GOOD MORNING FROM SIMI HILLS, CA JUN 15, 2018

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THOUGHTS 14001 TO 14005 JUN 15 2018

MY THOUGHT 14001
QUESTION 5307: FATHERS DAY: FATHERS, ARE YOU EXCLUDING YOUR PARTNER FROM THE FAMILY CIRCLE BECAUSE SHE OR HE IS WORKING LONG HOURS TO SUPPORT THE FAMILY? DO YOU MAKE SURE THAT YOUR CHILDREN UNDERSTAND THE ROLE OF YOUR PARTNER WHETHER SHE OR HE IS THERE ALL THE TIME OR NOT? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14002
QUESTION 5308: FATHERS DAY: FATHERS, ARE YOU JEALOUS OF YOUR CHILDREN’S AFFECTION FOR YOUR PARTNER? EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14003
FATHERS DAY: REMEMBER THAT HONORING YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER MEANS THAT YOU WILL SHOW THEM RESPECT. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE BLIND OBEDIENCE TOWARDS THEM. IT ALSO MEANS THAT WHEN YOU HAVE MATURED THAT YOU HAVE THE OBLIGATION TO ALLOW THEM TO BE INDEPENDENT AND LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES. AS A MATURE ADULT CHILD, YOU SHOULD HAVE CREATE YOUR OWN FAMILY WHERE YOU ALSO BECOME A PARENT TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND THE POSITIVES AND THE NEGATIVES THAT THEY HAD TO FACE RAISING YOU AS A CHILD. LEARN FROM THE NEGATIVE LESSONS AND GROW FROM THE POSITIVE LESSONS THAT YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER HAVE GIVEN TO YOU TO LEARN FROM. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14004
FATHERS DAY: MY FATHER AND MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME HOW NOT TO BE A PARENT, WHICH I AM GRATEFUL FOR. I APPRECIATE THOSE LESSONS BECAUSE IT MADE ME MINDFUL, LOVING, AND UNDERSTANDING PARENT TO MY BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN, MY STEP-CHILDREN, AND THEIR FRIENDS WHO NEEDED AN ON OFFICIAL FOSTER PARENT. THOSE LESSONS TAUGHT ME HOW TO BECOME A BETTER PARENT TO MY BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN, TO MY STEPCHILDREN, AND TO MY CHILDREN’S FRIENDS YOU NEEDED A PARENT’S GUIDANCE. MY FATHER ALSO TAUGHT ME HOW TO BE A GOOD STEP-PARENT, AND A FOSTER PARENT. I WATCHED HIM GROW FROM A PARENT WHO COULDN’T COMMUNICATE WITH HIS OWN CHILDREN TO A PARENT TO LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN, STEPCHILDREN, AND FOSTER CHILDREN. EmilKoval©2018

MY THOUGHT 14005
FATHERS DAY: REMEMBER THAT: THE BLOOD CONNECTION TO YOUR CHILDREN ONLY MAKES YOU A BIOLOGICAL PARENT. A TRUE PARENT IS THE ONE WHO NURTURES A CHILD TO MATURITY. IN MANY CASES TODAY, IT’S NOT THE BIOLOGICAL PARENT BUT A NURTURING PARENT WHO CHOOSES TO RAISE A CHILD/CHILDREN THAT HE/SHE HAS DECIDED TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR. EmilKoval©2018

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