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SEPARATION: FOR THOSE WHO ARE STILL SUFFERING FROM A SEPARATION. YOU HAVE NOT DEALTH WITH THAT ISSUE COMPLETELY. THERE ARE SOMETHINGS THAT YOU ‘STILL’ HAVE LOOK INTO DEEPLY. ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND THE ‘FULL HONEST REASON’ FOR THE SEPARATION AND STOP THE BLAME GAME, YOU CAN TRULY MOVE ON. WHEN YOU CONTINUE TO BLAME SOMEONE AND ALSO TRY TO FORGET THAT SOMEONE, YOU ONLY INTENSIFY THE ISSUES THAT CAUSE YOUR SUFFERING. YOU MUST DEAL WITH THAT SEPARATION FULLY AND HONESTLY. YOU MUST ALSO FULLY UNDERSTAND THE LESSONS IT HAS TAUGHT ‘YOU’ ABOUT ‘YOU.’ EmilKoval©2013
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SEPARATION: TO DEAL WITH A SEPARATION, FIND A SECLUDED PLACE WHERE YOU CAN HONESTLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND COMPLETELY DEAL WITH THAT PAIN. SCREAM, YELL, SHOUT, AND CRY IF YOU NEED TO. RECOGNIZE THE PAIN AND EMBRACE THE PAIN FULLY. DO NOT DENY ITS EXISTENCE. CONSOLE IT AND RECOGNIZE THE PART OF YOU THAT FEELS IT. MAKE IT YOUR FRIEND. ONCE YOU ACCEPT AND EMBRACE YOUR PAIN AND RECOGNIZE ITS EXISTENCE WITH COMPASSION, MENTALLY POST IT AS A RELATIONSHIP SENTINEL TO HELP YOU AVOID NEGATIVES IN RELATIONSHIPS. THEN FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE LESSONS THAT THAT PAIN HAS TAUGHT YOU. THEN, YOU CAN HONESTLY MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. EmilKoval©2013
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QUESTION 503: IN YOUR MIND, DO YOU LIVE IN THE WORLD OF ABUNDANCE, OR DO YOU LIVE IN THE WORLD OF SCARCITY? EmilKoval©2013
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QUESTION 504: WOULD YOU RATHER LIVE IN A WORLD OF DOUBT AND DESPAIR, OR WOULD YOU RATHER LIVE IN A WORLD OF BELIEF AND HOPE? EmilKoval©2013
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QUESTION 505: WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN A GIFT, CAN YOU SEE THE GIFT WITHIN THE GIFT, OR DO YOU JUST SEE THE GIFT? EmilKoval©2013
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