HAS TAUGHT YOU ‘HOW TO BE’ AND ‘HOW NOT TO BE,’ WHICH YOU MUST APPRECIATE; HOWEVER, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO STAY WITHIN THAT SOCIETY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3909
QUESTION 420: CAN LOVE DIE, OR CAN LOVE DIMINISH? IS THERE REALLY SOMETHING CALLED ‘UNDYING LOVE?’ IS ONE’S ‘UNDYING LOVE’ ACTUALLY UNDYING DEPENDENCY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3910
QUESTION 421: CAN YOU CONTINUE TO MANIFEST YOU AND YOUR LOVE FOR ALL BEINGS AND ALL THINGS THROUGH ALL THE CONFLICTS AND ALL PROBLEMS IN LIFE? EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3901 TO 3905

MY THOUGHTS 3901
LOVE: SAYING “I LOVE YOU” IS NOT THE SAME AS SAYING “I WANT/NEED YOU.” LOVING SOMEONE IS NOT THE SAME AS NEEDING SOMEONE. BEFORE, YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU “LOVE” HIM/HER, YOU SHOULD TRULY UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND WANT/NEED. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3902
COMPROMISE: COMPROMISES BETWEEN BUSINESSES, SOCIETIES, FAITHS, AND PHILOSOPHIES ARE VERY BENEFICIAL TO EVERYONE ON THIS PLANET. HOWEVER, YOU CANNOT COMPROMISE ON YOUR SPIRITUALITY, YOUR LOVE, AND YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A HUMAN BEING. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3903
LOVE: TO SHARE A SPIRITUALLY BASED LOVE WITH SOMEONE IS TO BE IN TOTAL COMMUNION WITH THAT PERSON. IT IS A COMPASSIONATE FORM OF LOVE. IT IS A LOVE THAT OPENS THE SACRED SPACES WITHIN YOU AND INVITES THE OTHER PERSON IN. SPIRITUAL LOVE HAS NO ARTIFICIAL LIMITATIONS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3904
LOVE: TO BE IN THE CONDITIONAL LOVE IS TO BE IN A CONTRACTUAL ARRANGEMENT OF AFFECTIONS WITH ANOTHER PERSON. WHEN THE CONDITIONS(PAYMENTS) OF THE CONTRACT ARE NOT MET, THE AFFECTIONS ARE WITHHELD UNTIL THE CONDITIONS ARE MET AGAIN. IT IS A FORM OF LEGALIZED PROSTITUTION, ISN’T IT. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3905
COMPROMISE: ALWAYS KEEP YOUR LIFE SPIRITUALLY AND ETHICALLY CENTERED. NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR DECENCY AND NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR SPIRITUALITY BECAUSE OF THE LIMITS WITHIN YOUR SOCIETY. ALWAYS BE READY TO GROW BEYOND WHATEVER SITUATION YOU ARE IN. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3896 TO 3900

MY THOUGHTS 3896
RELATIONSHIPS: ARE YOU INDISPENSABLE IN SOMEONE’S LIFE, OR ARE YOU A MANIPULATOR IN SOMEONE’S LIFE TO GET LOVE? IF THE LATER IS SO, THIS WILL EVENTUALLY BE DISASTROUS IN ANY RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3897
RELATIONSHIPS: IF YOU CANNOT FREELY EXPRESS YOURSELF TO YOUR PARTNER, CANNOT SPEAK FREELY WITH YOUR PARTNER, AND HAVE FEAR OF EXPRESSING YOURSELF TO YOUR PARTNER; YOU ARE IN A CONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP; IT IS NOT A LOVE RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3898
RELATIONSHIPS: BETRAYAL, ABANDONMENT, INFIDELITY, JEALOUSY, POSSESSIVENESS, NEEDINESS CAN KILL OR DIMINISH LOVE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP. ALL OF THE ABOVE PUTS ONE OR BOTH PARTNERS IN A SURVIVAL MODE. FOR THE PARTNER/PARTNERS WHOSE RELATIONSHIP IS IN A SURVIVAL MODE, HIS/HER/THEIR ‘LOVE’ WILL BEGIN TO DIMINISH SLOWLY AND EVENTUALLY WILL DIE AND CREATE AN EMPTY AND LONELY RELATIONSHIP. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3899
RELATIONSHIPS: SUFFOCATION OF ONE’S INDIVIDUALITY WITHIN A RELATIONSHIP WILL ALSO KILL ONE’S FEELING OF BEING LOVED. SUFFOCATION OF ONE’S NEEDS, WANTS, AND DESIRES WILL ALSO KILL THAT INDIVIDUAL’S LOVE. LIVING SEPARATE LIVES UNDER THE SAME ROOF WILL ALSO DIMINISH OR KILL ONE’S LOVE. WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALL ABOUT CHILDREN AND NOT ABOUT EACH OTHER, ONE’S RELATIONSHIP WILL DIMINISH AND EVENTUALLY DIE. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3900
RELATIONSHIPS: AS YOU GO THROUGH MANY TRANSITIONS IN YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL HAVE TO CONTINUOUSLY WORK TO MANIFEST AND NURTURE THE LOVE WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IF YOU WISH YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO GROW AND CONTINUE. YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WILL FACE PERSONAL CHANGES WHICH MAY LEAD TO RELATIONSHIP CONFLICTS. IT IS IMPORTANT TO DEAL WITH THOSE CONFLICTS IN A LOVING, COMPASSIONATE, AND UNDERSTANDING WAY TO CONTINUE WITH A CO-OPERATIVE LOVING AND UNDERSTANDING UNION. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3891 TO 3995

MY THOUGHTS 3891
CONTROL: WHEN YOU BECOME THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN MIND, YOU CAN REFOCUS AND REACH YOUR GOALS. FIRST YOU MUST DETERMINE WHO IS THE MASTER OF YOUR MIND: YOU, YOUR FAITH, YOUR SOCIETY, YOUR CULTURE, OR YOUR FAMILY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3892
CONTROL: WHICH AREA CONTROLS MOST OF YOUR MIND AND YOUR THINKING: 1). THE MATERIAL WORLD AROUND YOU AND YOR DESIRE TO BE SUCCESSFUL OR 2). YOUR DESIRE TO HAVE SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND TO GROW BEYOND WHERE YOU ARE NOW? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3893
BALANCE: EVERY NEW DAY IS THE DAY TO REVERE. YOU HAVE THE CHOICE TO MAKE IT A POSITIVE DAY OR A NEGATIVE DAY. THAT IS YOUR PERSONAL KARMIC CHOICE. MONDAY IS THE DAY WHEN YOU BEGIN YOUR WORK TO FULFILL YOUR SOCIAL AND FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS THAT ‘YOU’ HAVE CREATED, FRIDAY USUALLY MARKS THE DAY WHEN YOU CAN HAVE A TIME OF REST FROM THOSE OBLIGATIONS. WHEN YOU APPROACH BOTH WITH EQUAL LOVE AND RESPONSIBILITY YOU WILL HAVE A MUCH MORE PEACEFUL SOUL. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3894
QUESTION: IF YOU REGRET GOING TO WORK, WHY ARE YOU WORKING? IF YOU ARE WORKING TO TAKE CARE OF FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS, WHY DID YOU CREATE THOSE FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3895
WORK: FIND A JOB THAT YOU LIKE TO PAY YOUR FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS. IF THOSE FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS BECOME A BURDEN, THEN IT’S TIME TO ELIMINATE THEM ONE BY ONE. SIT DOWN AND EVALUATE WHY YOU ARE WORKING, WHERE YOU ARE WORKING, AND YOUR ATTITUDES TOWARDS YOUR WORK. EmilKoval©2012

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THOUGHTS 3886 T0 3890

MY THOUGHTS 3886
DHARMA: WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE TRY TO CONVINCE OTHERS THAT THEIR WAY IS BETTER THAN THE PERSONAL WAYS OF OTHERS? EVERYONE IS ON A DIFFERENT PATH THAT HAS A DIFFERENT GOAL AND A DIFFERENT WAY OF ACHIEVING THAT. RESPECT THE WAYS OF OTHERS AS YOU WOULD LIKE THEM TO RESPECT YOURS. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3887
SPIRITUALITY VS SCIENCE: THEY APPEAR TO BE DIFFERENT; HOWEVER, THEY ARE INTER-RELATED. TO DISPUTE SPIRITUALISM. THE SKEPTIC GOES TO SCIENTIFIC FACTUAL ANSWERS. THE GRANDNESS OF SCIENCE LEADS THE SCEPTIC BACK TO ‘WHY’; THUS, LEADING BACK TO SPIRITUALISM. FOR EXAMPLE, THEY CAN ‘TRACE’ THE ORIGINS OF THE UNIVERSE TO A CERTAIN POINT IN TIME. THAT MOMENT IN TIME CREATES THE QUESTION ‘WHY” THAT LEADS BACK TO SPIRITUALISM. NOW, THERE ARE NEW THEORIES OF MULTI-UNIVERSES WHICH CREATES MORE QUESTION THAT AGAIN LEAD TO SPIRITUALISM. REMEMBER SPIRITUALITY IS NOT THE SAME AS RELIGION. IT DEALS WITH THE COSMIC ORDER OF THINGS. WHO OR WHAT DESIGNED IT OR THEM. IT IS A CONSTANT CYCLE. QUESTIONS OF SPIRITUALITY LEAD TO SCIENTIFIC QUESTIONS. QUESTIONS AND DISCOVERIES IN SCIENCE LEAD BACK TO QUESTIONS IN SPIRITUALITY. EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3888
QUESTION 420: WILL YOU LEAVE BEHIND FOOTPRINTS OF LOVE COMPASSION AND UNDERSTAND OR WILL YOU LEAVE BEHIND FOOTPRINTS OF RESENTMENT, CONTEMPT, AND INFAMY? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3889
QUESTION 421:ARE YOU A SEEKER OF WISDOM THROUGH KNOWLEDGE OR ARE YOU A SEEKER OF KNOWLEDGE FOR POWER? DO YOU WISH TO ENHANCE YOUR LIFE AND THE LIFE OF OTHERS AT THE SAME TIME, OR ARE YOU ONLY INTERESTED IN ENHANCING YOUR LIFE AT THE EXPENSE OF OTHERS? EmilKoval©2012

MY THOUGHTS 3890
QUESTION 422: DO YOU DEMEAN OR DEVALUE THE PEOPLE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, OR DO YOU ENCOURAGE AND SUPPORT THE PEOPLE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS? EmilKoval©2012

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